May 2016 Moms

**The Everything Random Thread for May 2016**

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Re: **The Everything Random Thread for May 2016**

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  • Just realised that my DH will need to change the way he 'games'. I am not sure what the hell is going on in his game, but he just let loose an indecent amount of swear words. I find it hilarious, but it probably won't be so funny when baby's first word is something nasty...
    I tell DH this all the time. He swears like a sailor when something in the game messes up. He just laughs at me and says he won't once the baby is born. Hoping it's as easy for him to stop as he says
  • yogahh said:
    I was gonna start a fun thread, but am too lazy...is anyone making a labor playlist? Now that Lemonade is on Itunes, I think I will just listen to that on repeat. But I saw this and it made me think; what funny songs would you add?

    https://momquery.com/22-songs-for-labor-and-delivery/
    We made playlists for both deliveries. I find it really helpful for setting the mood and getting me in the right frame of mind. I tend to focus on the music more than the counting during pushing. Both times the L&D nurses commented on the calm atmosphere, it's not zen spa music but the volume is low and we usually keep it on during skin to skin too. The latest one featured a lot of Prince but had a good variety - Bieber made it on, my stand by Lana del Rey, and the Ryan Adams Taylor Swift cover album. 
  • yogahh said:
    I ordered a chicken cutlet sandwich for lunch. Their description did NOT state mayo. Well it came with mayo. I don't eat mayo (gross). I also ordered sea salt chips. They sent salt and vinegar. I almost burst into tears when I saw what they sent. I never thought I would cry over food.... But I was a trooper and ate it. Baby likes mayo it seems. 
    I'm with you on mayo. That sh!t is disgusting. But then, I feel the same way about trashy Bravo TV, so...

    The other day (Jimmy Johns customer appreciation day) DH went out to get us lunch and forgot my "no mayo" admonition. I couldn't even get mad because I am living in a hospital dorm room with limited time for eating - usually while pumping.
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    babyfmama said:
    JoMunson said:
    Spontaneously attempted to shave my pubes at 38 weeks...I can't even tell if it looks bad.
    this made me laugh... I did some at home grooming a week ago and DH started calling me "patches." 
    Hahaha same. I tried a week or so ago and DH was like "great, now you've got a landing strip." Lol it's hard when you can't see anything!
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    Just realised that my DH will need to change the way he 'games'. I am not sure what the hell is going on in his game, but he just let loose an indecent amount of swear words. I find it hilarious, but it probably won't be so funny when baby's first word is something nasty...
    Yes. I keep telling DH this. Not only when he games but just when he thinks something is stupid (whatever it may be at the time). He has two other LOs, so I think he can manage it, I just wish he would start working on it now. 
  • Hugs @khochanadel. During DS's first week I spilled pumped milk in the middle of the night and I cried so hard that DH woke up startled and thought something was wrong with DS. I can't even imagine how frustrating it was for twice that amount. Maybe try a power pump to get your body to produce a little extra temporarily to make it up. You're doing so well for your girls regardless! 
  • I'm really starting to get annoyed at my appointments. It's the same thing every week now. Check my urine - no protein on the test strip. No headaches, changes in vision, abdominal pain, etc. Check my BP - of course it's high, bc you know I'm constantly worried it's going to be high now and I'm sure that doesn't help. Talk to the midwife and explain again that when I take it at home my BP is fine... Chill a little bit, take it again. It went down a little bit. Check babies heartbeat, check it again. It went down more, but they want me to sit again and see if it continues to go down. So sit in a dark room for 15 mins and it goes down more and I can finally go. Then of course a completely different nurse took it and says she hopes we don't see those numbers again. Bc that helps my anxiety about it for next time. And I want to say 'Of course they'll be high next time, bc you all keep stressing me out about it.'

