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  • @businesswife- congrats on the strong beta!! best news for the new year!

    @bethann1202- I am so sorry. You sound in a good place though, and I think you are sooo strong. Thinking of you and hoping the next one is IT. You deserve it soooo much!!
    History in Spoiler

    Age: 32 (same with DH). Together since 2006, Married June 2013 and TTC since August 2015
    Diagnosis: Mild Endo, DOR (AMH of 1.5), Poor Quality Eggs/embryos, Displaced Window of Implantation (ERA Post Receptive)
    March-May 2016: 1 TI and 2 IUIs- BFN 
    June 2016- Laproscopy- found/removed mild endo and confirmed only 1 normal healthy ovary.
    August 2016- IVF #1 with Antagonist Protocol- Cancelled (2 lead follies), converted to IUI- BFN
    Oct-Nov 2016- IVF #2 with Estrogen Priming Micro Lupron Protocol, 2 eggs retrieved, day 3 transfer of 1- BFN
    January 2017- New RE, IVF#3 with Estrogen Priming Antagonist Protocol, 12 eggs, 8 mature, 6 fertilized, 2 day 5 early blasts transferred (none to freeze :(), BFN
    May 2017- Sept 2017- Starting Donor Egg process! Waiting for donor to be available... and then she is pregnant at baseline :(
    Oct 2017- Donor #2: 25R, 22M,18F, 12 blasts frozen! Fresh transfer cancelled due to thin lining with fluid :(
    Nov 2017- Hysterscopy to remove polyp
    Dec 2017- DE FET #1 on 12/8 on 2 perfect blasts- BFN and devastated
    Jan-Mar 2018- ERA #1- Post receptive by 24 hours, ERA #2 RECEPTIVE with 4 days of Progesterone
    Apr 2018- DE FET cancelled for lining issues :(
    Jun 2018- DE FET #2 of two 1AA blasts- first BFP ever! Beta 10dp5dt- 378, Beta 14dp5dt- 2840, Beta 16dp5dt- 4035, beta 18dp5dt- 10916. Due on 2/20 with one baby after a vanishing twin
    Baby Born born early @ 33.5 weeks due to Pre-e
    Back for # 2!
  • Congrats @BusinessWife! I am so excited for you! Your success gives me hope! I hope we meet in PGAIF group soon! 
    Me 30, DH 39
    TTC since Aug 2015, 
    BFP Apr 2017 - late diagnosed EP, right tube removed, left tube scarred.
    Dx: tubal IF
    IVF Sept 2017, 7 R, 6M, 6F- 4 blasts, 1 transferred fresh - CP
    FET #1 Dec 2017- BFN
    FET #2 Jan 2018- CP
    FET #3 BFP!!! EDD 12/15/2018!
  • @bethann1022 Sorry about the beta.  I am glad you are staying positive and thinking about what the next plan is. I can understand wanting to do 2 at time for better odds at finding that embryo that is going to stick. Best of luck in 2018. 
    @BusinessWife Excellent news!  Hope to see you around on other boards. 
  • @BusinessWife that is wonderful news. I couldn’t be more excited for you. What a wonderful new year :) 
    • Me: 36 DH: 33
    • TTC since June 2016
    • Me: PCOS DH: Morphology 1%
    • 3 TI with Famera and trigger shots-BFN
    • 3 IUI's with Famera and trigger shots- BFN
    • IVF August 2017 25 eggs retrieved, 19 mature, 13 fertilized (ICSI), 5 frozen, 3 PGS normal 
    • FET November 2017 Transferred one 6 day blast (a little GIRL) BFP EDD 8/4/18

  • @bethann1022 I am so sorry to hear about your beta but 2018 is a new year! Let’s keep working hard to get our babies!

    @BusinessWife Congratulations it’s so nice to see some positives on this board!

    A FM I will be getting my endometrial biopsy and the sonohysterogram on Thursday.  I’m very nervous but I’m hoping it can give us some answers. My next FET we’ll be using baby aspirin and steroids along with the estrogen patches . Before I was using the vaginal suppositories for progesterone but I think I’m going to ask for PIO , With my research it shows that it’s better when doing a FET. 

