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  • cnk459 said:



    For those of you needing clarification on smoking and miscarriage...
    https://www.m.webmd.com/baby/4-common-causes-miscarriage-twins

    It is #2 on the list. As a mom who has suffered miscarriage, I cannot fathom why anyone would knowing harm their unborn child. To me this is just as bad as "no Caesarian" lady.



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    1. The miscarriage smoking lady...grow the F up.  It is extremely horrible to say that she deserves a miscarriage. Also, CPS has a ton of more shit to take care of than a Mother who wasn't able to quit smoking for 9 weeks. Also, no one ever deserves to lose a child. No one. 

    2. To the "higher power lady", what sort of drugs are you on? Like for real? You have to be in a cult, because no religion that I know of would ever think it's okay to kill a child. 
    I never once said she deserves a miscarriage. Get your facts straight. I said smoking is a cause for miscarriage...who knew that a smoking pregnant woman wouldn't be an unpopular opinion.




    Smoking while pregnant=Unpopular, telling a woman she caused her miscarriage (assuming she had one) that's shitty. 

    Seriously, you GOT A FREE PASS, you're ass is about to get flamed if you don't move along...like now.
    Don't let the door hit you, don't look back, we are not watching you leave, you are now unliked.
    GO.

    Says the great and powerful leader. I didn't come in here to make stranger friends. It isn't horrible to say to someone who is knowingly causing harm to their unborn fetus, that if they were to miscarry, that could be a cause. It is a medical known fact, not an unpopular opinion. Flame away...I'll enjoy every minute of the entertainment.

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  • For those of you needing clarification on smoking and miscarriage... https://www.m.webmd.com/baby/4-common-causes-miscarriage-twins It is #2 on the list. As a mom who has suffered miscarriage, I cannot fathom why anyone would knowing harm their unborn child. To me this is just as bad as "no Caesarian" lady.

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    1. The miscarriage smoking lady...grow the F up.  It is extremely horrible to say that she deserves a miscarriage. Also, CPS has a ton of more shit to take care of than a Mother who wasn't able to quit smoking for 9 weeks. Also, no one ever deserves to lose a child. No one. 

    2. To the "higher power lady", what sort of drugs are you on? Like for real? You have to be in a cult, because no religion that I know of would ever think it's okay to kill a child. 
    I never once said she deserves a miscarriage. Get your facts straight. I said smoking is a cause for miscarriage...who knew that a smoking pregnant woman wouldn't be an unpopular opinion.
    You are such a moron.  You said that if she had miscarried then "I guess we know what caused it"  insinuating that her smoking was the cause of her miscarriage.  Blaming the mother for her miscarriage is sick.  You are truly an asshole.

    Addiction is a disease and incredibly hard to overcome.  The fact that she overcame it when she became pregnant is something she should be commended for as many many women struggle with it while pregnant.    

    I can't believe there are people like you in this world.  Same goes to C-section weirdo.  
    @Rocknroll64- thank you! I was just going to post something like this. :)

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  • For those of you needing clarification on smoking and miscarriage... https://www.m.webmd.com/baby/4-common-causes-miscarriage-twins It is #2 on the list. As a mom who has suffered miscarriage, I cannot fathom why anyone would knowing harm their unborn child. To me this is just as bad as "no Caesarian" lady.

    Lurking from Feb 14

    1. The miscarriage smoking lady...grow the F up.  It is extremely horrible to say that she deserves a miscarriage. Also, CPS has a ton of more shit to take care of than a Mother who wasn't able to quit smoking for 9 weeks. Also, no one ever deserves to lose a child. No one. 

    2. To the "higher power lady", what sort of drugs are you on? Like for real? You have to be in a cult, because no religion that I know of would ever think it's okay to kill a child. 
    I never once said she deserves a miscarriage. Get your facts straight. I said smoking is a cause for miscarriage...who knew that a smoking pregnant woman wouldn't be an unpopular opinion.
    Smoking while pregnant=Unpopular, telling a woman she caused her miscarriage (assuming she had one) that's shitty. 

    Seriously, you GOT A FREE PASS, you're ass is about to get flamed if you don't move along...like now.
    Don't let the door hit you, don't look back, we are not watching you leave, you are now unliked.
    GO.
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  • cnk459 said:

    My UO:

    I wish technology wasn't so advanced that can/do find out we are *barely* pregnant just about the second it happens. 

    There are reasons many/most mc's happen in the first few weeks. And since we now have the ability to know just days after implantation, we are setting ourselves up for "knowing" about a loss as opposed to 15 years ago, when we just thought our period that cycle was "off". 

    I wish you couldn't find out you were pg until 8+ weeks.

    There......I.Said.It.
    I can tell you with my loss at five weeks à few years back that there was no question it was more than à late period. There was no mistaking what i passed. I cant imagine not knowing i was pg and seeing that.

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  • I don't agree with csections being considered births or deliveries, to me it's an insult to mothers that actually did birth their children. Csections are surgical extractions and should be referred to as such.
    First, it's nunya bizness how any woman brings her child into the world. Life has been created and sustained in a woman's body for 40 weeks. After puking, not pooping, growing at every angle, suffering with kankles, a sore back, fatigue, hemorrhoids, heartburn, peeing ever 10 minutes, stretch marks, sore boobs. I mean really, need I go on? Any woman who can live with being a Host to another being gets to call the arrival of said being whatever the hell she wants to call it.

    Second. What the eff do you know about the circumstances of said c-section, and who the eff made you Judge and Jury of it all? Maybe mom labored for 28 hours and baby baby stopped progressing. Maybe the baby was distressed. Maybe mom was sick, or baby was sick. Maybe it was an emergency c-section. SO WHAT?? God Forbid any of us, least of all you, are faced with such a terrifying experience.

