June/July IVF or FET

cmm012 · July 2016

So sorry @mtpbadger. I'm glad your RE has a plan moving forward. I'm on lovenox shots, and they aren't too bad. Hugs. Hugs. more Hugs.

babylonghorn16 · July 2016

@mtpbadger i'm so sorry. I'm glad you are staying optimistic and have a plan moving forward. Just remember you are strong and will get past this even though it's devastating right now. Wine and crappy TV sounds perfect. Many hugs and prayers!

mtpbadger · July 2016

Thanks ladies. While this still sucks, I think a lot was learned from this cycle and hopefully the changes made next time will help my lining!

Plus its hard to be sad with this face staring at you wanting to play (I have never been so happy to be puppy sitting. I want to steal her)

holzie-2 · July 2016

@mtpbadger I'm so sorry about your BFN. I'm happy that there is already a plan for you going forward.

lilmissslp · July 2016

Have you poas @Holzie? I'm so nervous for my beta tomorrow. Good luck beta buddy! Hope we both get BFPs!!!

holzie-2 · July 2016

@lilmissslp, No, I'm too nervous. Each time I have in the past it was negative and I don't want to see that again. I want one more day PUPO. Good luck tomorrow, FX for BFP for both of us!

Sunflower5678 · July 2016

@mtpbadger so sorry about your beta. I'm glad you have a plan already in motion for another cycle though!

AFM...just noticed a little bleeding tonight after using the bathroom. Am I out already? My transfer was on Wednesday. Still hoping for the best but this has me down for sure.

babylonghorn16 · July 2016

@Sunflower5678 hopefully it's just implantation bleeding. If it's dark brown, that's a sign of implantation. I would just monitor... don't give up hope yet!! When is your beta?

Sunflower5678 · July 2016

@babylonghorn16 my beta is Friday. It was more pink than brown...that's why I'm kinda losing hope. I've been super crampy but I was thinking that was more the progesterone suppositories. I'll try to keep my chin up though

I will call my nurse tomorrow to let her know.

babylonghorn16 · July 2016

@Sunflower5678 I think as long as it's not red, I wouldn't worry too much! Friday can't come soon enough!

littlesunshine-2 · July 2016

@mtpbadger I'm so sorry to hear that news. It's great that you already have a plan in place you feel good about and are looking forward.

@Kerami1 Congratulations!!!! What wonderful news to get. I can't imagine how that must feel knowing there might be two in there! Fx'd for a great number on Wednesday.

@lilmissslp and @Holzie Good luck on your betas tomorrow, we are all rooting for you!

AFM: I had my final appointment today before my transfer! The doctor said my lining measured 8.9 mm, so I am set for transfer next Tuesday at 12:30 p.m. I am getting so excited but also so nervous. Of course I have a million "what ifs" running through my head but I am just trying to think happy thoughts. I get a lot of inspiration from all of you women, so thank you! This board is a great reminder of how strong each and every one of us is.

wifeinraleigh28 · July 2016

Congrats @Kerami1 that is an excellent first beta!! FX for Wednesday!

FX for your betas today @Holzie and @lilmissslp! Rooting for you!

I know I already said this in Aug/Sept but I'm so sorry and sending you hugs @mtpbadger.

caseyw8784 · July 2016

@mtpbadger - so sorry to hear the bfn. I'm really glad that you're staying positive and that you and your RE already have a game plan! Take the time you need and when you're ready to come back, we'll see you on the August/September thread!!

@lilmissslp and @Holzie - good luck on your betas today! FX for high numbers and can't wait for the updates!

lilmissslp · July 2016

Blood drawn and now I wait. I feel like a nervous wreck!!!

holzie-2 · July 2016

Had blood drawn....(im)patiently waiting for the call. I'm so nervous, I don't know how I'm going to make it through work today.

Good luck @lilmissslp, FX for high numbers for both of us! (and anyone else who has their beta today.)

mtpbadger · July 2016

FX for you @lilmissslp and @holzie! Hoping for great numbers for both of you!

ale9687 · July 2016

@lilmissslp and @holzie good luck to you both! I hope your offices don't keep you waiting too long!

Sunflower5678 · July 2016

@lilmissslp and @holzie good luck today! FX!

