TTC After a Loss

***November TWW ***

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Re: ***November TWW ***

  • moonlady-2moonlady-2 member
    edited November 2016
    Only 3DPO. I have absolutely no patience this month. Ugh I just want to know either way.
    31 years young
    from Seattle(ish)
    5 years married
    FTM and PGAL
    EDD is 12/23/17
    -- It's a BOY! ---





  • What a rough month, sorry about the BFNs out there ladies. Hopefully we all get our holiday miracles <3
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

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  • @fiorip Thanks for giving me a little bit of hope!!  Still waiting for AF, but I feel like it's going to be tomorrow. :( 
  • 8 DPO and another BFN, plus a temp drop. I don't think it's happening for me this month. Today is going to be tough.
  • 11DPO and slight temp rise, but still BFN. As if today wasn't stressful enough already  :|
    Me: 32 DH: 36
    Married 5/08
    BFP #1: 1/27/13 DS #1 born 10/16/13
    BFP #2: 1/20/16, ectopic discovered 1/23/16
    Surgery 1/23/16 to remove ruptured tube
    TTCAL 3/16
    BFP #3: 3/24/17 EDD 12/5/17
    DS #2 born 12/11/17



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    @flipflopped congrats!
    flipflopped
  • RiverSong15RiverSong15 member
    edited November 2016
    Congrats @flipflopped!! Good thoughts headed your way for a happy and healthy 9 months!
    flipflopped
  • migdalamigdala member
    edited November 2016
    Congrats @flipflopped! How many cycles did it take you?
    flipflopped
  • Thanks everyone!!

    @migdala IUD out and preg on 1st cycle with MC at about 6 weeks. Post MC this was #5, didn't really try #1 but definitely all the others. This has been TTC#2 btw.

  • Congratulations @flipflopped. I am glad we had at least one BFP this TWW.

    AFM - another BFN this morning.
    **TW - Loss & Child mentioned**
    Me: 40  DH: 47
    Married: 10/2015
    DSD: 17
    BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
    BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
    BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
    BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
    Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.

    flipflopped
  • Congrats @flipflopped!!!! 
    Me 29, DH 32
    Married: 03/2014
    BFP: 08/20/16, Blighted ovum 9/26/16 (8 weeks 4 days), D&C 9/28/16 (8 weeks 6 days)
    BFP: 12/16/16  => DD born 08/27/2017
    flipflopped
  •  congrats!! @flipflopped
    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
    flipflopped
  • 9dpo and feeling out. my LP is usually 11 days so at least it won't be a long wait for AF but I'm feeling cramps and blah. I didn't test this morning because I didn't want to see a bfn. I'll see how tomorrow morning goes but I'm thinking I'll just wait for af this month. 

    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
  • @newmommycoop Sorry to hear :(

    @brooklyngirl18 my mental dilemma is do I want to be let down in the privacy of my own home or face AF hitting whenever. You aren't out yet!!

    brooklyngirl18
  • @flipflopped - congrats!!

    Sorry for all of the BFNs. 

    Im only about 5dpo and will not test until AF is really late. I hate seeing BFNs more than AF so I always wait now. I soooo want a BFP before the holidays (as do all of us) but I feel like I'm running out of time. It's been almost a year since my only BFP. 
    Pregnancy Ticker
    flipflopped
  • @flipflopped congratulations on the bfp!
    *** TW ***
    Me 31, DH 30
    Married: 07/2014, TTC since 12/2015
    BFP #1: 1/1/16, MC 1/14/16 (6 weeks), D&C 2/5/16 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 5/25/16, MC 6/23/16 (8 weeks), D&C 6/24/16, 2nd D&C for retained tissue and fibroid removal 9/1/16
    BFP #3: 12/24/16  EDD 09/04/2017
    Pregnancy Ticker
  • I'm not even going to get my hopes up. My fiance and I decided we're not using OPKs & we won't test until I'm a week late. We know when my fertile time is supposed to be and just dtd every other day at least. So I'm just waiting, keeping in the back of my mind that I could be pregnant & doing everything I'm supposed to do. This was the 1st month we were cleared so, while we were trying, we also weren't trying to focus on that. So fingers crossed we will see!

    ****TW Signature****
    BabyFruit Ticker
    DD born 04/28/2002
    Married DH 03/25/2017
    1st MMC 08/13/2016 2nd MMC 02/14/2017
    BFP 06/16/17 Rainbow DS Born 02/05/2018


  • @NewMommyCoop Sorry that we're BFN buddies.  I'm super emotional today, I feel so dumb for being so optimistic about this month and even though I know I'm not out yet I really do not feel KU at all and I'm like 99% sure this is not my month.  I don't know how to get through the work day, all I want to do is go home and cry.
  • Wonderful news @flipflopped
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
    flipflopped
  • Congrats @flipflopped! Glad to see some good news.

    sorry about your BFN @NewMommyCoop <3
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

    flipfloppedNewMommyCoop
  • Woohoo @flipflopped! Congrats!

