@mjacks16 I'm so sorry for your news. Glad you have a plan in place. Xoxo
Me: 35 DH: 36 Me: 1, possibly 2, blocked tubes DH: severe MFI Married and TTC since 2/15 Started stims 7/21/16, ER 8/2 --> 17 eggs, 5 blasts after PGS testing. Fresh transfer 8/8/16: Chemical Pregnancy FET #1 9/13: PGS tested 5AA, BFN Endometrial biopsy 10/18/16: normal result ERA test 10/18/16: "receptive" result FET #2 1/3/17: natural cycle, BFP!!! TWINS!! EDD: 9/21 (8/31 with twin adjustment)
@mjacks16, I'm so sorry for the negative. Even though it's what you were expecting, it still doesn't make it easy to hear the news. Hopefully you have a productive talk with your RE next week.
Yep, it was confirmed - negative. Scheduled a phone consult with my RE for next week to discuss steps as we are out of frozen embabies. I'd image we take a few months off and work on my egg quality before the next round. My highest quality was only rated BB, so I'm thinking that is part of the problem. After my mc last time, my RE suggested I don't even do PGS testing if we had to do another round.
Hoping some better news will come to this thread soon!!
I'm so sorry! I don't know why the dr would recommend NOT doing pgs. At least you'll know the embryo is good or not and not waste your time, money and a cycle putting in a bad embryo. Whatever you decide we will all be here cheering you on. Hope you are ok. Sending hugs.
*****Trigger Warning, Loss and Pregnancy Mentioned*****
Married my best friend in 2013 (I was 33), After 1.5yrs of TTC got my first BFP naturally on 2/7/15 but ended in DNC on 4/14/15, not viable. In 2015 I was 35...Found out I had only one working ovary, which was DOR, with scar tissue and I ovulated at 7 days, with a small cervix opening and a tilted uterus... Needing an RE was a must.....IUI#1 Sept 2015,,, BFN IUI#2 Oct 2015,,,BFN IUI#3 Dec 2015,,BFN IVF#1 2/1/16- BFN IVF# on 3/29/16 retrieval only - 1 healthy chromosome tested embryo. IVF#3 retrieval 4/23/16- 0 healthy embryos. IVF#4 retrieval 6/17/16- 1 healthy embryo. FET#1-Transferred Both Healthy Embryos on 9/6/16 BFP!! 9/15/16 Beta 22.3, 9/17/16 Beta 60.5 & 9/19/16 Beta 195! 1st US on 9/23/16, only 1 Gast Sac & Yolk Sac found, US 9/30/16 US 6wk 1day saw and heard Heartbeat 120bpm!! EDD 5/25/2017 Had a healthy baby girl via CSection on 5/18/17 8lbs 15oz. Then four months later got pregnant naturally and had a healthy baby boy on 6/13/18 7lbs 6oz (at age 38). Needless to say, anything is possible! I'm keeping my signature open so it gives someone out there hope that anything is possible. Message me if you ever have any questions or just need someone to talk to. DON'T GIVE UP!
Ladies, I would like to thank you for not giving up on me. Im not sure how you did it, but your hopeful thoughts and well wishes for me were not in vain. My beta doubled from a 120 to a 230. I was utterly astonished to receive that news and am still in shock. The nurse didn't have an explanation for it, just said that my numbers weren't in the average (low), but that the second beta confirmed a pregnancy. I have already told everyone it was a chemical, so we have decided to just keep this to ourselves and not get excited until we see a heartbeat. *fingers crossed*
I was so angry to still be having the tender, swollen boobs and very slight nausea, but I guess this explains why those symptoms haven't gone away. Ultrasound is in another 2 weeks. I'm positive this embryo is a girl; I hope she can hang on until the end of May.
Thanks again everyone, your support is so invaluable and appreciated during this whole tumultuous process.
@mjacks16 I'm really sorry you didn't get better news. It really sucks to hear someone get a negative. @FatPony Wow I'm really trown off by thinking that 120 was a CP?? Congrats on the BFP!!
Me: 33 DH: 39 Me: Endo, PCOS, DH: low life span and mobility Married and TTC since 12/2008 3 IUI's in 2012 IVF #1 BFN 08/2012 IVF #2 11/2012 Twin Girls born at 35wks 7/2013 ER 4/2016 Freeze all 11 embryo's FET #1 5/2016 Transfer 1 BFN FET #2 7/2016 Transfer 1 BFN FET #3 09/2016 Thawed 3 Transfered 1 CP FET #4 1/2017 Transfer 2 CP FET #5 April 24, 2017 Transfering 1 BFN FET #6 June 8, 2017 Transfer 2 Beta #1 721 Beta #2 1363 US on 7/5 1 baby found EDD 2/24/18
@FatPony such great news!!! If it is a girl... She sure is a tough one!!! Yay!!!
*****Trigger Warning, Loss and Pregnancy Mentioned*****
Married my best friend in 2013 (I was 33), After 1.5yrs of TTC got my first BFP naturally on 2/7/15 but ended in DNC on 4/14/15, not viable. In 2015 I was 35...Found out I had only one working ovary, which was DOR, with scar tissue and I ovulated at 7 days, with a small cervix opening and a tilted uterus... Needing an RE was a must.....IUI#1 Sept 2015,,, BFN IUI#2 Oct 2015,,,BFN IUI#3 Dec 2015,,BFN IVF#1 2/1/16- BFN IVF# on 3/29/16 retrieval only - 1 healthy chromosome tested embryo. IVF#3 retrieval 4/23/16- 0 healthy embryos. IVF#4 retrieval 6/17/16- 1 healthy embryo. FET#1-Transferred Both Healthy Embryos on 9/6/16 BFP!! 9/15/16 Beta 22.3, 9/17/16 Beta 60.5 & 9/19/16 Beta 195! 1st US on 9/23/16, only 1 Gast Sac & Yolk Sac found, US 9/30/16 US 6wk 1day saw and heard Heartbeat 120bpm!! EDD 5/25/2017 Had a healthy baby girl via CSection on 5/18/17 8lbs 15oz. Then four months later got pregnant naturally and had a healthy baby boy on 6/13/18 7lbs 6oz (at age 38). Needless to say, anything is possible! I'm keeping my signature open so it gives someone out there hope that anything is possible. Message me if you ever have any questions or just need someone to talk to. DON'T GIVE UP!
