FFFC...step right up and see our shit show folks

Boo0512

laxminavkar said:

Boo...there are no words. I may have taken Allie to the coat check but there's room for you in my naughty tryst.

Yes!

8->

LaxMOM44

Boo0512 said:

laxminavkar said:

Boo...there are no words. I may have taken Allie to the coat check but there's room for you in my naughty tryst.

Yes!

8->

Boo0512

Guiiisse we made it to page 7!!!11!!

Whoot whoot! Champagne all around (except for the preggos from a14 of course haha you can't have booze)!!111!!!

PumpkinAndThePeanut

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HilarityEnsued said:

Boo0512 said:

Ok, I'll continue to indulge the blood thirsty drama hounds because its Saturday and the board is usually slow.

What would it have accomplished to have the entire board flame her to hell and back? Seriously, I want to hear your thoughts on this. What good would it have done to just repeat that hitting a 5 month old is wrong or quoting what someone else wrote and stating "This."

I'm assuming I'm just going to get snark and Gifs thrown at me but ah, what the hell? Enlighten please. I'm dying to know your thoughts and feelers

The offense in question (hitting a 5 mo old) is outrageously disgusting.  What feels worse and drives the point home more than this is a universally awful act?

A) 2-3 posters make (relatively) mild statements that this is not a wise choice

5+ pages of flaming happen?




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Many posters have said that they thought she was referring to an older child with her original post. But anyway, I think if the OP had tried to defend her husband's action after she started getting some flames, that would have been different and I'm sure the flames would have been coming thick and fast. But she didn't. She seemed contrite in her follow up response. As the others have asked, what good would it have done to keep flaming her to hell at that point? She got the message with the minor flaming she got.

And FTR, I personally abhor spanking at ANY age and am offended that because I was having a crazy day at work and wasn't flaming an already contrite regular poster, that it was inferred that I condone corporal punishment.

Edited as posted before I meant to and to fix quote fail

LaxMOM44

2013sarabelleATX said:

Boo0512 said:

Guiiisse we made it to page 7!!!11!!

Whoot whoot! Champagne all around (except for the preggos from a14 of course haha you can't have booze)!!111!!!

Whatevs. I drank half a bottle a day and my baby is fine!!11!!!!111

So if I understand correctly now we have to flame you for 5+ pages for something that you've already done and can't take back. Let's go!!!eleventyeleven!!!11!!

PumpkinAndThePeanut

KLJ3

2013sarabelleATX said:

Whatevs. I drank half a bottle a day and my baby is fine!!11!!!!111

Pfft. Lightweight.

Shoegal36

Ugh, this thread is making me feel like such a Love it whore. It's exhausting. 

::can't.stop.clicking.love it::

ETA Just to clarify I don't mean I "love" spanking babies. Gotta be specific for the trolls.

Boo0512

scormier123 said:

Ugh, this thread is making me feel like such a Love it whore. It's exhausting. 

::can't.stop.clicking.love it::

If it makes you happy, it can't be that bad!

LaxMOM44

Boo0512 said:

scormier123 said:

Ugh, this thread is making me feel like such a Love it whore. It's exhausting. 

::can't.stop.clicking.love it::

If it makes you happy, it can't be that bad!

Quoting 90's chick rock? seriously DH has some competition

kyliensc

I just hid from my dh and kids to read through this thread.

kyliensc

Also A14

blush64

I am so late to this. I could not stay long when I quoted laxminavkar stating it was wrong and why so I said I agree that it is just wrong and that I will comment later. I expected to come back and write out a proper response about why it was horrible. I did not end up back at this post until recently and I wasn't sure if I would write out what I was going to say. I wrote this instead.

I have read the thread posted on Parenting about this thread and I read this thread over again. I do understand why people would be annoyed because our reaction wasn't negative enough but I obviously don't think everyone on this board is stupid or fine with spanking a baby. I do think we should have come down harder and been more horrified with the situation and the fact that she was ok with it. I don't think running the person off the boards would help.(although it might) I would hope she would see the negative responses to her post and realize there is something wrong with her husband's actions and her own reaction and hopefully stop anything like that from happening again. Probably overly optimistic.

I do not agree with spanking an older child, I think it is absolutely disgusting to put a hand on baby. In real life I would have called Children's Aid right away.

