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  • I am absolutely heartbroken for you. Keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers. Please let us know if you need anything.
  • My heart is breaking for you both.  Thoughs and prayers are with you during this difficult time.  I am so sorry for your losses.

    "When the world says, 'Give up,' Hope whispers, 'Try one more time.'" -Anonymous

  • I am so so so very sorry for you loss.
  • I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart is breaking for you. You and your DH will be in my thoughts and prayers.

    I'm so sorry.

    Renee- 37 DH - Chad - 39
    2/06 - surprise pregnancy - twins
    3/06 - m/c 1st baby at 6 weeks 
    5/06 -2nd baby had no heartbeat at 14 wks.
    D&E - Bled out. Blood transfusions. Week in ICU - Cheated Death!
    Diagnosis: Blood clotting and bleeding disorder, immune issues, & cervical stenosis
    5/10 - 1st IVF cycle - BFN
    FET - 10/12/10 - BFN
    1/11 - IVF with PGD - BFN
    IVF - May - BFN
    6/11 New RE - fingers crossed!
    9/11 - IVF - 4 transferred
    10/13 - BFP!!
    It's a boy! Clint Michael, Due in June!!!

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  • I am so so sorry
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  • I'm so incredibly sorry.  I commented on your original post on multiples and I've been looking for your update post.  My prayers are with you and your beautiful boys.  I'm sorry.

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  • Thanks everyone for your kind words. We are truly touched. It may be a few days but I may take some of you with similar losses up on your offers. I will also check out the loss board that you recommended.
    TTC #1 since October 2008. Dealing with MFI.
    IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
    IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
    IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
    Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
    IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP!
    Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
    Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
    IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
    IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
    ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer :(
    Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
    IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
    IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
    **P/SAIF and P/SAL always welcome!**

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  • Oh Sweetie, I am so sorry.  I don't even know what to say.  ((Huge hugs))

  • I am so very sorry for your loss. There just aren't any words that we can say to help comfort you during this time but please know we are all keeping you in our thoughts & saying a prayer for you. ((HUGS))
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    TTC for 5+ years
    2/09 - TI = BFP * 3/09 - M/C with D&C * 8/09 - C/P
    Jan - July '10 - Clomid/Follistim + IUI = all BFN
    Aug - IVF #1 - 3 embies transferred = BFN
    Mar - IVF #2 - 2 embies transferred & 4 frosties = BFN
    June - FET #1 * 2 embies transferred = BFP (C/P @ 5w4d)
    Sept - FET #2 * 2 embies transferred = BFP
    Nov - M/C & D&C at 10 weeks
    May - surprise BFP with no medical intervention
    Sept - 20 week US showed we're having a BOY!
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  • Illinigal, I'm so very sorry for your loss. My heart hurts for you and YH. I will be keeping the both of you and the boys in my thoughts and prayers.
    Gretta Garbo!
    Started TTC 10/2009
    Long history of Endo and pelvic floor pain; dx: PCOS (annovulatory) and IR 12/2010

  • I am soo sorry ((big hugs)).

    TTC#1 for 19 months with PCOS and MFI IUI#3 + injectables = BFP!!!!  Beta#1-134(13dpiui) Beta #2-392(15dpiui) 
    #1 born December 2011
    TTC#2 - Beta #1 [email protected] Beta#2 -1353 @16dpo
    #2 born May 2013
    TTC # 3 June 2014 BFP 12-1-14
    #3 born August 2015 
    #4!!!!!!! due June 2017 
  • Big hugs to you!  Thinking of you all...and lots of prayers!
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    TTC #2 since 9/09 --- mild PCOS; Endometriosis
    IUI x4 = BFN
    IVF = sometime in 2012
  • Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry. Please please let me know if you need to talk. My e-mail is magdalina.h @ gmail . com. Community North has a great pregnancy/ infant loss support group that meets every 3rd Thursday of the month.
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  • I'm speechless and SO so sorry for your loss:(  It's just not fair and I hope that you and DH take the time you need to grieve.  You're definitely in my thoughts and prayers:(
    TTC #1 since 4/09

    Diagnosed with PCOS 10/09

    3 rounds clomid + TI, 6 IUI's with injectibles- All BFN!!:(

    IVF #1 ER 2-7-11, ET 2-12-11 (transferred 1 perfect embie, 11 snow babies)

    After almost 2 years of waiting, our miracle baby girl was born October 29, 2011!