    Sorry for the BFN, @NewMommyCoop, @Taggarab , @migdala. The sting of that just never goes away. 
    Me: 35     DH: 37
    BFP: 1.6.16 | MC: 2.17.16
    BFP: 10.3.16 | CP: 10.11.16
    BFP: 12.14.16 | CP: 12.14.16
    BFP:  1.23.17 | EDD 10.6.17 -- DS born 10.7.17 <3
    BFP:  9.9.18 | EDD 5.23.19 -- DD born 5.24.19 <3
    BFP: 9.1.21 | MC 10.1.21
    BFP: 11.11.21 | EDD 7.24.22 

     

    flipflopped
  • NewMommyCoopNewMommyCoop member
    edited November 2016
    @migdala I feel the same way. I got PG the first month we actually tried (two oops last year), so I really thought that it was a guarantee this month, and so did DH. He was pretty disappointed (he did not say that, but I could tell because he was very somber and hugged me several times yesterday morning and didn't want to let go). He hoped yesterday was too early. I didn't even tell him I got another BFN this morning. I actually thought for sure that I was KU'd this month. I never have to pee in the middle of the night, but I have been getting up every night between midnight and 2:30 to pee. That only happened when I was PG in Aug and early September. Plus I have been starving the last couple mornings, like I wake up hungry (also unusual for me). I keep telling myself that next month will be better because we can do a Valentine's Day announcement (there isn't anything cool to do in January). Also, if it happens next month, there is a possibility of an EDD on my birthday. You know, all the crazy rationale.

    Edited because I hadn't finished - I am sorry you are having a difficult time. Sending internet hugs.
    **TW - Loss & Child mentioned**
    Me: 40  DH: 47
    Married: 10/2015
    DSD: 17
    BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
    BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
    BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
    BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
    Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.

  • Im sorry for the BFNS @taggarab @newmommycoop @migdala

    @newmommycoop -  I like your rationale for a BFP next month - fingers crossed we all get BFPs in December!
    NewMommyCoop
  • @TScalei Yes, FX for sure. No pressure though, lol! Trying to find the positives helps me not feel so down in dumps.
    **TW - Loss & Child mentioned**
    Me: 40  DH: 47
    Married: 10/2015
    DSD: 17
    BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
    BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
    BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
    BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
    Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.

  • So sorry for all the BFNs ladies.  :(
  • @flipflopped congrats to you! H&H boring 9 months!

    Sorry for the BFN, @NewMommyCoop@Taggarab , @migdala.
    flipflopped
  • Congratulations @flipflopped!!
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
    flipflopped
  • YESSSSSS!!!  @flipflopped for the win!  Congratulations!  So happy someone made it out of this TWW alive!

    flipflopped
  • Congrats @flipflopped.  Happy for you!
    flipflopped
  • Woohoo @flipflopped

    Anyone else still in? I still have til the 20somethingth to test.
    31 years young
    from Seattle(ish)
    5 years married
    FTM and PGAL
    EDD is 12/23/17
    -- It's a BOY! ---





    flipflopped
  • @moonlady  I'm still in.  I have another week before AF arrives or BFP.  Hoping for the later but I feel crampy now so AF may arrive sooner. 
  • bfn at 10dpo. I know it's not over but I'm not hopeful.
    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
  • 13 dpo today. I did not test this morning. I will test Friday if AF doesn't show tomorrow.  GL to everyone. I hope to see more BFPs in the next week.
    **TW - Loss & Child mentioned**
    Me: 40  DH: 47
    Married: 10/2015
    DSD: 17
    BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
    BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
    BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
    BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
    Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.

  • @brooklyngirl18 FX- holding out hope for you

    @newmommycoop you have such restraint not to test! Hopefully AF holds off tmrw!
  • @szwill86 My first two pregnancies, I did not get a faint positive until 1 day after I missed AF. The first was ectopic, the second a CP. To some degree, at this point, I hope AF shows up. I have this fear of late positives on HPTs meaning serious issues. I had a very positive on 11 dpo my last pregnancy and it was the farthest I have gotten. We even got to see a heartbeat. So , I guess it is not restraint, it is fear.
    **TW - Loss & Child mentioned**
    Me: 40  DH: 47
    Married: 10/2015
    DSD: 17
    BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
    BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
    BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
    BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
    Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.

  • So glad to see people still in the game!! Crossing everything for you ladies!!
    moonlady-2
  • Fingers crossed for anyone who is still in! 

    Sorry for all the BFN  :(
    I'm 29, husband is 30
    Together since 2006
    Married 01.17.15  <3

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