Kerami1 · July 2016

@mtpbadger I am so sorry. I was so sad to hear your news. I am glad that you have a plan and I hope that it will allow you to get the BFP you deserve.

It is so incredible to see how strong all of the women on this board are.

@lilmissslp an @holzie Good luck to you today!!! So exciting!

babylonghorn16 · July 2016

Question: when did you stop alcohol and/or caffeine intake? I've only had a few glasses of wine in the past week or so, but I drink 1-2 cups of coffee every day. Of course I will IMMEDIATELY cut out BOTH come Friday, but was just wondering how much time you gave/plan to give yourself before transfer?

babylonghorn16 · July 2016

@lilmissslp @Holzie GOOD LUCK!! Will be refreshing this page all day!

lilmissslp · July 2016

I'm dying waiting. I feel like I can't do anything!!!

@babylonghorn16 I started weaning out caffeine the day that I started my suppression shots. I started to drink half calf coffee then eventually I went to decaf. Then I read that decaf coffee is still very acidic and not to drink after your embryo transfer. I read so many mixed things online saying one cup of caffeine a day is fine. I'm just trying to do anything and everything I can to help my chances.

holzie-2 · July 2016

Still nothing. The clinic said they will call between 1-4. I am super nervous! Hang in there @lilmissslp, I know how you feel! I keep refreshing to see if you heard anything yet.

heidis1 · July 2016

@lilmissslp @holzie good luck fx for u both!
@babylonghorn16 I was never told to cut the caffeine out completely. I still enjoy 1 cup of coffee daily in the am. (9 1/2 weeks preggers) I think moderation is the key. Best of luck Friday :-)

lilmissslp · July 2016

Thanks @Holzie! I hope you're hanging in there too. They didn't give me any sort of timeframe but I thought because I went so early maybe I would've heard by now. We're getting so close! I keep checking to hear from you too!

holzie-2 · July 2016

Results are in...BFP! Beta 144. Super excited, however we have spent such a long time trying to get to this point that we never thought about what would happen WHEN we got here.

Let's hope for 2/2 today @lilmissslp. I think they know the anticipation and do it on purpose.

caseyw8784 · July 2016

@holzie - congrats on your bfp!!! FX for higher numbers at beta #2!

lilmissslp · July 2016

AAAAhhh congrats @Holzie! I'm so excited for you! I'm on pins and needles over here. I hope they don't save the bad news for the end of the day

wifeinraleigh28 · July 2016

Congrats @Holzie!!!!

lilmissslp · July 2016

BFN

holzie-2 · July 2016

@lilmissslp I'm so sorry. Sending you lots of good thoughts and hugs.

lilmissslp · July 2016

Thanks! I'm feeling crushed and just don't understand what's wrong with my body…

holzie-2 · July 2016

I totally understand, I have been there....a lot. IF is really unfair.

mtpbadger · July 2016

Oh @lilmissslp I am so so sorry. I was hoping everyone else would be able to celebrate this week! I completely understand being frustrated with your body and not understanding what is wrong. IF just plain stinks. Be kind to yourself this week. Will you speak with your RE to try and figure out why it didn't take or how to move forward?

heidis1 · July 2016

@lilmissslp Big hugs!!! Soo sorry. Please take care of yourself!

@Holzie congratulations on your bfp!

caseyw8784 · July 2016

@lilmissslp - so sorry...that just stinks! I hope you and your RE can figure out a new game plan and you will be able to move forward quickly!!

lilmissslp · July 2016

Thanks ladies. I was a blubbering mess on the phone so I don't even remember everything she said to me. I do know they want me to take a cycle off. I really don't want to. I go back to work in September so August would be much less stressful. When I'm done blubbering I'll make an apt to go in and talk.

gatorlorit · July 2016

@lilmissslp. I'm so sorry to hear this. Be good to yourself. That follow up appt with the RE is a great idea, and really did help me. Fingers crossed that they have some answers. Thoughts and prayers to you.

@holzie. Congratulations! I love to see any BFP, but especially sweet after a long journey to get there!

cmm012 · July 2016

@lilmissslp So sorry for your BFN. I hope you get some answers and can move forward. In the meantime, lots of hugs to you.

cmm012 · July 2016

@Holzie Congratulations on your BFP! I hope beta two is sky high!

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