For those of you needing clarification on smoking and miscarriage...
https://www.m.webmd.com/baby/4-common-causes-miscarriage-twins
It is #2 on the list. As a mom who has suffered miscarriage, I cannot fathom why anyone would knowing harm their unborn child. To me this is just as bad as "no Caesarian" lady.
Lurking from Feb 14
1. The miscarriage smoking lady...grow the F up. It is extremely horrible to say that she deserves a miscarriage. Also, CPS has a ton of more shit to take care of than a Mother who wasn't able to quit smoking for 9 weeks. Also, no one ever deserves to lose a child. No one.
2. To the "higher power lady", what sort of drugs are you on? Like for real? You have to be in a cult, because no religion that I know of would ever think it's okay to kill a child.
I never once said she deserves a miscarriage. Get your facts straight. I said smoking is a cause for miscarriage...who knew that a smoking pregnant woman wouldn't be an unpopular opinion.
Smoking while pregnant=Unpopular, telling a woman she caused her miscarriage (assuming she had one) that's shitty.
Seriously, you GOT A FREE PASS, you're ass is about to get flamed if you don't move along...like now. Don't let the door hit you, don't look back, we are not watching you leave, you are now unliked. GO.
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It is #2 on the list. As a mom who has suffered miscarriage, I cannot fathom why anyone would knowing harm their unborn child. To me this is just as bad as "no Caesarian" lady.
Lurking from Feb 14
1. The miscarriage smoking lady...grow the F up. It is extremely horrible to say that she deserves a miscarriage. Also, CPS has a ton of more shit to take care of than a Mother who wasn't able to quit smoking for 9 weeks. Also, no one ever deserves to lose a child. No one.
2. To the "higher power lady", what sort of drugs are you on? Like for real? You have to be in a cult, because no religion that I know of would ever think it's okay to kill a child.
I never once said she deserves a miscarriage. Get your facts straight. I said smoking is a cause for miscarriage...who knew that a smoking pregnant woman wouldn't be an unpopular opinion.
Smoking while pregnant=Unpopular, telling a woman she caused her miscarriage (assuming she had one) that's shitty.
Seriously, you GOT A FREE PASS, you're ass is about to get flamed if you don't move along...like now. Don't let the door hit you, don't look back, we are not watching you leave, you are now unliked. GO.
Says the great and powerful leader. I didn't come in here to make stranger friends. It isn't horrible to say to someone who is knowingly causing harm to their unborn fetus, that if they were to miscarry, that could be a cause. It is a medical known fact, not an unpopular opinion. Flame away...I'll enjoy every minute of the entertainment.
It is #2 on the list. As a mom who has suffered miscarriage, I cannot fathom why anyone would knowing harm their unborn child. To me this is just as bad as "no Caesarian" lady.
Lurking from Feb 14
1. The miscarriage smoking lady...grow the F up. It is extremely horrible to say that she deserves a miscarriage. Also, CPS has a ton of more shit to take care of than a Mother who wasn't able to quit smoking for 9 weeks. Also, no one ever deserves to lose a child. No one.
2. To the "higher power lady", what sort of drugs are you on? Like for real? You have to be in a cult, because no religion that I know of would ever think it's okay to kill a child.
I never once said she deserves a miscarriage. Get your facts straight. I said smoking is a cause for miscarriage...who knew that a smoking pregnant woman wouldn't be an unpopular opinion.
Smoking while pregnant=Unpopular, telling a woman she caused her miscarriage (assuming she had one) that's shitty.
Seriously, you GOT A FREE PASS, you're ass is about to get flamed if you don't move along...like now. Don't let the door hit you, don't look back, we are not watching you leave, you are now unliked. GO.
Says the great and powerful leader. I didn't come in here to make stranger friends. It isn't horrible to say to someone who is knowingly causing harm to their unborn fetus, that if they were to miscarry, that could be a cause. It is a medical known fact, not an unpopular opinion. Flame away...I'll enjoy every minute of the entertainment.
I think you are bullshit. If I was part of religion/practice..cult even that I was so involved in that I felt more strongly about than my child's life, I'd be proud to shout it from the roof tops.