    I might have to wait, I'll never give up I guess it's half timing, and the other half's luck

    Wherever you are, whenever it's right you'll come out of nowhere and into my life
  • I am so, so sorry for your losses hun. My thoughts and prayers are going out to you and your DH. (((HUGS)))
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    ~TTC since June 2009~
    ~March 2011: Diagnosed with Unexplained IF~
    ~50 mg Clomid Cycles in March, April, and May--BFN~
    ***Surprise BFP 07-18-2011***
    ~Beta 1: 585 07-19-11~ ~Beta 2: 2218 07-22-11~
    Our Little Blessing was born on March 31, 2012
  • oh no! I'm so so sorry. My heart breaks for you and your family. ((HUGS))
    TTC Since 01/09
    Unexplained IF
    Clomid cycle 1-3 - BFN IUI 1-3 - BFN 
    IVF 1 - BFP 4/4/11 - It's a boy!
    FET 1 - BFP M/C 6/14
    IVF 2 - 33R/19F 12 PGS resulted in 5 normal embies
    FET 1 scheduled 12/10/14
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  • Oh honey!! I am so so so sorry to hear this!!! Please know that you & your family are in my thoughts & prayers!!!
    PAIF/SAIF Always Welcome
    TTC #1 Since 3/2010 Diagnosed with POF
    6/2010-IVF #1 Cancelled after ER b/c 0 eggs recovered
    On to Donor Eggs
    9-30-10 IVF w/ DE begins & Donor started stims 10-4-10
    Donor ER 10-14-10 14 Fertilized Eggs ~ ET 10-17-10 (7 Frosties)
    IVF #1 11-18-10 M/C @ 7 Weeks~Stopped growing @ 5 Weeks
    FET #1 2-1-2011
    Beta #1 13dp3dt 2-14-2011~722
    Beta #2 15dp3dt 2-16-2011~1942
    1st U/S 3-3-2011~Twin Girls

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  • I am so so sorry for your losses.  It's so unfair and I'll be thinking of you and DH.  Take care of each other and hang in there.


    TTC since August 2009, DX = PCOS, DH = perfect!

    IUI #1 - 6 (Femara + Ovidrel) = BFN

    IUI #7 (Bravelle + Ovidrel) = BFP!

    Beta #1 = 155, Beta #2 = 326
    EDD 11/22/11

  • Omg I am so sorry -- this completely broke my heart. Big hugs and TPs.
    Married November 2007
    DH became a double above knee amputee with traumatic brain injury (TBI) - July 2009
    TTC - August 2009 DX: Severe MFI & TF due to TBI
    DH SA 0 count, started clomid therapy - November 2010
    DH SA 0 count, increased clomid dosage - January 2011
    DH SA 75 million with 60% motility!! - May 2011
    IVF with ICSI ONLY OPTION - May 2011
    3dt of 2 Grade A 8&7 cell embryos May 19, 2011
    +HPT May 30 2011 -- Memorial Day!
    Beta #1 = 34 Beta #2 = 101.8 Beta #3 = 603!
    Expecting beautiful Eden Grace February 7, 2012!
    I don't believe that God ever tells us "no". he has three options. Yes, not right now, or I have something better in mind. We just have to wait & see. BabyFetus Ticker
  • No no no! There are no words. You and your dh are in our thoughts and prayers.

  • I am so very sorry.
    TTC since 8/07 DX - Severe MFI/azoospermia & MTHFR/ TESEs found sperm - 7/08 & 6/09/ 12/08 - IVF#1 - BFN/ 6/09 - IVF #2 - cancelled due to OHSS risk (had retrieval)/ 7/09 - FET #1 - BFN/ 9/09 - FET #2 - BFN/ 11/09 - IVF #3 with new RE cancelled twice - 10/09 & 11/09/ 1/10 - IVF #3 take 3 - BFN/ 4/10 - IVF #4 - first ever BFP on 5/13/10!!! 108 @ 10dp3dt/ 2nd beta 311!/ sono on 5/28/10 said TWINS!!!! Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
  • I am so sorry for your loss.  I can't imagine what you are going through.  No words can describe how sorry I am.

