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May 2018 - FET

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Re: May 2018 - FET

  • @greenhillgirl LOL @ your mom! That sounds like something my mom would say. Have fun at the spa today!! I think cramps sound like a good thing! I never got them with PIO, so got my FX for you :) 
    TTC #1 since April 2015
    June 2016 - CP
    2017 - Medicated Cycles & IUI's
    IVF w/ PGS  - January 2018
    FET #1 - April 2018 - BFN
    ERA Cycle May / June 2018
    ERA Biopsy June 2018 ~ Results: receptive (no change)
    FET #2 - July 2018 - BFP <3 Beta #1 - 137 Beta #2 - 410
    U/S #1 7wk1d - HB 144 U/S #2 9w1d HB 166
    Anatomy Scan 1st 11/2/18 2nd AS 11/19
    EDD March 28, 2019
    Baby Girl born 3/26/19  <3



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  • Ugh I got so motion sick on the bus I puked in a trash can on Fifth Avenue. Then I was okay for a few hours then I got super nauseous right as I finished brunch. I’m pretty sure it’s wayyy to early for that to be a pregnancy thing. I also have really bad cramps even when I take Tylenol. Some of them are worse than PMS type cramps. Could something be wrong with me or just extreme PIO side effects?
  • @greenhillgirl i'm gonna take those as PG signs!! :DDD one can hope!
    me: 37 dh: 42; TTC since Jan 2016
    dx: PCOS, low progesterone; 2 MMC
    Sept FET 2018 Spreadsheet
    3 failed IUIs (clomid + ovidrel), unresponsive to femara
    Jan 2 2018 - 1st IVF cycle - 9 retrieved, 7 mature/fertilized, 1 5d transfer + 5 untested snowbabies
    Jan 19 2018 - Fresh Transfer #1 one 5dt; BFP 1/25/2018; EDD 10/7/2018; MMC at 8w3d; D&C 3/6/2018
    May 16 2018 - FET #1 one 5dt; BFP with 4 betas (6.5, 24.3, 165.5, 2250) - EDD 2/1/2019; MMC at 6w; D&C 6/20/18
    Sept 17 2018 - FET #2 one 5dt; BFP 38.9 7dpt, 167 9dpt - EDD 6/5/2019  
    (3 untested embryos remain)


  • @greenhillgirl I'm also saying that PG signs!! Maybe your HCG is kicking in from implantation :) I'm sorry you're having to deal with the side effects. I've never had progesterone do that, but since you've had a FET before...did this happen that time too?

    @roisis Yay for your cycle starting!!! That's exciting! 
    TTC #1 since April 2015
    June 2016 - CP
    2017 - Medicated Cycles & IUI's
    IVF w/ PGS  - January 2018
    FET #1 - April 2018 - BFN
    ERA Cycle May / June 2018
    ERA Biopsy June 2018 ~ Results: receptive (no change)
    FET #2 - July 2018 - BFP <3 Beta #1 - 137 Beta #2 - 410
    U/S #1 7wk1d - HB 144 U/S #2 9w1d HB 166
    Anatomy Scan 1st 11/2/18 2nd AS 11/19
    EDD March 28, 2019
    Baby Girl born 3/26/19  <3



  • OrlaaOrlaa member
    @greenhillgirl Sorry to hear you're feeling sick, hopefully it's a good sign though. Fingers crossed for you! 

    @roisis Yay for CD1! So happy for you, I know you've had a long wait, you must be delighted  :)

    @ndz2018 I hope you sorted things out with your DH, the added stress is the last thing you need in the middle of all this. 

    AFM I have my first beta next Tuesday but I'm going to POAS at the weekend as realistically I won't be able to resist.  I didn't do a trigger so I don't have to worry about it causing false positives.  
    I feel completely normal,  still very early of course. 
    I'm 34, SO 39
    TTC since July 2015
    Unexplained infertility - delayed/weak ovulation but don't know why
    BFP Feb 2016 MC at 6.5 weeks
    Started Clomid November 2016
    BFP March 2017 (third cycle on Clomid) HCG failed to rise, MC at 6 weeks.
    IUI July 2017 BFP which turned out to be CP
    IVF scheduled for Feb 2018

