Last night sucks. My mom gave me whatever sickness she's had for the last week so my throat hurts. Grayson slept like crap again. I don't know what his deal is but he is so restless and will wake up every 30 minutes or so. I am exhausted and don't feel good and just sleep all day. Ok my pity party is over.
I need to vent a minute... I'm seriously at my wits end with DH. We moved to this new town about 6 months ago and he has been absolutely MISERABLE since then. He hates his job, he has no friends, he doesn't have any hobbies here. We are seriously fighting about it almost weekly. I keep telling him to go and do something fun, but he's always coming up with excuses. In turn, it's making me completely miserable. I don't know what to do...
@gigglejiggle He loves the outdoors - fishing, hunting, etc. He just comes up with excuses on why he can't do those things now. I try to give him ways to go - i.e. I will pick up J from daycare, he can do some of the things he wants to do, but for some reason he won't do them. It's like he wants to be miserable and depressed. I don't get it...
@micabush Great suggestion...however we live in an insanely small town and there just isn't that sort of stuff around here. DH and I grew up in a town of 700 where he lived until 6 months ago and now our town is about 9,000. It's a huge adjustment for him and he doesn't really know how to make friends. It sucks.
I need to vent a minute... I'm seriously at my wits end with DH. We moved to this new town about 6 months ago and he has been absolutely MISERABLE since then. He hates his job, he has no friends, he doesn't have any hobbies here. We are seriously fighting about it almost weekly. I keep telling him to go and do something fun, but he's always coming up with excuses. In turn, it's making me completely miserable. I don't know what to do...
I have been there with DH. We almost got divorced about it before we had graham. The only solution for us was to move back to his hometown because none of his close friends ever left and he is an only child and his parents are still here. Completely unreasonable solution obviously but I couldn't handle the misery any longer and it went on for 3 years with no change. Fortunately I'm happy and adapted well to living here. But it sucks to have a location miserable spouse.
I have been there with DH. We almost got divorced about it before we had graham. The only solution for us was to move back to his hometown because none of his close friends ever left and he is an only child and his parents are still here.
Completely unreasonable solution obviously but I couldn't handle the misery any longer and it went on for 3 years with no change. Fortunately I'm happy and adapted well to living here. But it sucks to have a location miserable spouse.
It is rough. And we definitely have discussed divorce which breaks my heart but I honestly can't keep living like this. I would actually be happy to move back where we grew up, but it's just not an option. A town of 700 people cannot support a Pediatrician and with these school loans, me not working isn't an option right now. I'm hoping once my current contract is up, we can move a little bit closer to where we grew up, but I don't even know if that will be an option job-wise. It's hard...
Ok so is everyone in agreement that this thread can live on if people choose to post in it but I will unsticky it AND people are more in favor of a weekly spam thread?
I am not sure if anyone said this and I missed it, but regarding the love its, if you hold your mouse over the love it button, a list of the people who loved it pops up. I'm not sure what you would do on mobile.
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Completely unreasonable solution obviously but I couldn't handle the misery any longer and it went on for 3 years with no change. Fortunately I'm happy and adapted well to living here. But it sucks to have a location miserable spouse.
Can a moderator close this?