    I have a question for all of you, do we have a say in how many embryos are transferred? My clinic says under 35 they prefer to only transfer one but I have nine embryos still on ice I think I prefer to put in two .  Do I have a saying that or no is it my RE who decides? 

    Also happy new year girls! I hope its our year !!!!
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    @msd1001 when I did my first transfer I was 33. My doctor did give me a choice if I wanted 1 or 2. I asked him what his recommendation was and he strongly suggested only doing 1.

    I think it also depends on why you are under treatment. I did not have as many issues getting pregnant as I did actually staying pregnant. 

    Best of luck to you!
  • @bethann1022 I'm so sorry about your beta result. Let's keep trying and doing our best this year. (((Hugs)))
  • @BusinessWife Congrats!!!! YEY! First good news of 2018! 
    Me 30, DH 39
    TTC since Aug 2015, 
    BFP Apr 2017 - late diagnosed EP, right tube removed, left tube scarred.
    Dx: tubal IF
    IVF Sept 2017, 7 R, 6M, 6F- 4 blasts, 1 transferred fresh - CP
    FET #1 Dec 2017- BFN
    FET #2 Jan 2018- CP
    FET #3 BFP!!! EDD 12/15/2018!
  • @businesswife That's wonderful news!


  • Hi ladies!  Just checking in to say hi and wish everyone a happy new year!  @BusinessWife - so thrilled for your news.  Keep giving the rest of us hope for 2018.  

    The holidays were better than expected for us.  My parents came into town the day after our BFN and I was really anxious about how it would be, but it was really nice.  We went to the movies and saw a show and ate lots of sweets and laughed a lot.  It was a nice way to end the year, and I'm optimistic about our path forward.  We tentatively discussed continuing with our therapist and moving forward with IVF round 4 (using DS) in March.  

    I'm thinking of all of you and sending good wishes your way!
    TTC since November 2013
    5 failed IUIs
    February 2015 - BFP naturally (ended at 5 weeks in chemical pregnancy)
    August 2015 - first IVF cycle (14 eggs retrieved, 10 mature, 10 fertilized, 2 blasts)
    September 2015 - BFP (ended at 6.5 weeks in chemical pregnancy)
    February 2016 - FET (BFN)
    September 2016 - second IVF cycle (19 eggs retrieved, 16 mature, 12 fertilized, 1 blast)
    Diagnosis: unexplained infertility 


  • update 
    *TW***

    Ultra-sound today at 7 weeks and no yolk sac, only gestational sac, no heartbeat, so it's looking like a MC. We did pgs but I guess it's not foolproof. I'm going back Monday but I think it's just a formality. DH is holding out hope but I was reading the doctors loud and clear. Totally heartbroken:'(

  • I am so sorry, @suziev3. It seems that so many of us got bad news for the last few cycles, even if we did the PGS testing. <3


    Me: 35 DH: 28
    TTC since June 2016

    Azoospermia diagnosis (zero count) Dec 2016

    AZFc chromosome microdeletion discovery March 2017
    Unsuccessful TESE for DH in August 2017
    October 2017 IVF with donor sperm
    29R, 24M, 16F, 2d5, 4d6 (6 embryos total)
    Only 3 could have PGS. 2/3 normal. 5 embies frozen
    12/15/17 FET #1 (1 embryo)--CP
    2/7/17 FET #2 (2 embryos)--BFN
    Chronic endometritis diagnosis May 2018
    ERA Sept 2018--borderline receptive--12 more hours of progesterone
    Abnormal SIS Oct 2018
    Repeat hysteroscopy Nov 1. Treated recurring endometritis.
    12/4/18 FET #3 (2 embryos)--BFN
    Our journey has come to an end.
    ~*~*~Nevertheless, she persisted~*~*~
  • @suziev3 Hugs, I'm so sorry to see this. Take care of yourself.

    @alohakumu Hugs friend. How are you holding up?