    For the rest of my appointments though I've decided to work from home those days and 'chill' before we leave so hopefully it helps. This week though I'm using the BP monitor at home everyday and tracking it for them to hopefully speed up the process at my appointments from now on... Hopefully I just have the next 2 left. I know they're just doing their job, it just makes it hard for me when I get different people every time and I have to explain myself again and again. Bleh. 
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    kbrands7 said:
    @TXmamatobe Yes! Not to mention that inevitably halfway through the shopping trip DS or I, or both of us have to pee! I have managed to keep him away from the car carts for now though...
    Yes!!!! Or we just get in the line to pay..."I need to go potty"...  :|
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  • swflJD said:
    My sister had my niece in November, so this will be her first Mother's Day.  Since a lot of the family focus around that time will be on my impending delivery, I don't want her big milestone to be completely overshadowed by that. I know my BIL will try to make it special for her, but I really want to get her something memorable, too.  I got her a citrine (one of the November birthstones) necklace for Christmas, so I would like to get her a keepsake other than jewelry.  I've been brainstorming, but I can't come up with anything?  You ladies are creative.  Any suggestions?
    Has she had any "wish" items you've heard her mention like "Oh I wish I had this bc it would be helpful when LO does this" type things? I'd say a post post partum basket (bc who ever gets those?!) would be nice. For her, this seems to be the time when everyone disappears anyways (the new has worn off) so maybe the basket may renew her feeling and remembering she is still celebrated as a new mom? I'd pack it with snacks, books, movies, pedicure/manicure items (for when LO is napping), a binder, clothes appropriate for changing weather (tank tops?...If it's about to be summer where you are), etc. Hope this helps!
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  • Anyone else who has 85+ degree weather right now....I just fixed an ice cold arnold palmer...Holy moses it's ridiculously refreshing. You should try it.
    In the summer we make these with sweet tea vodka and call it a John Daly  :#. Both sound delicious right now. 
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  • Anyone else who has 85+ degree weather right now....I just fixed an ice cold arnold palmer...Holy moses it's ridiculously refreshing. You should try it.
    In the summer we make these with sweet tea vodka and call it a John Daly  :#. Both sound delicious right now. 
    I enjoy a nice cold John Daly when I golf!  They can sure sneak up on you. :smile: 
  • js8812 said:
    Anyone else who has 85+ degree weather right now....I just fixed an ice cold arnold palmer...Holy moses it's ridiculously refreshing. You should try it.
    In the summer we make these with sweet tea vodka and call it a John Daly  :#. Both sound delicious right now. 
    I enjoy a nice cold John Daly when I golf!  They can sure sneak up on you. :smile: 
    Firefly vodka with water and lemon...OMG. Those definitely sneak up on you too.
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  • dsmith211 said:
    I'm really starting to get annoyed at my appointments. It's the same thing every week now. Check my urine - no protein on the test strip. No headaches, changes in vision, abdominal pain, etc. Check my BP - of course it's high, bc you know I'm constantly worried it's going to be high now and I'm sure that doesn't help. Talk to the midwife and explain again that when I take it at home my BP is fine... Chill a little bit, take it again. It went down a little bit. Check babies heartbeat, check it again. It went down more, but they want me to sit again and see if it continues to go down. So sit in a dark room for 15 mins and it goes down more and I can finally go. Then of course a completely different nurse took it and says she hopes we don't see those numbers again. Bc that helps my anxiety about it for next time. And I want to say 'Of course they'll be high next time, bc you all keep stressing me out about it.'

    For the rest of my appointments though I've decided to work from home those days and 'chill' before we leave so hopefully it helps. This week though I'm using the BP monitor at home everyday and tracking it for them to hopefully speed up the process at my appointments from now on... Hopefully I just have the next 2 left. I know they're just doing their job, it just makes it hard for me when I get different people every time and I have to explain myself again and again. Bleh. 
    Ugh, this keeps happening to me, too! Monday they made me go to L&D for monitoring and more tests. Of course as soon as I get the hospital, my blood pressure dropped down to normal. 

    I'm planning on getting to my appointments 20-30 minutes early and laying down in an extra room for awhile. Last thing I want is to be labeled with hypertension and possibly be induced early for no good reason!
  • dsmith211 said:
    I'm really starting to get annoyed at my appointments. It's the same thing every week now. Check my urine - no protein on the test strip. No headaches, changes in vision, abdominal pain, etc. Check my BP - of course it's high, bc you know I'm constantly worried it's going to be high now and I'm sure that doesn't help. Talk to the midwife and explain again that when I take it at home my BP is fine... Chill a little bit, take it again. It went down a little bit. Check babies heartbeat, check it again. It went down more, but they want me to sit again and see if it continues to go down. So sit in a dark room for 15 mins and it goes down more and I can finally go. Then of course a completely different nurse took it and says she hopes we don't see those numbers again. Bc that helps my anxiety about it for next time. And I want to say 'Of course they'll be high next time, bc you all keep stressing me out about it.'