You seem ashamed of you cult, um I mean religion.
FWIW, I am a Christian. I am proud to let you know that. I am also proud that my God loves my unborn child, my God loves my child so much he let some women give birth/extractions to doctors so that they could make sure when giving birth it my child if something happened my child would get out safe.
He made doctors that if my son got sick he could be saw by a doctor to get treatment.
I don't think he wants credit for you...
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I never once said she deserves a miscarriage. Get your facts straight. I said smoking is a cause for miscarriage...who knew that a smoking pregnant woman wouldn't be an unpopular opinion
Actually... no.. you SAID this piece of fuckedupedness:
The responsible thing to do is quit before getting KU. If she did suffer MC in the past, now we know why. All I'm saying is, take some responsibility...your creating a helpless human life!
And I'm kinda glad that BSC C-Section lady disappeared, so the wagons can circle back on this horrible statement!!! I am seriously STILL appalled at you making this gigantic leap.
And then, coming back to DEFEND it.
At least, god forbid, anything were to happen in any of your pregnancies, you'll know exactly the cause... of course.. it was SOMETHING YOU DID. Something ONLY the mother can/could/should control. Yes, you're right. The Mother is completely in charge of whether or not she has a m/c. If she does experience that horrible event, it HAS to be her fault.
FUCK YOU.
That is all.
Edited to try to fix my "multi quote" attempt FAIL.
For those of you needing clarification on smoking and miscarriage...
https://www.m.webmd.com/baby/4-common-causes-miscarriage-twins
It is #2 on the list. As a mom who has suffered miscarriage, I cannot fathom why anyone would knowing harm their unborn child. To me this is just as bad as "no Caesarian" lady.
Lurking from Feb 14
1. The miscarriage smoking lady...grow the F up. It is extremely horrible to say that she deserves a miscarriage. Also, CPS has a ton of more shit to take care of than a Mother who wasn't able to quit smoking for 9 weeks. Also, no one ever deserves to lose a child. No one.
2. To the "higher power lady", what sort of drugs are you on? Like for real? You have to be in a cult, because no religion that I know of would ever think it's okay to kill a child.
I never once said she deserves a miscarriage. Get your facts straight. I said smoking is a cause for miscarriage...who knew that a smoking pregnant woman wouldn't be an unpopular opinion.
You are such a moron. You said that if she had miscarried then "I guess we know what caused it" insinuating that her smoking was the cause of her miscarriage. Blaming the mother for her miscarriage is sick. You are truly an asshole.
Addiction is a disease and incredibly hard to overcome. The fact that she overcame it when she became pregnant is something she should be commended for as many many women struggle with it while pregnant.
I can't believe there are people like you in this world. Same goes to C-section weirdo.
@Rocknroll64- thank you! I was just going to post something like this.
For those of you needing clarification on smoking and miscarriage...
https://www.m.webmd.com/baby/4-common-causes-miscarriage-twins
It is #2 on the list. As a mom who has suffered miscarriage, I cannot fathom why anyone would knowing harm their unborn child. To me this is just as bad as "no Caesarian" lady.
Lurking from Feb 14
1. The miscarriage smoking lady...grow the F up. It is extremely horrible to say that she deserves a miscarriage. Also, CPS has a ton of more shit to take care of than a Mother who wasn't able to quit smoking for 9 weeks. Also, no one ever deserves to lose a child. No one.
2. To the "higher power lady", what sort of drugs are you on? Like for real? You have to be in a cult, because no religion that I know of would ever think it's okay to kill a child.
I never once said she deserves a miscarriage. Get your facts straight. I said smoking is a cause for miscarriage...who knew that a smoking pregnant woman wouldn't be an unpopular opinion.
Smoking while pregnant=Unpopular, telling a woman she caused her miscarriage (assuming she had one) that's shitty.
Seriously, you GOT A FREE PASS, you're ass is about to get flamed if you don't move along...like now. Don't let the door hit you, don't look back, we are not watching you leave, you are now unliked. GO.