@fatpony that is so awesome!!! Congrats. I'm confused though... your nurse said a first beta of 120 was low?
Me: 35 DH: 36 Me: 1, possibly 2, blocked tubes DH: severe MFI Married and TTC since 2/15 Started stims 7/21/16, ER 8/2 --> 17 eggs, 5 blasts after PGS testing. Fresh transfer 8/8/16: Chemical Pregnancy FET #1 9/13: PGS tested 5AA, BFN Endometrial biopsy 10/18/16: normal result ERA test 10/18/16: "receptive" result FET #2 1/3/17: natural cycle, BFP!!! TWINS!! EDD: 9/21 (8/31 with twin adjustment)
BFN. As much as I was prepared to hear that news, it's still heart crushing.
My doctor said she's not sure why it didn't take, bc I was completely set up for express. She said that next month we will do a trial cycle. So instead of an actual transfer on transfer day, they will instead do a biopsy of my uterine lining. She said it's a test to look for genes that are expressed by the uterus when an embryo should implant. Has anyone had this done?
Me: 35 DH: 36 Me: 1, possibly 2, blocked tubes DH: severe MFI Married and TTC since 2/15 Started stims 7/21/16, ER 8/2 --> 17 eggs, 5 blasts after PGS testing. Fresh transfer 8/8/16: Chemical Pregnancy FET #1 9/13: PGS tested 5AA, BFN Endometrial biopsy 10/18/16: normal result ERA test 10/18/16: "receptive" result FET #2 1/3/17: natural cycle, BFP!!! TWINS!! EDD: 9/21 (8/31 with twin adjustment)
@mjacks16 I am so sorry to hear your news. I hope your RE puts a good plan in place for you. I would also be curious to hear why the recommendation against PGS.
@FatPony This is fantastic!!! Congratulations!!! I hope the next 2 weeks won't be completely torturous while you wait for the ultrasound! (Can't even imagine).
@APM_SLP Gosh, I'm so sorry to hear you are BFN too I haven't heard of that test but I sure hope it helps your next transfer be successful. *hugs*
***BFP & Child Warning***
Me: 34, DH: 38 ~ TTC since 2014 IUI #1-3 (Nov 2015, Feb 2016, May 2016) = BFNs IVF ER (July 2016) = 7 PGS normal embryos FET #1 (Sept 2016) = BFP! DD born 5/30/17 FET #2 (April 2019) = BFN FET #3 (July 2019) = BFP! DS born 3/27/20
@apm_slp I'm so sorry it was negative! I have heard of that test, someone on here a few weeks ago had a thread about that actually. I've researched on it and it seems really interesting and helpful. I think it basically looks for what day your uterus is most receptive Bc not everyone is day 5 which is usually done during FETs, some ppl need an extra or less day of progesterone for ideal conditions.
@wifeinraleigh28 the articles I've read are really interesting! I've thought about asking my RE about this but from the studies I've read, you need a lining that consistently gets over 7-7.5 so I don't even know if I would be a candidate
They said they are doing the biopsy to make sure I am expressing the genes that should be expressed by the uterus when an embryo is implanting. I remember that thread too, now that you mention it! I'll check it out. My sister is a genetic counselor so I will definitely be talking to her.
They dont necessarily know or think that my uterus is the problem, my RE just said that because everything looked so great, they want to do more testing before moving on with another cycle.
Me: 35 DH: 36 Me: 1, possibly 2, blocked tubes DH: severe MFI Married and TTC since 2/15 Started stims 7/21/16, ER 8/2 --> 17 eggs, 5 blasts after PGS testing. Fresh transfer 8/8/16: Chemical Pregnancy FET #1 9/13: PGS tested 5AA, BFN Endometrial biopsy 10/18/16: normal result ERA test 10/18/16: "receptive" result FET #2 1/3/17: natural cycle, BFP!!! TWINS!! EDD: 9/21 (8/31 with twin adjustment)
@FatPony I am amazed that your RE had you convinced 120 was a cp! Mine said anything over 50 was perfectly great!! I thrilled that your beta doubled and you are on your way to a happy and healthy 9 months!!! Hooray!!! That means it can work after a cp!
@APM_SLP So sorry. Wish that news was the exact opposite for you. Thanks for the tip on the next step. I am going to talk to my RE to see what they can look at for me. Meeting Monday with the RE.
@APM_SLP so sorry to hear about your bad news. I've heard of the test and a friend of mine had it done last month. Prior to TTC I had the biopsy done so let me know if you have any questions about that part.
Me 36 DH 34 - Married May 2010 DX: PCOS/Unexplained Infertility/MTHFR Mutation TTC since December 2014 Fresh Transfer: Gonal, Menopur, Cetrotide. ~ Chemical Pregnancy FET #1: 1st Beta- 3,792~ 2nd Beta- 4,227~ BFP ~ Miscarriage at 8 weeks FET #2: 1st Beta 207~2nd Beta 235~ BFP~ Miscarriage at 6 weeks FET #3: 1st Beta 18~ 2nd Beta 44~BFP~ Miscarriage 5 weeks FET #4: 1st Beta 50~ 2nd Beta 97.7~ Miscarriage 6 weeks 5 days FET#5: 1st Beta 29~ 2nd Beta 109~ 3rd Beta 227~ 4th Beta 661~ Miscarriage 5 weeks 3 days Miracle Natural BFP Estimated Due Date June 2019~ God is good 2 snow babies
@APM_SLP I'm so sorry. I'm glad you have a plan of action in place...I'm considering the same thing for my next cycle.
TTC since August 2014
Me: 41, Him: 43
DX: Unexplained secondary infertility
History: Multiple months of Clomid/Femara End of March 2015: BFP with Femara! Saw heartbeat at 5.5 weeks. M/C at 11 weeks Multiple more months of Femara IUI #1 with Femara and Follistem 75 units: BFN IUI #2 with Follistem 150 units: BFN Dec 2015: 1st IVF. 10 eggs retrieved with 8 eggs fertilized. 5 day transfer of two embryos with 2 frozen embies. BFN January 2016: FET #1 2 embryos: BFN March 2016: 2nd IVF cycle. 4 eggs retrieved with 2 fertilized. Quick two day transfer of both embryos: BFN April/May 2016 IVF #3. 11 eggs retrieved. 10 mature. 7 fertilized. 2 5AA blasts transferred 5/11/2016 BFN September 2016 IVF #4: 17 follicles growing, premature ovulation through Cetrotide. Retrieval cancelled. April 2017 IVF #5: 9 follicles growing, 6 eggs retrieved with 5 fertilized. Transfer of three blasts. BFN June 2017: IVF #6: 2 follicles growing, 5 eggs retrieved with 5 fertilized. Transfer of 5 3-day embryos. Chemical pregnancy. BFN Nov/Dec 2017: Donor egg cycle. 33 eggs retrieved, 26 mature. 26 fertilized.