  • Thanks, all. I think its just a huge surge of hormones from the PIO or Estrogen. I can remember this happening before, although I can't remember when. It's like all of the sudden every single classic pregnancy symptom hits me way too early as one of those level reaches a certain threshold. I don't usually get motion sickness unless I have an empty stomach but all of these symptoms just hit at once yesterday so I know its too much to be real this early. Nausea, sore boobs, insomnia, increased sense of smell, back pain- like all within a few hours of each other. Was it before my retrieval or during an IUI cycle? I've been fooled too many times! I'm trying to remember that doesn't necessarily mean I'm NOT pregnant either.   It's just neutral. The one that seems positive is my consistent cramps that I have never had before during TWW and didn't have last transfer. Sigh. 

    roisis I'm glad you finally got your period. Waiting can truly take forever.  

    Orlaa What day will you POAS? I'm tempted to this cycle, tbh.

    What else is happening this Monday? Please distract me from my own insanity, ladies. 6dp6dt and 3 days from beta. 
  • @greenhillgirl didn’t realize it was only 6dpt. I think I had my first beta around then last time and was at 20 wish may not register on some HPT. By 10dpt, I had severe migraine and low back pain. Definitely diff symptoms then when I had faker pg symptoms with all past cycles. The hormones def can be the culprit but still hoping it’s a interaction with building hcg. 

    @roisis wahoo! Yay for af finally rearing her ugly head! My clinic is pretty hands off for Fet. Looks like my transfer date isn’t until Cd21! Which seems way late. But first lining check tomorrow... so looking forward to update, but not PIO!

    But youre in the same boat, right @ndz2018? I forget If your cycle was natural or medicated. How are you feeling for tomorrow? Hopefully in better place with DH. 

    @singlegeneme your due for a checkup soon, right? How’re things?
    me: 37 dh: 42; TTC since Jan 2016
    dx: PCOS, low progesterone; 2 MMC
    Sept FET 2018 Spreadsheet
    3 failed IUIs (clomid + ovidrel), unresponsive to femara
    Jan 2 2018 - 1st IVF cycle - 9 retrieved, 7 mature/fertilized, 1 5d transfer + 5 untested snowbabies
    Jan 19 2018 - Fresh Transfer #1 one 5dt; BFP 1/25/2018; EDD 10/7/2018; MMC at 8w3d; D&C 3/6/2018
    May 16 2018 - FET #1 one 5dt; BFP with 4 betas (6.5, 24.3, 165.5, 2250) - EDD 2/1/2019; MMC at 6w; D&C 6/20/18
    Sept 17 2018 - FET #2 one 5dt; BFP 38.9 7dpt, 167 9dpt - EDD 6/5/2019  
    (3 untested embryos remain)


  • OrlaaOrlaa member
    @greenhillgirl I think I'll try a frer on Saturday which will be 8dpt. If it's negative I'd like to have the weekend to feel sad about it.
    I know that if it's positive there's still a chance of a CP but it'll be the same if I have a positive beta - I'll always have that worry that the numbers could drop.
    I'm 34, SO 39
    TTC since July 2015
    Unexplained infertility - delayed/weak ovulation but don't know why
    BFP Feb 2016 MC at 6.5 weeks
    Started Clomid November 2016
    BFP March 2017 (third cycle on Clomid) HCG failed to rise, MC at 6 weeks.
    IUI July 2017 BFP which turned out to be CP
    IVF scheduled for Feb 2018

  • @greenhillgirl It's impossible not to wonder about symptoms. Kudos to you for not testing! That's so great to have your beta on a Friday....I always have mine on a Monday for some reason, and then it's such a downer to go back to work for 4 more days after a negative result. Friday is also a great day to celebrate a positive result!

    @orlaa I always cave by 7dp5dt and test, even though each of my transfers has ended in a c/p. I love analyzing an HPT line. I wish that I could just hold out for my beta!