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I wish technology wasn't so advanced that can/do find out we are *barely* pregnant just about the second it happens.
There are reasons many/most mc's happen in the first few weeks. And since we now have the ability to know just days after implantation, we are setting ourselves up for "knowing" about a loss as opposed to 15 years ago, when we just thought our period that cycle was "off".
I wish you couldn't find out you were pg until 8+ weeks.
There......I.Said.It.
I can tell you with my loss at five weeks à few years back that there was no question it was more than à late period. There was no mistaking what i passed. I cant imagine not knowing i was pg and seeing that.
I don't agree with csections being considered births or deliveries, to me it's an insult to mothers that actually did birth their children. Csections are surgical extractions and should be referred to as such.
First, it's nunya bizness how any woman brings her child into the world. Life has been created and sustained in a woman's body for 40 weeks. After puking, not pooping, growing at every angle, suffering with kankles, a sore back, fatigue, hemorrhoids, heartburn, peeing ever 10 minutes, stretch marks, sore boobs. I mean really, need I go on? Any woman who can live with being a Host to another being gets to call the arrival of said being whatever the hell she wants to call it.
Second. What the eff do you know about the circumstances of said c-section, and who the eff made you Judge and Jury of it all? Maybe mom labored for 28 hours and baby baby stopped progressing. Maybe the baby was distressed. Maybe mom was sick, or baby was sick. Maybe it was an emergency c-section. SO WHAT?? God Forbid any of us, least of all you, are faced with such a terrifying experience.
Wow. WOW.
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For those of you needing clarification on smoking and miscarriage...
https://www.m.webmd.com/baby/4-common-causes-miscarriage-twins
It is #2 on the list. As a mom who has suffered miscarriage, I cannot fathom why anyone would knowing harm their unborn child. To me this is just as bad as "no Caesarian" lady.
Lurking from Feb 14
1. The miscarriage smoking lady...grow the F up. It is extremely horrible to say that she deserves a miscarriage. Also, CPS has a ton of more shit to take care of than a Mother who wasn't able to quit smoking for 9 weeks. Also, no one ever deserves to lose a child. No one.
2. To the "higher power lady", what sort of drugs are you on? Like for real? You have to be in a cult, because no religion that I know of would ever think it's okay to kill a child.
I never once said she deserves a miscarriage. Get your facts straight. I said smoking is a cause for miscarriage...who knew that a smoking pregnant woman wouldn't be an unpopular opinion.
Smoking pregnant woman = Unpopular.
You putting a woman on blast who quit as soon as she was able as well as telling her that she caused any miscarriages that she may have had is where the problem is.
Go ahead and keep "defending" your bitchy self. You got a free pass when the cray cray c-section lady showed up, but you'll get everything that's coming to you if you continue with your stupid shit. GTFO
I think birth plans are awesome, I have had my entire plan written out since we first started ttc.
I don't agree with csections being considered births or deliveries, to me it's an insult to mothers that actually did birth their children. Csections are surgical extractions and should be referred to as such.
I'm dreading telling work I'm pregnant because I don't want people asking how I'm feeling everyday.
I am sorry I was going to read the entire thread and then I got to this.
The one thing that is important in ANY birth plan is the delievery of your child in the safest way possible. For me that was delivering my son by c-section. I tried telling myself that this was the best option for the both of us. I was extremely depressed and felt like less of a woman for not delivering him vaginally. I have come to terms with what I had to do, but your comment makes you seem insensitive and uneducated.
@redrose what frustrates me the most is that these women have asked you to back up your statement with facts and you can't do it, nor can you apologize for the awful shit you said.
I don't give a flying FUCK what your religious background is. You have no right to insult a womanfor having a c-section that she ultimately couldn't control. In fact, I applaud the woman who chose her child's life for said c-section!!
Soooo.....
Your mother ship landed. It's here to take you back to fuckingcrazytown where you and your people can have glorious natural child births and live a happy healthy life. You're bat shit crazy. The end.
I think birth plans are awesome, I have had my entire plan written out since we first started ttc.
