TTC After a Loss

***November TWW ***

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Re: ***November TWW ***

  • @lin0442 sorry for AF.

    I'm out too. AF showed up today. Back to WTO.

    @endo_mom Good luck testing, hope not to see you in WTO.
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    Me:35 DH:35
    Married 9/2013
    BFP#1 1/28/2014 DS born 10/21/2014
    BFP#2 7/4/2016 , MC at 7w5d on 7/27
    BFP#3 1/5/2017
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  • @endo_mom I am 9DPO today and I am going to try my best to wait til Wednesday which will be 12DPO. The wait is killing me. I have no tests in the house but I don't think I can hold off buying any tomorrow ha ha. 
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    12 miscarriages in first marriage (2007-2011)
    Surprise BFP - 06/2013
    Daughter stillborn at 22 weeks - 09/09/2013
    Married my best friend - 09/03/2016
    Genetic testing came back with APS - 10/03/2016
    TTCAL - 10/21/2016
    BFP - 11/18/2016
    EDD of Rainbow baby - 07/30/2017
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  • Thanks everyone. Not even sure if I'll be in the mood to try this upcoming O date, but we all just have to keep on trucking along, don't we?

    It'll be a rough holiday, but DH and I have a lot to be thankful for so I have to keep that in mind. 
  • @lin0442 Sorry about the upcoming EDD and spotting.

    AFM - AF came on Friday, so I'm heading over to WTO. GL to the rest of you in the TWW. I have everything crossed for all of you!
    **TW - Loss & Child mentioned**
    Me: 40  DH: 47
    Married: 10/2015
    DSD: 17
    BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
    BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
    BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
    BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
    Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.

  • Ugh @lin0442 _ Im sorry!
  • @SierraFoxtrot Sorry for AF. FX for good timing this cycle
    @sparrowmomma24 With my last pg I got a positive at 9DPO. I admire people who can wait to test. Once I have HPTS at home I feel they are calling me to go test.  :D  :D. FX for Wednesday.
    @NewMommyCoop  Sorry for AF.  New cycle...new opportunity  :)
    Me 29, DH 32
    Married: 03/2014
    BFP: 08/20/16, Blighted ovum 9/26/16 (8 weeks 4 days), D&C 9/28/16 (8 weeks 6 days)
    BFP: 12/16/16  => DD born 08/27/2017
  • @sierrafoxtrot @newmommycoop sorry about AF for both of you. 
  • so sorry for all the BFN. November hasn't been a bad month around here :(
    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
  • I'm starting to lose my confidence. I started out this month thinking very positively. I'm only 6 DPO, but starting to cramp, which is normal at this point of my cycle when I'm not pregnant. I know I'm not out yet, but I'm feeling defeated. 

    So so sorry for everyone who's already gotten negatives. This journey sucks. 
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  • @endo_mom  I don't know what the heck happened.  This morning I entered my temps into FF and it changed my chart!  Now it says that my baseline temp is much higher and it put me at 8DPO instead of 10DPO today.  I cannot accurately describe the frustration I felt before work ha ha.
    **TW loss mentioned **



    12 miscarriages in first marriage (2007-2011)
    Surprise BFP - 06/2013
    Daughter stillborn at 22 weeks - 09/09/2013
    Married my best friend - 09/03/2016
    Genetic testing came back with APS - 10/03/2016
    TTCAL - 10/21/2016
    BFP - 11/18/2016
    EDD of Rainbow baby - 07/30/2017
  • @a2003tiger Do you get cramps as early as 6DPO? Usually I get them closer to AF, so it might be that cramping its a good sign? 

    @sparrowmomma24 Did you do OPKs this cycle? FF can sometimes we wrong especially after a few odd temperatures. Are your temps still high? Happy HPTs shopping tomorrow.
    Me 29, DH 32
    Married: 03/2014
    BFP: 08/20/16, Blighted ovum 9/26/16 (8 weeks 4 days), D&C 9/28/16 (8 weeks 6 days)
    BFP: 12/16/16  => DD born 08/27/2017
  • @endo_mom Yes I did OPKS.  I got my first +OPK on Sunday morning then got another on Sunday night.  I had a second temp spike at 4/5DPO and they've stayed up there so far.  So I'm not sure what's happening.
    **TW loss mentioned **



    12 miscarriages in first marriage (2007-2011)
    Surprise BFP - 06/2013
    Daughter stillborn at 22 weeks - 09/09/2013
    Married my best friend - 09/03/2016
    Genetic testing came back with APS - 10/03/2016
    TTCAL - 10/21/2016
    BFP - 11/18/2016
    EDD of Rainbow baby - 07/30/2017
  • @endo_mom, unfortunately, I get lots of signs super early. Nausea and heartburn usually start 48 hours after ovulation (pregnant or not). Cramps usually start 7+ days prior to AF. With my last loss, the one difference I noted was that I didn't have as much (if any) cramping after ovulation. But with my previous loss, I cramped. So it all really hard for me to tell, but I just feel like this cramping is more of a bad sign this month. 