  • @suziev3 I just saw your update and I am heartbroken. Words can't describe it, I am so sorry. 
    @adirat how are you doing? Did you test yet? When is your beta?
    Me 30, DH 39
    TTC since Aug 2015, 
    BFP Apr 2017 - late diagnosed EP, right tube removed, left tube scarred.
    Dx: tubal IF
    IVF Sept 2017, 7 R, 6M, 6F- 4 blasts, 1 transferred fresh - CP
    FET #1 Dec 2017- BFN
    FET #2 Jan 2018- CP
    FET #3 BFP!!! EDD 12/15/2018!
  • @adirat I’ve been doing better, but frustrated that they still haven’t gotten me a calendar for another FET. I was told to expect one last Friday or early this week, but I called on Thursday and they still didn’t have anything. I’ve been thinking of you and hoping that your beta is going to show good news!
    Me: 35 DH: 28
    TTC since June 2016

    Azoospermia diagnosis (zero count) Dec 2016

    AZFc chromosome microdeletion discovery March 2017
    Unsuccessful TESE for DH in August 2017
    October 2017 IVF with donor sperm
    29R, 24M, 16F, 2d5, 4d6 (6 embryos total)
    Only 3 could have PGS. 2/3 normal. 5 embies frozen
    12/15/17 FET #1 (1 embryo)--CP
    2/7/17 FET #2 (2 embryos)--BFN
    Chronic endometritis diagnosis May 2018
    ERA Sept 2018--borderline receptive--12 more hours of progesterone
    Abnormal SIS Oct 2018
    Repeat hysteroscopy Nov 1. Treated recurring endometritis.
    12/4/18 FET #3 (2 embryos)--BFN
    Our journey has come to an end.
    ~*~*~Nevertheless, she persisted~*~*~
  • @DecemberDoll27 My beta is Monday so I am eagerly waiting. I've had some promising symptoms so I'm feeling pretty hopeful for beta. How are you doing? Are you doing anything like a scratch or era before your next transfer?

    @alohakumu That's so frustrating. I would want a calendar asap, too. 


  • JamieH2000JamieH2000 member
    edited January 2018
    @suziev3- I am just so sorry. No words for that kind of news. My heart is with you and praying you will have your THB soon!

     @alohakumu- hope you get your calendar ASAP. It shouldn't be that hard! Stay on top of them.. I get mine the same day as my appointment/baseline usually.

     @adirat- I didn't realize you transferred again already! Crossing everything for the best news on mon!
    History in Spoiler

    Age: 32 (same with DH). Together since 2006, Married June 2013 and TTC since August 2015
    Diagnosis: Mild Endo, DOR (AMH of 1.5), Poor Quality Eggs/embryos, Displaced Window of Implantation (ERA Post Receptive)
    March-May 2016: 1 TI and 2 IUIs- BFN 
    June 2016- Laproscopy- found/removed mild endo and confirmed only 1 normal healthy ovary.
    August 2016- IVF #1 with Antagonist Protocol- Cancelled (2 lead follies), converted to IUI- BFN
    Oct-Nov 2016- IVF #2 with Estrogen Priming Micro Lupron Protocol, 2 eggs retrieved, day 3 transfer of 1- BFN
    January 2017- New RE, IVF#3 with Estrogen Priming Antagonist Protocol, 12 eggs, 8 mature, 6 fertilized, 2 day 5 early blasts transferred (none to freeze :(), BFN
    May 2017- Sept 2017- Starting Donor Egg process! Waiting for donor to be available... and then she is pregnant at baseline :(
    Oct 2017- Donor #2: 25R, 22M,18F, 12 blasts frozen! Fresh transfer cancelled due to thin lining with fluid :(
    Nov 2017- Hysterscopy to remove polyp
    Dec 2017- DE FET #1 on 12/8 on 2 perfect blasts- BFN and devastated
    Jan-Mar 2018- ERA #1- Post receptive by 24 hours, ERA #2 RECEPTIVE with 4 days of Progesterone
    Apr 2018- DE FET cancelled for lining issues :(
    Jun 2018- DE FET #2 of two 1AA blasts- first BFP ever! Beta 10dp5dt- 378, Beta 14dp5dt- 2840, Beta 16dp5dt- 4035, beta 18dp5dt- 10916. Due on 2/20 with one baby after a vanishing twin
    Baby Born born early @ 33.5 weeks due to Pre-e
    Back for # 2!
  • @suziev3. I am so so sorry.  That is absolutely devastating.  Please be good to yourself right now.. ❤❤❤

    @Alohakumu oh, that is so frustrating. And now of course, it's the weekend... fx you get something concrete to go by on Monday!!!