    @northbeach3 I don't have any more checkups before my transfer on Friday. I'm already dreading the stress of the 2ww. I've started my PIO shots, which aren't fun at all. I'm already getting heartburn from the progesterone.
    Me: 33, DH: 33
    Met: 2009
    Married: 2015
    Gene Testing: April/May 2016
    Straight to IVF for autosomal dominant genetic disorder (50% of all embryos)
    ER#1 : Sept 2016 - 46 eggs retrieved - 17 blastocysts for PGD & PGS testing - only 1 normal
    ER#2 : Nov 2016 - 61 eggs retrieved - 16 blastocysts for PGD & PGS testing - 5 normal!
    FET#1: Jan 2017 - c/p
    FET#2: Feb 2017 - c/p
    Natural Pregnancy: July 2017 - TFMR Nov 2017
    FET#3: March 2018 - c/p
    FET#4: May 2018

    singlegenescene.wordpress.com
  • mrsyngmrsyng member
    @greenhillgirl no pressure but test test test! Lol. Hopefully those symptoms do mean BFP! You’re doing pretty well on holding out..

    @roisis so glad AF finally showed!! 

    @Orlaa FX that the FRER is positive this Saturday!! Can’t wait for your test! 

    @SingleGeneMe good luck with the transfer this Friday!!

    afm, has last letrazole dose this morning and had my 1st gonal-f tonight. Only 4 more days until lining check and if all goes well we will trigger and FET will be soon to follow! It’s coming up quickly! 
  • Happy transfer day @ndz2018!! Thinking of you tomorrow. Hope it’s a happy day for you and DH. 
    me: 37 dh: 42; TTC since Jan 2016
    dx: PCOS, low progesterone; 2 MMC
    Sept FET 2018 Spreadsheet
    3 failed IUIs (clomid + ovidrel), unresponsive to femara
    Jan 2 2018 - 1st IVF cycle - 9 retrieved, 7 mature/fertilized, 1 5d transfer + 5 untested snowbabies
    Jan 19 2018 - Fresh Transfer #1 one 5dt; BFP 1/25/2018; EDD 10/7/2018; MMC at 8w3d; D&C 3/6/2018
    May 16 2018 - FET #1 one 5dt; BFP with 4 betas (6.5, 24.3, 165.5, 2250) - EDD 2/1/2019; MMC at 6w; D&C 6/20/18
    Sept 17 2018 - FET #2 one 5dt; BFP 38.9 7dpt, 167 9dpt - EDD 6/5/2019  
    (3 untested embryos remain)


  • @singlegeneme yeah I think I’m starting PIO tomorrow after my first lining check. I’m set for Monday transfer a few days after you. 

    @kristimh80 did I see in another thread that your clinic also does medicated FET transfers on CD21? I think my clinic runs the same duration. I guess that’s normal then? I was worried it was late. 
    me: 37 dh: 42; TTC since Jan 2016
    dx: PCOS, low progesterone; 2 MMC
    Sept FET 2018 Spreadsheet
    3 failed IUIs (clomid + ovidrel), unresponsive to femara
    Jan 2 2018 - 1st IVF cycle - 9 retrieved, 7 mature/fertilized, 1 5d transfer + 5 untested snowbabies
    Jan 19 2018 - Fresh Transfer #1 one 5dt; BFP 1/25/2018; EDD 10/7/2018; MMC at 8w3d; D&C 3/6/2018
    May 16 2018 - FET #1 one 5dt; BFP with 4 betas (6.5, 24.3, 165.5, 2250) - EDD 2/1/2019; MMC at 6w; D&C 6/20/18
    Sept 17 2018 - FET #2 one 5dt; BFP 38.9 7dpt, 167 9dpt - EDD 6/5/2019  
    (3 untested embryos remain)


  • tosh24tosh24 member
    HAPPY TRANSFER DAY @ndz2018!!!!! Thinking all the sticky thoughts for you!!!
    Me: 35 I DH: 38
    *TW loss and children mentioned*
    DD:2006 | Dx: Unexplained Secondary Infertility | DS: 2011

    TFAS since 2012

    Oct 16: Spontaneous BFP | m/c @ 9w1d (massive SCH) | D&C
    Apr 17: IUI #1 = BFN
    May 17: IUI #2 = BFN
    Jun 17: IUI #3 = Late BFP (18 DPO) | NMC 17Jul17 @ ~6w
    Aug 17: IUI #4 = Cancelled due to premature ovulation | TI = BFN
    Sep 17: IUI #5 = Cancelled due to overstimulation (10+ follies)
    Nov 17: IVF #1 = Cancelled due to non-IF related health issue | TI = BFN
    Dec 17: IVF #1 = Puregon 200, Menopur 75, Orgalutran, Suprefact trigger due to OHSS risk | 22R, 18M, 16F, 10B frozen  
    Feb 18: FET #1 (medicated) = BFN
    Mar 18: FET #2 (natural cycle) = CP (beta 1: 54; beta 2: 0)
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = cancelled due to missed ovulation
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = BFP! Beta 1: 201  Beta 2: 585 Beta 3: 3254 Beta 4: 9715 U/S 19May - one bean measuring on track with a HB of 125!
    EDD: 07Jan2019 Team Green
    My Rainbow Baby Boy born 03Jan2019 <3 

