UO

missyishere

redrosepinkdaisy said:

I am not in a cult and that is very offensive for anyone to say.

So are you in a rock band then?

CinemaGoddess

redrosepinkdaisy said:

I am not in a cult and that is very offensive for anyone to say.

lol ok.  

CinemaGoddess

I think redrosepinkdaisy is fated to go down in bumplore.  

The higher power told me and rrpd can't change her fate.  

CinemaGoddess

Did rrpd go to preschool?  

julesf817

redrosepinkdaisy said:

I am not in a cult and that is very offensive for anyone to say.

I'm starting to believe you are a troll.

why won't you share where these beliefs you have come from?

thebanich

redrosepinkdaisy said:

I am not in a cult and that is very offensive for anyone to say.

MeatballEsq

LexiLupin said:

HilarityEnsued said:

Aren't Jehovah's Witnesses the group that don't believe in medical... anything?

Christian Science doesn't. Not sure about JW.

JW doesn't believe in blood transfusions and holidays, oh and jury duty, but I think c/s would probably be okay.

My guess is Christian Science. Such a misnomer, right? 

MelissaRae1525

redrosepinkdaisy said:

I am not in a cult and that is very offensive for anyone to say.

But you're allowed to say I didn't birth my child because it doesn't fit your crazy ass views? Doesn't work that way dear.

IBackBevo

RRPD = AI. 

MeatballEsq

CinemaGoddess said:

I think redrosepinkdaisy is fated to go down in bumplore.  

The Highest Power told me and rrpd can't change her fate.  

FTFY

CinemaGoddess

tonir319 said:

CinemaGoddess said:

I think redrosepinkdaisy is fated to go down in bumplore.  

The Highest Power told me and rrpd can't change her fate.  

FTFY

lolz. 

julesf817

tonir319 said:

LexiLupin said:

HilarityEnsued said:

Aren't Jehovah's Witnesses the group that don't believe in medical... anything?

Christian Science doesn't. Not sure about JW.

JW doesn't believe in blood transfusions and holidays, oh and jury duty, but I think c/s would probably be okay.

My guess is Christian Science. Such a misnomer, right? 

but she said she isn't a Christian.

CinemaGoddess

Scientologist?  Do they believe in c/s's?

NotSharknado

redrosepinkdaisy said:

I am not in a cult and that is very offensive for anyone to say.

Offensive you say?

IBackBevo

Jules51814 said:

tonir319 said:

LexiLupin said:

HilarityEnsued said:

Aren't Jehovah's Witnesses the group that don't believe in medical... anything?

Christian Science doesn't. Not sure about JW.

JW doesn't believe in blood transfusions and holidays, oh and jury duty, but I think c/s would probably be okay.

My guess is Christian Science. Such a misnomer, right? 

but she said she isn't a Christian.

Maybe Scientology?

CinemaGoddess

CinemaGoddess

MeatballEsq

Jules51814 said:

tonir319 said:

LexiLupin said:

HilarityEnsued said:

Aren't Jehovah's Witnesses the group that don't believe in medical... anything?

Christian Science doesn't. Not sure about JW.

JW doesn't believe in blood transfusions and holidays, oh and jury duty, but I think c/s would probably be okay.

My guess is Christian Science. Such a misnomer, right? 

but she said she isn't a Christian.

Hmm I guess I took the Christian part of the title as serious as the Science part!

CinemaGoddess

ILoveBoys

Guess I should call the NICU where my mom works and let her know they're altering the course of destiny. I'm sure they'll stop working like, yesterday.

cnk459

demofea01 said:

 

My UO:

I wish technology wasn't so advanced that can/do find out we are *barely* pregnant just about the second it happens. 

There are reasons many/most mc's happen in the first few weeks. And since we now have the ability to know just days after implantation, we are setting ourselves up for "knowing" about a loss as opposed to 15 years ago, when we just thought our period that cycle was "off". 

I wish you couldn't find out you were pg until 8+ weeks.

There......I.Said.It.

Have you ever struggled with fertility? Because this is kind of shitty when there are women who struggle to stay pregnant due to low progesterone and now, because of the technology we have that allows for early pregnancy detection, they are able to supplement and stay pregnant rather then have miscarriage after miscarriage. Or do genetic testing to see if there is an issue on the genetic level that is causing recurrent miscarriage.  I feel like you're basically wishing recurrent miscarriages/infertility/no children on a large group of women because you like the idea of not having to face an early miscarriage. 