    @adirat. So freaking excited for you!!!  I have just had such a good feeling the whole time about this transfer for you... fx for amazing numbers on Monday!!!
  • @adirat I am very excited to hear about your promising symptoms! We did endometrial scratch, transfer is on the 15th. I am hopeful this time it will work. 
    Me 30, DH 39
    TTC since Aug 2015, 
    BFP Apr 2017 - late diagnosed EP, right tube removed, left tube scarred.
    Dx: tubal IF
    IVF Sept 2017, 7 R, 6M, 6F- 4 blasts, 1 transferred fresh - CP
    FET #1 Dec 2017- BFN
    FET #2 Jan 2018- CP
    FET #3 BFP!!! EDD 12/15/2018!
  • *lurking* good luck with your beta! @adirat
  • Thanks everyone.  I appreciate your kind words.  I don't have any frozen so I'll be off the boards for a while.  I wish you all the best with your transfers, betas, etc.  
  • @adirat I am waiting for your good news today!
    Me 30, DH 39
    TTC since Aug 2015, 
    BFP Apr 2017 - late diagnosed EP, right tube removed, left tube scarred.
    Dx: tubal IF
    IVF Sept 2017, 7 R, 6M, 6F- 4 blasts, 1 transferred fresh - CP
    FET #1 Dec 2017- BFN
    FET #2 Jan 2018- CP
    FET #3 BFP!!! EDD 12/15/2018!
  • @adirat- congrats girl!! So happy for you!! Did you do anything differently this time? I remember that you had sent me that reddit article :) this was your second transfer right? Fx for a great second beta!
    History in Spoiler

    Age: 32 (same with DH). Together since 2006, Married June 2013 and TTC since August 2015
    Diagnosis: Mild Endo, DOR (AMH of 1.5), Poor Quality Eggs/embryos, Displaced Window of Implantation (ERA Post Receptive)
    March-May 2016: 1 TI and 2 IUIs- BFN 
    June 2016- Laproscopy- found/removed mild endo and confirmed only 1 normal healthy ovary.
    August 2016- IVF #1 with Antagonist Protocol- Cancelled (2 lead follies), converted to IUI- BFN
    Oct-Nov 2016- IVF #2 with Estrogen Priming Micro Lupron Protocol, 2 eggs retrieved, day 3 transfer of 1- BFN
    January 2017- New RE, IVF#3 with Estrogen Priming Antagonist Protocol, 12 eggs, 8 mature, 6 fertilized, 2 day 5 early blasts transferred (none to freeze :(), BFN
    May 2017- Sept 2017- Starting Donor Egg process! Waiting for donor to be available... and then she is pregnant at baseline :(
    Oct 2017- Donor #2: 25R, 22M,18F, 12 blasts frozen! Fresh transfer cancelled due to thin lining with fluid :(
    Nov 2017- Hysterscopy to remove polyp
    Dec 2017- DE FET #1 on 12/8 on 2 perfect blasts- BFN and devastated
    Jan-Mar 2018- ERA #1- Post receptive by 24 hours, ERA #2 RECEPTIVE with 4 days of Progesterone
    Apr 2018- DE FET cancelled for lining issues :(
    Jun 2018- DE FET #2 of two 1AA blasts- first BFP ever! Beta 10dp5dt- 378, Beta 14dp5dt- 2840, Beta 16dp5dt- 4035, beta 18dp5dt- 10916. Due on 2/20 with one baby after a vanishing twin
    Baby Born born early @ 33.5 weeks due to Pre-e
    Back for # 2!
  • @adirat yey!!! I am so happy for you! I hope I will join you at PGAIF  in about 3 weeks
    Me 30, DH 39
    TTC since Aug 2015, 
    BFP Apr 2017 - late diagnosed EP, right tube removed, left tube scarred.
    Dx: tubal IF
    IVF Sept 2017, 7 R, 6M, 6F- 4 blasts, 1 transferred fresh - CP
    FET #1 Dec 2017- BFN
    FET #2 Jan 2018- CP
    FET #3 BFP!!! EDD 12/15/2018!
  • **lurking**

