Bail Thread for @dpjennifer

kiki75

@BumpAdmin @bumptara @BumpCaitlin

Please reinstate @dpjennifer She is a valued member of this community. She has put waaaayyyy more into this group than someone who just shows up once in a while to try to use these ladies like her own personal Google staff.

zamoraspin

@BumpAdmin 100% agree with @kiki75. 

kels0091

uhoh what happened.?! 
@BumpAdmin pleaseee

nomangos23

Agreed. We love @dpjennifer

chichiphin

FREE @dpjennifer

suzycupcake

If this can actually work @BumpAdmin, please don't ban our friend. It's hard on this journey and watching other people come here, completely disregarding the rules, gets to be so frustrating. Not only that, but they come here to troll us with super insensitive comments. How come our enjoyment doesn't matter too? It seems unfair to get reprimanded for standing up for ourselves. Please put her back where she goes!

holly321

@dpjennifer has been an amazing support to so many women through what can be a hard terrible journey.

@BumpAdmin she should not be banned.

adirat

My full support for @dpjennifer ! She is a valued and incredibly supportive member of this community. 

dpjennifer

First of all, I just want to say:


I'm officially on a Level 4 Warning (I was on a Level 2 Warning from last April, that was set to expire soon. Not sure what happened to level 3, but apparently I'm so horrid I deserve Bump Jail. No. Literally. It says "You have been jailed.").
This apparently means that I can't start posts, and can't post as often. *le sigh*.  Feel free to PM me though, because apparently that's not stymied? Also, my awesome signature and geeky image are hidden. 
So anyway, I love you all and thank you for the support... since I'm not sure what "can't post as often" means, I'll leave you with a few GIFS:

rainafire77

dpjennifer said:

First of all, I just want to say:


I'm officially on a Level 4 Warning (I was on a Level 2 Warning from last April, that was set to expire soon. Not sure what happened to level 3, but apparently I'm so horrid I deserve Bump Jail. No. Literally. It says "You have been jailed.").
This apparently means that I can't start posts, and can't post as often. *le sigh*.  Feel free to PM me though, because apparently that's not stymied? Also, my awesome signature and geeky image are hidden. 
So anyway, I love you all and thank you for the support... since I'm not sure what "can't post as often" means, I'll leave you with a few GIFS:

charmedlifex3

I didn't know internet jail was a thing! Not nice!

dpjennifer

suzycupcake

@dpjennifer Is it bad that NPH is turning me on right now? #nosexfromivf #bitterhagpartyof1

meggyme

*Lurking*
@BumpAdmin
FREE @dpjennifer and jail the real trolls!

lillywonderland

Here’s to hoping your stay in jail is like this @dpjennifer:

TJtheGoat

*lurking to say

FREE @dpjennifer
She is an important part of the community and has earned the right to post. Why punish someone for responding to posts that are just trollling?

lulu1180

@BumpAdmin Free @dpjennifer!  There was nothing she said yesterday that was so bad, it deserves this level of punishment!  She's has been through the unthinkable too many times (4 MCs if I remember right) and yet still finds it in her to come here and be an incredibly supportive member of the community; helping those that have been through some of what she has, cheering them on, and helping lift them up when they need it.  I wish we had more people like her on this board.  If she's a little snarky at times, it's because, just like most of us, she's sick of seeing the drive-bys come through this board, using us as Google or rubbing their random BFPs in the the faces of all of us who are struggling.  She does nothing more than defend her friends and try to keep us from being hurt by people who are beyond inconsiderate of our feelings.
Let's take a look at the numbers.
@dpjennifer joined The Bump October 2015, has posted 54 threads and has made 1,598 replies.  She has received 3,763 love-tits.  The drive-by from yesterday, in comparison, joined January 2017, has posted a total of 6 threads and has made only 47 replies.  Her love-tit count totals 37.  Every single post she has made was a thread looking for attention, looking for information that could easily be found on Google, or simply looking to stir shit up.  And every single reply she has made was on one of the threads that she has started.  She has shown no support for any other member on this board (ever!) and she has come back multiple times just to mock and torment us, knowing she will likely get a rise out of us.  @dpjennifer has received more than 100x the amount of love-tits that the drive-by has and yet she's the one being punished??  If this is kept up and regulars keep getting banned or jailed because of drive-bys like this, soon this board will be nothing but drive-by because no one will want to participate for fear of getting the ban hammer like so many before them.  

So, please @BumpAdmin, rethink what you've done and free @dpjennifer!
Free dpjennifer!  Free dpjennifer!  Free dpjennifer!

KariAnn323

@BumpAdmin Ditto to everything that @lulu1180 said. @dpjennifer is an incredibly supportive member of this community and should not be be punished.

[Deleted User]

@dpjennifer doesn't belong in jail, for real!!!
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catlady2015

*lurking*
@dpjennifer does NOT deserve a level 4 warning.

She should not be banned at all. She has been such a supportive and valued member of the community. We know her and her story and to me, that is the definition of a community. A "member" who starts threads for her own (and solely her own) benefit, uses the wonderful members of this community as her own personal Google without offering support to literally ANYONE else,  and tries to stir up drama for funsies is not a member of the community. A poster of this type is NOT more important or valued than a long time member who has gotten to know other posters. It's not fair that people tried to call out the OP for her troll-like behavior (which was destroying the community for MANY other members) and were punished for doing so. 

