Too soon for a bfp??

jwilliams7043

Hi ladies! Here are my 
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opks from this month. Got a positive hpt today? Isnt it way too early? Any insight on this at all or anyone whose had a bfp this early I'd love to talk! Thanks!
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brookert615

jwilliams7043 said:

Hi ladies! Here are my opks from this month. Got a positive hpt today? Isnt it way too early? Any insight on this at all or anyone whose had a bfp this early I'd love to talk! Thanks!

QFP minus pics

Its against the board rules to post things you peed on. It’s not cool to post positive pregnancy tests to a forum of women who have been trying to get pregnant. Some of which who have never seen even a faint line on a pregnancy test.

spacemountaineer

Adding some additional information to what @brookert615 has already said.

Hello! It’s against terms of use (TOU) to ask other participants if you are pregnant (even in a around about way). We do not believe in giving people false hope. You will not be getting responses like “OMG! You are totes preggo!” or “That happened to me. You must be KU!” We cannot tell you if are pregnant. We are but strangers on the internet. Many of us have not been pregnant before. The best advice is to wait and test again or call your doctor.

The Bump (TB) does things differently than other pregnancy forums. The only place you are allowed to post a picture of a pregnancy test is here:

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12219554/what-does-a-positive-pregnancy-test-really-look-like#latest

If you are indeed pregnant then I wish you a happy & healthy nine months. Please move on and join either your Birth Month Club/Birth Month Board (BMB)

https://forums.thebump.com/categories/the-bump-month-clubs

And/or start posting questions on the first trimester board

https://forums.thebump.com/categories/1st-trimester

You do not need to come back and update us on your status. We lurk on the various boards and will see your happy news on your BMB or the first tri board.

If it turns out that you are not pregnant, this board is a fantastic resource. It is full of knowledgeable women! We like order and appreciate it when people follow the rules. It makes interacting easier.

1.Read these:

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12685680/the-ultimate-ttgp-guide-newbies-read-this-first/p1

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12588178/the-bump-guidelines#latest

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12586072/welcome-new-members#latest

These should answer some questions and help with the terminology and abbreviations that are used on TB. It will also help you understand the daily Waiting to Ovulate (WTO) & Two Week Wait (TWW) threads.

2. Lurk: Click on threads. See what these recurring posts are all about. Find your niche.

3. Use the search bar at the bottom of the screen. Many women have sought answers to the same questions.

4. Introduce yourself: go to Newbie Intro W/O (Current week)- If the current week does not happen to be up yet, please post on the previous week’s post. We no longer do individual posts to introduce ourselves.

5. Start contributing on the appropriate threads.

Doing one off posts/individual discussions are not encouraged here. There are lots of opportunities to ask trying to get pregnant (TTGP) questions in various threads. That being said, we do not appreciate it when someone attempts to use us as their own personal google. We are community that believes you must give support in order to receive it.

What to do about this post? You can’t delete it. You can ask @ BumpAdmin to close the discussion. It will eventually drop down to the bottom.  Please don’t delete your original post or discussion title (referred to as a dirty delete or DD on this board). If you did post a picture of OPK/HTP, please remove that. The hope is that new members who lurk before they post will see this and learn from this post as well. This is why you may see someone quoting your original post with the abbreviation QFP (Quote for Posterity). The best thing to do now is to simply apologize and move on.

Whatever your outcome may be, have a wonderful day!

kels0091

jwilliams7043

Wow. You guys are fucking awful 😂😂😂 never in my life have I felt so policed trying to ask for help. Onto a better more welcoming site. 

madcouplewithabox

@jwilliams7043 ah yes, us women TRYING to get pregnant are awful... not the person who totally disregarded reading ANYTHING about this board and waved her pee stick in the faces of these women. Totally makes sense. 

brookert615

kels0091

@jwilliams7043
the terms of use (that I read because I’m not a total and complete moron) prohibit me from telling you just how utterly incompetent of a human you are. Unfortunately I’m fresh out of crayons and puppets to explain to you just what a terrible person you actually are for coming into a group of women who are TRYING TO GET PREGNANT and throwing your piss stick in our faces. 
I do hope you stick around dear, for a long, long, long time.
Thankfully the terms of use would prohibit me from being a twat right back to you. 

mrsvp614

jwilliams7043 said:

Wow. You guys are fucking awful 😂😂😂 never in my life have I felt so policed trying to ask for help. Onto a better more welcoming site. 

QFP and totally confused about what you need "help" with. I could think of a few things, but it seems as though you should consult your doc if you're confused, and in the meantime, check out the rules here and move on over to your BMB, if you wish. 

inthewoods23

jwilliams7043 said:

Wow. You guys are fucking awful 😂😂😂 never in my life have I felt so policed trying to ask for help. Onto a better more welcoming site. 

So should I not tell you that all your OPKs are negative? Or is that too much "policing" for you?

Thanks for basically walking into a fertility clinic waiting room and asking all the women "is this positive?".

mrsvp614

NYTino24

To answer your question, yes it’s too soon. You probably didn’t even ovulate yet. It’s called a false surge and I’ve had them plenty of times. Do you honestly think that you could have ovulated and had the egg fertilize and implant in 3 days? 

keikilove

I clicked on this & all that downloaded for awhile was this tiny bit of picture:

I laughed & thought “Oh no...”

kbrown2385

b_1029

Every time I’ve gotten a BFP it was pretty early!

....oh wait. 

marebear15

Of course someone with all negative OPKs would get KU...

BumpAdmin

This thread has been closed. Please do not post pictures of your pregnancy test and ask the Community if you are pregnant. Instead, please visit our 1st Trimester board to discuss early possible pregnancy symptoms and the thread pinned to the top of this board called, “What does a positive pregnancy test really look like?” where members are permitted to display their pregnancy tests.

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