I don't agree with csections being considered births or deliveries, to me it's an insult to mothers that actually did birth their children. Csections are surgical extractions and should be referred to as such.
I'm dreading telling work I'm pregnant because I don't want people asking how I'm feeling everyday.
Trust me, no one gives a crap how you feel if you're even 1/10th cunty in real life. (and i never use the c-word)
I know it's an unpopular opinion- thus the reason it's here. I think Obamacare is a joke-- and I'm not a flaming republican.. Obamacare has SOME good things in it-- but the majority of it is so ridiculous it's painful. The things it will do to our Healthcare-- I hope nobody in your family ever has a serious medical concern. I've done my research- have you? Do you know what it will do to medical research?
It may be a joke, but it is the law of the land. It was passed by congress, signed by the president, and upheld by the supreme court. Romney ran on repealing it and he lost by five million votes. But a minority of people in one half of one branch of our government thinks they can hold the entire country hostage until they're allowed to circumvent our constitutional process of making policy. These are the same people who swear to be so in love with the constitution, just shitting on it.
These Tea Party assholes pushing this shutdown are terrorists. I can't wait for the backlash against this shutdown and all of them lose their jobs.
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I think birth plans are awesome, I have had my entire plan written out since we first started ttc.
I don't agree with csections being considered births or deliveries, to me it's an insult to mothers that actually did birth their children. Csections are surgical extractions and should be referred to as such.
I'm dreading telling work I'm pregnant because I don't want people asking how I'm feeling everyday.
Let me first say that one of our Mamas linked us to this board- I have never lurked this board, but she was very concerned about your post, and let me tell you, when I read it, it took my breath away. My daughter was born six weeks ago via C section- let me repeat- BORN- as in I gave birth to her. How dare you say that c sections are an insult to mothers that "birth their children." My daughter was delivered via c section because she was breech, and it would have endangered her health for me to deliver her naturally.
Let me ask you this, if your LO for some reason has to be delivered via C section whether it be planned or because of an emergency situation, would you refuse it because it's not a real birth or refer to her being "extracted" rather than born? Birth plans are great, I had one too, but I found out two days after my due date that she was breech, and a c section was appropriate to keep myself and my LO safe. I highly suggest that if for some reason your birth doesn't go according to plan and you have to deliver via c section, either keep it to yourself here or stay off the boards because the amounts of "told you so's" will be overwhelming and completely justified.
For the record I am not in a cult! I'm actually not a part of any largely organized religion. We are just part of a small circle of likeminded individuals whom support and seek support from one another. We share the same beliefs and ideals and consider each other our spiritual family circle. We believe in a Higher Power as a force which guides us. Our lives are predetermined and we no not intend to intervene. Also computers are allowed being that they have nothing directly to do with my body and keeping it as pure and close to its original state as possible.
I hate when obviously pregnant women smoke in general but even more so when they do it in public! It just seems so attention grabby, like when 12 year olds do it.. And IM a smoker, both times I've been PG I have quit on my own before 9 weeks. It's not that hard. Just don't do it. Or wait till you are home.. Just yuck.
Someone should call CPS on woman like you! Your so proud you quit before 9 weeks? Great job...you smoked the entire time your unborn child was developing all their major organs. It amazes me how some woman spend their lives trying to conceive and suffer miscarriage after miscarriage...yet irresponsible/ignorant people like you float thru life as if your invincible. I will pray for your unborn child's health as well as a wake up call for you.
Whoa I think you need to chill she quit and thats a hard thing to do as a woman who has experianced miscarriage after miscarriage I respect her for quiting and I dont think shes irresponsible at least not on this I dont personally know her
For the record I am not in a cult! I'm actually not a part of any largely organized religion. We are just part of a small circle of likeminded individuals whom support and seek support from one another. We share the same beliefs and ideals and consider each other our spiritual family circle. We believe in a Higher Power as a force which guides us. Our lives are predetermined and we no not intend to intervene. Also computers are allowed being that they have nothing directly to do with my body and keeping it as pure and close to its original state as possible.