@APM_SLP. So sorry to hear that. Hoping that they find the reason, fix it and you'll be Preggo in no time! Sending you some hugs! Xoxo
*****Trigger Warning, Loss and Pregnancy Mentioned*****
Married my best friend in 2013 (I was 33), After 1.5yrs of TTC got my first BFP naturally on 2/7/15 but ended in DNC on 4/14/15, not viable. In 2015 I was 35...Found out I had only one working ovary, which was DOR, with scar tissue and I ovulated at 7 days, with a small cervix opening and a tilted uterus... Needing an RE was a must.....IUI#1 Sept 2015,,, BFN IUI#2 Oct 2015,,,BFN IUI#3 Dec 2015,,BFN IVF#1 2/1/16- BFN IVF# on 3/29/16 retrieval only - 1 healthy chromosome tested embryo. IVF#3 retrieval 4/23/16- 0 healthy embryos. IVF#4 retrieval 6/17/16- 1 healthy embryo. FET#1-Transferred Both Healthy Embryos on 9/6/16 BFP!! 9/15/16 Beta 22.3, 9/17/16 Beta 60.5 & 9/19/16 Beta 195! 1st US on 9/23/16, only 1 Gast Sac & Yolk Sac found, US 9/30/16 US 6wk 1day saw and heard Heartbeat 120bpm!! EDD 5/25/2017 Had a healthy baby girl via CSection on 5/18/17 8lbs 15oz. Then four months later got pregnant naturally and had a healthy baby boy on 6/13/18 7lbs 6oz (at age 38). Needless to say, anything is possible! I'm keeping my signature open so it gives someone out there hope that anything is possible. Message me if you ever have any questions or just need someone to talk to. DON'T GIVE UP!
@FatPony Oh my gosh, what wonderful news! Hope things continue along as they should and the wait for your ultrasound is not too brain racking. :-)
@APM_SLP Sorry to hear your news as well. I know how hard it is when everything looks great. Sounds like you have a plan to move on to learn more so hopefully the next one will be the one!
For people wondering why my RE might have us skip PGS next time is because I only ended up with 2 day 5 embryos to test last time and they somehow both came back normal. Seems my eggs tend to weed themselves out and it's a steep price to pay to test only 2. If I end up with 8 or something the next round it could be a different story. After having one fail with a M/C and the other not implant - it feels like we just wasted the money on testing.
@bells52000 - 120 seems good, but remember that I test a full 14 days after a 5dt. Plus my embie was hatching when it was transferred, so I really thought I was out of the running. I had a 90 beta for my cp, so it wasn't too hard to imagine a bad result. So nerve-wracking.
Anyways, fingers crossed for the next round of betas.
@Worldtravler0522 I POAS last time and got + results super quick. I don’t have any tests at home and DH thinks I should just wait until beta day. So, we will see.
@wifeinraleigh28 It’s comforting to know there are other frosties waiting for you if this cycle doesn’t work out. When I had my major disappointment last go, the opportunity to try again was the only thing that brought hope. I think we all have it in us to keep trying. I hope so much this is your cycle though!
I am so sorry for negative results today. Hopefully your RE will get a new plan together for when you’re ready to start again. Hugs to you both.
@fatpony I am so excited to read your news! So, So happy for you. I hope these next couple weeks goes by quickly and your 6 wk us is perfect.
With my last FET I was so excited and kind of thought it was a guaranteed deal. This time around I know better and am honestly trying not to think about it all too much. I'm just one day in of the 10 day wait, so we will see how I feel in a few days, ha.
Me: 26 DH: 29 Married Dec 2012 TTC since Jan 2013, interruptions by DH deployments
Diagnosis: unexplained April 2015, Clomid + gonal f, natural, BFN Oct 8 2015, Clomid + brevelle, too many follis (10!)- cancelled Nov 18 2015, Follistem + Ovidrel + Progesterone, 1 folli, IUI #1 on 12/11, BFN Dec 24 2015, Follistem + Ovidrel + Progesterone, 1 folli, IUI #2 on 1/15, BFN Jan 29 2016, Follistem + Ovidrel + Progesterone, 2 follis, IUI #3 on 2/11, BFN March 2016, Follistem + Ovidrel + Progesterone, 2 follis, BD at home this time,BFN IVF: Stim's start 4/23, ER May 4th, 8 embabies frozen FET #1 5/31/16, transferred 1 embryo- BFP: Beta 6/8/16 111, Beta 6/14/16 1800....m/c, d&c 7/15/16 FET #2 9/21/16, transferred 1 embryo......BFP!!: Beta 10/1/16 493, Beta 10/3/16 1155 SINGLETON- EDD June 9th, 2016
@mjacks16 and @APM_SLP I'm so sorry to hear your news ladies. Such a rollercoaster.. One of my friends who has been through lots of rounds of IVF and is now nearly 30 weeks pg said... All those disappointments made the success so much more sweet! And I truly believe that for us all! Hugs to you guys!
@FatPony ummm amazing news girl!!! Congrats! Looking forward to hearing all the updates!
We're at 40% ladies. I hope that when all is said and done it is much higher. Again, huge congrats to @LSatturo126 and @FatPony! @LSatturo126 Your ultrasound is today, right? Thinking of you and sending positive vibes for good news!!!
@Tusername Absolutely, I do consider myself lucky to have so many frozen embryos. At the same time, however, we spent $20k for IVF which included the freeze all and our first FET along with it. Each subsequent FET is $3,500 (not including meds, probably closer to $4k with the meds). I know, much cheaper than doing a full round of IVF and for that I am grateful, but man does this stuff add up. I really can't see us being able to swing enough FETs to get through all of our embryos if they keep not working. So while it is comforting, I do still feel limited in the number of treatments I can do before we have to say enough is enough, ya know? Being completely OOP is so tough!