  • @ndz2018 Happy Transfer Day !!! So happy your day is finally here!! Sending good luck baby dust your way
    TTC #1 since April 2015
    June 2016 - CP
    2017 - Medicated Cycles & IUI's
    IVF w/ PGS  - January 2018
    FET #1 - April 2018 - BFN
    ERA Cycle May / June 2018
    ERA Biopsy June 2018 ~ Results: receptive (no change)
    FET #2 - July 2018 - BFP <3 Beta #1 - 137 Beta #2 - 410
    U/S #1 7wk1d - HB 144 U/S #2 9w1d HB 166
    Anatomy Scan 1st 11/2/18 2nd AS 11/19
    EDD March 28, 2019
    Baby Girl born 3/26/19  <3



  • **lurking**
    @ndz2018 OMG!!! Everything crossed for you!!! Please let us know how everything goes (pics if you got em!)

  • tosh24tosh24 member
    @greenhillgirl Congrats!!!! I've been lurking and saw your post about being sick when out with your mom. About a week after my transfer I felt super sick for about 12 hours - severe nausea, bowels grumbling, felt chilled and had a really low grade fever, and really bad uterine cramping that shot down my legs - and then it all disappeared as fast as it came on (well, the cramping was still on and off). The next day I got my BFP. So, maybe there was something to you feeling sick the other day! FX for great betas!
    Me: 35 I DH: 38
    *TW loss and children mentioned*
    DD:2006 | Dx: Unexplained Secondary Infertility | DS: 2011

    TFAS since 2012

    Oct 16: Spontaneous BFP | m/c @ 9w1d (massive SCH) | D&C
    Apr 17: IUI #1 = BFN
    May 17: IUI #2 = BFN
    Jun 17: IUI #3 = Late BFP (18 DPO) | NMC 17Jul17 @ ~6w
    Aug 17: IUI #4 = Cancelled due to premature ovulation | TI = BFN
    Sep 17: IUI #5 = Cancelled due to overstimulation (10+ follies)
    Nov 17: IVF #1 = Cancelled due to non-IF related health issue | TI = BFN
    Dec 17: IVF #1 = Puregon 200, Menopur 75, Orgalutran, Suprefact trigger due to OHSS risk | 22R, 18M, 16F, 10B frozen  
    Feb 18: FET #1 (medicated) = BFN
    Mar 18: FET #2 (natural cycle) = CP (beta 1: 54; beta 2: 0)
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = cancelled due to missed ovulation
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = BFP! Beta 1: 201  Beta 2: 585 Beta 3: 3254 Beta 4: 9715 U/S 19May - one bean measuring on track with a HB of 125!
    EDD: 07Jan2019 Team Green
    My Rainbow Baby Boy born 03Jan2019 <3 

  • roisisroisis member
    @ndz2018 Wishing you all the sticky vibes today <3<3 How did you get on?

    @greenhillgirl Yay - that is sooo exciting! I'm so so so delighted for you <3<3<3
    **History in Spoiler**
    Me 39, DH 40
    Married Oct 2010, TTC ~7yrs
    Seeing RE since Spring 2013
    Clomid - no response
    Letrozole (6 months) 2015 
    Laperoscopy/Hysteroscopy in 2015
    Puregon injectibles + trigger x5 in 2016 - all BFN
    Started IVF March 2017 - 25 follies, 9 eggs, 3 fertilised, 1 survived-> frozen due to hyper stimulation of ovaries
    FET May 16th 2017, BFP May 27th 2017, m/c @ 9wks
    IVF #2 February 2018 - 16 eggs, 8 fertilised, 3 frozen embabies
    Awaiting FET April 2018 - cancelled (cyst)
    FET May 2018, BFP June 2nd 2018, m/c @ 8wks
    FET October 2018 - BFN
    Final FET - late November 2018


