@SnobunnieMel I think that it a great idea. I will definitely join if I get a BFP at some point!
I am just moving on over here. FF hasn't marked my O yet, but temps have been up for 2 days. I Oed a little later than normal so didn't have great timing this month, but I guess we shall see what happens. Hoping for lots more BFPs this month!
Me: 32 DH: 36 Married 5/08 BFP #1: 1/27/13 DS #1 born 10/16/13 BFP #2: 1/20/16, ectopic discovered 1/23/16 Surgery 1/23/16 to remove ruptured tube TTCAL 3/16 BFP #3: 3/24/17 EDD 12/5/17 DS #2 born 12/11/17
11 dpo here. Beta tomorrow. Not hopeful. Not sure why, just don't feel as though it's likely. I'll POAS in the morning while DH and I are both at home. Good luck to you, @lilylover27 and @JDMRS!
Me: 40, DH: 35 / Married: 2009; TTC #1: 2013
2013 - 2015: 5 pregnancies —> 5 miscarriages
TTCAL with RE (RPL specialist): February 2016
2016: 3 medicated TI cycles —> 3 medicated IUI cycles: All BFN
Thanks ladies - I will be lurking here for a bit at the very least - I already miss the vibe in this group. I like all y'all better than the BMB. They complain when people post symptoms in a separate thread even when the symptom thread isn't on the front page because there are so many active threads. Next time I see one I'm just going to start chatting and commenting.
Quick question - I've got a count down in my signature now but if it bothers anyone I'll remove it while I lurk and sometimes comment.
---TW BFP and MC mentioned - scroll down past the Lilo and Stitch gif to avoid ---
@lilylover27 I don't know! I usually don't get my period on my own so the lack of AF won't be a sign. I kind of want to wait to 14-15dpo but the bsc/SS is making me want to test early!! I've never tested early...what's the earliest most of y'all test at? My temp is climbing, I'm so tired and now my boobs are sore...I can't tell if it's in my head or real! I'm only cautiously optimistic because I know I had 3-4 mature follicles and received a trigger. We BD -1, O, +1 so I don't know. Trying not to think about it but that's clearly not going so well.
@catiecatp your ticker doesn't bother me . I was in a bmb last time and generally didn't enjoy the women there.
@catiecatp I think Bump etiquette says if you are posting with a sig after a BFP on TTGP is to start your post with a TW lurker warning. It doesn't bother me personally, but that's just what common practice is.
Congratulations!! I will say with my last pregnancy after my 1st loss I liked my BMB, they were almost all good people, but it was frustrating when reading about people being anxious to get their NIPT results to find out the sex of the baby and not to find out their baby was okay. After the my first failed NIPT I was just praying my baby was ok and then she wasn't.
@catiecatp I hated my BMB. There was constant threads about showers and baby gear and the OP would be like 7 weeks along tops and I just sat there riddled with fear and no where near the frame of mind to discuss strollers
@Aera11 I am with you on the SS!! Last pregnancy I test at 10dpo and BFN test 12 & 13dpo BFP! that's why I am trying to hold out too! Also I can't tell is my "symptoms" are real or allergy or work out related!
Married: June 2011 TTC #1: September 2015-January 2016 BFP #1: 1/25/16 - MMC Diagnosed 3/22/16 TTCAL: June 2016 BFP #2: 8/26/16 - EDD 5/9/17 Jackson born 5/6/17 at 8:36 PM - 9lbs 5oz & 21in
@chloe97 - thanks for the etiquette note. I'll put a warning at the top - is the one that I did for this post acceptable or is the goal something different?
The BMB is ok - but I suppose part of it is that they just aren't you guys. It looks like there are a lot of people who have suffered at least one loss. We'll see if I can get used to them - if not I'll save a bunch of time by not checking boards daily...
---TW BFP and MC mentioned - scroll down past the Lilo and Stitch gif to avoid ---
I'm going to try to hold off til Friday @lilylover27 because that'll be 13dpo and I see my RE for a cd28 check up. If I get a positive that morning, I can have her take a beta. My last pregnancy I waited until week 5 before I even called my RE just because I felt like if it were going to be a chemical, there wouldn't be anything they could do. Now, I'm ready to just do this! I've never been 'optimistic' during my tww, so it's unnerving!
Me: 31 DH: 32 Married April 2014 TTC since December 2015 1st BFP: February 8, 2016; MMC at 7 weeks, 3 days; Discovered at 10 weeks; D&C March 25 2nd BFP: June 20, 2016; CP June 22, 2016 3rd BFP: August 13, 2016!! Fingers crossed!!