That being said, DH and I have decided that if we get a BFN on Monday, we will go right into our next FET and next time transfer 2 embryos. If money was no object, I would just transfer 1 again because I really don't want twins. But I guess I just feel like I need a little more of a guarantee with all the $$ we're having to shell out.
@Tusername I'm with you haha. I have great resolve this early to not POAS because I know I can't actually get an answer but in about 5 days I will be dying to POAS. We will see what I end up doing this time.
Me 36 DH 34 - Married May 2010 DX: PCOS/Unexplained Infertility/MTHFR Mutation TTC since December 2014 Fresh Transfer: Gonal, Menopur, Cetrotide. ~ Chemical Pregnancy FET #1: 1st Beta- 3,792~ 2nd Beta- 4,227~ BFP ~ Miscarriage at 8 weeks FET #2: 1st Beta 207~2nd Beta 235~ BFP~ Miscarriage at 6 weeks FET #3: 1st Beta 18~ 2nd Beta 44~BFP~ Miscarriage 5 weeks FET #4: 1st Beta 50~ 2nd Beta 97.7~ Miscarriage 6 weeks 5 days FET#5: 1st Beta 29~ 2nd Beta 109~ 3rd Beta 227~ 4th Beta 661~ Miscarriage 5 weeks 3 days Miracle Natural BFP Estimated Due Date June 2019~ God is good 2 snow babies
Today marks the third negative day from POAS for me. I know there's still hope, even if it's negative all the way up to beta. But, each day I see one line I get a little more down.
I think I still prefer it this way, rather than not testing at all, so it's a gradual disappointment rather then a shock to the system.
Better start preparations for moving insurances and starting another stim cycle.
Me: 32, Hubs: 36 Married: September 2013 TTC since April 2014, Dx: MFI DH started Clomid Oct 2015 April-June 2016- 3 IUIs: All BFN July 2016- IVF #1: 16 eggs ->1 PGS-normal embryo Sept 2016- single FET #1: BFN Nov 2016- IVF #2 16 eggs -> 3 PGS-normal embryos Jan 2017- single FET #2: BFN Feb 2017- endometrial scratch March 2017- FET #3 (double transfer): BFP! Beta #1: 386 (9dp5dt), Beta #2: 1,960 (12dp5dt) Pregnant with: TripletsTwins Singleton It's a GIRL! EDD: November 16, 2017 Dx w/ preeclampsia: Updated delivery date: 10/4/17 Hazel Summerlyn Find me on the IG
Well today we went in for our 5wk 1d US. All is looking good. Better than what the dr thought it would be. Gas Sac and Yolk sac and even a small fetal pole. We will be waiting another week to hear the heartbeat. I didn't want to post because I don't want anyone upset, I'd gladly PM if you PM me. Should get my beta#4 levels later today.
*****Trigger Warning, Loss and Pregnancy Mentioned*****
Married my best friend in 2013 (I was 33), After 1.5yrs of TTC got my first BFP naturally on 2/7/15 but ended in DNC on 4/14/15, not viable. In 2015 I was 35...Found out I had only one working ovary, which was DOR, with scar tissue and I ovulated at 7 days, with a small cervix opening and a tilted uterus... Needing an RE was a must.....IUI#1 Sept 2015,,, BFN IUI#2 Oct 2015,,,BFN IUI#3 Dec 2015,,BFN IVF#1 2/1/16- BFN IVF# on 3/29/16 retrieval only - 1 healthy chromosome tested embryo. IVF#3 retrieval 4/23/16- 0 healthy embryos. IVF#4 retrieval 6/17/16- 1 healthy embryo. FET#1-Transferred Both Healthy Embryos on 9/6/16 BFP!! 9/15/16 Beta 22.3, 9/17/16 Beta 60.5 & 9/19/16 Beta 195! 1st US on 9/23/16, only 1 Gast Sac & Yolk Sac found, US 9/30/16 US 6wk 1day saw and heard Heartbeat 120bpm!! EDD 5/25/2017 Had a healthy baby girl via CSection on 5/18/17 8lbs 15oz. Then four months later got pregnant naturally and had a healthy baby boy on 6/13/18 7lbs 6oz (at age 38). Needless to say, anything is possible! I'm keeping my signature open so it gives someone out there hope that anything is possible. Message me if you ever have any questions or just need someone to talk to. DON'T GIVE UP!
@LSatturo126 Yay!! So glad to hear your ultrasound went well! Personally I would like you to keep updating us over here. Can't wait until you hear the heartbeat next week!
***BFP & Child Warning***
Me: 34, DH: 38 ~ TTC since 2014 IUI #1-3 (Nov 2015, Feb 2016, May 2016) = BFNs IVF ER (July 2016) = 7 PGS normal embryos FET #1 (Sept 2016) = BFP! DD born 5/30/17 FET #2 (April 2019) = BFN FET #3 (July 2019) = BFP! DS born 3/27/20
@LSatturo126 - I personally think you're fine updating us here. Every update - BFN or BFP basically is a trigger bc we all have so much riding on these transfers. So as long as you're respectful, your updates are fine by me (and I honestly can't see you coming on here to say something mean). Glad to hear your u/s results look good!
afm- my sewing machine died, I'm going back to work in a week and my Etsy shop is blowing up Go figure.
Anyway, let's try to have a chill Friday and calm weekend (TWW ladies are like 'yeah right!'). @bells52000 - are we ever going to see the ocean?
@lsatturo126 so glad the u/s went well! I don't mind the updates either!
@fatpony I am going CRAZY! Monday can't get here soon enough (but if it's bad news, I'll prefer to stay in my little bubble and keep thinking that I'm pregnant)!
@LSatturo126 Are they able to tell that it was 1 or 2 embies that stuck? Based on your update it sounds like 1? Either way I am over the moon happy for you!!!
I agree with @mtpbadger. I'm going crazy! Monday can't get here soon enough (and I have NEVER uttered those words before...)!
***BFP & Child Warning***
Me: 34, DH: 38 ~ TTC since 2014 IUI #1-3 (Nov 2015, Feb 2016, May 2016) = BFNs IVF ER (July 2016) = 7 PGS normal embryos FET #1 (Sept 2016) = BFP! DD born 5/30/17 FET #2 (April 2019) = BFN FET #3 (July 2019) = BFP! DS born 3/27/20
Yes only 1 but i'm ok with it. At this point i'm taking whatever God will give me! lol
I have read that people have found another sac a week later but honestly my beta isn't high if there was two. Today's beta#4 and was 1,229. We shall see.