  • OrlaaOrlaa member
    @greenhillgirl Congratulations! So happy for you!  How are you feeling?? Did you tell your DH? Best of luck with the beta <3:)

    @ndz2018 Happy transfer day!
    I'm 34, SO 39
    TTC since July 2015
    Unexplained infertility - delayed/weak ovulation but don't know why
    BFP Feb 2016 MC at 6.5 weeks
    Started Clomid November 2016
    BFP March 2017 (third cycle on Clomid) HCG failed to rise, MC at 6 weeks.
    IUI July 2017 BFP which turned out to be CP
    IVF scheduled for Feb 2018

  • @greenhillgirl YAY!!! Happy for you! Good to know your little bout of sickness was worth it :)
    TTC #1 since April 2015
    June 2016 - CP
    2017 - Medicated Cycles & IUI's
    IVF w/ PGS  - January 2018
    FET #1 - April 2018 - BFN
    ERA Cycle May / June 2018
    ERA Biopsy June 2018 ~ Results: receptive (no change)
    FET #2 - July 2018 - BFP <3 Beta #1 - 137 Beta #2 - 410
    U/S #1 7wk1d - HB 144 U/S #2 9w1d HB 166
    Anatomy Scan 1st 11/2/18 2nd AS 11/19
    EDD March 28, 2019
    Baby Girl born 3/26/19  <3



  • @greenhillgirl oh happy day! So glad you caved!! :))) way to kick the May board off. Let’s hope it kicks off a domino effect of BFPs. Fx for rising betas and uneventful PG! First BFP, relish in it! ❤️❤️❤️
    me: 37 dh: 42; TTC since Jan 2016
    dx: PCOS, low progesterone; 2 MMC
    Sept FET 2018 Spreadsheet
    3 failed IUIs (clomid + ovidrel), unresponsive to femara
    Jan 2 2018 - 1st IVF cycle - 9 retrieved, 7 mature/fertilized, 1 5d transfer + 5 untested snowbabies
    Jan 19 2018 - Fresh Transfer #1 one 5dt; BFP 1/25/2018; EDD 10/7/2018; MMC at 8w3d; D&C 3/6/2018
    May 16 2018 - FET #1 one 5dt; BFP with 4 betas (6.5, 24.3, 165.5, 2250) - EDD 2/1/2019; MMC at 6w; D&C 6/20/18
    Sept 17 2018 - FET #2 one 5dt; BFP 38.9 7dpt, 167 9dpt - EDD 6/5/2019  
    (3 untested embryos remain)


  • northbeach3northbeach3 member
    edited May 2018
    welp, my lining isn't thick enough... in 7-8 range. :\ more estrogen today, next checkup friday.  transfer postponed by two days until wed 5/16.

    have acupuncture in the morning. any other lining thickening tips?
    me: 37 dh: 42; TTC since Jan 2016
    dx: PCOS, low progesterone; 2 MMC
    Sept FET 2018 Spreadsheet
    3 failed IUIs (clomid + ovidrel), unresponsive to femara
    Jan 2 2018 - 1st IVF cycle - 9 retrieved, 7 mature/fertilized, 1 5d transfer + 5 untested snowbabies
    Jan 19 2018 - Fresh Transfer #1 one 5dt; BFP 1/25/2018; EDD 10/7/2018; MMC at 8w3d; D&C 3/6/2018
    May 16 2018 - FET #1 one 5dt; BFP with 4 betas (6.5, 24.3, 165.5, 2250) - EDD 2/1/2019; MMC at 6w; D&C 6/20/18
    Sept 17 2018 - FET #2 one 5dt; BFP 38.9 7dpt, 167 9dpt - EDD 6/5/2019  
    (3 untested embryos remain)