Annnnd, I'm out. Stark white BFN on a CB hpt 12dpo. Still going for beta but I've already cried it out since I woke up and tested at 4 am.
Not sure our next steps right this minute. May take a month off stims. I know 3 mos isn't a long time TTC in the big picture, but of course I am frustrated - it never took more than 2 tries before. Definitely disappointed.
Me: 40, DH: 35 / Married: 2009; TTC #1: 2013
2013 - 2015: 5 pregnancies —> 5 miscarriages
TTCAL with RE (RPL specialist): February 2016
2016: 3 medicated TI cycles —> 3 medicated IUI cycles: All BFN
Sorry @fivetimesnoluck I hope you can take some time for yourself today!
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks) MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks) MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP) RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017 MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP) RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017 MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023. Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing. Surgery for endometriosis January 2024 Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months.
FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)
Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.
@fivetimesnoluck I came back this morning figuring it was about time for your betas. I'm so, so sorry. It all sucks. Take care and if there's anything I can do, I will do it.
Renee, 34 + Devon, 29 married 08/13 TTC 09/15 *TW Loss mentioned* BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16 MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3 TTCAL 3/2016 Acupuncture 11/16 Dx December 2016: unexplained January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI = BFP #2 01/30/17 Please be a sticky baby! EDD: 10/15/17 Measuring ahead! 10/12/17 Ambrose born on his due date!
5 DPO with breasts that feel like I've been beaten up. That should help me stay zen. I ordered OPKs, cheapies and paid for a year subscription to FF, so apparently I'm in this for the long haul.
I have to get an internal ultrasound and have a follow up with the doctor about my fibroids, but I'm thinking I'll wait it out until I know what's up this cycle. Very well could have missed the FW this cycle, so maybe I should just go. Ugh, I'm terrified of going to the ultrasound clinic alone, as last time it wasn't such a good time.
Renee, 34 + Devon, 29 married 08/13 TTC 09/15 *TW Loss mentioned* BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16 MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3 TTCAL 3/2016 Acupuncture 11/16 Dx December 2016: unexplained January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI = BFP #2 01/30/17 Please be a sticky baby! EDD: 10/15/17 Measuring ahead! 10/12/17 Ambrose born on his due date!
AF arrived today so I'm heading back over to WTO womp womp. just to add to the BMB discussion, i LOVED my board from my first pregnancy in November 2014. The bump imploded right after DS was born and everyone moved over to facebook and the group kept getting smaller and smaller. I still talk to those girls daily and consider some of them my best friends. That being said, I didn't like the board at all for my recent pregnancy. BMBs changed a lot in the past few years and it's a shame.
TW*** Child and loss mentioned Married 10/12 DS 11/14 Ectopic 2/16 PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16 IUI x 3- BFN Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos FET- 6/17- BFP! Due Feb 15, 2017
i was at the doctor today because I can't shake my cough (2 weeks!) and the doctor offered me a beta. AND I SAID NO! Why did I say no?!?! What is wrong with me? Sunday can't get here soon enough!
@brooklyngirl18 Sorry about AF. I'm CD2 myself, so at least we can hang out in WTO together.
@reneeannemm Welcome back! I myself bought 3 months of FF and ordered cheapies (even OPKs, for kicks) on my BFN day. I figured maybe a little reverse voodoo may work...the fastest way to get AF? POAS. Fastest way to BFP? Order months worth of FF and sticks to pee upon that can go to waste. Ha. I'll see how that goes. Hope whenever you go for US that it's not too awful.
Lurking from WTO: Hoo boy!! I'm glad to have had a vacation to get away (even though it was for a memorial service) but I've really missed out on a lot.
@catiecatp Congratulations!!! I know it's weird to state how unbelievably happy I am for you since I don't know you IRL but I truly am psyched for your BFP! I'm excited to follow your 9 month journey for your rainbow!
@fivetimesnoluck So sorry for the BFN. 2, 3, 5 months of TTC... it doesn't get any easier. The disappointment starts to build as early as 1 month out.
I'm so sorry @fivetimesnoluck I know how hard it is to see a BFN. Hugs and best wishes for next month.
Married 06.21.14 / TTC since 11.15 / BFP 01.03.2016 / MMC 6w5d D&C 02.2016 // BFP 05.06.16 / natural MC 05.12.16 Benched 06.2016-08.2016 / TTC again 09.2016! On a diet. Cranky. BFP 10.02.2016 / NT scan at 12w looked normal / Anatomy scan at 20w everything ok Team blue! / EDD June 11th 2017 DAVID ROGER was born on May 23rd at 37 weeks.