*****Trigger Warning, Loss and Pregnancy Mentioned*****
Married my best friend in 2013 (I was 33), After 1.5yrs of TTC got my first BFP naturally on 2/7/15 but ended in DNC on 4/14/15, not viable. In 2015 I was 35...Found out I had only one working ovary, which was DOR, with scar tissue and I ovulated at 7 days, with a small cervix opening and a tilted uterus... Needing an RE was a must.....IUI#1 Sept 2015,,, BFN IUI#2 Oct 2015,,,BFN IUI#3 Dec 2015,,BFN IVF#1 2/1/16- BFN IVF# on 3/29/16 retrieval only - 1 healthy chromosome tested embryo. IVF#3 retrieval 4/23/16- 0 healthy embryos. IVF#4 retrieval 6/17/16- 1 healthy embryo. FET#1-Transferred Both Healthy Embryos on 9/6/16 BFP!! 9/15/16 Beta 22.3, 9/17/16 Beta 60.5 & 9/19/16 Beta 195! 1st US on 9/23/16, only 1 Gast Sac & Yolk Sac found, US 9/30/16 US 6wk 1day saw and heard Heartbeat 120bpm!! EDD 5/25/2017 Had a healthy baby girl via CSection on 5/18/17 8lbs 15oz. Then four months later got pregnant naturally and had a healthy baby boy on 6/13/18 7lbs 6oz (at age 38). Needless to say, anything is possible! I'm keeping my signature open so it gives someone out there hope that anything is possible. Message me if you ever have any questions or just need someone to talk to. DON'T GIVE UP!
@LSatturo126 I love your updates. As for me, keep them coming. I can not get upset of someone finding success. It's what we all want and for sure if it isn't me, I want it to be someone else! Great Beta #4
@FatPony (TW) Last week we didn't get to the beach because a guy planted bombs near our boardwalk! Crazy world we live in. I just looked on my camera and the week before when we were seaglass hunting, I only took pics with my dog and daughter. Trying to be sensitive to others...I will go this weekend and try to get some new ones of just the beach!
Update - Also want to add I think it is perfectly fine if people do get triggered by ultras, positive betas, etc. I don't want to sound like a big jerk.
Also will add that my boss (principal) bought pizza today. And that pleases me! Happy Friday!
Re: September FET Buddies!
Me: 1, possibly 2, blocked tubes
DH: severe MFI
Married and TTC since 2/15
Started stims 7/21/16, ER 8/2 --> 17 eggs, 5 blasts after PGS testing.
Fresh transfer 8/8/16: Chemical Pregnancy
FET #1 9/13: PGS tested 5AA, BFN
Endometrial biopsy 10/18/16: normal result
ERA test 10/18/16: "receptive" result
FET #2 1/3/17: natural cycle, BFP!!! TWINS!! EDD: 9/21 (8/31 with twin adjustment)
Married my best friend in 2013 (I was 33), After 1.5yrs of TTC got my first BFP naturally on 2/7/15 but ended in DNC on 4/14/15, not viable. In 2015 I was 35...Found out I had only one working ovary, which was DOR, with scar tissue and I ovulated at 7 days, with a small cervix opening and a tilted uterus... Needing an RE was a must.....IUI#1 Sept 2015,,, BFN IUI#2 Oct 2015,,,BFN IUI#3 Dec 2015,,BFN IVF#1 2/1/16- BFN IVF# on 3/29/16 retrieval only - 1 healthy chromosome tested embryo. IVF#3 retrieval 4/23/16- 0 healthy embryos. IVF#4 retrieval 6/17/16- 1 healthy embryo. FET#1-Transferred Both Healthy Embryos on 9/6/16 BFP!! 9/15/16 Beta 22.3, 9/17/16 Beta 60.5 & 9/19/16 Beta 195! 1st US on 9/23/16, only 1 Gast Sac & Yolk Sac found, US 9/30/16 US 6wk 1day saw and heard Heartbeat 120bpm!! EDD 5/25/2017 Had a healthy baby girl via CSection on 5/18/17 8lbs 15oz.
IVF: ER 7/16 40 follies, 23 eggs, 19 mature,
12 fert w/icsi, 6 blasts, 3 PGS norm, 1 unknown.
FET: 9/1/16 transferred 1 CP beta 5.9
FET 2: 11/15/16 transferred 1 CP again!
FET 3: TBD
DX: PCOS/Unexplained Infertility/MTHFR Mutation
TTC since December 2014
Fresh Transfer: Gonal, Menopur, Cetrotide. ~ Chemical Pregnancy
FET #1: 1st Beta- 3,792~ 2nd Beta- 4,227~ BFP ~ Miscarriage at 8 weeks
FET #2: 1st Beta 207~2nd Beta 235~ BFP~ Miscarriage at 6 weeks
FET #3: 1st Beta 18~ 2nd Beta 44~BFP~ Miscarriage 5 weeks
FET #4: 1st Beta 50~ 2nd Beta 97.7~ Miscarriage 6 weeks 5 days
FET#5: 1st Beta 29~ 2nd Beta 109~ 3rd Beta 227~ 4th Beta 661~ Miscarriage 5 weeks 3 days
Miracle Natural BFP Estimated Due Date June 2019~ God is good
2 snow babies
I was so angry to still be having the tender, swollen boobs and very slight nausea, but I guess this explains why those symptoms haven't gone away. Ultrasound is in another 2 weeks. I'm positive this embryo is a girl; I hope she can hang on until the end of May.
Thanks again everyone, your support is so invaluable and appreciated during this whole tumultuous process.
@FatPony Wow I'm really trown off by thinking that 120 was a CP?? Congrats on the BFP!!