  • **lurking**
    @northbeach3 Ugh.. I transferred at around 8 (which is thinish but doable)...so it really doesn't have to be suuuper thick for it to work... was it trilaminar? That's really what important.
  • well, he said it was decent, but didn't express super confidence... he didn't mention the trilaminar properties, but i thought i could see a feather pattern... but i'm no u/s tech. haha

    trying to remind myself that the delay is okay since i'm on a medicated cycle.  was just excited to get the show on the road, but guess i'll have a few more days without the dreaded PIO.  
    me: 37 dh: 42; TTC since Jan 2016
    dx: PCOS, low progesterone; 2 MMC
    Sept FET 2018 Spreadsheet
    3 failed IUIs (clomid + ovidrel), unresponsive to femara
    Jan 2 2018 - 1st IVF cycle - 9 retrieved, 7 mature/fertilized, 1 5d transfer + 5 untested snowbabies
    Jan 19 2018 - Fresh Transfer #1 one 5dt; BFP 1/25/2018; EDD 10/7/2018; MMC at 8w3d; D&C 3/6/2018
    May 16 2018 - FET #1 one 5dt; BFP with 4 betas (6.5, 24.3, 165.5, 2250) - EDD 2/1/2019; MMC at 6w; D&C 6/20/18
    Sept 17 2018 - FET #2 one 5dt; BFP 38.9 7dpt, 167 9dpt - EDD 6/5/2019  
    (3 untested embryos remain)


  • @ndz2018 Happy Transfer day!  FX and all the baby dust to you! 

    @roisis Yes! We are cycle buddies :smile:  Headaches have normalized, I'm now thinking it was more barometric pressure changes that were causing them or maybe I've adjusted to the Lupron.  Did you start estrogen already?  

    @greenhillgirl YAY! FX for that sticky bean to stick :smile:

    AFM - baseline E2 yesterday was good so I started Estrace today.  Feeling pretty good, except the AF cramps. 
  • @greenhillgirl Yay! I love hearing good news! 

    @ndz2018 Happy transfer day! I hope it's an exciting AND relaxing day for you :)

    @northbeach3 I didn't do anything different and my lining went from 6.5mm to 8.4mm in 1 extra week of the same protocol. My doctor said that some people just take longer to react to the estrogen. And the delay IS okay, because it's a medicated cycle. 

    @tosh24 Oh, glad you checked in on this board. So happy to hear you had a successful transfer last month!
    Me: 33, DH: 33
    Met: 2009
    Married: 2015
    Gene Testing: April/May 2016
    Straight to IVF for autosomal dominant genetic disorder (50% of all embryos)
    ER#1 : Sept 2016 - 46 eggs retrieved - 17 blastocysts for PGD & PGS testing - only 1 normal
    ER#2 : Nov 2016 - 61 eggs retrieved - 16 blastocysts for PGD & PGS testing - 5 normal!
    FET#1: Jan 2017 - c/p
    FET#2: Feb 2017 - c/p
    Natural Pregnancy: July 2017 - TFMR Nov 2017
    FET#3: March 2018 - c/p
    FET#4: May 2018

    singlegenescene.wordpress.com
  • roisisroisis member
    @northbeach3 Sorry you didn't get the lining result you were hoping for - but it's probably only a minor set-back. Here's hoping the acupuncture and a couple of extra days give you the lovely cozy lining your little one needs <3

    @ASabelko Yay!! I go in for a check next thursday 17th - nothing else before then. And yes I started my estrogen on Day 2 - how about you? I'm taking them before bed - have had reeeeeallly weird dreams the last 2 nights. Has anyone else found that? They are extremely vivid, quite dramatic - borderline scary and more than a tad 'naughty'!! Maybe I should stop reading these vampire books before bed :wink:

    @greenhillgirl Awww - kissing belly - that is so sweet <3<3
    **History in Spoiler**
    Me 39, DH 40
    Married Oct 2010, TTC ~7yrs
    Seeing RE since Spring 2013
    Clomid - no response
    Letrozole (6 months) 2015 
    Laperoscopy/Hysteroscopy in 2015
    Puregon injectibles + trigger x5 in 2016 - all BFN
    Started IVF March 2017 - 25 follies, 9 eggs, 3 fertilised, 1 survived-> frozen due to hyper stimulation of ovaries
    FET May 16th 2017, BFP May 27th 2017, m/c @ 9wks
    IVF #2 February 2018 - 16 eggs, 8 fertilised, 3 frozen embabies
    Awaiting FET April 2018 - cancelled (cyst)
    FET May 2018, BFP June 2nd 2018, m/c @ 8wks
    FET October 2018 - BFN
    Final FET - late November 2018