    @sparrowmomma24, basic FF uses temps only to pinpoint ovulation. Sometimes it's better to manually mark it using OPK and mucus data. That's what I'm having to do this month. It's still hard to see it say I'm more DPO than I am. 
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  • @a2003tiger Thank you for the encouragement. I'm going to hold true to what I think is correct then. I used OPKs and I know my body. This is the first month I've tried in a long time. I'm just feeling out of control this month. I'm still going to keep my FX for you! It's not over til AF is actually here. And I have high hopes for all the ladies here!
    **TW loss mentioned **



    12 miscarriages in first marriage (2007-2011)
    Surprise BFP - 06/2013
    Daughter stillborn at 22 weeks - 09/09/2013
    Married my best friend - 09/03/2016
    Genetic testing came back with APS - 10/03/2016
    TTCAL - 10/21/2016
    BFP - 11/18/2016
    EDD of Rainbow baby - 07/30/2017
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  • Thanks @sparrowmomma24, same to you!
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  • @a2003tiger I'm still hopeful cramping this early will lead to good news. I also get super early pg signs. I knew last time I was pg very early and I told DH around 6 DPO...it felt so strange...I knew something was happening  :)  Don't lose hope...it is still early.

    @sparrowmomma24 I am not charting now, but I trust OPKs. Have you added the OPK data into FF. I hope it helps. 2 more days...sending you good vibes. 
    Me 29, DH 32
    Married: 03/2014
    BFP: 08/20/16, Blighted ovum 9/26/16 (8 weeks 4 days), D&C 9/28/16 (8 weeks 6 days)
    BFP: 12/16/16  => DD born 08/27/2017
  • @szwill86 congrats!! fx for sticking and growing!!
  • @szwill86 congrats! hope you get awesome news with the betas!
    *** TW ***
    Me 31, DH 30
    Married: 07/2014, TTC since 12/2015
    BFP #1: 1/1/16, MC 1/14/16 (6 weeks), D&C 2/5/16 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 5/25/16, MC 6/23/16 (8 weeks), D&C 6/24/16, 2nd D&C for retained tissue and fibroid removal 9/1/16
    BFP #3: 12/24/16  EDD 09/04/2017
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  • @szwill86 congrats!!! Keep us updated on your betas!

    Im like 12dpo today and haven't tested. I hate seeing BFNs so I'm waiting until I get like 18 days of high post O temps. Not sure but I might actually be out already. My temp was up just slightly above coverline this morning. I usually always have a few signs of AF, especially light cramps, by now. But I've realized that every month is different whether I'm KU or not. TMI but I think I've had a bit of a yeast infection the last few days. I've never had one before so think that's what it is. Not sure if that's a sign or not. I've honestly given up on symptom spotting because I've had every symptom of pregnancy over the last year+ TTC. 
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    Congrats!!! @szwill86
  • Congrats @szwill86 <3
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

  • Awesome news @szwill86
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • @szwill86 congrats! Hoping for beautiful betas!

    @MooFish236, completely understand the symptom game. It's terrible. I will say though that I had the worst yeast infection if my life out of nowhere back in March and turned out I was pregnant. So maybe?

    @endo_mom, when do you find you ovulate after a positive OPK? I had a positive on Monday, but the new due to temps, FF put my ovulation on Monday as well. I know that's not right. I think it was an off temp and I actually ovulated on Wed/Thurs. 
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  • Congrats @szwill86 !!!!  FX for darker lines and uneventful 9 months.

    @MooFish2364 FX for the next coming days and for testing. I hope this is your month.

    @a2003tiger I do OPKs twice a day to make sure I dont miss the surge. I think I ovulate about 24 hrs after the first detected surge. I read you can actually ovulate the same day of the surge especially if you did OPKs once a day. It might be that you caught the LH surge in the middle.
    Me 29, DH 32
    Married: 03/2014
    BFP: 08/20/16, Blighted ovum 9/26/16 (8 weeks 4 days), D&C 9/28/16 (8 weeks 6 days)
    BFP: 12/16/16  => DD born 08/27/2017
  • Congrats @szwill86! So happy to see your news!!! FX for awesome rising betas.
    **TW - Loss & Child mentioned**
    Me: 40  DH: 47
    Married: 10/2015
    DSD: 17
    BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
    BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
    BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
    BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
    Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.

