May 2020 Moms

SAY WHAT!?!?!?

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Re: SAY WHAT!?!?!?

  • @drkoyya I feel you, it is starting to become more obvious to me that it is a baby bump but I am plus size as well so I am not sure how many other people just think it is normal, I realized the other that now my bump sticks out more than my boobs so I am betting it won't be long until people want to be all up in my business.
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  • @drkoyya @mamaj1220 I feel you both. I'm also plus size and have what I've heard referred to as a "B belly" I'm happy that its finally starting to round out. I think people who didnt know just assumed I gained a lot of weight😫
  • Yesterday one of the pink ladies at work looked me up and down and said "you're either pregnant or you quit your weight watchers already" ...geee thanks
  • @splashmountain in what realm is that comment appropriate?
  • @ruby696 *cringe* all the weird comments I've gotten has been from elderly people as well. They are also bump touchers in my experience. 
  • @drkoyya @splashmountain @ruby696 I'm so stunned that people would even make those comments. WTF?
  • I got a handful of comments early about twins, not because of my size, but because people knew I was having trouble having kids and had seen the RE.  First of all, I would know if I was having twins.  Also, I don't like the assumptions people make about my treatment.  If you want to know about my treatment, please ask.  I certainly needed people to talk to when I was dealing with infertility, where were all these people then?  Furthermore, I got pregnant on a natural/unmedicated cycle, but again, no one asks any details ever, they just make assumptions and the occasional inappropriate comment as a result.
  • My other grandmother (not the one who insisted her baby was carried in her butt)  last time at about 24 weeks declared a was big enough to be done, so either it was twins, or dates were wrong, or baby was going to be super early...because that's what a preemie mom needs to hear. Ever.

    When I hadn't had her by 37 weeks, she upped it to triplets or baby must be 12 lbs, why hadn't I "gotten that taken out yet." Again, definitely what an abused c-section mom needs to hear. 

    Born at 8 lbs 8 oz, single (duh), at 38+6. Sorry, short torso and I ate ALL THE FOOD and gained ALL THE WEIGHT. Shut up grandma.
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    Married 7/18/15
    1st born at 35+4 on 6/6/16
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    2nd born at 38+6 on 8/30/18 
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  • @ruby696 *applause* Super proud of you for actually saying that to him!!!
    **TW**
    Me: 35 | H: 40
    Married Sept. 2013
    DS1: Nov 11, 2016 <3
    MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
    CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
    BFP!  8/24/19
    DS2: May 10, 2020 <3


  • Mine wasn’t rude but just kind of funny (everyone knows I’m pregnant. There’s no hiding it)...

    I was walking through the plant today with a male coworker. We went to walk through the door and I opened it and held it since I was the first to the door and he goes “I appreciate it, but I just cannot let you hold the door for me. I can’t be that guy that allows the pregnant person hold the door for him.” Haha I laughed and gladly walked through the door first. 
  • @shamrocandroll hold the applause - I only thought the snarky reply. Damn my parents for making me respect my elders even when they don't deserve it.
  • Ugh what is wrong with people and all their comments??

    There is one nurse at work that nobody can stand and we're just dying to fire. On Tuesday we had an all hands meeting and she saw me for the first time in a while. she started saying how I look different and I'm really "filling out." Pretty sure she was referring to my face also. Ugh if it hadn't been a coworker I would have gone off on her.

    Otherwise I get lots of comments from my coworkers about my belly and being so cute and pregnant, which I'm all for since they're really like my second family and are part of this pregnancy lol.
  • @ruby696 Way to kill my dreams, hahaha.  I get it though.  I never have the guts to say something in those situations, no matter how much they deserve it sometimes!
    **TW**
    Me: 35 | H: 40
    Married Sept. 2013
    DS1: Nov 11, 2016 <3
    MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
    CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
    BFP!  8/24/19
    DS2: May 10, 2020 <3


  • Lately A large portion of people who find out I am pregnant have been responding with "Oh, a gemini!!" after finding out when baby is due, i just think it's funny how the astrological sign of my son to be suprises/gets a reaction out of them! 
  • @jrouge12 Wow, that's, um.... I mean, why do people think that's okay? I just don't get it. Pregnancy makes people lose their common sense. There is no other situation where people would say (and do) the things they do when someone is pregnant. 
  • @jrouge12 and @ruby696 I don't understand why anyone thinks it's ok to comment on a person's body, especially during pregnancy.  I don't need to hear about how big I'm getting, I know, I'm the one that has to bend over to tie my shoes, believe me, I'm aware of how big I'm getting, thank you very much!
  • @jrouge12 The same woman who I quoted a few posts above also said some really messed up stuff to me after I had DS.  I had a lot of nausea and food aversions with him, so I didn't gain a lot of weight.  He was born at almost 9 lbs, and I ended up weighing significantly less than I did pre-pregnancy.  When I got back to work, she said to me "Look at you, Skinny Minnie!" and then followed that up with "Wait until you have another one.  The weight won't come off so easily!"  Like, jeez, way to give me a compliment and then make me feel like sh*t within 5 seconds!  I haven't gotten huge for either of my pregnancies either, and people made all kinds of inappropriate remarks to me, too.  It's like you can't win, no matter what.  You're either having twins, or people are concerned about your health.  Ugh.
    **TW**
    Me: 35 | H: 40
    Married Sept. 2013
    DS1: Nov 11, 2016 <3
    MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
    CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
    BFP!  8/24/19
    DS2: May 10, 2020 <3


  • @soprano19 Nothing sets me off worse than that.  I'm bracing myself for the comments we get when people find out we had another boy (which they won't until after he's born) and I'm going to go full mama bear on them.  
    **TW**
    Me: 35 | H: 40
    Married Sept. 2013
    DS1: Nov 11, 2016 <3
    MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
    CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
    BFP!  8/24/19
    DS2: May 10, 2020 <3


  • @soprano19 I have 3 girls and when we announced this would be our 4th and final child every comment was "so this one is a boy then?" 🙄 
  • We've only told close family what we're having and we've gotten more than a few comments about how glad they are we're having another boy so that DD can be the only "princess." I'm anticipating it from even more people once he's born. Why can't "Congratulations!" be enough? 
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