FREE her!!! 

prpl11butterfly

Lurking to say:

@BumpAdmin FREE @dpjennifer!! Shes is a highly valued member of the community. It's hardly fair to let randoms come in with insulting and inconsiderate 1 offs. But yesterdays was a step above. That user posted 3 posts in a matter of minutes with the only goal of upsetting people and clearly has a history of doing the same. But a reg is the one who is punished? Someone who is defending the whole community from a troll?! 

FREE @dpjennifer !!!!

nitnat007

@BumpAdmin Please free our friend @dpjennifer She is one of the most supportive members of our community and does not deserve this treatment at all. She was merely speaking truth and handling that barrage of one-off, self-serving posts that we received yesterday with a little snark and humor, which is far less than what the troll deserved. 

FREE @dpjennifer

rainafire77

@BumpAdmin You need to reconsider your position on the whole "let's ban regulars for being snarky against one off trolls because it's 'unwelcoming'" policy. Unless you want the Bump community to change entirely and just be like those others that allow people to post homemade formula recipies, "look at me posts" and Catfish everyone.

Think it over. Regulars like @dpjennifer add to this community. Trolls like that chick yesterday do not.

meatballs37

::lurking::

@BumpAdmin
Here to sign the free @dpjennifer petition! 

brookert615

@BumpAdmin

Please free @dpjennifer!!!

lulu1180

Showing some extra love to my fellow collie mom @dpjennifer!

riff323

@BumpAdmin please free @dpjennifer! I echo the sentiments of so many others who put it so eloquently. She's a valued member of this community and perhaps jailing seems misdirected.

kgg2241

@BumpAdmin let @dpjennifer outta jail! Pretty crazy you'd fall for a troll over a committed, supportive member. 

kbrown2385

@BumpAdmin free @dpjennifer.  Punishing the regulars and people who actually want to make this a community, that you supposedly want, doesn’t do anyone any good. Allowing the troll to continuously post one off posts and not contribute in any other way is what is wrong with this whole situation, not how @dpjennifer responded to it. 

b_1029

I haven’t been here long, but know I always see @dpjennifer supporting everyone on here. To see her in jail over some random person who comes to a board to stir things up seems a bit backwards. 

Avrilmai

@BumpAdmin I agree with everyone above @dpjennifer deserves our support not a Level 4. Free dpjennifer, and ban that troll.

stassischroeder

@dpjennifer so much love to you! I think many of us regulars have felt the misguided wrath of the BGs at one time or another. It never makes sense.

@BumpAdmin I'm not sure what benefit TB gets from letting trolls post erroneously but punishing regulars. Feel free to enlighten us. 

lelkcot

**lurking***
@BumpAdmin it doesn’t seem reasonable to “jail” a supportive and involved community member like @dpjennifer over responding to the unpleasant and baiting antics of a troll. 

emmasemm

@bumpadmin also here to lend my support for the free @dpjennifer campaign! 
I mean who can argue @lulu1180 and her statistics!!! 

lin0442

*lurking*

@BumpAdmin Free @dpjennifer ! She’s a good person and an important, supportive voice to have on the forums. We need more folks like her around, not more trolls.

ruby696

@BumpAdmin - @dpjennifer is not only a regular, she's one of the most supportive women participating here. She does not deserve to be jailed or a level 4 warning. If she must be punished, extending her level 2 warning is much more reasonable (although still unnecessary IMO). And frankly, jailing her affects the morale of many of the regulars.

mamanbebe

@BumpAdmin please reinstate @dpjennifer as a non-offender. As someone who is relatively new to TTGP, it really grinds on you when people who we have genuinely tried to guide into the community continue to ignore terms of use and troll the boards with questions that are pretty offensive to most of the women who regularly post and lurk here. Given that we do not have an "ignore" feature to hide posters like that, you have to understand why we would get upset by serial offenders who keep coming back without consequence. I agree with @ruby696 , censoring her does affect the morale here. It's stressful and sad as well that someone defending the community is punished. 

nightdreamr13

What on earth is going on here??!?! Why did she go to jail?? I haven't been here long either, but I always see her name popping up with positive posts!  Free our friend! Free our friend! Free our friend!!!!!

kiki047

Seriously @BumpAdmin, I hope you can see how insane it looks to jail @dpjennifer while she's defending our community from trolls. All while you were apparently turning a blind eye. When you strip us of our ability to defend ourselves, albeit with a bit of snark and humour, what defenses do we have left? It can sometimes take days for admin to intervene and in the meantime we're being harassed by repeat offenders like we saw yesterday. 

We're not backing down until you please free our friend!! 

AlohaKumu

@BumpAdmin It gets really old when every couple months our regular, amazing posters get thrown in Bump jail or outright banned. The trolls who break the rules get... nothing? Their threads might get closed or deleted, but WE are the ones who get "yelled" at. @dpjennifer wasn't posting anything obscene or insulting. I'm sick of our community getting battered by these random banning and jail decisions, especially since this site is supposed to be a support system.

grangerhp37

@BumpAdmin FREE @dpjennifer!!! I missed what was said, but I get way more support from regs than trolls and don’t want all my friends in jail for defending the group!