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{{{Thankful Thursday}}}

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    I am having a hard time being grateful today, seeing as how AF showed on a cycle when we had two mature follicles. BUT, I will spin it as best I can.

    I started today, but I am grateful for a longer (for me, more normal) cycle. Instead of 25 or 26 days, it was 27 days and I feel better about my luteal phase not being too short...

    And like @SnobunnieMel, I just continue to be grateful for my husband.

    Me: 40, DH: 35 / Married: 2009; TTC #1: 2013

    2013 - 2015: 5 pregnancies —> 5 miscarriages

    TTCAL with RE (RPL specialist): February 2016

    2016: 3 medicated TI cycles —> 3 medicated IUI cycles: All BFN

    Donor Egg IVF Transfer: May 1, 2017

    May 11, 2017: BFP!! Beta #1: 449.1, Beta #2: 844, Beta #3: 1714

    EDD: 1/17/18, it's a GIRL!  <3 E. L. A. born 12/7/2017








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    Oh, and @Aera11 If you want any tips on what to do/where to go on your upcoming trip, let me know. Savannah is home for me! In any case, I hope you enjoy your time in the low country!

    Me: 40, DH: 35 / Married: 2009; TTC #1: 2013

    2013 - 2015: 5 pregnancies —> 5 miscarriages

    TTCAL with RE (RPL specialist): February 2016

    2016: 3 medicated TI cycles —> 3 medicated IUI cycles: All BFN

    Donor Egg IVF Transfer: May 1, 2017

    May 11, 2017: BFP!! Beta #1: 449.1, Beta #2: 844, Beta #3: 1714

    EDD: 1/17/18, it's a GIRL!  <3 E. L. A. born 12/7/2017








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    Happy Thursday everyone!

    -Today I am grateful for the oversized brownie sundae I had out to dinner last night. Life is too short not to occasionally go overboard on dessert. 

    - Starbuck's Black Tea Lemonade. They are totally overpriced, but I treat myself to them once in a while when I need a little something.

    - Sunny weather that is feeling more spring/summer like.

    - Supplements that make me feel like I am at least doing something to give myself a better chance, even if it's minimal. It makes my WTO period at least seem purposeful.
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    @BornReady a sundae sounds amazing and I totally hear you on the supplements.  Anything I can control is helpful.

    Right now I feel thankful for this board.  I feel like a lot of people IRL don't know what I'm talking about or are ready for me to stop talking about what I'm going through post-loss so it is so wonderful to have a place to share and feel supported.  
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    Thankful for all of you.

    Thankful for the swing DH bought to turn our deck into a magical wonderland I never want to leave. Thankful my 31 year long streak of killing all living green things seems to be over and I now have some kind of green thumb.

    Thankful the community farmer's market is starting up soon! I volunteered to feed the twenty farmers one day and I'm so looking forward to giving back to our neighbourhood.
    Renee, 34 + Devon, 29 married 08/13 <3
    TTC  09/15
    *TW Loss mentioned*
    BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
    MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
    TTCAL 3/2016
    Acupuncture 11/16
    Dx December 2016: unexplained 
    January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
    BFP #2 01/30/17  Please be a sticky baby!
    EDD: 10/15/17  Measuring ahead! 10/12/17 
    Ambrose born on his due date!

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    Today I am thankful for hot weather. The outside time is good for my soul. I am also thankful I have a date with DH this weekend.

    DD1 born 5/24/10.

    Missed M/C at 14 wks Feb 2012.

    DD2 born 5/14/13.

    Missed M/C at 9 wks July 2015.

    Expecting someone new 4/17/17.
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    Today, I am thankful for chocolate. I'm likely ovulating as we speak, and I tend to have "mini-PMS" around this time. Right now, I'm eating some homemade puppy chow with no regrets!

    I'm also thankful for this board, my workplace, and my amazing husband. I'm a puddle of gooey emotions this morning.
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    OMG @dubcompanion I LOVE puppy chow, so jealous of you right now! 

    I'm thankful that my hubby has supported me "retiring" for the remainder of 2016 and that I've been able to use my new found free time
    to get outside and enjoy nature with my pup :smile: Our 2.5 mile walk through the woods at 5:30 this morning was so serene and pretty! 

    Also thankful that we get to have a housewarming party this weekend and my entire family that lives 6 hrs away is coming. Even my Gram and Gramp! 
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

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    @dubcompanion & @SoonToBeMommaHowe I literally want to stop at the store and get puppy chow ingredients!  