  • ndz2018ndz2018 member
    edited May 2018
    Aww you Guys!! I really appreciate your kind words.  Sadly we had to put our FET on hold for a bit for many reasons. I would like to thank all of you for your love and support. This was one of the hardest decision I’ve ever had to make and was NOT taken lightly. I am sad and feeling a little bit defeated at the moment but I believe that there is some greater plan for my tiny lil embryo and he’ll be coming home when he is meant to. 
    Know I appreciate Each and every one of you, and will be here to support and cheer you all on... infertility gets a big F U this week. Going to regroup, talk to the Dr and get a plan moving forward. Again mad love for this group and all my bump IF sisters out there! You all amaze me with your strengths and courage on a daily basis and NO MATTER what stands in your way You FIGHT... that is what makes you rise above it all!  <3<3<3<3
  • roisisroisis member
    @ndz2018 Oh no, I'm so sorry to hear that. That must be so disheartening :disappointed: As you say though, there is a greater plan going on and you need to be in the best possible situation to bring your little embryo home. Best of luck in making a new plan with your Dr. You've had a long road with this ivf cycle. This IF battle just keeps kicking us down but as you say we are going to keep getting up and keep fighting. Keep your heart up - we are all here for you (pm me if you'd like to chat) <3<3<3
    **History in Spoiler**
    Me 39, DH 40
    Married Oct 2010, TTC ~7yrs
    Seeing RE since Spring 2013
    Clomid - no response
    Letrozole (6 months) 2015 
    Laperoscopy/Hysteroscopy in 2015
    Puregon injectibles + trigger x5 in 2016 - all BFN
    Started IVF March 2017 - 25 follies, 9 eggs, 3 fertilised, 1 survived-> frozen due to hyper stimulation of ovaries
    FET May 16th 2017, BFP May 27th 2017, m/c @ 9wks
    IVF #2 February 2018 - 16 eggs, 8 fertilised, 3 frozen embabies
    Awaiting FET April 2018 - cancelled (cyst)
    FET May 2018, BFP June 2nd 2018, m/c @ 8wks
    FET October 2018 - BFN
    Final FET - late November 2018


  • mrsyngmrsyng member
    @ndz2018 I’m so sorry to hear!! It’s unfortunate but when the time isn’t right, it just isn’t. But you will definitely get that thb when the timing is perfect! IF is such a difficult road, remember that you are also a strong woman!!! Hopefully, you will get a solid plan and be able to resolve whatever hiccup that came into your way this time around! Sending you tons of hugs & love!!
  • I'm so sorry ndz2018 that must be so difficult since you got so close. But if you are not in the best place physically and mentally (and you've had so much going on lately, too) it can be a good thing to wait. I'm sure you're disappointed and disheartened but it sounds like you're comfortable with your decision. Feel free to stay on and chat with us if you like about anything and everything. Just because you aren't doing the FET right now doesn't mean we can't be supportive!
  • tosh24tosh24 member
    Shit. I'm so sorry @ndz2018. I'm sure you're feeling so many emotions right now. Just know that your little embaby WILL come home when the time is right. You've had so much going on lately and I know how much delays suck, but you are super strong and you got this. I hope you and your doctor are able to come up with a plan that works for you and you're able to move forward again when you feel ready.  Thinking of you <3
    Me: 35 I DH: 38
    *TW loss and children mentioned*
    DD:2006 | Dx: Unexplained Secondary Infertility | DS: 2011

    TFAS since 2012

    Oct 16: Spontaneous BFP | m/c @ 9w1d (massive SCH) | D&C
    Apr 17: IUI #1 = BFN
    May 17: IUI #2 = BFN
    Jun 17: IUI #3 = Late BFP (18 DPO) | NMC 17Jul17 @ ~6w
    Aug 17: IUI #4 = Cancelled due to premature ovulation | TI = BFN
    Sep 17: IUI #5 = Cancelled due to overstimulation (10+ follies)
    Nov 17: IVF #1 = Cancelled due to non-IF related health issue | TI = BFN
    Dec 17: IVF #1 = Puregon 200, Menopur 75, Orgalutran, Suprefact trigger due to OHSS risk | 22R, 18M, 16F, 10B frozen  
    Feb 18: FET #1 (medicated) = BFN
    Mar 18: FET #2 (natural cycle) = CP (beta 1: 54; beta 2: 0)
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = cancelled due to missed ovulation
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = BFP! Beta 1: 201  Beta 2: 585 Beta 3: 3254 Beta 4: 9715 U/S 19May - one bean measuring on track with a HB of 125!
    EDD: 07Jan2019 Team Green
    My Rainbow Baby Boy born 03Jan2019 <3 

  • Major bummer @ndz2018 but I’m sure the decision wasn’t made lightly. We’ll be here cheering you on when it’s time for your next transfer. Thank you for your continued words of encouragement and support. 

