I was dreaming about having a miscarriage when I woke up I was spotting blood I went to the ER I was freaking out I even told the nurse everything from my dream every detail even the nurse was the same from my dream it was a male nurse he looked at me like I was crazy I told him everything they were going to do I even described the doctor that was gana see me the nurse was in shock cause everything I told him happen down to the doctor name I never even met the doctor before
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Re: Sh!t my SO said
"you know babe, they encourage dads to do it too".
DH: "well, I'll have to shave then"
(DH isn't a carpet but has a bit more hair than other men)
Me: "no one really cares if you shave or not. You're going to give your son a rash anyway with your stubble".
I think he must believe a whole entourage of nurses and doctors plan to stay and watch. I can't
I can't remember exactly what was said because I'm still livid over it, but it was something along the lines of: you should sacrifice your career to be a SAHM for our kids. When I responded with something like "but we can't afford that since I'm the breadwinner" he basically told me that we should sell our house and downsize to an apartment so that I could afford to be a SAHM. I get that some people do actually do things like that but..... seriously??? Maybe I am taking it the wrong way but it definitely hurt my feelings.
One of my best friends, who was making a 6 figure salary quit her job, on a whim, because she felt her job was cutting too much into time with her son and husband. Her husband makes about $40k a year. In California, a household income of $40k a year is tough to live off. Especially when you've leased a BMW, a Ford F150 and are currently renting a home in a nicer suburb. I can tell you, although she hasn't come out and said it, she's shaking in her pants a bit and wondering if she made the right choice now. And she's yet to come by any job to bring in ANY additional income!! No one needs that kind of stress in their life, especially with a new baby.
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"Red wine is like a warm tickle all over your body"
Shut up, you know I want a glass lol
Uh thanks? But all that means is that I'm growing fast haha.
Second, that poor woman. I would LOSE IT if my husband said something like that to my kid. Don't use my kid to talk to me, and don't ever say something that cruel.
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