AE's

michelle04us

Ok so here goes. 

As you all know CarsonsMommy was banned because of everything that went down. She then came back as TheMommyofTwoLittles. This account was made the same day the first account was banned. At first she denied it was her. After some digging around I was able to find her on FB(she inadvertently gave important information here that I used) and found a photo that matched the profile pic she had for that account. I sent her an email with the proof and after she saw it is when she came forward and admitted she lied. I'm the one that told her to apologize even though it would not change anyone's mind about her but that it was the right thing to do.

Now the day I sent the email this 3rd account was created. So even before she was found out she had already created another account. This new account is MissCassy. She intro'd on Aug '17 intro board and right away people flagged her but it was more because of what happened with TheMommyofTwoLittles. I noticed however, that the profile pic of this new account looked like a profile picture of a friend of CarsonsMommy on Facebook. So I did a comparison and got others takes, Rae1 and a friend IRL. After they said they were pretty sure it was the same person I messaged this friend from my facebook. She has confirmed it is a photo of her and that her and CarsonsMommy are friends IRL. Also, in talking with her I matched some info that MissCassy put in a thread on Aug '17 about her mother being bipolar and being on meds since she was a child. CarsonsMommy's mother IS bipolar and there have been problems. So that is just one more piece to the puzzle to wrap up these 3 AE's as the same person. The friend said she is going to talk to her because she used the photo without her permission. Not sure what all will happen with that but maybe the friend will help keep her away.

*Edited because didn't think of TOU violation for posting photo of someone else*  Thank you @AdaByron


I don't feel right posting the photo of the friend next to MissCassy's profile picture because of details she gave me of her personal life. Which makes me even more upset that her photo was used for the profile picture. I have told her that I will be looking for anymore photos that might surface of her or her child though in the future. 

If she really IS going through the things she posted about as CarsonsMommy I hope her pregnancy progresses and she gets a take home baby but what she has done since March 2nd is not acceptable in any way. Since I will violate TOU if I say what I want to say all I will say is I will be watching.

mslynn2012

Wow, this is SO sad and infuriating. Thank you for keeping us all aware and it's a good reminder to be careful of what you post on the internet...

yellow1daisy

Holy crap. That is all. 

LuLiLaEv

Wow!

Also, if my "friend" stole my pictures and did was Carsonsmommy did she would not be my friend anymore. How creepy!!!

PurplePoppy424

Holy hell. This whole thing makes me really sad for her friend. This chick needs to be IP banned. 

squirttheturtle

PurplePoppy424 said:

Holy hell. This whole thing makes me really sad for her friend. This chick needs to be IP banned. 

+1 to bolded.

longhairdntcare

OMG. someone needs to alert August FYI if we haven't already. 

star_beagle

Ummm...wow. 

michelle04us

yea I'm thinking about messaging BG's to see what they had to say. Not sure if they will though even with all this proof.

michelle04us

@PinkPrincessPiper Thought I would just tag you and you can make your board aware of it.

mamadcb

Thank you for the update. I expect she's reading this even if she's not posting. I hope she finds a helpful, beneficial outlet for what she is going through... but at this point, it's not the bump. 

supermom83

How do people have so much time on their hands to put that much energy into conning strangers on a mom board? It's sad, and she sounds like she may need some mental health help herself. 

PurplePoppy424

mamadcb said:

Thank you for the update. I expect she's reading this even if she's not posting. I hope she finds a helpful, beneficial outlet for what she is going through... but at this point, it's not the bump. 

At this point, she needs psychiatric help. This is not something any of us can help. She needs serious help. 

longhairdntcare

I posted a link to this thread in August's UO (figured it was the most popular thread today)

michelle04us

Also as to the question someone had about whether she is really pregnant? According to her FB she IS and it is a little girl. It took me reading through comments on photos to find this because there were no photos of baby on there.

AdaByron

Thanks for your sleuthing! 
But I'm pretty sure that posting photos of someone else is a major TOU violation. You may want to take those photos out to protect yourself. 

michelle04us

@AdaByron   Hmmmm true I will edit....didn't think about that

longhairdntcare

michelle04us said:

@AdaByron   Hmmmm true I will edit....didn't think about that

anything she posted (so her profile pic here) is fair game. The one from FB though...I think Adabyron is right. 

