TTC After a Loss

***November TWW ***

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Re: ***November TWW ***

  • @sparrowmomma24- Im glad you demanded to be seen. Let me know how it goes with the heparin as I will have to be on that when I am pg. Fx for you!!
  • @RiverSong15  I must have pregnancy brain already because I swear I saw drama there. Or maybe it was in a different group.  Either way, I know that I haven't been here long and I don't want to step on any toes.  

    @TScalei  I definitely will. I'm still waiting to hear back from the doctor, so we shall see!
    **TW loss mentioned **



    12 miscarriages in first marriage (2007-2011)
    Surprise BFP - 06/2013
    Daughter stillborn at 22 weeks - 09/09/2013
    Married my best friend - 09/03/2016
    Genetic testing came back with APS - 10/03/2016
    TTCAL - 10/21/2016
    BFP - 11/18/2016
    EDD of Rainbow baby - 07/30/2017
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  • @sparrowmomma24 congratulations!!! Sorry your RE was so rude, good job standings up for yourself.

    @a2003tiger FX for good betas
    **TW** Loss mentioned
    Me:35 DH:35
    Married 9/2013
    BFP#1 1/28/2014 DS born 10/21/2014
    BFP#2 7/4/2016 , MC at 7w5d on 7/27
    BFP#3 1/5/2017
  • stephann85stephann85 member
    edited November 2016
    @RiverSong15 and @sparrowmomma24 there was a ton of drama over on the ttgp board's  ttgp grad thread last week. They had a drive bye BFP announcement. But it looked to me like everything was back to normal on this week's ttgp grad thread.

    Edited for clarity.
    *** TW ***
    Me 31, DH 30
    Married: 07/2014, TTC since 12/2015
    BFP #1: 1/1/16, MC 1/14/16 (6 weeks), D&C 2/5/16 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 5/25/16, MC 6/23/16 (8 weeks), D&C 6/24/16, 2nd D&C for retained tissue and fibroid removal 9/1/16
    BFP #3: 12/24/16  EDD 09/04/2017
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  • @stephann85 How in the world did that board get a drive by BFP? And man, that sucks.
  • Congrats @sparrowmomma24
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • a2003tigera2003tiger member
    edited November 2016
    @sparrowmomma24 what's your official due date? Will you be on Heparin, not lovenox? I'm a two time Lovenox momma. Debating on going ahead and starting it now vs waiting for my next beta. 
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  • @RiverSong15 She even said she had been lurking and hadn't posted but wanted to share her BFP. And then went on to post that this was her first cycle trying and put "don't hate" next to that. So then they called her out on the drive by and she followed that up with calling them all mean and that it was unwelcoming. **TW** and said that they all probably wished that she would MC. **end TW** they did not take kindly to that comment. In the end I saw that some of the ladies that were in her BMB had saw her posting also called her out and demanded she apologize. Of course she didn't. Should be interesting for her on the July 17 board.
    *** TW ***
    Me 31, DH 30
    Married: 07/2014, TTC since 12/2015
    BFP #1: 1/1/16, MC 1/14/16 (6 weeks), D&C 2/5/16 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 5/25/16, MC 6/23/16 (8 weeks), D&C 6/24/16, 2nd D&C for retained tissue and fibroid removal 9/1/16
    BFP #3: 12/24/16  EDD 09/04/2017
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  • @sparrowmomma24 You might not have to worry much. She only introduced herself on the 11th. I'm thinking she must have read what some of the girls from the BMB wrote on that thread. 
    So happy that you got some good news today with the progesterone!
    *** TW ***
    Me 31, DH 30
    Married: 07/2014, TTC since 12/2015
    BFP #1: 1/1/16, MC 1/14/16 (6 weeks), D&C 2/5/16 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 5/25/16, MC 6/23/16 (8 weeks), D&C 6/24/16, 2nd D&C for retained tissue and fibroid removal 9/1/16
    BFP #3: 12/24/16  EDD 09/04/2017
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  • @sparrowmomma24 that's my due date too, by LMP!!! Are you gonna join the July group? Ive been lurking. Not ready to join in yet. Have you done Lovenox before? I'll probably start mine tuesday. I have some leftover from the last pregnancy. Let's stay in tough as much as possible. I need someone who understands PGAL!
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  • edited November 2016
    @a2003tiger. Yay!!! Yes please let's stay in touch. I just jumped in the July 17 board today. I will be honest, I'm freaking out about my betas. I've never had them done before and they seem so low to me. And since I was just diagnosed with APS last month I've never done Lovenox before. I'm nervous. 
    **TW loss mentioned **



