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  • AshleypixieAshleypixie member
    We will never get out of debt. We will be paying for law school forever, and although H is in finance, he is so shitty with money. I'm so jealous when people are all paid up on credit cards, I have no idea what my credit score is because I just stopped paying them. I didn't like it.
     






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  • AshleypixieAshleypixie member
    @kendracole I thought you were going to cut your hair and dye it blonde? Did you do it? Or were you kidding and I was just dumb?
     






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    I'm looking on a real estate website, fantasizing about getting a larger house and came across one that is cute on the outside.  Then I looked at the inside and think "pretentious".  These people have a kitchen island thing...in their walk-in closet.
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  • Bluebird2318Bluebird2318 member
    edited August 2014
    I hate my student loan debt because it's 50k and it didn't come with a degree. If I want to finish a degree I'll probably have to incur a couple more years worth of student loan debt, which I'm not looking forward to, but I suppose it's better than paying off the debt for nothing. We'll be paying that off for the next 20 years, but after that the remainder is forgiven assuming I apply for income-based repayment this year. 

    We also have credit card debt (which is soon to be eliminated if all goes well, thankfully), his student loan debt (which isn't too bad), and DH's personal debt with his parents. We never see the money that goes toward his student loans or his parents anyway, since they're automatically subtracted from every paycheck he gets so we don't even worry about those ones. 

    Any transaction that has a lingering balance I consider to be debt. Student loans, credit cards, things on payment plans (like major purchases on store accounts, medical bills, etc.), car payments, house payments, and so forth... But like Jelly, I consider the "worth" of the debt, with credit card debt generally being the worst. 
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  • ambarnett1ambarnett1 member
    Anyone else have a LO get bad gas from the rotavirus oral vaccine? DS has been terrible since he got it Monday. I hope there is an end in sight.

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  • RedDawnsRevengeRedDawnsRevenge member
    This pump sounds possessed. I'm thinking if making a YouTube account just so you guys can hear this thing. It's growling at me.
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  • J&NLJ&NL member
    KendraColeslaw said:
    Ashleypixie said:
    @kendracole I thought you were going to cut your hair and dye it blonde? Did you do it? Or were you kidding and I was just dumb?
    No, I did it! I need probably one more highlighting session before I'm satisfied with the level of blonde. And I already hate having short hair. It's just not me. Here it is, if you care haha

    I totally feel you on hating having short hair. I mean look at my avatar FFS! I'm meant to have long, luscious, sexy hair! 

    You still look hot though! ;) 
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  • J&NLJ&NL member
    I've pretty much decided we will be paying off debt the rest of our lives because once we have it paid off, there will always be something else to set us back. So we might as well have some fun doing it! 
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  • deidremariadeidremaria member
    I've never imagined an expiration date on me and bf's relationship but I'm starting to. I feel like he doesn't respect me and so in turn I disrespect him. I'm not happy at home unless it's just Dylan and I. I always feel sad when leaving work on the days I know he has no place to be after I get home because I don't want to even be around him.
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  • Emily041285Emily041285 member
    deidremaria said:

    I've never imagined an expiration date on me and bf's relationship but I'm starting to. I feel like he doesn't respect me and so in turn I disrespect him. I'm not happy at home unless it's just Dylan and I. I always feel sad when leaving work on the days I know he has no place to be after I get home because I don't want to even be around him.

    I hear you. I actually told DH the other day I was thinking of divorce. But a coworker (with a 4 yr old) told me the first six months of her daughter's life were the hardest on her relationship. Maybe it's time to sit down and talk about things?
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    fireflygirl12 said:

    Not that I'm a lesbian or dislike my husband, but I could really use a wife some days.

    I totally understand the whole sister wife thing these days.
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  • deidremariadeidremaria member
    Emily041285 said:

    deidremaria said:

    I've never imagined an expiration date on me and bf's relationship but I'm starting to. I feel like he doesn't respect me and so in turn I disrespect him. I'm not happy at home unless it's just Dylan and I. I always feel sad when leaving work on the days I know he has no place to be after I get home because I don't want to even be around him.