Architect, Peruvian living in Chile. I love art, opera and good chocolate. Started PhD studies in Architecture on 2017. Fur mom of a rescued miniature poodle called Luke Skywalker.
Is it sad that I know offhand that a beta costs me about $6....about the price of a digi....and that I know that because I've had so many medical bills? Ugh! (Point being a beta may be more cost effective than POAS in some cases).
@Wishilivedinflorida Well all last night and this morning I have been having some insane cramping. AF isn't due until Sunday now according to my chart, so I think it's a bit too early for it to be PMS cramps. Maybe. just maybe. not getting my hopes up yet.
Renee, 34 + Devon, 29 married 08/13 TTC 09/15 *TW Loss mentioned* BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16 MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3 TTCAL 3/2016 Acupuncture 11/16 Dx December 2016: unexplained January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI = BFP #2 01/30/17 Please be a sticky baby! EDD: 10/15/17 Measuring ahead! 10/12/17 Ambrose born on his due date!
Another small temp dip this morning but still above CL. I am 12dpo and CD26, not sure about testing plans tomorrow, guess it will depend on if I have another temp dip. According to FF AF is supposed to be on Thursday/Friday. Having some slight cramping, bloating, fatigue and lower back pain but as well all know that can be KU or AF so just trying to hang in there. Not feeling very hopeful though.
Married: June 2011 TTC #1: September 2015-January 2016 BFP #1: 1/25/16 - MMC Diagnosed 3/22/16 TTCAL: June 2016 BFP #2: 8/26/16 - EDD 5/9/17 Jackson born 5/6/17 at 8:36 PM - 9lbs 5oz & 21in
Re: **June TWW**
@SnobunnieMel I think that it a great idea. I will definitely join if I get a BFP at some point!
I am just moving on over here. FF hasn't marked my O yet, but temps have been up for 2 days. I Oed a little later than normal so didn't have great timing this month, but I guess we shall see what happens. Hoping for lots more BFPs this month!
Married 5/08
BFP #1: 1/27/13 DS #1 born 10/16/13
BFP #2: 1/20/16, ectopic discovered 1/23/16
Surgery 1/23/16 to remove ruptured tube
TTCAL 3/16
BFP #3: 3/24/17 EDD 12/5/17
DS #2 born 12/11/17
Me: 40, DH: 35 / Married: 2009; TTC #1: 2013
2013 - 2015: 5 pregnancies —> 5 miscarriages
TTCAL with RE (RPL specialist): February 2016
2016: 3 medicated TI cycles —> 3 medicated IUI cycles: All BFN
Donor Egg IVF Transfer: May 1, 2017
May 11, 2017: BFP!! Beta #1: 449.1, Beta #2: 844, Beta #3: 1714
EDD: 1/17/18, it's a GIRL!
E. L. A. born 12/7/2017
Married 5/08
BFP #1: 1/27/13 DS #1 born 10/16/13
BFP #2: 1/20/16, ectopic discovered 1/23/16
Surgery 1/23/16 to remove ruptured tube
TTCAL 3/16
BFP #3: 3/24/17 EDD 12/5/17
DS #2 born 12/11/17
@fivetimesnoluck FX for a good beta tomorrow!
@Aera11 when are you planning to test? We seem to only be two days apart DPO. Of course my testing plans will change is temp dips or AF shows
TTC #1: September 2015-January 2016
BFP #1: 1/25/16 - MMC Diagnosed 3/22/16
TTCAL: June 2016
BFP #2: 8/26/16 - EDD 5/9/17
Jackson born 5/6/17 at 8:36 PM - 9lbs 5oz & 21in
Quick question - I've got a count down in my signature now but if it bothers anyone I'll remove it while I lurk and sometimes comment.
Me: 33 & DH: 33
Married: 07/2006
TTC: 10/2015
BFP #1: 11/2015, MC 12/2015 (7 weeks)
BFP #2: 06/2016, EDD 2/15/2017
@catiecatp your ticker doesn't bother me
Congratulations!! I will say with my last pregnancy after my 1st loss I liked my BMB, they were almost all good people, but it was frustrating when reading about people being anxious to get their NIPT results to find out the sex of the baby and not to find out their baby was okay. After the my first failed NIPT I was just praying my baby was ok and then she wasn't.