    12 miscarriages in first marriage (2007-2011)
    Surprise BFP - 06/2013
    Daughter stillborn at 22 weeks - 09/09/2013
    Married my best friend - 09/03/2016
    Genetic testing came back with APS - 10/03/2016
    TTCAL - 10/21/2016
    BFP - 11/18/2016
    EDD of Rainbow baby - 07/30/2017
  • @sparrowmomma24, just sent you a PM. 
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  • FF changed my cross hairs today to cd 14. Don't know that I agree with that unless it was at like 1201 am... because my cm was practically nothing that morning. I'm thinking that maybe it was late on cd 13 because I was still having ewcm. Has anyone else had that where you think you might have o'd late in the day and did not get a huge temp rise the next day but did the day after?
    *** TW ***
    Me 31, DH 30
    Married: 07/2014, TTC since 12/2015
    BFP #1: 1/1/16, MC 1/14/16 (6 weeks), D&C 2/5/16 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 5/25/16, MC 6/23/16 (8 weeks), D&C 6/24/16, 2nd D&C for retained tissue and fibroid removal 9/1/16
    BFP #3: 12/24/16  EDD 09/04/2017
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  • @stephann85 I dont temp, but I get EWCM the day before and first day of +OPK so around 24 hours before O.
    Me 29, DH 32
    Married: 03/2014
    BFP: 08/20/16, Blighted ovum 9/26/16 (8 weeks 4 days), D&C 9/28/16 (8 weeks 6 days)
    BFP: 12/16/16  => DD born 08/27/2017
  • @sparrowmomma24 So sorry for the late congratulations!!!!!  So happy for you! Keep us posted on your progress; we're rooting for you!  We all hope to join you soon!
  • Finally over here...who's with me?! I have no idea how many DPO I am, according to FF I'm 6dpo but I had some temping challenges this cycle so who really knows. I might test Thanksgiving morning just because if it was positive I think it would be a good day to tell DH. Other than that day no testing, just gonna wait for AF
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

  • stephann85stephann85 member
    edited November 2016
    Welcome @SoonToBeMommaHowe! I am 4-6 dpo. I am also planning to test on Thanksgiving unless I can hold out until Saturday. I just don't know how I wouldn't tell my family if I got a BFP. I'm horrible at lying and I know my sister will ask. So ignorance might be bliss in this case. That and I don't know if I could deal with a BFN on Thanksgiving. But we will see what the BSC makes me do in a few more days.

    ETA mobile bumping posted before I was done.
    *** TW ***
    Me 31, DH 30
    Married: 07/2014, TTC since 12/2015
    BFP #1: 1/1/16, MC 1/14/16 (6 weeks), D&C 2/5/16 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 5/25/16, MC 6/23/16 (8 weeks), D&C 6/24/16, 2nd D&C for retained tissue and fibroid removal 9/1/16
    BFP #3: 12/24/16  EDD 09/04/2017
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  • @kidria Thank you! I had my first beta on Friday and my hcg was 30 and my progesterone was 17. I have them drawn again tomorrow and hopefully this feeling of anxiety will decrease after that. But I still feel good otherwise. I think I just can't stop waiting for the other shoe to drop. 
    **TW loss mentioned **



    12 miscarriages in first marriage (2007-2011)
    Surprise BFP - 06/2013
    Daughter stillborn at 22 weeks - 09/09/2013
    Married my best friend - 09/03/2016
    Genetic testing came back with APS - 10/03/2016
    TTCAL - 10/21/2016
    BFP - 11/18/2016
    EDD of Rainbow baby - 07/30/2017
  • Came over here since I'm 7 or 9 DPO and so excited to see the good news @sparrowmomma24 !!! Wishing you the best! 