    @adirat Wow!!! I'm so happy for you!!!! Congratulations! This wonderful news is giving me so much hope. After our devastating FET last November, now here you are with this amazing surprise. I hope and pray for more and more good updates from you. 

    afm, I'm at the Jan IUI board right now, waiting for my LH surge and probably would have my procedure 1/10 or 1/12.
  • @decemberdoll27 @tinjp78 @jamieh2000 Yes, please join me at PGAIF soon!!! I love you guys and I want to see you there too. I actually haven't joined yet...but I'm hoping my second beta will look good and I'll feel confident about going over there. 

    @JamieH2000 Yes, after reading that article, I talked to my RE about doing something different. He did an endometrial scratch before this FET, and I truly believe it helped. My only natural conception was the cycle of my HSG where the balloon hit the side of my uterus and caused a lot of bleeding (that pregnancy was a second tri loss but it was genetic-related, not related to my uterus or anything). Anyway, my RE speculated that my uterus might need some sort of damage to turn on the receptivity. Apparently that's a thing.  


  • @adirat, @BusinessWife and other ladies, I have a question for you, guys. On your successful FET( or any FET cycle at this point) cycle when did you start PIO? I know that it starts 5 days pre-transfer but on your first PIO day was it am or pm? My last FET ( BFN) my instructions were to do it in the pm on the first day. However, this cycle they did not specify. I am waiting for the nurse to call me about it but I also want to know what other people did. Please help.
    Me 30, DH 39
    TTC since Aug 2015, 
    BFP Apr 2017 - late diagnosed EP, right tube removed, left tube scarred.
    Dx: tubal IF
    IVF Sept 2017, 7 R, 6M, 6F- 4 blasts, 1 transferred fresh - CP
    FET #1 Dec 2017- BFN
    FET #2 Jan 2018- CP
    FET #3 BFP!!! EDD 12/15/2018!
  • @adirat- Thanks for sharing! i am glad it did the trick for you! I have polyps removed before my FET, and it was like a scratch, so unfortunately I don't think it helped. I will be doing the ERA this time before, which is also like a scratch, so I have that covered at least :) I think I am going to ask for a steroid too just in case I have anything immune going on. Can't wait to hear your second beta.

    @Decemberdoll27- I have not done  PIO medicated FET, but with my natural/stimulated FET, I ovulated on a sun morning (so progesterone started flowing sunday during the day) and I started my supplementation on Sunday Evening. We transferred at 1pm on the next Friday. Not sure if that helps, but that was my timing...
    History in Spoiler

    Age: 32 (same with DH). Together since 2006, Married June 2013 and TTC since August 2015
    Diagnosis: Mild Endo, DOR (AMH of 1.5), Poor Quality Eggs/embryos, Displaced Window of Implantation (ERA Post Receptive)
    March-May 2016: 1 TI and 2 IUIs- BFN 
    June 2016- Laproscopy- found/removed mild endo and confirmed only 1 normal healthy ovary.
    August 2016- IVF #1 with Antagonist Protocol- Cancelled (2 lead follies), converted to IUI- BFN
    Oct-Nov 2016- IVF #2 with Estrogen Priming Micro Lupron Protocol, 2 eggs retrieved, day 3 transfer of 1- BFN
    January 2017- New RE, IVF#3 with Estrogen Priming Antagonist Protocol, 12 eggs, 8 mature, 6 fertilized, 2 day 5 early blasts transferred (none to freeze :(), BFN
    May 2017- Sept 2017- Starting Donor Egg process! Waiting for donor to be available... and then she is pregnant at baseline :(
    Oct 2017- Donor #2: 25R, 22M,18F, 12 blasts frozen! Fresh transfer cancelled due to thin lining with fluid :(
    Nov 2017- Hysterscopy to remove polyp
    Dec 2017- DE FET #1 on 12/8 on 2 perfect blasts- BFN and devastated
    Jan-Mar 2018- ERA #1- Post receptive by 24 hours, ERA #2 RECEPTIVE with 4 days of Progesterone
    Apr 2018- DE FET cancelled for lining issues :(
    Jun 2018- DE FET #2 of two 1AA blasts- first BFP ever! Beta 10dp5dt- 378, Beta 14dp5dt- 2840, Beta 16dp5dt- 4035, beta 18dp5dt- 10916. Due on 2/20 with one baby after a vanishing twin
    Baby Born born early @ 33.5 weeks due to Pre-e
    Back for # 2!
  • @jamieh2000 My RE prescribed 5 days of steroids (medrol) for both of my FETs. It's possible I have mild endometriosis and he said better safe than sorry with the transfer. I would definitely recommend trying a steroid, just in case! 

