TTC After a Loss

**June TWW**

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Re: **June TWW**

  • So much going on in here - congrats to @SnobunnieMel! Stay strong ladies..

    I'm having a weak moment. AF arrived today, 5 days late ( so I'm assuming my cycles are just really different now post d&e). I've gone through a crazy range of emotions today and now I'm enjoying some wine after chain smoking three cigarettes. Tomorrow, back to healthy lifestyle, but for now.. I'm wallowing. We had such high hopes for this month. Ugh. DH texted me - "why does the world hate us". I dunno.. I'll never understand this. It's just not fair.
    Me:35, DH 37  ~ Married July 2014
    ttc July 2015 ~ bfp Nov 2015 (cp)
    bfp Dec 2015 ~ (tfmr 17wk, March 2016, genetic disease)
    ttcal May 2016
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  • So sorry, @KarenBeth714! AF is such a bitch. It's so not fair. 

    Me: 40, DH: 35 / Married: 2009; TTC #1: 2013

    2013 - 2015: 5 pregnancies —> 5 miscarriages

    TTCAL with RE (RPL specialist): February 2016

    2016: 3 medicated TI cycles —> 3 medicated IUI cycles: All BFN

    Donor Egg IVF Transfer: May 1, 2017

    May 11, 2017: BFP!! Beta #1: 449.1, Beta #2: 844, Beta #3: 1714

    EDD: 1/17/18, it's a GIRL!  <3 E. L. A. born 12/7/2017








  • Aera11Aera11 member
    edited June 2016
    @KarenBeth714 ugh I'm so sorry :( my cycles post d&c were different too. Hang in there girl!

    edited because I can't type
  • @catiecatp finally we have confirmation!! yay for you!!! Congratulations :smiley:
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

  • @catiecatp so many congrats!  Wishing you a long and happy 9 months !! 
  • Yay @catiecatp! Congratulations!!
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  • @catiecatp congrats!! Hope you have a healthy and happy 9 months!! Very excited for you!!
    Married: June 2011
    TTC #1: September 2015-January 2016
    BFP #1: 1/25/16 - MMC Diagnosed 3/22/16
    TTCAL: June 2016
    BFP #2: 8/26/16 - EDD 5/9/17
    Jackson born 5/6/17 at 8:36 PM - 9lbs 5oz & 21in
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  • BornReadyBornReady member
    edited June 2016
    Congrats @SnobunnieMel
    sending you some
    good beta love!
  • Omg @catiecatp!! Woohoo!!
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    @KarenBeth714 so sorry. It's such a horrible let down. FX for next month!

     @catiecatp hurray!!!! Hope you were able to sleep a bit!
  • That's so awesome, @catiecatp!! Congrats! 

    Me: 40, DH: 35 / Married: 2009; TTC #1: 2013

    2013 - 2015: 5 pregnancies —> 5 miscarriages

    TTCAL with RE (RPL specialist): February 2016

    2016: 3 medicated TI cycles —> 3 medicated IUI cycles: All BFN

    Donor Egg IVF Transfer: May 1, 2017

    May 11, 2017: BFP!! Beta #1: 449.1, Beta #2: 844, Beta #3: 1714

    EDD: 1/17/18, it's a GIRL!  <3 E. L. A. born 12/7/2017








  • Thanks ladies - and @SnobunnieMel I'm so happy to have a friend to spend the next 9 months together. 
    ---TW BFP and MC mentioned - scroll down past the Lilo and Stitch gif to avoid ---




    Me: 33 & DH: 33
    Married: 07/2006
    TTC: 10/2015
    BFP #1: 11/2015, MC 12/2015 (7 weeks)
    BFP #2: 06/2016, EDD 2/15/2017



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  • Ahhhh congrats @catiecatp!! H&H 9 months to you and best wishes for all your new adventures!
  • @catiecatp such good news!!! Congratulations!!
     ****TW: Pregnancy, loss and children mentioned****
    Me (39) DH (40) 
    From my first marriage DD: 03/04 CP:01/06 DS:12/06 
    DH- no kids
    ******************
    TTC: since 2/15, RE Consult 9/15
    IUI #1 10/15: Letrozole = BFN 
    IUI #2 11/15: Letrozole + trigger = BFN
    1/08/16: Surprise- BFP!!  2/16/16: MMC @10w 2days,  D&C: 2/17/16
    TTCAL: May 2016
    IUI #3 5/27/16: Letrozole+trigger=BFN
    IUI #4 06/24/16: 7.5mg Letrozole+trigger= BFN
    IUI#5 08/24/16 Menopur+trigger = BFN
    IUI #6 09/19/16 5 mg Letrozole +Menopur + Trigger= BFN
    **10/2016: No more medicated cycles, TTCAL on our own**
    12/03/16: BFP!! EDD: 08/12/17 It's a girl!! 
    Eleni was born on 8/14/17!!
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    @catiecatp huge congrats!!!!!  I've been lurking still and you were driving me nuts with your willpower not to test but I'm so glad it was the great result!  See you in Feb 2017.  