I can't even see siggys and tickers on mobile
TTC #1: September 2015-January 2016
BFP #1: 1/25/16 - MMC Diagnosed 3/22/16
TTCAL: June 2016
BFP #2: 8/26/16 - EDD 5/9/17
Jackson born 5/6/17 at 8:36 PM - 9lbs 5oz & 21in
@chloe97 - thanks for the etiquette note. I'll put a warning at the top - is the one that I did for this post acceptable or is the goal something different?
The BMB is ok - but I suppose part of it is that they just aren't you guys. It looks like there are a lot of people who have suffered at least one loss. We'll see if I can get used to them - if not I'll save a bunch of time by not checking boards daily...
Me: 33 & DH: 33
Married: 07/2006
TTC: 10/2015
BFP #1: 11/2015, MC 12/2015 (7 weeks)
BFP #2: 06/2016, EDD 2/15/2017
Me: 26 DH: 28
TTC #1 since 06/2014
BFP #1 09/23/15. MMC discovered 11/24/2015
BFP #2 08/24/16 EDD 05/08/17
Married April 2014
TTC since December 2015
1st BFP: February 8, 2016; MMC at 7 weeks, 3 days; Discovered at 10 weeks; D&C March 25
2nd BFP: June 20, 2016; CP June 22, 2016
3rd BFP: August 13, 2016!! Fingers crossed!!
Not sure our next steps right this minute. May take a month off stims. I know 3 mos isn't a long time TTC in the big picture, but of course I am frustrated - it never took more than 2 tries before. Definitely disappointed.
Me: 40, DH: 35 / Married: 2009; TTC #1: 2013
2013 - 2015: 5 pregnancies —> 5 miscarriages
TTCAL with RE (RPL specialist): February 2016
2016: 3 medicated TI cycles —> 3 medicated IUI cycles: All BFN
Donor Egg IVF Transfer: May 1, 2017
May 11, 2017: BFP!! Beta #1: 449.1, Beta #2: 844, Beta #3: 1714
EDD: 1/17/18, it's a GIRL!
E. L. A. born 12/7/2017
Sorry @fivetimesnoluck I hope you can take some time for yourself today!
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023.
Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months.
FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)
Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.
FET #2: September 2024 (failed)
FET #3: December 2024 (failed)
#BitterHagPartyOf1
@catiecatp @SnobunnieMel Yahoo!
@fivetimesnoluck I came back this morning figuring it was about time for your betas. I'm so, so sorry. It all sucks. Take care and if there's anything I can do, I will do it.
TTC 09/15
*TW Loss mentioned*
BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
TTCAL 3/2016
Acupuncture 11/16
Dx December 2016: unexplained
January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
BFP #2 01/30/17 Please be a sticky baby!
EDD: 10/15/17 Measuring ahead! 10/12/17
Ambrose born on his due date!
Me: 26 DH: 28
TTC #1 since 06/2014
BFP #1 09/23/15. MMC discovered 11/24/2015
BFP #2 08/24/16 EDD 05/08/17
TTC #1: September 2015-January 2016
BFP #1: 1/25/16 - MMC Diagnosed 3/22/16
TTCAL: June 2016
BFP #2: 8/26/16 - EDD 5/9/17
Jackson born 5/6/17 at 8:36 PM - 9lbs 5oz & 21in
I have to get an internal ultrasound and have a follow up with the doctor about my fibroids, but I'm thinking I'll wait it out until I know what's up this cycle. Very well could have missed the FW this cycle, so maybe I should just go. Ugh, I'm terrified of going to the ultrasound clinic alone, as last time it wasn't such a good time.
TTC 09/15
*TW Loss mentioned*
BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
TTCAL 3/2016
Acupuncture 11/16
Dx December 2016: unexplained
January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
BFP #2 01/30/17 Please be a sticky baby!
EDD: 10/15/17 Measuring ahead! 10/12/17
Ambrose born on his due date!
AF arrived today so I'm heading back over to WTO womp womp. just to add to the BMB discussion, i LOVED my board from my first pregnancy in November 2014. The bump imploded right after DS was born and everyone moved over to facebook and the group kept getting smaller and smaller. I still talk to those girls daily and consider some of them my best friends. That being said, I didn't like the board at all for my recent pregnancy. BMBs changed a lot in the past few years and it's a shame.
Married 10/12
DS 11/14
Ectopic 2/16
PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
IUI x 3- BFN
Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
FET- 6/17- BFP!
Due Feb 15, 2017
i was at the doctor today because I can't shake my cough (2 weeks!) and the doctor offered me a beta. AND I SAID NO! Why did I say no?!?! What is wrong with me? Sunday can't get here soon enough!
