Just curious if any of you are having a shower or sprinkle for your next child (that family or friends are hosting).
I know you can look at it either way ("each child should be celebrated" vs "We already have everything"), however I wanted to see what women who are actually pregnant (second time or more) are doing.
My family and friends keep bringing up a sprinkle, however given that my kids will be 22 months apart and same gender, I am leaning towards no at the moment. I have considered hosting an informal gathering or sip and see for people to see my son after he's born, but have no plans to do another registry (given that the things I need are big ticket items that I don't expect others to buy for me), and would likely prefer no gifts. We shall see.
I know everyone's situation and preferences are diff, but what are your plans/ what are you allowing?
*original post edited for clarity*