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  • ilovemarfailovemarfa member
    I know this is random but it fits in with the whole changing at the gym thing. There is this one woman at my gym who walks around nude in the locker room. I only drop into the locker room to put my keys (and jacket when cold) in the locker and she always naked! She showers and then dries her hair naked. I go at the same time daily (at night) so I see her every time I go. Has anybody ever encountered this at the gym because it makes me super uncomfortable.
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  • ASmallWonderASmallWonder member
    Family drama alert.  Last month DH, BIL and I all realized that other BIL had unfriended us all on FB.  He's a drama queen anyway so no one cared to ask him why lol  Turns out, he was pissed at his two brothers (who both have kids) because he texted them both "Happy Father's Day" and is pissed that they didn't respond the same to him.  He doesn't have children.  His fiance has a 14 year old son who and he has recently moved in with them.  Ok so maybe a little hurt if he considers himself a father? But he unfriended without a word and worse still, I got caught up in it and had nothing to do with it.  

    Anyway, DH called his parents today to find out if they can come down on a particular day in October to watch the boys for us and they can't because guess who's getting married?  And neither brother is invited.  Over a Father's Day text.  Ridiculous.
    Formerly known as elmoali :)

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  • itsStackieitsStackie member
    @GraceInCA‌ ygpm
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  • lioness13lioness13 member
    @asmallwonder - is that all that happened? It sounds like there's more to it. If he has been mad at them since June, how come they are just realizing it? Are they already not very close?
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  • ASmallWonderASmallWonder member
    @lioness13 There definitely is more to the family dynamic but honestly nothing specific to them.  He was married before and was very isolated from the family.  He blames the ex and when he left her and proclaimed himself newly invested in relationship with his brothers, nephews and niece. He lived with my ILs for a while and was staying there when we visited last summer and he seemed to have a blast with Aiden.  But he attends no get togethers or parties at our house (we live about 2 hours away but the ILs come down for that stuff).  Now he has begun not visiting the ILs' house when he knows we will be there.  He has pulled back to exactly how he was with the ex.  DH and the other brother basically called bs on blaming the ex from the start but for the sake of keeping the peace, they accepted him at his word but he's obviously just never going to be involved.

    We went there for July 4th week and the ILs had a cookout.  He didn't come, claiming a kidney stone.  The next day he told MIL he needed to "rest."  FIL saw a picture of him mini golfing and asked me and DH if we'd seen it.  That's when we realized we'd been unfriended.  The other brother did ask him why and the Father's Day text story is exactly what dramatic brother said the issue was.
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  • lioness13lioness13 member
    Tuesday nights are my favorite tv night. I love Married at First Sight and Born to Style! The one liners on Bawn to Stywe (love the NY accents too!) kill me!
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    @ASmallWonder‌ - what a jerk! I don't understand people that can treat their family like that for no reason.
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  • ASmallWonderASmallWonder member
    lioness13 said:
    @ASmallWonder‌ - what a jerk! I don't understand people that can treat their family like that for no reason.
    I know!  But to me, it really speaks to not really caring in the first place, like I said.  I adore my brother and it would take a damn lot for me to walk away without a conversation.  Like, abuse of me or my kids. A slight?  A comment?  I care too much to walk away without at least making the issue known but apparently, he doesn't.

    I feel bad for my ILs because obviously they're kind of in the middle but it does tick me off that my MIL defended him for so long.  When we were all kind of "meh" about his new view on family, she got really pissed.  He's proving us right though.
    Formerly known as elmoali :)

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  • ColieAnn31ColieAnn31 member
    We haven't had dinner yet and it's getting late. Got any ideas on what we should have?
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  • lioness13lioness13 member
    @kdc2007‌ - are you going to tell us about the trial you sat on?
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    itsStackie said:
    @GraceInCA‌ ygpm
    And you. 

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  • needanustartneedanustart member
    @GraceInCA‌ I think you are giving this guy far too much old timey credit. He's in his 20s and after talking to him several times in person I can assure you the maroon meant moron :)

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    @wren1212 YGPM
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  • ASmallWonderASmallWonder member
    GraceInCA said:
    calikat80 said:
    Someone I'm FB friends with who isn't very smart just was ranting about something and wrote, "what a bunch of maroons" among several other grammatical errors. It is taking all my willpower not to comment and say something like, "yeah, screw them and their dumb friends magenta too." I don't know why I find the maroons trying so funny. Something about insulting someone's intelligence with a mistake is just hilarious to me.
    I think the "maroon" thing is not unusual - it's an old Bugs Bunny joke.

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    LOL yes.  My dad always says it :)
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    Mmm filet!
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