    After more than 2 years of fertility treatments, FET did the trick!
    IVF March 2012 - BFP! - Severe OHSS = 8 days in the hospital in kidney failure
    No heartbeat at 10w6d
    FET August 27,2012 = BFP!
    It's a boy!
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  • OMG - My heart just dropped.  I am so very sorry!!!!  Please take care of yourself and DH right now.  I'm thinking of you!
    TTC since April 2009 dx = PCOS; TTC History for DS - A FET miracle after 7 IUIs; 2 fresh transfers, and 1 other FET resulted in BFNs. Hoping and Praying for baby #2: Cycle 1 - FET; November 2012 BFN Next Steps - who knows? Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
  • I am so, so sorry sweetie.  So very sorry.  You and your DH will be in my T&Ps.  You're right, you will get through this. 

    TTC in 2008. Stage II/III endo, Hashimotos hypothyroid, low morph (3%).
    2 cycles Clomid/Ovidrel/TI/Crinone=BFN.
    IUI #1 - 4 Follistim/Ovidrel/IUI/Crinone = BFN.
    IVF #1 - Antagonist w/ ICSI 4/10. 17 retrieved, 5DT of 2, BFN :(
    IVF #2 - Long Lupron w/ ICSI 6/10. 15 retrieved, 3DT of 2, BFFN!!
    Lap 7/21/10
    IVF #3 - Clomid/Antagonist w/ ICSI 10/10. 14 retreived, 3DT of 3, BFP 10/20 but m/c. No HB 11/15/10 - D&C 11/17/10.
    FET - 2 blasts, 1 survived the thaw. Transfer 2/19. Beta #1 3/1 375, Beta #2 3/3 885, Beta #3 3/8 4261, Beta #4 3/11 9005. U/S 3/8 1 sac 1 yolk, U/S 3/16 1 heartbeat 114bpm!


    James born Oct. 24th 2011 via c-section at 38 weeks!

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    Surprise BFP - Jack born April 28, 2013 via VBAC after PTL at 33 1/2 weeks!

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  • I hope you don't mind me board-crashing, but I just wanted to say that I am so, so unbelievably sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself, sweetie. xoxo

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  • Oh no!! I am so very sorry for you loss. I cannot believe this is happening to you. I am so heartbroken for you and YH. You both will be in my T&P's. ((big big hugs))
    TTC #1 since Oct 09 Dx w/Anovulation

    Cycle #7: 1/10/11 = Surprise BFP after 3rd failed treatment cycle!!!    2/24: m m/c @ 10w0d

    4/11: Natural Cycle = BFP!!
    IT'S A BOY!!! :)
    Brady: Born 12/25/2011 - Our Christmas Day Miracle!
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    TTC #2 June 13
    Cycle #1: BFP!
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  • my heart is broken for you.  I pray for healing and strength to get you through these times. 
    4.5 years TTC

    22 rounds of meds, S/p two exploratory laps, one ovarian wedge resection and one d&c for miscarriage in 9/09
    IVF #1 - BFP!

    We have our IVF miracle in the making! Sweet little Jackson Lewis will be arriving around Thanksgiving day! We are so blessed!

  • I am so very sorry. You are in my prayers, sweetie. Big, huge ((hugs))
    Diagnosed with anovulatory PCOS & hypothyroidism
    IUI 1-4=BFN, Lap done, IVF #1=ectopic, breast lumpectomy=no cancer!
    FET #1: beta #1=333, beta #2=914, beta #3=2138, 1st u/s=1 little peanut HB 142bpm 7w1d