@redrosepinkdaisy So, it's just a small shitty cult then? I mean it must not be very cultishly cool. Otherwise that circle would be bigger and more organized. Did you marry at 13 along with your other sister wives? Do you guys have stock piles of weapons and freeze dried goods in the basement? Just trying to judge your level of cultishness. Since we're being all judging up in here.
For the record I am not in a cult! I'm actually not a part of any largely organized religion. We are just part of a small circle of likeminded individuals whom support and seek support from one another. We share the same beliefs and ideals and consider each other our spiritual family circle. We believe in a Higher Power as a force which guides us. Our lives are predetermined and we no not intend to intervene. Also computers are allowed being that they have nothing directly to do with my body and keeping it as pure and close to its original state as possible.
redrosepinkdaisy said:
For the record I am not in a cult! I'm actually not a part of any largely organized religion. We are just part of a small circle of likeminded individuals whom support and seek support from one another. We share the same beliefs and ideals and consider each other our spiritual family circle. We believe in a Higher Power as a force which guides us. Our lives are predetermined and we no not intend to intervene. Also computers are allowed being that they have nothing directly to do with my body and keeping it as pure and close to its original state as possible.
Let's see; small, like minded individuals, a spiritual family circle, yeah..sounds like a cult to me. So, your goal is to keep your body pure and close to it's original state...what about cell phones? There are people out there who believe ell phones and laptops give off radiation. Is that not part of your cult? Furthermore, who is your "higher power?" Mine is God. And my God has blessed us with technology to help people. How do you know that a C-section wouldn't be God intervening? I just can't believe that you would seriously consider letting your child die over keeping them safe. To me, that is not being a great mother. That is...well you can flag me for this, that is being incredible Fucking stupid.
A four day old poster causes this much drama? I am calling 100% bullshit MUD. Epic win for creating chaos and infuriating moms from all over the bump, that much I will say.
That sounds like the beginning of a choose your own adventure. To see whether the spaceship magically assures intervention free vaginal birth, turn to page 147.
For the record I am not in a cult! I'm actually not a part of any largely organized religion. We are just part of a small circle of likeminded individuals whom support and seek support from one another. We share the same beliefs and ideals and consider each other our spiritual family circle. We believe in a Higher Power as a force which guides us. Our lives are predetermined and we no not intend to intervene. Also computers are allowed being that they have nothing directly to do with my body and keeping it as pure and close to its original state as possible.
Annnnnnd you just defined a cult.
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A four day old poster causes this much drama? I am calling 100% bullshit MUD. Epic win for creating chaos and infuriating moms from all over the bump, that much I will say.
I just don't think you really understand the aftermath of losing a child. You don't seem to think it would be a big deal at all. I assume you feel attached to that baby now right? Well imagine that connection growing as the months go by just to have to plan a funeral for your baby instead of taking that baby home. You sound like a real fucking idiot. Just sit down and think about the whole situation for a minute.
It is #2 on the list. As a mom who has suffered miscarriage, I cannot fathom why anyone would knowing harm their unborn child. To me this is just as bad as "no Caesarian" lady.
1. The miscarriage smoking lady...grow the F up. It is extremely horrible to say that she deserves a miscarriage. Also, CPS has a ton of more shit to take care of than a Mother who wasn't able to quit smoking for 9 weeks. Also, no one ever deserves to lose a child. No one.
2. To the "higher power lady", what sort of drugs are you on? Like for real? You have to be in a cult, because no religion that I know of would ever think it's okay to kill a child.
I never once said she deserves a miscarriage. Get your facts straight. I said smoking is a cause for miscarriage...who knew that a smoking pregnant woman wouldn't be an unpopular opinion.
I was going to ignore you bc you're probably a troll and trying too hard to redirect this thread to you but... Get YOUR fucking facts straight: -That link you sent does not list the items in level of severity, it merely categorizes them. (also it was number 3 on the list not 2) -In the link you sent says smoking increases risk of miscarriage. If it caused miscarriage there would not be generations of women who (whom?) smoked and had healthy babies. This indicates that there have to be other factors, along with smoking to cause a miscarriage. Smoking a couple of cigarettes won't directly result in miscarriage just like a couple of cupcakes won't give you diabeetus. - Also, it says SOME studies have found, not all.