    @DecemberDoll27 I started my suppositories in the morning 5 days before both FETs, which were both in the late morning. For this one I remember starting the suppositories the morning of the 24th (along with aspirin and medrol), and the transfer was the 29th at 11 AM. I hope the nurse calls you back soon!



  • @adirat how did the second beta go? I keep looking for your happy updates at PGAIF board and here? 
    Me 30, DH 39
    TTC since Aug 2015, 
    BFP Apr 2017 - late diagnosed EP, right tube removed, left tube scarred.
    Dx: tubal IF
    IVF Sept 2017, 7 R, 6M, 6F- 4 blasts, 1 transferred fresh - CP
    FET #1 Dec 2017- BFN
    FET #2 Jan 2018- CP
    FET #3 BFP!!! EDD 12/15/2018!
  • @DecemberDoll27 I haven't gotten my second beta results yet :( I'm traveling for work and eagerly watching my phone but nothing yet...


  • @adirat- Hoping your second beta was awesome!! Thinking of you!
    History in Spoiler

    Age: 32 (same with DH). Together since 2006, Married June 2013 and TTC since August 2015
    Diagnosis: Mild Endo, DOR (AMH of 1.5), Poor Quality Eggs/embryos, Displaced Window of Implantation (ERA Post Receptive)
    March-May 2016: 1 TI and 2 IUIs- BFN 
    June 2016- Laproscopy- found/removed mild endo and confirmed only 1 normal healthy ovary.
    August 2016- IVF #1 with Antagonist Protocol- Cancelled (2 lead follies), converted to IUI- BFN
    Oct-Nov 2016- IVF #2 with Estrogen Priming Micro Lupron Protocol, 2 eggs retrieved, day 3 transfer of 1- BFN
    January 2017- New RE, IVF#3 with Estrogen Priming Antagonist Protocol, 12 eggs, 8 mature, 6 fertilized, 2 day 5 early blasts transferred (none to freeze :(), BFN
    May 2017- Sept 2017- Starting Donor Egg process! Waiting for donor to be available... and then she is pregnant at baseline :(
    Oct 2017- Donor #2: 25R, 22M,18F, 12 blasts frozen! Fresh transfer cancelled due to thin lining with fluid :(
    Nov 2017- Hysterscopy to remove polyp
    Dec 2017- DE FET #1 on 12/8 on 2 perfect blasts- BFN and devastated
    Jan-Mar 2018- ERA #1- Post receptive by 24 hours, ERA #2 RECEPTIVE with 4 days of Progesterone
    Apr 2018- DE FET cancelled for lining issues :(
    Jun 2018- DE FET #2 of two 1AA blasts- first BFP ever! Beta 10dp5dt- 378, Beta 14dp5dt- 2840, Beta 16dp5dt- 4035, beta 18dp5dt- 10916. Due on 2/20 with one baby after a vanishing twin
    Baby Born born early @ 33.5 weeks due to Pre-e
    Back for # 2!
  • Thanks @jamieh2000! Yes, my second beta more than tripled after 55 hours. I have my first ultrasound on Friday and I'm really hoping things look good and I can start to feel a little more confident about this pregnancy.

    How are you doing?


  • @adirat Awesome news!!! I'm so happy for you! 
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