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riansmommie

@samanthaashley93 I hate even having to type this out but if he wanted to unsubscribe to the emails all he had to do was submit the form on the link provided on the bottom of he email. If he did that they would stop sending him the emails and the link wouldn't take him to the site. Also very rarely do they show up in my inbox, but did all the time when my accounts were active. Im confused at how him trying to unsubscribe from it resulted in an account created, usually there are huge differences in the process of those things. If you dont mind me asking, which site was it for? 

PinkPuffyHeart2

@samanthaashley93 sounds fishy to me...

PinkPuffyHeart2

i was on 2 dating sites in the past and both had extensive info to fill out to sign up. So, no, it wouldn't have happened automatically- in my experience.

riansmommie

PinkPuffyHeart2 said:

i was on 2 dating sites in the past and both had extensive info to fill out to sign up. So, no, it wouldn't have happened automatically- in my experience.

+1

at some point in him "unsubscribing" it should have clicked that they dont need my name, user name, password, password verification, email, email verification, what state, city, interested in which sex etc just to sop getting emails.

PinkPuffyHeart2

Steamboat1679 said:

Anyone else trying to figure out what Olympic event their LO will compete in during the 2030 Olympics?

Our big tv, that we bought second hand less than 2 weeks ago, broke... And our other TV's aren't hooked up. So, no Olympics for me! LO will just have to keep pet rock status till she's 30.

PinkPuffyHeart2

Samanthaashley93 said:

The website was hornyaffairs.com I told him that I knew he was lying and his brilliant excuse was "I don't remember making an account." He gets home in 2 hours, and it will not be pretty.

Yikes. Good luck girl.

riansmommie

Samanthaashley93 said:

The website was hornyaffairs.com I told him that I knew he was lying and his brilliant excuse was "I don't remember making an account." He gets home in 2 hours, and it will not be pretty.

Im mad at him for you!!! What an idiot. I hope yall are able to hash things out and that he gets it through his head that what he did was a huge no no and that if anything like that ever happens again he is gone, no questions asked! Let us know how it goes, huge hugs to you and as you already know we are all here for you!

DaisyDuck40

@Samanthaashley93 I am so sorry you're dealing with this

FunkyPhoenix

Daycare wrote a note on Ben's daily sheet reminding everyone to make sure nails are clipped to prevent scratches in the classroom. They wrote this on all the kid's notes to be fair but it very well might have been him. I just clipped them a few days ago but they grow so fast it's difficult to keep up. Anyway, he was in a monster mood this evening and super spastic so I could only get one hand done before giving up. Until......... Just now when I went into his room with my phone flash light and clippers and finished the job! Mission Impossible style y'all! I was so nervous that he was going to wake up but he didn't. Whew!! (I'm now considering doing this every time)

numbersgirl08

Samanthaashley93 said:

The website was hornyaffairs.com I told him that I knew he was lying and his brilliant excuse was "I don't remember making an account." He gets home in 2 hours, and it will not be pretty.

Good luck! Hopefully y'all can work through this or there really was some weird misunderstanding glitch. Does the email say his name? I get emails from some school list for another girl whose name is very close to mine all the time; I've emailed them a ton of times to get off the list. I dunno, maybe I'm grasping at straws. I just really hope he's innocent for your sake!

numbersgirl08

Steamboat1679 said:

Anyone else trying to figure out what Olympic event their LO will compete in during the 2030 Olympics?

I do this all the time! I was a gymnast, so when we got pregnant I actually thought "there go her gymnastics Olympic dreams" because she'll be 15 for the 2028 summer Olympics which is too young to compete (have to be 16 in gymnastics), but by 2032 she'll be 19 which is pretty much over the hill in gymnastics!

FunkyPhoenix

We've gone from coughing to crying to wide awake and partying in the crib at 1am. Also, he has evidently learned a new trick.

FunkyPhoenix

Going on 2 hours of wakeful fussy baby. Someone shoot me.

Cricket81

@34Blondie
We went through this a couple weeks ago. Check her temp. If she has a fever, call now. If not, call when they open. LO ended up on antibiotics.

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WasNotWas

@tiffletons518 I'm late to the party, but...check out care.com. I just put it out there that I was looking for a bi-weekly cleaner and got 21 hits, as low as $10/hr. GL and from what I can tell you are truly a wonderful mother, in fact, you give me hope that if something crazy happens and I get pregnant again, I can handle 3

kisses for you4

momofcatan

@samanthaashley93 If I remember correctly you've dealt with some issues before, but I just wanted to share this e-mail that I got yesterday. I have NEVER been on any sort of dating site especially not that sort of crap. But this e-mail still popped yup in my inbox. I have no clue how, and am pissed, but just deleted it knowing people are very creative with spam.