Dovahkiin_99

I knew when I saw the profile pic with her suspected FB friend that she didn't obtain permission to use her image. Using someone elses identity, with or without permission (but especially the latter) is a huge red flag and should be grounds for an IP ban. 

michelle04us

@BumpAdmin What do you say? After all this proof of who she is and what she has done(including using someone else's identity for a profile) is an IP Ban something that should be done? 

irishrose54

Dang. That is messed.up. 

PinkPrincessPiper

Nice collective detective work, ladies! August is aware (thanks @Rae1 and @michelle04us). I hope this chick gets serious psychological help... 

lph4248

Thank you for putting the pieces of the puzzle together and making us all aware @michelle04us. 

erinh84

Awesome detective work. Will we ever be rid of Carsonsmommy? I really hope admin bans her IP address.

LoveLee85

Wow just wow. No words.

greenbean-2

Wow. I'm amazed you found her on Facebook @michelle04us. I've been careful about posting personal info here, but now I'm going to be paranoid 

michelle04us

@GreenBean  Sorry I didn't want to make people paranoid. She inadvertently posted the information(she was private about that too) and I only used it because of what happened. I would never take someone's information and look them up just because. She really ticked me off with what she said and I wanted to make sure she couldn't come back and do it again. 

merrylea

.... lurking from June......

That's some good sleuthing @michelle04us well done.

greenbean-2

@michelle04us Oh no, I was really unclear. You're not the one making me paranoid. You're awesome It's more seeing the proof that someone on here has been inventing an identity and trying to trick everyone. Which I always knew was possible, but to see it actually happen... yikes. 

manillabar

This is me right now: 


I really do hope she gets the help and support she needs but she also needs to not be here anymore, for everyone else's safety and sanity.

SaphireSweetie88

Preach it sister!

AdaByron

I am seriously impressed that you found her on FB. When you mentioned FB pictures before I assumed someone knew her from her previous BMB or something. But holy crap to hunting her down from random pieces of info on TB. 

michelle04us

Thanks @AdaByron

My husband says I'm better than the FBI at finding info online when someone ticks me off.

squirttheturtle

AdaByron said:

I am seriously impressed that you found her on FB. When you mentioned FB pictures before I assumed someone knew her from her previous BMB or something. But holy crap to hunting her down from random pieces of info on TB. 

There was a post where her name was on a screenshot.  

oheliza44

@AdaByron she made the mistake of posting a screen shot of her Facebook account in the Announcements thread around the first of the year. It had basically her full name in the shot.

Just throwing this out there but do we want to discuss the idea of a private group again? Not fb, but on this forum? If we are going to be really skeptical about new comers this late in the game (see the other thread going on today) and if we have so many people that are just lurking and not contributing I personally think it may be a good idea. I think I am more weirded out by the people who watch this board every day, don't post anything, but still send PM's when stuff hits the fan. Why bother "being part of a community" if you aren't going to actually contribute. Just my .02. 

Edit for spelling as usual.

postywiththemosty

You guys did it!  +1 on the IP ban.  That's nutzo.

Itsnotyourturn

This is seriously sad.  Sad that someone would say the things she said.  Sad that she is wastes so much time and energy making these AE's.  Sad she used her friends pictures like that.  Just super sad.  

I feel like @michelle04us though.  I hope she gets a take home baby, and wish her well.  That being said I don't want anything else to do with her because of the hurtful things she said (that hurt a dear buddy on here who is going through an equally challenging time) and the names she called people on other BMB's.  Obviously she is going through some stuff but her actions and words are just too hurtful for me to move past.  

glitterfish-2

I'm kind of against a private group just because I feel like our board is dead enough already 

May 17 (my fave to lurk) seems to have had success calling out some lurkers to participate... We may be too rowdy of a bunch though! Lol

PurplePoppy424

+1 on a private board. I think if there is a way we can figure out to let those of us who are regular contributors in, we should do it. Yes, some crazy could still come out there, but I'd rather it be there than a FB group and I'd rather not have to worry about this scenario again. 

I'm going to be honest. I've stopped contributing any kind of pictures (hdbd, etc.) because of this craziness. I'd like to be able to feel comfortable posting again and I really like the community we have here. There's lots of diverse opinions without being hateful. It's not very common that you find that. 

ETA: spelling. Mobile bumping is not my forte 

MrsLa3

The girl needs help. This is a sad, sad situation, I can't say I'm shocked though. 

longhairdntcare

I am 50/50 on a private board. I mean, we didn't really realize carsonsmommy was crazy until she went crazy lol. Had we been on a private group before, she probably would have been included. So it's not like we can really weed that out without just continuing to get to know each other.