@ demofea01

 

YES.

 

This is my 10th pregnancy. I have 4 live births. You do NOT want to know about MY fertility history, believe me.

I am also on progesterone, so I do see the advantages, but still.... for most women who find out 7-9 DPO that they are "pregnant".. they are setting themselves up for heartbreak, because many of them will not make it out of the first couple of months.

 

 

CinemaGoddess

LexiLupin said:

@cinemagoddess

ILY so much, @lexilupin

RondackHiker

redrosepinkdaisy said:

I am not in a cult and that is very offensive for anyone to say.

Then why won't you tell us what your beliefs are?

insertclevername

justAphase said:

Also smoking caused your MC girl got really fucking lucky today.

As did miss "I am glad the government shut down, Obamacare is a joke, and there will be no more brain tumor research.  Thanks Obama!"

 

MintBerryCrunch

tonir319 said:

LexiLupin said:

HilarityEnsued said:

Aren't Jehovah's Witnesses the group that don't believe in medical... anything?

Christian Science doesn't. Not sure about JW.

JW doesn't believe in blood transfusions and holidays, oh and jury duty, but I think c/s would probably be okay.

My guess is Christian Science. Such a misnomer, right? 

I know she's not a JW, but I can't help it.

lv2011

Dude, you know that "birthing" your child in a hospital, even with your all-glorious "birth-plan" is still medical intervention, right? If a doctor, nurse, midwife, doula is present, that's intervention. They may be intervening very little, but it still means you ain't doin' it all on your own.

gollywollypog

redrosepinkdaisy said:

 I don't agree with csections being considered births or deliveries, to me it's an insult to mothers that actually did birth their children. Csections are surgical extractions and should be referred to as such..

Brandyjean30

redrosepinkdaisy said:

I think birth plans are awesome, I have had my entire plan written out since we first started ttc.

I don't agree with csections being considered births or deliveries, to me it's an insult to mothers that actually did birth their children. Csections are surgical extractions and should be referred to as such.

I'm dreading telling work I'm pregnant because I don't want people asking how I'm feeling everyday.

You are a fucking idiot

cnk459

btcruiserlove said:

The responsible thing to do is quit before getting KU. If she did suffer MC in the past, now we know why. All I'm saying is, take some responsibility...your creating a helpless human life!

@ btcruiserlove

That is the most rude, incorrect, ridiculous statement I've seen in a while!!! you are making the gigantic LEAP that IF she had a m/c is was DUE TO SMOKING? are you KIDDING???

 

I mean, if you can diagnose the cause of mc based only on 1 factor as THE DEFINITIVE factor, then please, for the love of all  that is holy.. OPEN UP A PRACTICE and use your CLAIRVOYANT skills to diagnose every mc!!!

WOO HOO!!! FINALLY!!! You're better than the vast majority of MD's and most of the scientific community!! Who knew we had someone so special here on the M14 board!!!

 EDITED.. because I hadn't gotten to the crazy "I'm happy to let my kid die because my higher power controls everything" posts yet.....

Fuck.Me.Sideways. 

It's a wonder I leave the house with nutcases like that wandering around the plant!

buggywhips

redrosepinkdaisy said:

Sorry not everyone believes in modern medicine being the healer of all. We live as naturally as possible when it comes to medicine and we intend to follow our same path with this pregnancy. Apoligies to those who were offended, the choices I make may not be for everyone but they are mine to make and I own that.

So are you Christian? If so, can you please show me where the bible says I shouldn't have intervened and put my newborn who struggled to breath in the NICU on oxygen? It wasn't natural, but he's now alive. And pretty damn awesome. He wore a pink sparkly crown to daycare today and currently only responds if you call him tiger, since he's clearly a tiger, not a little boy. Do I need to apologize to God for saving his life?

No, we are not christians.

Thank GOD.  I'd hate to be lumped into the same category as you. 

ArmyMedic7588

Kmbaybay said:

I'm thrilled with the government shut down, (and I'm a military family). It's about time something is done. Bash away.....