    @SnobunnieMel you too!!!  Have you gotten your hcg results back yet?  FX for good numbers!
    Me: 1979 * Husband: 1976 * Little girl: 2010 * Little guy: 2013 * MMC: 2016 * Last baby: EDD 2/11/17!  
  • Aera11Aera11 member
    edited June 2016
    Ahhhhh yayyyyyy @catiecatp I knew it!! Such great news to wake up to :) happy & healthy nine months! Enjoy every moment of it, xoxo!!

    *edited because I can't type
  • @16isourluckynumber I get the first set later today but the wondfo is much darker this morning so I'm happy with that right now 
    Me: 30     DH: 31
    Married: 11.12.11
    TTC: Nov 2015
    BFP #1: 1.22.16                 MMC: 2.29.16 ( tetrasomy 11, partial deletion 1, XXX)
    D&C: 3.2.16
    BFP #2: 4.14.16                 CP: 4.17.16
    BFP #3: 6.10.2016             CP: 6.17.2016
    RE appt: 6.27.2016- saline sono all clear
    Chromosome karyotype- Normal both me and DH
    Progenity: + carrier Tay-Sachs, Gaucher's, hemachromatosis. DH: carrier Alpha 1 anti-trypsin
    Clomid + TI Cycle #1: pending  8.15.16
    Fur mom to 2 sled masters: an Alaskan malamute and a malamute wolf hybrid 
    half marathon running, surgery loving trauma hand and reconstructive plastic surgery PA-C
    PCOS, hypothyroid, MTHFR, hx of LEEP in 2006

  • @Wishilivedinflorida - I was just thinking about that - do we want our own group or do we want to take over the PGAL group? I counted at least 3-4 familiar names other than my own over in the Feb 2017 group
    ---TW BFP and MC mentioned - scroll down past the Lilo and Stitch gif to avoid ---




    Me: 33 & DH: 33
    Married: 07/2006
    TTC: 10/2015
    BFP #1: 11/2015, MC 12/2015 (7 weeks)
    BFP #2: 06/2016, EDD 2/15/2017



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  • @catiecatp I think either is fine. I tried to get something going with weekly checkins when I was over at PGAL the last time, but my stay was short and it kinda fizzled over time. Responses were spotty. I just know for me personally, I can't join a BMB again, at least not in the first tri. It would be nice to have a community that's active in that critical time for support. 
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    Love that idea @SnobunnieMel, keep us posted on where it goes!  
  • @snobunniemel - I'd participate for sure - either name sounds great
    ---TW BFP and MC mentioned - scroll down past the Lilo and Stitch gif to avoid ---




    Me: 33 & DH: 33
    Married: 07/2006
    TTC: 10/2015
    BFP #1: 11/2015, MC 12/2015 (7 weeks)
    BFP #2: 06/2016, EDD 2/15/2017



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  • I love that idea @SnobunnieMel! I would be really nervous to join a BMB right away and would be nice to be somewhere all together where we feel safe and get support just like here. 

    Also if I get a BFP this month I'll probably be on the March 17 board. Let's keep the Feb/Mar mamas coming! :)
  • Yay @catiecatp I knew it!!!! Best wishes for you!!!

    I hope you can set up our grad board hehehehe and soon enough I will join you!

    hugs!!
    Married 06.21.14 / TTC since 11.15 /
    BFP 01.03.2016 / MMC 6w5d D&C 02.2016 // BFP 05.06.16 / natural MC 05.12.16
    Benched 06.2016-08.2016 / TTC again 09.2016! On a diet. Cranky.
    BFP 10.02.2016 / NT scan at 12w looked normal / Anatomy scan at 20w everything ok
    Team blue! / EDD June 11th 2017
    DAVID ROGER was born on May 23rd at 37 weeks.

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    Started PhD studies in Architecture on 2017.
    Fur mom of a rescued miniature poodle called Luke Skywalker.