Ok, I am done at least for a while.

emmy236

HilarityEnsued said:

In the most southern way possible... I will leave you with a "bless your hearts"

Southern? Great just what we need down here, another self righteous crazy :-q


Edit: still emoticon challenged.

jedimindtrick

Woo-hoo guise, we made it on the Parenting board! And we're the most despicable group of moms on 2013!!!! *eye roll* I love how people think the Bump fucking matters. Like, oh my gawd, she didn't get flamed enough... Who fucking cares. I think it was clearly stated, maybe not with enough venom for some of you, but stated that what her H did was wrong, and I truly think she knows that. Many of us "seconded" those who said it was wrong. But to honestly think that the fact we didn't flip the fuck out makes us bad moms and makes you feel bad for our children????? That's ridiculous. Again, it's the Bump. Who gives a fuck? Who knows if it really even happened. If this was a friend IRL, obviously I would have a lot to say and do in regards to the actions. But it's the internet, and so we get judged by our lack of flipping the fuck out... Whatever. I'm not the internet Police. Time to go take care of my IRL kid, not ones on the internet.

LaxMOM44

NJAZgirl said:

Woo-hoo guise, we made it on the Parenting board! And we're the most despicable group of moms on 2013!!!! *eye roll*

I love how people think the Bump fucking matters. Like, oh my gawd, she didn't get flamed enough... Who fucking cares. I think it was clearly stated, maybe not with enough venom for some of you, but stated that what her H did was wrong, and I truly think she knows that. Many of us "seconded" those who said it was wrong. But to honestly think that the fact we didn't flip the fuck out makes us bad moms and makes you feel bad for our children????? That's ridiculous.

Again, it's the Bump. Who gives a fuck? Who knows if it really even happened. If this was a friend IRL, obviously I would have a lot to say and do in regards to the actions. But it's the internet, and so we get judged by our lack of flipping the fuck out... Whatever. I'm not the internet Police.
Time to go take care of my IRL kid, not ones on the internet.

jayro10

Seriously!
I love how they had so much shit to say about our lack of flaming, but not one of them actually flamed tarynleann.
Moving on with my Saturday......

mrscrcalli

kyliensc said:

Also A14

We discussed it and, We're all pretty full from breakfast. Would you mind if we just had one of the dicks or maybe a handful of dicks.. A full bag just seems unrealistic.

-A14 :x

LaxMOM44

botanicalbliss said:

tarynleann said:

well i feel about this big >.< 

I'm sorry you feel bad, but you should seriously reconsider spanking your baby.

TheyCalledHerKate said:

Holy shit at spanking a 5 month old. Babies don't have the cognitive ability to be manipulative or "bad" or understand punishment. That is messed up in a major major way no matter how hard or soft it was.

So for me it isn't the intensity with which you hit a child cause my momma used to spank us and it never hurt, but it was effective nonetheless. It's the fact that you were using physical punishment to discipline a 5 month old that is giving me the creeps. Call me judgey and flame the crap out of me but can a 5 month old really understand that you are hurting them to teach them a lesson. Do they have that logic to understand that they did something wrong? Can a five month old do something wrong? I mean other than pull your hair or use your nipple as a teething toy and both of those don't warrant a smack. But then I don't smack my dog and she shits on my bed if we let her upstairs so maybe I'm a bad disciplinarian.

I agree with everyone who disagrees with punishing a 5 month old. It's just not right. I had to comment, and will be back to comment further.




So explain to me how this makes or board supportive of spanking?

LaxMOM44

Well that was a giant pile of quote fail on my part....I don't even know how to edit that.

LaxMOM44

Oooooh well why didn't they just say that? Thanks Shank for explaining it to me. This whole thread got out of control and people were calling me stupid and everyone was essentially agreeing on the original point but arguing anyways and the whole time I was like

Eta: I also didn't like that I was being made out like a child abuser because my post against what she had done wasn't "angry" enough. Of course I was disturbed but I also thought other people were better expressing what I was thinking.

Here sea biscuit here boy.

[Deleted User]

@jayro10 wayyyy back on page 4 I'm pretty sure I said this:

BettyandCo said:

well i feel about this big >.< 

Good. You're fucking gross to allow your H to hit your 5 month old baby. If I knew you IRL I would report your asses to CPS for that shit.