So this whole UO thing I understand, vent away. But if you have no clue how this I affecting most people... Then you UO is just stupid, not unpopular. I know there is more than one woman on this board who is not able to have their prenatal appointments because of the shutdown! Clinics are closed! If you really are a military family (as I AM in the military) then I'd think or at least hope you would understand some of this. Sounds like your just happy cause you get a vacation day.... Wonder how you'll really feel wen your family finally runs out I the apparent stock pile of cash you must have lying around.
This isn't a UO, it's just plain idiocy. Wake up and see what's going on!

buggywhips

Man, I came in here to share my UO but now, it isn't even worth it.  There is nothing left to be done here!  

Empireceo

Jesus, you go to your doctor's appointment to hear your baby's heartbeat and you miss a shit storm of riduculosity.

@redrosepinkdaisy, I am someone who tries to adhere to a more natural way of life.  I had a well thought out birth plan for a med-free, natural birth.  Then my son was breech with a cord wrapped around his neck.  Having a c-section was devastating for me, and I went through a lot of emotional pain feeling like a failure because I could not birth my son in the "normal" way.  Your comments are extremely insulting to me.  At the end of the day, I decided a 4 inch scar was better than a dead baby.  I'm sorry that you wouldn't make the same choice.  Thank you for at least not being Christian, I don't need any more crazies lumped in with my people.

@btcruiserlove, what the ever loving fuck?!  So, am I to assume that you are at a perfect weight,in perfect health, never eat unhealthy foods, or drive too fast in your car, and had not so much as a sniff of wine before you found out you were pregnant?  Your life sounds boring then.  You do realize that about half the babies in the world aren't planned right?  Good for that mom for making a healthy decision for herself and her child.  And keep in mind that CPS has bigger fish to fry than a mom who quit smoking in her first trimester.  

Damn yo.  Shit is crazy today.

cnk459

HilarityEnsued said:

cnk459 said:

btcruiserlove said:

The responsible thing to do is quit before getting KU. If she did suffer MC in the past, now we know why. All I'm saying is, take some responsibility...your creating a helpless human life!

@ btcruiserlove

That is the most rude, incorrect, ridiculous statement I've seen in a while!!! you are making the gigantic LEAP that IF she had a m/c is was DUE TO SMOKING? are you KIDDING???

Clearly you haven't made it very far into this thread.

ha ha!! nope.. I hadn't made it all the way to that stretch of bullshit yet... stoooopid WORK interfering with my crazy-bitch-BMB-post-reading.....

I may have to call it a day just so I can keep up! Makes me feel all warm and squishy about my personal "crazy" being pretty damn NORMAL!

Chellbell20

And this is why it's too early for a Facebook group. Too much cray cray!!

TheMrsMurillo

redrosepinkdaisy said:

I think birth plans are awesome, I have had my entire plan written out since we first started ttc.

I don't agree with csections being considered births or deliveries, to me it's an insult to mothers that actually did birth their children. Csections are surgical extractions and should be referred to as such.

I'm dreading telling work I'm pregnant because I don't want people asking how I'm feeling everyday.

I birthed for 27 HOURS before I had a medically necessary c section! My daughter would not have lived without it. How dare you say I didn't birth.

I don't care that this is your "opinion", you are wrong.

RissNRuss

redrosepinkdaisy said:

I think birth plans are awesome, I have had my entire plan written out since we first started ttc. I don't agree with csections being considered births or deliveries, to me it's an insult to mothers that actually did birth their children. Csections are surgical extractions and should be referred to as such. I'm dreading telling work I'm pregnant because I don't want people asking how I'm feeling everyday.

So those of us born via c-section weren't born? So I guess I don't need to pay taxes, because I wasn't born, so I can't have my birth certificate or SS card... You're nuts!


And FWIW, I had a vaginal delivery for my daughter.

[Deleted User]

THIS BITCH.

I CANT EVEN. WTAF?!

LaylaPartDeux

maryannespier said:

@redrosepinkdaisy - Just popping over to say that without my "surgical extraction" (after six hours of pushing during a posterior labor with two epidurals that stopped working, a 102 fever, and a baby who was for all intents and purposes stuck and experiencing tachycardia), my baby and/or I might be dead. So hurrah for surgical extractions and you can eff right the heck off. I admit I couldn't make it past page 4 of this thread because I was so ripshit. I hope someone hulk smashed you or you apologized.

Fat chance to the bolded.  The self-righteous (or MUD posters...) rarely, if ever, tuck tail and apologize.

[Deleted User]

Somebody hold mah earrings.