Me: Endo, PCOS,
DH: low life span and mobility
Married and TTC since 12/2008
3 IUI's in 2012
IVF #1 BFN 08/2012
IVF #2 11/2012 Twin Girls born at 35wks 7/2013
ER 4/2016 Freeze all 11 embryo's
FET #1 5/2016 Transfer 1 BFN
FET #2 7/2016 Transfer 1 BFN
FET #3 09/2016 Thawed 3 Transfered 1 CP
FET #4 1/2017 Transfer 2 CP
FET #5 April 24, 2017 Transfering 1 BFN
FET #6 June 8, 2017 Transfer 2 Beta #1 721 Beta #2 1363
US on 7/5 1 baby found EDD 2/24/18
Married my best friend in 2013 (I was 33), After 1.5yrs of TTC got my first BFP naturally on 2/7/15 but ended in DNC on 4/14/15, not viable. In 2015 I was 35...Found out I had only one working ovary, which was DOR, with scar tissue and I ovulated at 7 days, with a small cervix opening and a tilted uterus... Needing an RE was a must.....IUI#1 Sept 2015,,, BFN IUI#2 Oct 2015,,,BFN IUI#3 Dec 2015,,BFN IVF#1 2/1/16- BFN IVF# on 3/29/16 retrieval only - 1 healthy chromosome tested embryo. IVF#3 retrieval 4/23/16- 0 healthy embryos. IVF#4 retrieval 6/17/16- 1 healthy embryo. FET#1-Transferred Both Healthy Embryos on 9/6/16 BFP!! 9/15/16 Beta 22.3, 9/17/16 Beta 60.5 & 9/19/16 Beta 195! 1st US on 9/23/16, only 1 Gast Sac & Yolk Sac found, US 9/30/16 US 6wk 1day saw and heard Heartbeat 120bpm!! EDD 5/25/2017 Had a healthy baby girl via CSection on 5/18/17 8lbs 15oz.
Me: 1, possibly 2, blocked tubes
DH: severe MFI
Married and TTC since 2/15
Started stims 7/21/16, ER 8/2 --> 17 eggs, 5 blasts after PGS testing.
Fresh transfer 8/8/16: Chemical Pregnancy
FET #1 9/13: PGS tested 5AA, BFN
Endometrial biopsy 10/18/16: normal result
ERA test 10/18/16: "receptive" result
FET #2 1/3/17: natural cycle, BFP!!! TWINS!! EDD: 9/21 (8/31 with twin adjustment)
My doctor said she's not sure why it didn't take, bc I was completely set up for express. She said that next month we will do a trial cycle. So instead of an actual transfer on transfer day, they will instead do a biopsy of my uterine lining. She said it's a test to look for genes that are expressed by the uterus when an embryo should implant. Has anyone had this done?
Me: 1, possibly 2, blocked tubes
DH: severe MFI
Married and TTC since 2/15
Started stims 7/21/16, ER 8/2 --> 17 eggs, 5 blasts after PGS testing.
Fresh transfer 8/8/16: Chemical Pregnancy
FET #1 9/13: PGS tested 5AA, BFN
Endometrial biopsy 10/18/16: normal result
ERA test 10/18/16: "receptive" result
FET #2 1/3/17: natural cycle, BFP!!! TWINS!! EDD: 9/21 (8/31 with twin adjustment)
@FatPony This is fantastic!!! Congratulations!!! I hope the next 2 weeks won't be completely torturous while you wait for the ultrasound! (Can't even imagine).
@APM_SLP Gosh, I'm so sorry to hear you are BFN too
Me: 34, DH: 38 ~ TTC since 2014
IUI #1-3 (Nov 2015, Feb 2016, May 2016) = BFNs
IVF ER (July 2016) = 7 PGS normal embryos
FET #1 (Sept 2016) = BFP! DD born 5/30/17
FET #2 (April 2019) = BFN
FET #3 (July 2019) = BFP! DS born 3/27/20
Me: 34, DH: 38 ~ TTC since 2014
IUI #1-3 (Nov 2015, Feb 2016, May 2016) = BFNs
IVF ER (July 2016) = 7 PGS normal embryos
FET #1 (Sept 2016) = BFP! DD born 5/30/17
FET #2 (April 2019) = BFN
FET #3 (July 2019) = BFP! DS born 3/27/20
They said they are doing the biopsy to make sure I am expressing the genes that should be expressed by the uterus when an embryo is implanting. I remember that thread too, now that you mention it! I'll check it out. My sister is a genetic counselor so I will definitely be talking to her.
They dont necessarily know or think that my uterus is the problem, my RE just said that because everything looked so great, they want to do more testing before moving on with another cycle.
Me: 1, possibly 2, blocked tubes
DH: severe MFI
Married and TTC since 2/15
Started stims 7/21/16, ER 8/2 --> 17 eggs, 5 blasts after PGS testing.
Fresh transfer 8/8/16: Chemical Pregnancy
FET #1 9/13: PGS tested 5AA, BFN
Endometrial biopsy 10/18/16: normal result
ERA test 10/18/16: "receptive" result
FET #2 1/3/17: natural cycle, BFP!!! TWINS!! EDD: 9/21 (8/31 with twin adjustment)
@APM_SLP So sorry. Wish that news was the exact opposite for you. Thanks for the tip on the next step. I am going to talk to my RE to see what they can look at for me. Meeting Monday with the RE.
IVF: ER 7/16 40 follies, 23 eggs, 19 mature,
12 fert w/icsi, 6 blasts, 3 PGS norm, 1 unknown.
FET: 9/1/16 transferred 1 CP beta 5.9
FET 2: 11/15/16 transferred 1 CP again!
FET 3: TBD
DX: PCOS/Unexplained Infertility/MTHFR Mutation
TTC since December 2014
Fresh Transfer: Gonal, Menopur, Cetrotide. ~ Chemical Pregnancy
FET #1: 1st Beta- 3,792~ 2nd Beta- 4,227~ BFP ~ Miscarriage at 8 weeks
FET #2: 1st Beta 207~2nd Beta 235~ BFP~ Miscarriage at 6 weeks
FET #3: 1st Beta 18~ 2nd Beta 44~BFP~ Miscarriage 5 weeks
FET #4: 1st Beta 50~ 2nd Beta 97.7~ Miscarriage 6 weeks 5 days
FET#5: 1st Beta 29~ 2nd Beta 109~ 3rd Beta 227~ 4th Beta 661~ Miscarriage 5 weeks 3 days
Miracle Natural BFP Estimated Due Date June 2019~ God is good
2 snow babies
Multiple months of Clomid/Femara
End of March 2015: BFP with Femara! Saw heartbeat at 5.5 weeks. M/C at 11 weeks
Multiple more months of Femara
IUI #1 with Femara and Follistem 75 units: BFN
IUI #2 with Follistem 150 units: BFN
Dec 2015: 1st IVF. 10 eggs retrieved with 8 eggs fertilized. 5 day transfer of two embryos with 2 frozen embies. BFN
January 2016: FET #1 2 embryos: BFN
March 2016: 2nd IVF cycle. 4 eggs retrieved with 2 fertilized. Quick two day transfer of both embryos: BFN
April/May 2016 IVF #3. 11 eggs retrieved. 10 mature. 7 fertilized. 2 5AA blasts transferred 5/11/2016 BFN
September 2016 IVF #4: 17 follicles growing, premature ovulation through Cetrotide. Retrieval cancelled.