If you get anymore sand in your vag over this your baby will sitting on a beach.
@redrosepinkdaisy -- I'm not going to bother with you bc by refusing medicine your cult will eventually die out from some outbreak or other medical complications.
For the record I am not in a cult! I'm actually not a part of any largely organized religion. We are just part of a small circle of likeminded individuals whom support and seek support from one another. We share the same beliefs and ideals and consider each other our spiritual family circle. We believe in a Higher Power as a force which guides us. Our lives are predetermined and we no not intend to intervene. Also computers are allowed being that they have nothing directly to do with my body and keeping it as pure and close to its original state as possible.
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a system of religious veneration and devotion directed toward a particular figure or object.
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You, sweetheart, are an ignorant twat to come in here and dare to announce that mothers who birthed their children by C-section are an insult to mothers who gave "real birth".
Fuck. You.
Guess I should have let my precious son die when my water broke at 35 wks and my body refused to go into labor. Guess I should have refused the drugs that prevented my body from seizing or having a stroke too, huh?
You need to go. Now.
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Seriously, you GOT A FREE PASS, you're ass is about to get flamed if you don't move along...like now.
Don't let the door hit you, don't look back, we are not watching you leave, you are now unliked.
GO.
Smoking while pregnant=Unpopular, telling a woman she caused her miscarriage (assuming she had one) that's shitty.
Seriously, you GOT A FREE PASS, you're ass is about to get flamed if you don't move along...like now.
Don't let the door hit you, don't look back, we are not watching you leave, you are now unliked.
GO.
Says the great and powerful leader. I didn't come in here to make stranger friends. It isn't horrible to say to someone who is knowingly causing harm to their unborn fetus, that if they were to miscarry, that could be a cause. It is a medical known fact, not an unpopular opinion. Flame away...I'll enjoy every minute of the entertainment.
Smoking while pregnant=Unpopular, telling a woman she caused her miscarriage (assuming she had one) that's shitty.
Seriously, you GOT A FREE PASS, you're ass is about to get flamed if you don't move along...like now.
Don't let the door hit you, don't look back, we are not watching you leave, you are now unliked.
GO.
Says the great and powerful leader. I didn't come in here to make stranger friends. It isn't horrible to say to someone who is knowingly causing harm to their unborn fetus, that if they were to miscarry, that could be a cause. It is a medical known fact, not an unpopular opinion. Flame away...I'll enjoy every minute of the entertainment.
I think you are bullshit. If I was part of religion/practice..cult even that I was so involved in that I felt more strongly about than my child's life, I'd be proud to shout it from the roof tops.
You seem ashamed of you cult, um I mean religion.
FWIW, I am a Christian. I am proud to let you know that. I am also proud that my God loves my unborn child, my God loves my child so much he let some women give birth/extractions to doctors so that they could make sure when giving birth it my child if something happened my child would get out safe.
He made doctors that if my son got sick he could be saw by a doctor to get treatment.
I don't think he wants credit for you...
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You putting a woman on blast who quit as soon as she was able as well as telling her that she caused any miscarriages that she may have had is where the problem is.
Go ahead and keep "defending" your bitchy self. You got a free pass when the cray cray c-section lady showed up, but you'll get everything that's coming to you if you continue with your stupid shit. GTFO
The one thing that is important in ANY birth plan is the delievery of your child in the safest way possible. For me that was delivering my son by c-section. I tried telling myself that this was the best option for the both of us. I was extremely depressed and felt like less of a woman for not delivering him vaginally. I have come to terms with what I had to do, but your comment makes you seem insensitive and uneducated.
Now I have 12 more pages to read.....
I don't give a flying FUCK what your religious background is. You have no right to insult a womanfor having a c-section that she ultimately couldn't control. In fact, I applaud the woman who chose her child's life for said c-section!!
Soooo.....
Your mother ship landed. It's here to take you back to fuckingcrazytown where you and your people can have glorious natural child births and live a happy healthy life. You're bat shit crazy. The end.