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  • Yayyyyy congrats @catiecatp Could you really go back to sleep?? lol Are you telling DH yet?
  • @rainbowturtles - he was still awake... I managed to go back to sleep eventually but not for long :) 
    ---TW BFP and MC mentioned - scroll down past the Lilo and Stitch gif to avoid ---




    Me: 33 & DH: 33
    Married: 07/2006
    TTC: 10/2015
    BFP #1: 11/2015, MC 12/2015 (7 weeks)
    BFP #2: 06/2016, EDD 2/15/2017



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  • @SnobunnieMel great idea! I would love to remain with the people I've been going through this journey with. Hopefully I will be joining you guys soon. 
     ****TW: Pregnancy, loss and children mentioned****
    Me (39) DH (40) 
    From my first marriage DD: 03/04 CP:01/06 DS:12/06 
    DH- no kids
    ******************
    TTC: since 2/15, RE Consult 9/15
    IUI #1 10/15: Letrozole = BFN 
    IUI #2 11/15: Letrozole + trigger = BFN
    1/08/16: Surprise- BFP!!  2/16/16: MMC @10w 2days,  D&C: 2/17/16
    TTCAL: May 2016
    IUI #3 5/27/16: Letrozole+trigger=BFN
    IUI #4 06/24/16: 7.5mg Letrozole+trigger= BFN
    IUI#5 08/24/16 Menopur+trigger = BFN
    IUI #6 09/19/16 5 mg Letrozole +Menopur + Trigger= BFN
    **10/2016: No more medicated cycles, TTCAL on our own**
    12/03/16: BFP!! EDD: 08/12/17 It's a girl!! 
    Eleni was born on 8/14/17!!
  • chloe97 said:
    Can those of us stuck in TTCAL join your group before our BFPs just to lurk and keep up with y'all? I won't be joining you til September at the very earliest and I will miss you guys!

    I hope to see all you all non-benched TTCAL-ers leave this board before I get off the bench! 
    THIS!
  • Congrats @catiecatp!!! I've been checking in every day just to see if you finally caved and tested ;-) 
    “Be present in all things and thankful for all things.”  ~Maya Angelou

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    Me: 40    DH: 39
    Married 12.19.13
    BFP #1 1/14, MC 2/14 (6wks)
    BFP #2 1/15, MMC/D&C 3/15 (12wks)
    BFP #3 6/15, MC 8/15 (9wks)
    BFP #4 4/16, MC 4/16 (5wks)
    BFP #5 7/16, MMC 8/16 (10 wks)
    BFP #6 3/4 , EDD 11/9/17
  • Of course 
    Me: 30     DH: 31
    Married: 11.12.11
    TTC: Nov 2015
    BFP #1: 1.22.16                 MMC: 2.29.16 ( tetrasomy 11, partial deletion 1, XXX)
    D&C: 3.2.16
    BFP #2: 4.14.16                 CP: 4.17.16
    BFP #3: 6.10.2016             CP: 6.17.2016
    RE appt: 6.27.2016- saline sono all clear
    Chromosome karyotype- Normal both me and DH
    Progenity: + carrier Tay-Sachs, Gaucher's, hemachromatosis. DH: carrier Alpha 1 anti-trypsin
    Clomid + TI Cycle #1: pending  8.15.16
    Fur mom to 2 sled masters: an Alaskan malamute and a malamute wolf hybrid 
    half marathon running, surgery loving trauma hand and reconstructive plastic surgery PA-C
    PCOS, hypothyroid, MTHFR, hx of LEEP in 2006

  • I managed to remember some screen names from graduates in the past few months and sent them a PM about the new group. 
    ---TW BFP and MC mentioned - scroll down past the Lilo and Stitch gif to avoid ---




    Me: 33 & DH: 33
    Married: 07/2006
    TTC: 10/2015
    BFP #1: 11/2015, MC 12/2015 (7 weeks)
    BFP #2: 06/2016, EDD 2/15/2017



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  • I love the idea of the graduate board! I remember seeing some of you ladies on the BMB and the loss boards so I would love to follow your journies! So happy for you guys again!!

    Waiting to POAS here at 10 DPO. Temps still way above cover line but afraid to test before FF predicted AF. Trying to wait it out till at least Wednesday! Any other ladies have testing plans this week?
    Married: June 2011
    TTC #1: September 2015-January 2016
    BFP #1: 1/25/16 - MMC Diagnosed 3/22/16
    TTCAL: June 2016
    BFP #2: 8/26/16 - EDD 5/9/17
    Jackson born 5/6/17 at 8:36 PM - 9lbs 5oz & 21in
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    1 more week until the very earliest I can POAS without a guaranteed BFN... Next Sunday I'll be 11 dpo. That is only if AF doesn't show up on Saturday. 28 days cycles with cd18 o is just asking for me to POAS too soon.
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