    For the rest of my appointments though I've decided to work from home those days and 'chill' before we leave so hopefully it helps. This week though I'm using the BP monitor at home everyday and tracking it for them to hopefully speed up the process at my appointments from now on... Hopefully I just have the next 2 left. I know they're just doing their job, it just makes it hard for me when I get different people every time and I have to explain myself again and again. Bleh. 
    Ugh, this keeps happening to me, too! Monday they made me go to L&D for monitoring and more tests. Of course as soon as I get the hospital, my blood pressure dropped down to normal. 

    I'm planning on getting to my appointments 20-30 minutes early and laying down in an extra room for awhile. Last thing I want is to be labeled with hypertension and possibly be induced early for no good reason!
    Exactly! In my case it seems they've calmed down a little about mentioning induction, but I don't want this to keep happening and then have to be induced at 40 weeks just bc. If I end up 'needing' an induction I can't have the baby at the birth center and have to go to the hospital down the road and while not the end of the world I feel like I've gotten this far and it would kinda suck to have something stupid like this ruin it at the end. I feel like if it weren't such a process each time I went then it would be better and I kind of explained that to the midwife... maybe having my appointment time, then chilling for like 15 mins and then taking my BP. I don't think it's going to matter though and they're just going to give me the runaround each time.
  • This is the third time I've showed up at the birth center for the wrong time
  • Why can't people just do what they say they're going to do? I messaged a seller on etsy yesterday bc I ordered something 2 weeks ago today and hadn't heard anything about it.  It's a custom wall decal for the nursery and the store did say allow 1 to 2 weeks for shipping. I get that. I planned for 2 weeks. That's fine. They messaged me back yesterday and said everything was good and it would be shipped today.

    Well unless they just 'forgot' to update the status or the website is sucking then they obviously did not ship it today. I was hoping to have it for this weekend specifically to get it on the wall... Not the end of the world, but I figured since I spent a lot on this then I would at least get it in time. DH said its ok if it takes a little longer and that he would make sure it got up, I just don't like paying for something and someone not following through.

    Also, I have way too many rants today. I think I just need to go home and go to bed.
  • dsmith211 said:
    I'm really starting to get annoyed at my appointments. It's the same thing every week now. Check my urine - no protein on the test strip. No headaches, changes in vision, abdominal pain, etc. Check my BP - of course it's high, bc you know I'm constantly worried it's going to be high now and I'm sure that doesn't help. Talk to the midwife and explain again that when I take it at home my BP is fine... Chill a little bit, take it again. It went down a little bit. Check babies heartbeat, check it again. It went down more, but they want me to sit again and see if it continues to go down. So sit in a dark room for 15 mins and it goes down more and I can finally go. Then of course a completely different nurse took it and says she hopes we don't see those numbers again. Bc that helps my anxiety about it for next time. And I want to say 'Of course they'll be high next time, bc you all keep stressing me out about it.'

    For the rest of my appointments though I've decided to work from home those days and 'chill' before we leave so hopefully it helps. This week though I'm using the BP monitor at home everyday and tracking it for them to hopefully speed up the process at my appointments from now on... Hopefully I just have the next 2 left. I know they're just doing their job, it just makes it hard for me when I get different people every time and I have to explain myself again and again. Bleh. 
    Ugh, this keeps happening to me, too! Monday they made me go to L&D for monitoring and more tests. Of course as soon as I get the hospital, my blood pressure dropped down to normal. 

    I'm planning on getting to my appointments 20-30 minutes early and laying down in an extra room for awhile. Last thing I want is to be labeled with hypertension and possibly be induced early for no good reason!
    This is the story of my life. Luckily, because ive been tracking my BP at home since November, they are "allowing" me to wait and be induced just a few days before my due date. It's hard, but advocate for yourself! I feel like I've been fighting them on this for a while and finally one of the doctors at my practice agreed with me!
  • @aehogan90 all the time!! Which is really annoying already because I have 4.5 weeks left! 
  • The same dang people asking everyday too. People, you will know. Calm yourself.
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