April 2017 IVF #5: 9 follicles growing, 6 eggs retrieved with 5 fertilized. Transfer of three blasts. BFN
June 2017: IVF #6: 2 follicles growing, 5 eggs retrieved with 5 fertilized. Transfer of 5 3-day embryos. Chemical pregnancy. BFN
Nov/Dec 2017: Donor egg cycle. 33 eggs retrieved, 26 mature. 26 fertilized.
Married my best friend in 2013 (I was 33), After 1.5yrs of TTC got my first BFP naturally on 2/7/15 but ended in DNC on 4/14/15, not viable. In 2015 I was 35...Found out I had only one working ovary, which was DOR, with scar tissue and I ovulated at 7 days, with a small cervix opening and a tilted uterus... Needing an RE was a must.....IUI#1 Sept 2015,,, BFN IUI#2 Oct 2015,,,BFN IUI#3 Dec 2015,,BFN IVF#1 2/1/16- BFN IVF# on 3/29/16 retrieval only - 1 healthy chromosome tested embryo. IVF#3 retrieval 4/23/16- 0 healthy embryos. IVF#4 retrieval 6/17/16- 1 healthy embryo. FET#1-Transferred Both Healthy Embryos on 9/6/16 BFP!! 9/15/16 Beta 22.3, 9/17/16 Beta 60.5 & 9/19/16 Beta 195! 1st US on 9/23/16, only 1 Gast Sac & Yolk Sac found, US 9/30/16 US 6wk 1day saw and heard Heartbeat 120bpm!! EDD 5/25/2017 Had a healthy baby girl via CSection on 5/18/17 8lbs 15oz.
@APM_SLP Sorry to hear your news as well. I know how hard it is when everything looks great. Sounds like you have a plan to move on to learn more so hopefully the next one will be the one!
For people wondering why my RE might have us skip PGS next time is because I only ended up with 2 day 5 embryos to test last time and they somehow both came back normal. Seems my eggs tend to weed themselves out and it's a steep price to pay to test only 2. If I end up with 8 or something the next round it could be a different story. After having one fail with a M/C and the other not implant - it feels like we just wasted the money on testing.
Anyways, fingers crossed for the next round of betas.
With my last FET I was so excited and kind of thought it was a guaranteed deal. This time around I know better and am honestly trying not to think about it all too much. I'm just one day in of the 10 day wait, so we will see how I feel in a few days, ha.
Me: 26 DH: 29
Married Dec 2012
TTC since Jan 2013, interruptions by DH deployments
April 2015, Clomid + gonal f, natural, BFN
Oct 8 2015, Clomid + brevelle, too many follis (10!)- cancelled
Nov 18 2015, Follistem + Ovidrel + Progesterone, 1 folli, IUI #1 on 12/11, BFN
Dec 24 2015, Follistem + Ovidrel + Progesterone, 1 folli, IUI #2 on 1/15, BFN
Jan 29 2016, Follistem + Ovidrel + Progesterone, 2 follis, IUI #3 on 2/11, BFN
March 2016, Follistem + Ovidrel + Progesterone, 2 follis, BD at home this time,BFN
IVF: Stim's start 4/23, ER May 4th, 8 embabies frozen
FET #1 5/31/16, transferred 1 embryo- BFP: Beta 6/8/16 111, Beta 6/14/16 1800....m/c, d&c 7/15/16
FET #2 9/21/16, transferred 1 embryo......BFP!!: Beta 10/1/16 493, Beta 10/3/16 1155
SINGLETON- EDD June 9th, 2016
@FatPony ummm amazing news girl!!! Congrats! Looking forward to hearing all the updates!
We're at 40% ladies. I hope that when all is said and done it is much higher. Again, huge congrats to @LSatturo126 and @FatPony! @LSatturo126 Your ultrasound is today, right? Thinking of you and sending positive vibes for good news!!!
@Tusername Absolutely, I do consider myself lucky to have so many frozen embryos. At the same time, however, we spent $20k for IVF which included the freeze all and our first FET along with it. Each subsequent FET is $3,500 (not including meds, probably closer to $4k with the meds). I know, much cheaper than doing a full round of IVF and for that I am grateful, but man does this stuff add up. I really can't see us being able to swing enough FETs to get through all of our embryos if they keep not working. So while it is comforting, I do still feel limited in the number of treatments I can do before we have to say enough is enough, ya know? Being completely OOP is so tough!
That being said, DH and I have decided that if we get a BFN on Monday, we will go right into our next FET and next time transfer 2 embryos. If money was no object, I would just transfer 1 again because I really don't want twins. But I guess I just feel like I need a little more of a guarantee with all the $$ we're having to shell out.
@fmitchell Any updates?
Me: 34, DH: 38 ~ TTC since 2014
IUI #1-3 (Nov 2015, Feb 2016, May 2016) = BFNs
IVF ER (July 2016) = 7 PGS normal embryos
FET #1 (Sept 2016) = BFP! DD born 5/30/17
FET #2 (April 2019) = BFN
FET #3 (July 2019) = BFP! DS born 3/27/20
IVF: ER 7/16 40 follies, 23 eggs, 19 mature,
12 fert w/icsi, 6 blasts, 3 PGS norm, 1 unknown.
FET: 9/1/16 transferred 1 CP beta 5.9
FET 2: 11/15/16 transferred 1 CP again!