Hi [my first name]

Not sure you remember me but we were talking back in the summer (met on Ashley Madison) and we didn't end up meeting.  I always enjoyed our talks and would have loved to meet you.  My situation has cleared up and I am free again to meet people.  I would love to strike up a conversation again with you and see where it leads.  I know this is probably awkward but I figured I would give it a shot .

Andy

WasNotWas

whoa @araziza that's crazy! If I were to find that in an inbox it would take A LOT of explaining...the internet is crazy.

WasNotWas

heelibrarian star wars ones are THE BEST! Our daycare doesn't even let us address them to the kids!! I'm just gonna get candy ones so I can eat the leftovers

momofcatan

WasNotWas said:

whoa @araziza that's crazy! If I were to find that in an inbox it would take A LOT of explaining...the internet is crazy.

Right?! I was just thinking wtf? Delete.

Cricket81

@samanthaashley93
I don't know if your SO plays a lot of video games, but a lot of those email lists get sold to dating/porn sites. They assume the gamers must be single, lonely, and socially awkward. DH gets a ton of crap emails that he has to delete all the time and lots of times unsubscribing doesn't work or last. Hope it's all a misunderstanding, but if it's not, let us know so we can kick his ass.

FunkyPhoenix

Oh crap. I don't need to send Valentine's to Ben's class do I???

I assumed they aren't participating in any sort of "party" since they are so young. Andplusalso they can't read so.....??

kelly422

I SLEPT THROUGH THE NIGHT for the first time since J was born! I feel so good this morning! 

kelly422

@samanthaashley93 Hope the convo goes well. Keep us updated. 

@violet1183 Hope they fix the heat soon - that's ridiculous! 

FunkyPhoenix

@samanthaashley93 I had a couple thoughts about your situation. First I would have been furious and my blood pressure would have been through the roof. Then I read your post about him being so good to you and Miley 99.9% of the time... Here's something I've learned. A lot of guys look at Internet porn. A lot. A LOT. As long as he isn't actually meeting people or having relationships and comes clean, I would maybe not kick him to the curb over this (unless its something you just can't live with). And who knows, maybe he really didn't do it. I know how you feel, though. I've been there and it sucks!!! Sorry

WasNotWas

I just made a spreadsheet to plan my weaning schedule...I think I might need to loosen up a little

ColieAnn31

Ugh @samanthaashley93 I am so sorry you're going through this. I went through a period of time with my SO where I found emails like this and confronted SO and that made him change every single password he had so I was in the dark for awhile. We had broken up and I found out I was pregnant. That made us actually sit down and has everything out and that was what got my SO to pull his ass out of his head. I told him in order for us to make this work for our child he needed to be honest with me, delete any accounts he had out there, and that I wanted to know his passwords to things (I'm crazy, I know lol) but since then we haven't had any problems. It's been a struggle with trusting him at times but we're working on it. I hope things went ok when he got home. My SO worked overnight at the time and of course I would find stuff when he was at work and would have to wait til morning. It'll drive a girl crazy. But you know we're all here for you! Sending you and Miley hugs today! Stay strong Hun

ETA to add the rest of what I had to say since my finger decided to post before I was done.

ColieAnn31

WasNotWas said:

I just made a spreadsheet to plan my weaning schedule...I think I might need to loosen up a little

Sounds like something I would do! Lol my OCD makes me write lists over and over again. My SO asked me last night why I don't put stuff in a word document so I can go in and edit instead of writing something over again. That'd be too easy right? Lol

WasNotWas

ColieAnn31 said:

I just made a spreadsheet to plan my weaning schedule...I think I might need to loosen up a little

Sounds like something I would do! Lol my OCD makes me write lists over and over again. My SO asked me last night why I don't put stuff in a word document so I can go in and edit instead of writing something over again. That'd be too easy right? Lol

There is something cathartic about pen to paper when it comes to making lists!!

riansmommie

NikkiP15 said:

Do most wives check husbands email accounts and/or phone?

I use to when we were dating because he gave me a reason to. I have the password to all his accounts and he has mine. I dont check anymore, but I think me just having the passwords makes him think twice about being an idiot if that makes sense.

WasNotWas

sctiger said:

I just made a spreadsheet to plan my weaning schedule...I think I might need to loosen up a little

What schedule are you following?

I'm going to drop 1 pump a week (I pump 3x a day at work) starting the 24th, and then I'll drop the night nursing the next week and then the morning nursing the next week.

On the weekends I'm going to start 1 bottle of mixed frozen milk and formula, starting March 1, adding a mixed bottle with more formula each week until March 29th which will be 100% formula.

I think this is the most gentle approach for my boobs and Ty.

 

kelly422

ChicagoChic82 said:

CL8badB said:

@NikkiP15 said:

Do most wives check husbands email accounts and/or phone?