@brooklyngirl18 Sorry about AF. I'm CD2 myself, so at least we can hang out in WTO together.
@reneeannemm Welcome back! I myself bought 3 months of FF and ordered cheapies (even OPKs, for kicks) on my BFN day. I figured maybe a little reverse voodoo may work...the fastest way to get AF? POAS. Fastest way to BFP? Order months worth of FF and sticks to pee upon that can go to waste. Ha. I'll see how that goes. Hope whenever you go for US that it's not too awful.
@catiecatp Congratulations!!! I know it's weird to state how unbelievably happy I am for you since I don't know you IRL but I truly am psyched for your BFP! I'm excited to follow your 9 month journey for your rainbow!
@fivetimesnoluck So sorry for the BFN. 2, 3, 5 months of TTC... it doesn't get any easier. The disappointment starts to build as early as 1 month out.
Married 5/08
BFP #1: 1/27/13 DS #1 born 10/16/13
BFP #2: 1/20/16, ectopic discovered 1/23/16
Surgery 1/23/16 to remove ruptured tube
TTCAL 3/16
BFP #3: 3/24/17 EDD 12/5/17
DS #2 born 12/11/17
BFP 01.03.2016 / MMC 6w5d D&C 02.2016 // BFP 05.06.16 / natural MC 05.12.16
Benched 06.2016-08.2016 / TTC again 09.2016! On a diet. Cranky.
BFP 10.02.2016 / NT scan at 12w looked normal / Anatomy scan at 20w everything ok
Team blue! / EDD June 11th 2017
DAVID ROGER was born on May 23rd at 37 weeks.
Architect, Peruvian living in Chile. I love art, opera and good chocolate.
Started PhD studies in Architecture on 2017.
Fur mom of a rescued miniature poodle called Luke Skywalker.
/loss mentioned/
TTC#1 July 2014
dx: MFI (morphology)
IUI #1 w/Clomid + Ovidrel Sept. 2015 ~ BFN
IUI #2 w/Clomid + Ovidrel Halloween 2015 ~ BFN
IUI #3 w/Clomid + Ovidrel Thanksgiving 2015 ~ BFP!!
hb 146 bpm at 7w5d
1/28/16 ~ began to say goodbye to our beautiful baby at 11w
d&c, followed by cytotec
TTCAL April 2016
IUI #4 w/Clomid + Ovidrel Apr. 2016 ~ BFN
IUI #5 w/Clomid + Ovidrel ~ CP
IUI#6 w/Clomid + Ovidrel ~ BFN
Me (39) DH (40)
From my first marriage DD: 03/04 CP:01/06 DS:12/06
DH- no kids
******************
TTC: since 2/15, RE Consult 9/15
IUI #1 10/15: Letrozole = BFN
IUI #2 11/15: Letrozole + trigger = BFN
1/08/16: Surprise- BFP!! 2/16/16: MMC @10w 2days, D&C: 2/17/16
TTCAL: May 2016
IUI #3 5/27/16: Letrozole+trigger=BFN
IUI #4 06/24/16: 7.5mg Letrozole+trigger= BFN
IUI#5 08/24/16 Menopur+trigger = BFN
IUI #6 09/19/16 5 mg Letrozole +Menopur + Trigger= BFN
**10/2016: No more medicated cycles, TTCAL on our own**
12/03/16: BFP!! EDD: 08/12/17 It's a girl!!
Eleni was born on 8/14/17!!
Is it sad that I know offhand that a beta costs me about $6....about the price of a digi....and that I know that because I've had so many medical bills? Ugh! (Point being a beta may be more cost effective than POAS in some cases).
TTC 09/15
*TW Loss mentioned*
BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
TTCAL 3/2016
Acupuncture 11/16
Dx December 2016: unexplained
January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
BFP #2 01/30/17 Please be a sticky baby!
EDD: 10/15/17 Measuring ahead! 10/12/17
Ambrose born on his due date!
Another small temp dip this morning but still above CL. I am 12dpo and CD26, not sure about testing plans tomorrow, guess it will depend on if I have another temp dip. According to FF AF is supposed to be on Thursday/Friday. Having some slight cramping, bloating, fatigue and lower back pain but as well all know that can be KU or AF so just trying to hang in there. Not feeling very hopeful though.
TTC #1: September 2015-January 2016
BFP #1: 1/25/16 - MMC Diagnosed 3/22/16
TTCAL: June 2016
BFP #2: 8/26/16 - EDD 5/9/17
Jackson born 5/6/17 at 8:36 PM - 9lbs 5oz & 21in