FET 3: TBD
DX: PCOS/Unexplained Infertility/MTHFR Mutation
TTC since December 2014
Fresh Transfer: Gonal, Menopur, Cetrotide. ~ Chemical Pregnancy
FET #1: 1st Beta- 3,792~ 2nd Beta- 4,227~ BFP ~ Miscarriage at 8 weeks
FET #2: 1st Beta 207~2nd Beta 235~ BFP~ Miscarriage at 6 weeks
FET #3: 1st Beta 18~ 2nd Beta 44~BFP~ Miscarriage 5 weeks
FET #4: 1st Beta 50~ 2nd Beta 97.7~ Miscarriage 6 weeks 5 days
FET#5: 1st Beta 29~ 2nd Beta 109~ 3rd Beta 227~ 4th Beta 661~ Miscarriage 5 weeks 3 days
Miracle Natural BFP Estimated Due Date June 2019~ God is good
2 snow babies
I think I still prefer it this way, rather than not testing at all, so it's a gradual disappointment rather then a shock to the system.
Better start preparations for moving insurances and starting another stim cycle.
Married: September 2013
TTC since April 2014, Dx: MFI
DH started Clomid Oct 2015
April-June 2016- 3 IUIs: All BFN
July 2016- IVF #1: 16 eggs ->1 PGS-normal embryo
Sept 2016- single FET #1: BFN
Nov 2016- IVF #2 16 eggs -> 3 PGS-normal embryos
Jan 2017- single FET #2: BFN
Feb 2017- endometrial scratch
March 2017- FET #3 (double transfer): BFP!
Beta #1: 386 (9dp5dt), Beta #2: 1,960 (12dp5dt)
Pregnant with: Triplets Twins Singleton
It's a GIRL!
EDD: November 16, 2017
Dx w/ preeclampsia: Updated delivery date: 10/4/17
Find me on the IG
Well today we went in for our 5wk 1d US. All is looking good. Better than what the dr thought it would be. Gas Sac and Yolk sac and even a small fetal pole. We will be waiting another week to hear the heartbeat. I didn't want to post because I don't want anyone upset, I'd gladly PM if you PM me. Should get my beta#4 levels later today.
Married my best friend in 2013 (I was 33), After 1.5yrs of TTC got my first BFP naturally on 2/7/15 but ended in DNC on 4/14/15, not viable. In 2015 I was 35...Found out I had only one working ovary, which was DOR, with scar tissue and I ovulated at 7 days, with a small cervix opening and a tilted uterus... Needing an RE was a must.....IUI#1 Sept 2015,,, BFN IUI#2 Oct 2015,,,BFN IUI#3 Dec 2015,,BFN IVF#1 2/1/16- BFN IVF# on 3/29/16 retrieval only - 1 healthy chromosome tested embryo. IVF#3 retrieval 4/23/16- 0 healthy embryos. IVF#4 retrieval 6/17/16- 1 healthy embryo. FET#1-Transferred Both Healthy Embryos on 9/6/16 BFP!! 9/15/16 Beta 22.3, 9/17/16 Beta 60.5 & 9/19/16 Beta 195! 1st US on 9/23/16, only 1 Gast Sac & Yolk Sac found, US 9/30/16 US 6wk 1day saw and heard Heartbeat 120bpm!! EDD 5/25/2017 Had a healthy baby girl via CSection on 5/18/17 8lbs 15oz.
Me: 34, DH: 38 ~ TTC since 2014
IUI #1-3 (Nov 2015, Feb 2016, May 2016) = BFNs
IVF ER (July 2016) = 7 PGS normal embryos
FET #1 (Sept 2016) = BFP! DD born 5/30/17
FET #2 (April 2019) = BFN
FET #3 (July 2019) = BFP! DS born 3/27/20
afm- my sewing machine died, I'm going back to work in a week and my Etsy shop is blowing up
Anyway, let's try to have a chill Friday and calm weekend (TWW ladies are like 'yeah right!'). @bells52000 - are we ever going to see the ocean?
@lsatturo126 so glad the u/s went well! I don't mind the updates either!
@fatpony I am going CRAZY! Monday can't get here soon enough (but if it's bad news, I'll prefer to stay in my little bubble and keep thinking that I'm pregnant)!
I agree with @mtpbadger. I'm going crazy! Monday can't get here soon enough (and I have NEVER uttered those words before...)!
Me: 34, DH: 38 ~ TTC since 2014
IUI #1-3 (Nov 2015, Feb 2016, May 2016) = BFNs
IVF ER (July 2016) = 7 PGS normal embryos
FET #1 (Sept 2016) = BFP! DD born 5/30/17
FET #2 (April 2019) = BFN
FET #3 (July 2019) = BFP! DS born 3/27/20
I have read that people have found another sac a week later but honestly my beta isn't high if there was two. Today's beta#4 and was 1,229. We shall see.
Married my best friend in 2013 (I was 33), After 1.5yrs of TTC got my first BFP naturally on 2/7/15 but ended in DNC on 4/14/15, not viable. In 2015 I was 35...Found out I had only one working ovary, which was DOR, with scar tissue and I ovulated at 7 days, with a small cervix opening and a tilted uterus... Needing an RE was a must.....IUI#1 Sept 2015,,, BFN IUI#2 Oct 2015,,,BFN IUI#3 Dec 2015,,BFN IVF#1 2/1/16- BFN IVF# on 3/29/16 retrieval only - 1 healthy chromosome tested embryo. IVF#3 retrieval 4/23/16- 0 healthy embryos. IVF#4 retrieval 6/17/16- 1 healthy embryo. FET#1-Transferred Both Healthy Embryos on 9/6/16 BFP!! 9/15/16 Beta 22.3, 9/17/16 Beta 60.5 & 9/19/16 Beta 195! 1st US on 9/23/16, only 1 Gast Sac & Yolk Sac found, US 9/30/16 US 6wk 1day saw and heard Heartbeat 120bpm!! EDD 5/25/2017 Had a healthy baby girl via CSection on 5/18/17 8lbs 15oz.
@FatPony (TW) Last week we didn't get to the beach because a guy planted bombs near our boardwalk! Crazy world we live in. I just looked on my camera and the week before when we were seaglass hunting, I only took pics with my dog and daughter. Trying to be sensitive to others...I will go this weekend and try to get some new ones of just the beach!
Update - Also want to add I think it is perfectly fine if people do get triggered by ultras, positive betas, etc. I don't want to sound like a big jerk.
Also will add that my boss (principal) bought pizza today. And that pleases me! Happy Friday!
IVF: ER 7/16 40 follies, 23 eggs, 19 mature,
12 fert w/icsi, 6 blasts, 3 PGS norm, 1 unknown.
FET: 9/1/16 transferred 1 CP beta 5.9
FET 2: 11/15/16 transferred 1 CP again!
FET 3: TBD