I've been dying to reply to this all weekend but the bump app has been weird.
My office mate made the comment on Friday "I'm so glad you are eating again!" when I had a sandwich for lunch. I've not talked to her much about the pregnancy and only disclosed because I felt bad constantly puking into my trash bin lol....we aren't that close otherwise... So I immediately got prickly over the idea I was being watched. I also have a history of disordered eating so it was incredibly triggering. Like, fuck off, you aren't my mom. Or my therapist.
If anyone likes to read and is looking for a laugh and maybe some solutions to people with opinions... I would recommend checking out "Good Manners for Nice People Who Sometimes Say F*ck" by Amy Alkon. It's science humor about etiquette and how to deal with assholes (accidental and not). I really enjoyed it and it's coming in handy now!