    Because of irregular waking times, especially during probable ovulation, I'm not exactly sure when I ovulated. Now the question is if I test during the holiday when I'll be at my parents' house or if I should wait until I get home... For now I put my tests in my husband's car (along with all the of the leftover Halloween candy since I have no self-control) and I told him not to let me have them until 10 DPO or later! 
  • Hello ladies,

    Tested today at 10DPO and BFN. Still early and hoping for the best. Less optimistic now since I got my last BFP at 9 DPO.  :/
    Me 29, DH 32
    Married: 03/2014
    BFP: 08/20/16, Blighted ovum 9/26/16 (8 weeks 4 days), D&C 9/28/16 (8 weeks 6 days)
    BFP: 12/16/16  => DD born 08/27/2017
  • Sorry for the BFN @endo_mom. FX it's just early 
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

  • I'm officially joining the TWW again.  FF hasn't given me my crosshairs but all other signs indicate O has come and gone.  Temp dip, temp spike, the CM has all dried up, and we're seriously cutting into my short LP if I haven't O'ed yet!  

    Along with the TWW comes the BSC symptom spotting.  First up: is my mouth extra dry this morning?  That was the first and most alarming symptom when I got PG perviously.  Which symptom will be next??!!

    Let the games begin!
  • Sorry to hear about the BFN @endo_mom . Hoping that it was just too early for that test. 
  • Sorry about the BFN @endo_mom. FX it is just too early.
    *** TW ***
    Me 31, DH 30
    Married: 07/2014, TTC since 12/2015
    BFP #1: 1/1/16, MC 1/14/16 (6 weeks), D&C 2/5/16 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 5/25/16, MC 6/23/16 (8 weeks), D&C 6/24/16, 2nd D&C for retained tissue and fibroid removal 9/1/16
    BFP #3: 12/24/16  EDD 09/04/2017
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  • BornReadyBornReady member
    edited November 2016
    @sparrowmomma24
    @a2003tiger

    Congrats ladies! Feel free to come join us on the TTCAL graduates thread if you are interested. It's a private group of grads from this board. Let us know if you'd like an invite and we can have a mod send one over to you.

    @szwill86  so sorry for your loss.
  • @BornReady I'd love an invite if you don't mind.
    **TW loss mentioned **



    12 miscarriages in first marriage (2007-2011)
    Surprise BFP - 06/2013
    Daughter stillborn at 22 weeks - 09/09/2013
    Married my best friend - 09/03/2016
    Genetic testing came back with APS - 10/03/2016
    TTCAL - 10/21/2016
    BFP - 11/18/2016
    EDD of Rainbow baby - 07/30/2017
  • When I realized I had made Ceasar's salad last night I checked, BFN, around 11 DPO. Possibly too early but unlikely. I'll check Wed night or Thurs but not optimistic. The forces that be apparently want me to imbibe on my flights Friday morning. C'est la vie, I guess. 
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • So sorry for the BFNs @endo_mom and @amberruka. FX that it is just too early.
    **TW - Loss & Child mentioned**
    Me: 40  DH: 47
    Married: 10/2015
    DSD: 17
    BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
    BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
    BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
    BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
    Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.

  • @BornReady I'd also love an invite!

    @endo_mom and @amberruka, don't lose hope yet. 