These Tea Party assholes pushing this shutdown are terrorists. I can't wait for the backlash against this shutdown and all of them lose their jobs.
I kind of want to make out with you right now @veganlady because you are awesome.
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So, it's just a small shitty cult then? I mean it must not be very cultishly cool. Otherwise that circle would be bigger and more organized. Did you marry at 13 along with your other sister wives? Do you guys have stock piles of weapons and freeze dried goods in the basement? Just trying to judge your level of cultishness. Since we're being all judging up in here.
and @redrose
you just defined a cult. i guess edumacation isn't highly valued on your compound.
Let's see; small, like minded individuals, a spiritual family circle, yeah..sounds like a cult to me. So, your goal is to keep your body pure and close to it's original state...what about cell phones? There are people out there who believe ell phones and laptops give off radiation. Is that not part of your cult? Furthermore, who is your "higher power?" Mine is God. And my God has blessed us with technology to help people. How do you know that a C-section wouldn't be God intervening? I just can't believe that you would seriously consider letting your child die over keeping them safe. To me, that is not being a great mother. That is...well you can flag me for this, that is being incredible Fucking stupid.
TTC #1 since February 2011
C/P 5W3D
Betas 8/30 (108) and 9/3 (565)
Me: 29 (3/5/13- high NK cells) DH: 28 (5/8/12- MFI low morph and motility)
Cycle #21 (IUI#1), Cycle #22 (HSG 9/21/12) and Cycle #23 (IUI#2)=
Cycle #24- December Snow Bunny IVF #1
ER 12/6/12 (14R, 11M, 9F), ET 12/9/12 transferred 2 day 3 embies
Bleeding and low betas=very cautious
Cycle #26 March Lucky Duck- FET #1
scheduled 3/20/13- CANCELLED- lining issues
Cycle #27 May Emerald- FET #1.2
delayed- Starting Trental for 3 months + natural cycles Cycle #28-30=
Cycle #31 August Shooting Star- FET #1.3
transferred 1 hatching blast 8/21/13=
U/S 9/19/13- HR is 128! U/S #2 10/4/13- HR is 174!
It's a BOY!
I just don't think you really understand the aftermath of losing a child. You don't seem to think it would be a big deal at all. I assume you feel attached to that baby now right? Well imagine that connection growing as the months go by just to have to plan a funeral for your baby instead of taking that baby home. You sound like a real fucking idiot. Just sit down and think about the whole situation for a minute.
Get YOUR fucking facts straight:
-That link you sent does not list the items in level of severity, it merely categorizes them. (also it was number 3 on the list not 2)
-In the link you sent says smoking increases risk of miscarriage. If it caused miscarriage there would not be generations of women who (whom?) smoked and had healthy babies. This indicates that there have to be other factors, along with smoking to cause a miscarriage. Smoking a couple of cigarettes won't directly result in miscarriage just like a couple of cupcakes won't give you diabeetus.
- Also, it says SOME studies have found, not all.
If you get anymore sand in your vag over this your baby will sitting on a beach.
@redrosepinkdaisy -- I'm not going to bother with you bc by refusing medicine your cult will eventually die out from some outbreak or other medical
complications.
@redrosepinkdaisy Yes, you are in a cult.
You, sweetheart, are an ignorant twat to come in here and dare to announce that mothers who birthed their children by C-section are an insult to mothers who gave "real birth".
Fuck. You.
Guess I should have let my precious son die when my water broke at 35 wks and my body refused to go into labor. Guess I should have refused the drugs that prevented my body from seizing or having a stroke too, huh?
You need to go. Now.
But first, will you sit on this and spin for us?
My life, my love, my boys


DS: Liam born 8.30.10 at 35 wks (PPROM, Pre-E, C-Section)
DD: BFP 6.9.13, EDD 2.12.14, A/S 9.20.13... It's a Girl!
Adeline Leigh born sleeping 2.11.14 at 39 wks 6 days
How very softly you tiptoed into our world, almost silently, only a moment you stayed. But what an imprint your footsteps have left upon our hearts. - Dorothy Ferguson
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