    AFM, thanks everyone for the reassurance about the delay being ok on a medicated cycle. Fortunately our semester just ended so my schedule is much more flexible next week and the change will now allow me to attend one more event where I can have a glass of wine. Haha ;) trying to maintain patience :)

    one more ore day til beta green hill! Fx!!!!



    me: 37 dh: 42; TTC since Jan 2016
    dx: PCOS, low progesterone; 2 MMC
    Sept FET 2018 Spreadsheet
    3 failed IUIs (clomid + ovidrel), unresponsive to femara
    Jan 2 2018 - 1st IVF cycle - 9 retrieved, 7 mature/fertilized, 1 5d transfer + 5 untested snowbabies
    Jan 19 2018 - Fresh Transfer #1 one 5dt; BFP 1/25/2018; EDD 10/7/2018; MMC at 8w3d; D&C 3/6/2018
    May 16 2018 - FET #1 one 5dt; BFP with 4 betas (6.5, 24.3, 165.5, 2250) - EDD 2/1/2019; MMC at 6w; D&C 6/20/18
    Sept 17 2018 - FET #2 one 5dt; BFP 38.9 7dpt, 167 9dpt - EDD 6/5/2019  
    (3 untested embryos remain)


  • Thanks! northbeach3 I told my mom right after I told DH and he said it was ok cause she's know about our struggles for about a year. I sent her a pic. She was like, "oh honey, I hope for your sake the doctor says you are pregnant" and apparently she thought I just thought I could be pregnant. Lol like imagine if I'd text her every time I thought I could be pregnant in the last 3 years of trying!?!  :s Then we realized she didn't know home pregnancy tests were reliable and don't often (ever?) give false positives. She said in the 1970's they didn't have that. I mean I do realize *TW*

    a chemical or miscarriage is possible but like please don't bet on it mom thanks.  #communication. Sigh. Now I'm extra nervous about beta tomorrow. :( 
  • ndz2018ndz2018 member
    Thank you so much for the bottom of my heart! I have million emotions going on and I’m sure the drop in hormones for stopping meds is not helping those emotions. Took off again today just to kinda be, take some me time. 

    @greenhillgirl FX for your beta tomorrow!!! Sometimes our parents can be a little naive when it comes treatment.


  • @ndz2018 I'm so sorry that your transfer got cancelled. It's so important to feel like you have an optimal womb to put that embryo in, so I hope you can do one soon. I love that you took another day off. I am getting better at taking days off during the IVF process for emotional sick days. It's important!

    @greenhillgirl Excited for your beta tomorrow! My mom isn't alive, but I refuse to tell my dad anything about my IVF process anymore. He had some very negative reactions in the beginning, and it's too emotional of a time to not hear exactly what you want to hear!
    Me: 33, DH: 33
    Met: 2009
    Married: 2015
    Gene Testing: April/May 2016
    Straight to IVF for autosomal dominant genetic disorder (50% of all embryos)
    ER#1 : Sept 2016 - 46 eggs retrieved - 17 blastocysts for PGD & PGS testing - only 1 normal
    ER#2 : Nov 2016 - 61 eggs retrieved - 16 blastocysts for PGD & PGS testing - 5 normal!
    FET#1: Jan 2017 - c/p
    FET#2: Feb 2017 - c/p
    Natural Pregnancy: July 2017 - TFMR Nov 2017
    FET#3: March 2018 - c/p
    FET#4: May 2018

    singlegenescene.wordpress.com
  • ndz2018  Glad you took time off. Be kind to yourself during this withdrawal from hormones. I find the stopping them suddenly can cause me more physical and emotional side effects than starting them. As I've mentioned on other posts, from IUI that triggered my chemical depression. I realize most people don't deal with that, but do take care of yourself and keep an eye out for your feelings. 
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