I dont check anything. I checked a little when we were dating but all i did was drive myself crazy and stress myself out. I decided to stop bc there was no point. If hes stupid enough to do something and i catch him im gone.

I don't check anything, either.

Not here either.

kelly422

WasNotWas said:

I just made a spreadsheet to plan my weaning schedule...I think I might need to loosen up a little

My first thought was "that's a good idea"! OCD much here, too!

kelly422

majwv8 said:

NikkiP15 said:

Do most wives check husbands email accounts and/or phone?

I'll admit I look at his phone, but it's not to "keep an eye on him", it's more to look a what's going on in his life because he's a man and fails to tell me things that are going on. (i.e. his mom had surgery last week and I didn't even know about it)

Does he know you look? Wondering how that conversation came up without telling him how you found out about the surgery!

WasNotWas

@sctiger I think we are at an advantage since our LOs take a bottle at daycare, so that transition isn't going to be so traumatic. One of the daycare ladies mentioned something about acidophilus milk instead of formula, which would be less expensive, but I need to do more research

Don't let mom guilt kick in, I promise you will still share a special bond post-nursing, only you won't have to worry about what you eat/drink/leak

numbersgirl08

WasNotWas said:

sctiger said:

I just made a spreadsheet to plan my weaning schedule...I think I might need to loosen up a little

What schedule are you following?

I'm going to drop 1 pump a week (I pump 3x a day at work) starting the 24th, and then I'll drop the night nursing the next week and then the morning nursing the next week.

On the weekends I'm going to start 1 bottle of mixed frozen milk and formula, starting March 1, adding a mixed bottle with more formula each week until March 29th which will be 100% formula.

I think this is the most gentle approach for my boobs and Ty.

 

So do you anticipate it being about a month long process?  I'm starting the weaning process today (tear).  I'm really nervous about how it's going to go.  N is currently nursing 5x a day, so I'm just going to drop one nursing session every 1-2 weeks.  I'm not sure if I should just do one a week or stretch it to 2 weeks.  I'm scared of really bad plugged ducts since I have so many issues with them.  I also somehow can't wrap my mind around my boobs not producing milk anymore - right now it seems like they will be doing so forever!  She has been STTN for 2.5 months now and I'm still super engorged every morning - how are my boobs ever gonna get used to no nursing???

numbersgirl08

Samanthaashley93 said:

I am an idiot. He got home and swore he didn't make the account, so I made him forward me the email. I followed the link to make an account of my own, to prove he had to of done it, well I now have a profile that says I am a 24 year old male. It didn't ask any questions, it just had a submit button. As soon as I hit submit, a ton of windows popped up before the entire computer shut down. So, now I look crazy, and the site had a virus!

That stinks about the virus but I'm glad you can feel better about him telling the truth now!

HeartLikeMine3

@samanthaashely93, I am so glad you found out he was telling the truth. Don't feel bad any girl would have reacted the same way.

@funkyphoenix, I am having such a hard time with clipping fingernails too. I used to just plop him in front of the TV but that doesn't work anymore.

@wasnotwas, I may just follow your weaning schedule. I really want to be done nursing but its so hard staying at home with him. It's a boob/bottle battle all day and he always wins.

WasNotWas

numbersgirl08 said:

WasNotWas said:

sctiger said:

I just made a spreadsheet to plan my weaning schedule...I think I might need to loosen up a little

What schedule are you following?

I'm going to drop 1 pump a week (I pump 3x a day at work) starting the 24th, and then I'll drop the night nursing the next week and then the morning nursing the next week.

On the weekends I'm going to start 1 bottle of mixed frozen milk and formula, starting March 1, adding a mixed bottle with more formula each week until March 29th which will be 100% formula.

I think this is the most gentle approach for my boobs and Ty.

 

So do you anticipate it being about a month long process?  I'm starting the weaning process today (tear).  I'm really nervous about how it's going to go.  N is currently nursing 5x a day, so I'm just going to drop one nursing session every 1-2 weeks.  I'm not sure if I should just do one a week or stretch it to 2 weeks.  I'm scared of really bad plugged ducts since I have so many issues with them.  I also somehow can't wrap my mind around my boobs not producing milk anymore - right now it seems like they will be doing so forever!  She has been STTN for 2.5 months now and I'm still super engorged every morning - how are my boobs ever gonna get used to no nursing???

I did cold turkey with Bradley and was fine after 3 days. I exclusively pumped, so there was less of a biological trigger indicating more milk production and more of a supply/demand thing. This time I'm just trying to ease out of it to delay the cost of formula (#realtalk)

momofcatan

I don't snoop, never felt the need to. 

DD is already only nursing 4x a day and once overnight so I'm not extremely worried about weaning. She is going to be starting daycare 2 weeks before her 1st birthday so we will need to drop any middle of the day nursing sessions by then. I'm getting a little sad thinking about it now.....