    I hear you. I actually told DH the other day I was thinking of divorce. But a coworker (with a 4 yr old) told me the first six months of her daughter's life were the hardest on her relationship. Maybe it's time to sit down and talk about things?
    Maybe. I think I'm just gonna step back mentally for a while so that things won't get heated when we decide to talk. I just feel like no matter what I do or say and how I say it he'll accuse me of being defensive.
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  • deidremariadeidremaria member
    Thank you @mommyofmac‌
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  • AshleypixieAshleypixie member
    deidremaria said:
    I've never imagined an expiration date on me and bf's relationship but I'm starting to. I feel like he doesn't respect me and so in turn I disrespect him. I'm not happy at home unless it's just Dylan and I. I always feel sad when leaving work on the days I know he has no place to be after I get home because I don't want to even be around him.

    Been there. (((Hugs))) because I don't really have advice or anything. I hope things get better soon for you.
     






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    Emily041285 said:

    deidremaria said:

    I've never imagined an expiration date on me and bf's relationship but I'm starting to. I feel like he doesn't respect me and so in turn I disrespect him. I'm not happy at home unless it's just Dylan and I. I always feel sad when leaving work on the days I know he has no place to be after I get home because I don't want to even be around him.

    I hear you. I actually told DH the other day I was thinking of divorce. But a coworker (with a 4 yr old) told me the first six months of her daughter's life were the hardest on her relationship. Maybe it's time to sit down and talk about things?
    I really hope you and your husband don't end up getting divorced
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  • moonsparklesmoonsparkles member
    There have been two thousand new RTs since I last checked.  I hope I didn't miss drama.  UO was fun today. That is all.
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  • Emily041285Emily041285 member
    deidremaria said:

    Emily041285 said:

    deidremaria said:

    I've never imagined an expiration date on me and bf's relationship but I'm starting to. I feel like he doesn't respect me and so in turn I disrespect him. I'm not happy at home unless it's just Dylan and I. I always feel sad when leaving work on the days I know he has no place to be after I get home because I don't want to even be around him.

    I hear you. I actually told DH the other day I was thinking of divorce. But a coworker (with a 4 yr old) told me the first six months of her daughter's life were the hardest on her relationship. Maybe it's time to sit down and talk about things?
    I really hope you and your husband don't end up getting divorced
    His work schedule changes next week and he'll finally be home more. Hopefully that helps! We both have stuff we need to work on. But thanks!
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  • deidremariadeidremaria member
    edited August 2014
    Emily041285 said:

    deidremaria said:

    Emily041285 said:

    deidremaria said:

    I've never imagined an expiration date on me and bf's relationship but I'm starting to. I feel like he doesn't respect me and so in turn I disrespect him. I'm not happy at home unless it's just Dylan and I. I always feel sad when leaving work on the days I know he has no place to be after I get home because I don't want to even be around him.

    I hear you. I actually told DH the other day I was thinking of divorce. But a coworker (with a 4 yr old) told me the first six months of her daughter's life were the hardest on her relationship. Maybe it's time to sit down and talk about things?
    I really hope you and your husband don't end up getting divorced
    His work schedule changes next week and he'll finally be home more. Hopefully that helps! We both have stuff we need to work on. But thanks!
    That's good. I'll pray for you guys. What your coworker said gave me a little hope.
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  • Emily041285Emily041285 member
    Yeah she tells it like it is. Most of the times it scares me of what is to come, but this time it made me feel better too!
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  • deidremariadeidremaria member
    KendraColeslaw said:

    I had 3... Okay, FOUR slices of supreme pizza for dinner followed by chocolate chip cookies. I feel like death. I feel like first trimester.

    If it makes you feel any better I snacked ALL FUCKING DAY at work today. Mostly sweets too
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  • deidremariadeidremaria member
    I think cream of wheat is fucking delicious. I just made a bomb ass bowl that kinda made me sad because it tastes just like my grandma's.
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  • deidremariadeidremaria member
    dani+california said:

    @deidremaria‌ & @Emily041285‌ Thinking of you both!

    Love ya
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  • Tferr02Tferr02 member
    Just realized G is 5 months today and he is boycotting bedtime for it. He laid down at 730 like normal but has been wide awake since 10.

    I just had a complete hysterical crying meltdown from our lack of sleep this week. He just stared at me with huge eyes like holy crap mom has lost it.
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