Which was about as much as I could say without officially breaking the TOU. TRUST I had much more to say about the issue.

c-elizabethf

Holy crap. @-)

Rogue237

Hahaha what's hilarious about all of this "Get out of here, A14!" nonsense is no one from A14 even commented until @mrscrcalli and @jellysparkles on this last page. Reading tickers is hard. That said, the Parenting folks that crashed your party were totally right. 

LaxMOM44

I really wish I hadn't posted about hand expressing in front of my dog walker on a thread that ended up viral...at least it wasn't the buttsecks post.

::phew::

Rogue237

jellysparkles said:

mrscrcalli said:

Also A14

We discussed it and, We're all pretty full from breakfast. Would you mind if we just had one of the dicks or maybe a handful of dicks.. A full bag just seems unrealistic. -A14 :x

Also... an A14 had an important question - are the dicks circumcised? 

Flagged for abuse? We were the ones told to suck a bag of dicks.

Hahaha only THEY'RE allowed to say the dicks, @jellysparkles! God!

LaxMOM44

2013sarabelleATX said:

laxminavkar said:

I really wish I hadn't posted about hand expressing in front of my dog walker on a thread that ended up viral...at least it wasn't the buttsecks post.

::phew::

...and apparently no one cared that I didn't take the time to see my grandmother who ended up passing away early this morning.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Lolalipsy

2013sarabelleATX said:

laxminavkar said:

I really wish I hadn't posted about hand expressing in front of my dog walker on a thread that ended up viral...at least it wasn't the buttsecks post.

::phew::

...and apparently no one cared that I didn't take the time to see my grandmother who ended up passing away early this morning.

I'm so sorry to hear about your Grandmother.

JenJen2209

I am so late to this party, but damn...

And @allieagame....you are awesome

fancefpp

Whoa, whoa, whoa....what the hell happened here?

Boo0512

I wonder if @tarynleann will ever come back to post, or if she has seen this clusterfluck and is all..... :-S

Hmmm....

Lolalipsy

for @shantxtell

[Deleted User]

Hey @eroplane the flag button is not a dislike button ::insert name that violates TOU here::

Please to explain why the eff you keep flagging me?

LaxMOM44

Shantxtell said:

I hope she comes back. I hope she realizes that her husband needs to never fucking spank a baby.

I don't think you're understanding...the baby was crying FOR NO REASON!!!


Also kudos to whoever noticed the hypocrisy about how she hates people who post against the doctors orders.

eroplane

BettyandCo said:

Hey @eroplane the flag button is not a dislike button ::insert name that violates TOU here::

Please to explain why the eff you keep flagging me?

Because you and everyone else that I flagged felt it was needed to swear, curse and generally act like savages.

If you find the topic so shocking, say so. There is no need to act the way you and several others did.

Just because it's an Internet forum doesn't mean you can toss common sense and manners out the window. Everyone acts fierce behind their keyboards. Grow up and stop acting like children.

LaxMOM44

I think a flag on your profile makes you bada$$. I have one and I'm proud of it. It's sexi with an I.

RondackHiker

eroplane said:

BettyandCo said:

Hey @eroplane the flag button is not a dislike button ::insert name that violates TOU here::

Please to explain why the eff you keep flagging me?

Because you and everyone else that I flagged felt it was needed to swear, curse and generally act like savages.

If you find the topic so shocking, say so. There is no need to act the way you and several others did.

Just because it's an Internet forum doesn't mean you can toss common sense and manners out the window. Everyone acts fierce behind their keyboards. Grow up and stop acting like children.

Flags are for posts that violate the TOU. So direct attacks and spam and so on. Cursing isn't against the TOU.

Cursing is fucking awesome.

[Deleted User]

El oh fucking el at the butt hurt newb flagging me because I'm not mature

Oh, sweetie.

Pot, meet kettle.

LaxMOM44

See I'm actually glad we had this discussion because I always thought I would get flagged for swearing!!! Yay I can curse again

AllieAGame

laxminavkar said:

I think a flag on your profile makes you bada$$. I have one and I'm proud of it. It's sexi with an I.

But "sexy" doesn't have a lower case L in it. ~twirls hair~