    Wow. WOW.




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  • @btcruiserlove and @redrosepinkdaisy - are either of you by chance completing a scientific study on bullying?


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    Thanks for helping me pass some time this afternoon while tending my Lo. Bitches be cray cray in may 14.

    I was here. I'll be back.
    Peace out!
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  • I think birth plans are awesome, I have had my entire plan written out since we first started ttc.

    I don't agree with csections being considered births or deliveries, to me it's an insult to mothers that actually did birth their children. Csections are surgical extractions and should be referred to as such.

    I'm dreading telling work I'm pregnant because I don't want people asking how I'm feeling everyday.

    I am sorry I was going to read the entire thread and then I got to this.

    The one thing that is important in ANY birth plan is the delievery of your child in the safest way possible. For me that was delivering my son by c-section. I tried telling myself that this was the best option for the both of us. I was extremely depressed and felt like less of a woman for not delivering him vaginally. I have come to terms with what I had to do, but your comment makes you seem insensitive and uneducated.

    Now I have 12 more pages to read.....
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  • @FutureMrsMJ12, Please don't white knight. It's not cool. Also, no one said these were flame free. Some of these opinions need flames. 
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  • redrosepinkdaisy said:
    I think birth plans are awesome, I have had my entire plan written out since we first started ttc. I don't agree with csections being considered births or deliveries, to me it's an insult to mothers that actually did birth their children. Csections are surgical extractions and should be referred to as such. I'm dreading telling work I'm pregnant because I don't want people asking how I'm feeling everyday.
    Trust me, no one gives a crap how you feel if you're even 1/10th cunty in real life.  (and i never use the c-word)
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  • I am not in a cult and that is very offensive for anyone to say.
    Aww. Bless your heart.




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  • For the record I am not in a cult! I'm actually not a part of any largely organized religion. We are just part of a small circle of likeminded individuals whom support and seek support from one another. We share the same beliefs and ideals and consider each other our spiritual family circle. We believe in a Higher Power as a force which guides us. Our lives are predetermined and we no not intend to intervene. Also computers are allowed being that they have nothing directly to do with my body and keeping it as pure and close to its original state as possible.
  • I hate when obviously pregnant women smoke in general but even more so when they do it in public! It just seems so attention grabby, like when 12 year olds do it.. And IM a smoker, both times I've been PG I have quit on my own before 9 weeks. It's not that hard. Just don't do it. Or wait till you are home.. Just yuck.
    Someone should call CPS on woman like you! Your so proud you quit before 9 weeks? Great job...you smoked the entire time your unborn child was developing all their major organs. It amazes me how some woman spend their lives trying to conceive and suffer miscarriage after miscarriage...yet irresponsible/ignorant people like you float thru life as if your invincible. I will pray for your unborn child's health as well as a wake up call for you.
    Whoa I think you need to chill she quit and thats a hard thing to do as a woman who has experianced miscarriage after miscarriage I respect her for quiting and I dont think shes irresponsible at least not on this I dont personally know her 
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  • edited October 2013
    Tomorrow will be a new day, I'm no longer standing to be insulted in this post. Have a good night hopefully we can start fresh.
  • I just don't think you really understand the aftermath of losing a child. You don't seem to think it would be a big deal at all. I assume you feel attached to that baby now right? Well imagine that connection growing as the months go by just to have to plan a funeral for your baby instead of taking that baby home. You sound like a real fucking idiot. Just sit down and think about the whole situation for a minute.

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  • amercer0 said:



    cnk459 said:



    For those of you needing clarification on smoking and miscarriage...
    https://www.m.webmd.com/baby/4-common-causes-miscarriage-twins

    It is #2 on the list. As a mom who has suffered miscarriage, I cannot fathom why anyone would knowing harm their unborn child. To me this is just as bad as "no Caesarian" lady.



    Lurking from Feb 14


    1. The miscarriage smoking lady...grow the F up.  It is extremely horrible to say that she deserves a miscarriage. Also, CPS has a ton of more shit to take care of than a Mother who wasn't able to quit smoking for 9 weeks. Also, no one ever deserves to lose a child. No one. 

    2. To the "higher power lady", what sort of drugs are you on? Like for real? You have to be in a cult, because no religion that I know of would ever think it's okay to kill a child. 
    I never once said she deserves a miscarriage. Get your facts straight. I said smoking is a cause for miscarriage...who knew that a smoking pregnant woman wouldn't be an unpopular opinion.


    I was going to ignore you bc you're probably a troll and trying too hard to redirect this thread to you but...
    Get YOUR fucking facts straight:
    -That link you sent does not list the items in level of severity, it merely categorizes them. (also it was number 3 on the list not 2)
    -In the link you sent says smoking increases risk of miscarriage. If it caused miscarriage there would not be generations of women who (whom?) smoked and had healthy babies. This indicates that there have to be other factors, along with smoking to cause a miscarriage. Smoking a couple of cigarettes won't directly result in miscarriage just like a couple of cupcakes won't give you diabeetus.
    - Also, it says SOME studies have found, not all.

    If you get anymore sand in your vag over this your baby will sitting on a beach.

    @redrosepinkdaisy -- I'm not going to bother with you bc by refusing medicine your cult will eventually die out from some outbreak or other medical
    complications.




    @btcruiserlove and @redrosepinkdaisy - are either of you by chance completing a scientific study on bullying?


    Stupid quote box.  I don't think they are, but
    if they are the better show me my IRB. 
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    Classy!

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  • flerlgirlflerlgirl member
    edited October 2013
    Also congrats to April 14. You have reliquaries your title as bat shit craziest board on TB.
    I'm really looking forward to seeing what June 14 brings us.  
    Nah, we's cool. We do have fun gifs, though. 





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