  • Well AF started 2 days earlier than expected. I guess the good news with this is that I'm back on regular cycles as this was my 3rd following MC & D&E in August. We'll be trying harder in a couple of weeks. :-) As my fiancé's elderly client says as self motivation "strong heart...big smile". 

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    1st MMC 08/13/2016 2nd MMC 02/14/2017
    BFP 06/16/17 Rainbow DS Born 02/05/2018


  • @szwill86  Yippee!!! I've been lurking.  Congrats.
  • Congratulations @szwill86!!! FX!!!
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • Sorry @rainafire77; that is good to remember.
    **TW - Loss & Child mentioned**
    Me: 40  DH: 47
    Married: 10/2015
    DSD: 17
    BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
    BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
    BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
    BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
    Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.

  • @szwill86 congratulations!!!
    **TW** Loss mentioned
    Me:35 DH:35
    Married 9/2013
    BFP#1 1/28/2014 DS born 10/21/2014
    BFP#2 7/4/2016 , MC at 7w5d on 7/27
    BFP#3 1/5/2017
  • @szwill86 I'm so excited for you!!! Congrats 
    **TW loss mentioned **



    12 miscarriages in first marriage (2007-2011)
    Surprise BFP - 06/2013
    Daughter stillborn at 22 weeks - 09/09/2013
    Married my best friend - 09/03/2016
    Genetic testing came back with APS - 10/03/2016
    TTCAL - 10/21/2016
    BFP - 11/18/2016
    EDD of Rainbow baby - 07/30/2017
  • @szwill86   Congrats!  Exciting news
  • @szwill86 Congrats! :smiley:  Fx for increasing betas!!
    Me: 35     DH: 37
    BFP: 1.6.16 | MC: 2.17.16
    BFP: 10.3.16 | CP: 10.11.16
    BFP: 12.14.16 | CP: 12.14.16
    BFP:  1.23.17 | EDD 10.6.17 -- DS born 10.7.17 <3
    BFP:  9.9.18 | EDD 5.23.19 -- DD born 5.24.19 <3
    BFP: 9.1.21 | MC 10.1.21
    BFP: 11.11.21 | EDD 7.24.22 

     

  • Yay @szwill86!!!!  So happy for you!  Fingers crossed for darkening lines and a smooth 40 weeks!
  • Pretty sure I am here now. Had a temp increase this am, and if I put in dummy Temps the next 2 days I get cross hairs. So I am unofficially 1 dpo. I am so happy about this because I leave tomorrow for a meeting in Milwaukee and DH leaves for the state hs football games in Madison and he won't be back till Friday night. Hopefully I will be able to ward off the BSC longer than last cycle (tested at 8 dpo), so let the TWW begin.
    *** TW ***
    Me 31, DH 30
    Married: 07/2014, TTC since 12/2015
    BFP #1: 1/1/16, MC 1/14/16 (6 weeks), D&C 2/5/16 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 5/25/16, MC 6/23/16 (8 weeks), D&C 6/24/16, 2nd D&C for retained tissue and fibroid removal 9/1/16
    BFP #3: 12/24/16  EDD 09/04/2017
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  • Anyone else experiencing a special form of crazy this TWW? I'm sick. Starting running fever last night. I, in my cough induced insomnia, googled to see if harm could be done to an implanting embryo. What I read were tons of personal account of being sick/having fever being an early pregnancy sign, because pregnancy lowers the immune system and makes you more vulnerable to viruses. I know, I KNOW, it's  not likely. But of course now it's all I can think about. I won't even tell DH this...he'll think my fever has caused delirium!
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  • @sparrowmomma24 Its Wednesday!!! It's POAS time. :) Keep us posted. FX
    Me 29, DH 32
    Married: 03/2014
    BFP: 08/20/16, Blighted ovum 9/26/16 (8 weeks 4 days), D&C 9/28/16 (8 weeks 6 days)
    BFP: 12/16/16  => DD born 08/27/2017
  • @a2003tiger I have been crazy during TWW...symptom spotting. Probably imagining things, but I'll take it for now. Hopefully your cold symptoms mean something good. I don't feel sick, but I feel extra tired. Keep us posted  :)
    Me 29, DH 32
    Married: 03/2014
    BFP: 08/20/16, Blighted ovum 9/26/16 (8 weeks 4 days), D&C 9/28/16 (8 weeks 6 days)
    BFP: 12/16/16  => DD born 08/27/2017
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