    Okay, I guess I'm officially moving on. I've been testing daily. Due for my period tomorrow and got a quick, beautifully dark line on a FRER. I have a follow up beta pending with my OB, so should have those results tomorrow. I'll continue to lurk and I hope to see so many more positives!
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  • Congrats @a2003tiger on the bfp. Wishing you a H&H 9 months. I hope to be joining you soon.
    *** TW ***
    Me 31, DH 30
    Married: 07/2014, TTC since 12/2015
    BFP #1: 1/1/16, MC 1/14/16 (6 weeks), D&C 2/5/16 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 5/25/16, MC 6/23/16 (8 weeks), D&C 6/24/16, 2nd D&C for retained tissue and fibroid removal 9/1/16
    BFP #3: 12/24/16  EDD 09/04/2017
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  • Sooo... the BSC is starting to set in.... I am currently 9 dpo, and a temp dip on 6dpo and a second temp shift on dpo8 that stayed elevated for 9 dpo. And the last couple days I have done nothing but itch and my mom told me she inched all through her pregnancy with me. so yeah starting to get BSC. Might be testing tomorrow even though I have never gotten a BFP before AF was due.
    *** TW ***
    Me 31, DH 30
    Married: 07/2014, TTC since 12/2015
    BFP #1: 1/1/16, MC 1/14/16 (6 weeks), D&C 2/5/16 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 5/25/16, MC 6/23/16 (8 weeks), D&C 6/24/16, 2nd D&C for retained tissue and fibroid removal 9/1/16
    BFP #3: 12/24/16  EDD 09/04/2017
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  • Congrats @a2003tiger ! Wishing you a happy and uneventful 9 months! 

    @stephann85 I'm 9 dpo, too, and the BSC set in for me yesterday when I started to feel dizzy and nauseous. Pregnant or sick? Pregnant or sick? I got a BFN this morning and decided not to bring any tests with me while I'm at my parents' house so I can't test again until Saturday. FX for you! 
  • Thanks @Wingless00 ! FX for you too. if I get another temp that is higher, I think I might be looking at a triphasic chart and will definitely be testing in the morning.
    *** TW ***
    Me 31, DH 30
    Married: 07/2014, TTC since 12/2015
    BFP #1: 1/1/16, MC 1/14/16 (6 weeks), D&C 2/5/16 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 5/25/16, MC 6/23/16 (8 weeks), D&C 6/24/16, 2nd D&C for retained tissue and fibroid removal 9/1/16
    BFP #3: 12/24/16  EDD 09/04/2017
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  • The triphasic is the dream @stephann85!!! I didn't even know that such a thing existed with my first pregnancy/mc but I sure do now. Hope you have a great morning tomorrow! 
  • @stephann85, triphasic charts are a great sign! FX for you!
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  • I only started temping in September, so I have never actually seen a triphasic chart... I'm  just guessing that it is.
    *** TW ***
    Me 31, DH 30
    Married: 07/2014, TTC since 12/2015
    BFP #1: 1/1/16, MC 1/14/16 (6 weeks), D&C 2/5/16 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 5/25/16, MC 6/23/16 (8 weeks), D&C 6/24/16, 2nd D&C for retained tissue and fibroid removal 9/1/16
    BFP #3: 12/24/16  EDD 09/04/2017
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  • amberrukaamberruka member
    edited November 2016
    Another BFN around 14DPO, moving over to WTO. A nice run in the pouring rain and attitude adjustment--it's a marathon, not a sprint. Just waiting for AF, the wench. Unfortunately getting none of my pre-AF sx (instead of regular bloating and cramping getting horrible headaches and nausea), so hurry up and get here! Ha ha. FX for those still in the game this month!
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • @amberruka sorry about the bfn.
    *** TW ***
    Me 31, DH 30
    Married: 07/2014, TTC since 12/2015
    BFP #1: 1/1/16, MC 1/14/16 (6 weeks), D&C 2/5/16 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 5/25/16, MC 6/23/16 (8 weeks), D&C 6/24/16, 2nd D&C for retained tissue and fibroid removal 9/1/16
    BFP #3: 12/24/16  EDD 09/04/2017
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