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  • Oh my gosh...I am crying with you right now.  I am so sorry to hear the news.  You and your family will be in my thoughts. 
    TTC #1 since 4/09
    2/21/11: IVF #1 Begins and results in TWINS!
    11/4/11: The twins are born at 36w4d!
    11/5/11: We said goodbye to our sweet baby girl as she was born with multiple complications and a severe heart defect, Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome.
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  • I'm so sorry.  I can't imagine what you and your husband are going through right now.  I will be praying for you.
    TTC Child #1 Sept '08, Dx: Unexplained, DOR 2 IUI's = BFN, m/c, IVF 1 = 0 embies to put back, IVF 2 = BFN, IVF 3 = cancelled, IVF 4 = BFP with 1 embie. Our son came into our life on 9/28/11. We are in love! Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • My heart is so heavy and aching for you, hun... I am so very very sorry for your loss.. You and your DH are in my thoughts and prayers....
    Mark 11:24 Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.

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  • I am so so sorry
    b/w=FSH 15.6, AMH 0.4 surprise natural BFP on 3/12/11
    DS born via unplanned C-section at 40w6d


  • I know there is nothing I can really say to make you feel better but I am so so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your husband and sending love and support. I am so very sorry.
    DS born 10/2008 TTC #2 since 8/2009 MFI and natural killer cell activation diagnosis IVF #4 = BFP!! Due 10/12!!
  • I'm am so sorry for your loss :(  I can't imagine what you are going through right now   ((((((((HUGS))))))))
  • Words really can't express the sadness and heartbreak I feel for you and your H.  I hope you guys are able to find some peace and comfort from each other.  Know that we are all thinking and praying for you!!
    I am AMA and all tests on H came back normal
    3 failed IVF with OE and 2 failed frozen DE cycles
    Last fresh hail mary DE cycle starting Feb 2013
    PAIF/SAIF always welcome
  • i am so so very heartbroken for you and your DH. i have no words =( you will be in my t&P and know that we are all here for you. biggest of ((HUGS))
    ::PAIF/SAIF Welcome::

    TTC since July 2008
    IUI 1,2,3 BFN
    IVF #1 C/P, FET 1,2,3 BFN
    IVF#2 BFP

    it's a girl!!

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  • Oh no!  I'm absolutely crushed to hear this.  I don't have the words to say how sorry I am.  I will be praying for you & your DH.
  • NO!!!!! I am so very sorry Illinigal.  My heart aches for you, DH, and your boys.  Take time to heal and regain your strength.  We are here for you. xo
    DH:41 Me:33

    Dx: MFI (very low everything)

    IVF/ICSI Only Option

    IVF #1 (antagonist): 01/2011: 9ER; 8M; 5FN; 3(3dt) = BFN

    IVF #2 (agonist): 05/2011: 13ER; 12M; 8FN; 2(3dt) = BFP (1 frostie)

    +HPT 8dp3dt; Betas: #1 12dp3dt=174; #2 19dp3dt=3461; u/s 7w5d = heterotopic pregnancy = 2 D&Cs for uterine (Trisomy 16) and meds to dissolve ectopic

    IVF #3 (agonist w BCP): 12/2011: 10ER; 9M; 8FN; 2(5dt)= BFP (2 frosties)

    +HPT 4dp5dt; Betas: #1 9dp5dt=363; #2 11dp5dt=896; B/G Twins - c/s at 37wks2d due to HELLP Syndrome

  • I am so sorry.  I have no words for you, but you are all in my prayers.  Please take care of yourself and DH.  ((Hugs))

    me 33/DH 36
    ttc since 10/2008; d/x: mild MFI, stageII endo
    ~~PAIF/SAIF Welcome~~
    11 IUI’s = 1 m/c (7w4d)
    IVF#1 January 2012 BFN, FET #1 April 2012 BFN
    Surprise BFP October 2012 m/c (7w), Surprise BFP April 2013 m/c (6w4d)
    IVF #2: July 2013, ET 1 embryo 7/18, beta 1 @ 14dp3dt - 757, beta 2 @ 16dp3dt - 1762
    U/S 1 @ 6w4d = 1 little frogger with HB of 118, U/S 2 @ 7w3d measuring right on track with HB of 160
    Stick Frogger Stick! Please!!!!!!!!!!!!!   It's a Girl, EDD April 7, 2014

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  • Oh no! I'm so sorry!  ((hugs))
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