    I am thankful for a long weekend.  Normally holidays like this get stressful trying to split time between our families, but I am feeling super zen about it.

    DH and I have a dinner date and shopping/errands later today/tonight and I am thankful for that time we have.

    Donuts. I am also thankful for them.  I am on a serious sugar binge today...maybe it's the Clomid, regardless, my donut + coffee =  <3
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    Whoaaa puppy chow is not really a thing here but boy do I love cereal bars. I might make something similar but with butterscotch chips instead of peanut butter because of DH's allergy (and brown rice krispies because he's also allergic to the barley in regular).
    Renee, 34 + Devon, 29 married 08/13 <3
    TTC  09/15
    *TW Loss mentioned*
    BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
    MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
    TTCAL 3/2016
    Acupuncture 11/16
    Dx December 2016: unexplained 
    January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
    BFP #2 01/30/17  Please be a sticky baby!
    EDD: 10/15/17  Measuring ahead! 10/12/17 
    Ambrose born on his due date!

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    what is puppy chow??? off to google
    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
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    omg i just googled and i need puppy chow right now! and why has it been missing from my life all this time?
    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
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    I'm thankful for my much-needed therapy appointment later today...been waiting for this one for a while!

    I'm thankful that even tho AF is here that temping showed my cycle to be "normal".

    I'm kind of thankful for this overcast day when I'm not feeling up to doing much of anything but puppy cuddling and watching shows lol

    And as always, I'm very thankful for all of you!
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    @brooklyngirl18 get a recipe and make yourself some! It's life changing ;)
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

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    I have an extra thankful post. I'm thankful that this dress with pockets exists and that I just bought it and it's on its way to be mine forever. I've been waiting my whole life for this piece.

    https://www.modcloth.com/shop/dresses/its-an-inspired-taste-dress-in-vegetables
    Renee, 34 + Devon, 29 married 08/13 <3
    TTC  09/15
    *TW Loss mentioned*
    BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
    MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
    TTCAL 3/2016
    Acupuncture 11/16
    Dx December 2016: unexplained 
    January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
    BFP #2 01/30/17  Please be a sticky baby!
    EDD: 10/15/17  Measuring ahead! 10/12/17 
    Ambrose born on his due date!

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    So glad I could impart some puppy chow love today - all thanks to my O cravings!  B)

    @rainbowturtles Great to hear you had a normal cycle. Was this your first cycle temping?

    @soontobemommahowe I'm jealous of the 2.5-mile walk through the woods you got to take! :smile: It's all farmland and residential around my neck of the ...non-woods.


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    @reneeannemm Beautiful!! :o THAT is a dress to wear everywhere. Never take it off. It's too fabulous to leave hanging in the closet!
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    @dubcompanion Surprisingly, yes! I've always charted and checked CM but there's something very reassuring about seeing those CH and temp shift. I'm benched/TTA for three more months but thought I could take this time to check out my cycles and see if everything seemed okay, at least
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    @reneeannemm - cute dress - I just got this dress at a discount from a friend who is the only authorized vendor in Canada (they call them trunk keepers). Her sample was in my size - that is what I'd worry about with ModCloth - fit and shipping/returns...

    https://www.matildajaneclothing.com/20614d-marzipan-rose-dress
    ---TW BFP and MC mentioned - scroll down past the Lilo and Stitch gif to avoid ---




    Me: 33 & DH: 33
    Married: 07/2006
    TTC: 10/2015
    BFP #1: 11/2015, MC 12/2015 (7 weeks)
    BFP #2: 06/2016, EDD 2/15/2017



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    @catiecatp My sister just went to a Matilda Jane trunk party and LOVED their stuff. Super cute dress.

    @reneeannemm Gotta love a dress with pockets!


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    Thankful for my students - they are so rad and make me so hopeful for the future. I'm just sad I have to say goodbye to another bunch of them in the next couple weeks....
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
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    I'm thankful for a strange mid semester break this spring term (accelerated term) that allows me to:

    a) still be in my PJs at 3:20
    b) prepare for my interview next week without getting ridiculously behind in work. 
    ---TW BFP and MC mentioned - scroll down past the Lilo and Stitch gif to avoid ---




    Me: 33 & DH: 33
    Married: 07/2006
    TTC: 10/2015
    BFP #1: 11/2015, MC 12/2015 (7 weeks)
    BFP #2: 06/2016, EDD 2/15/2017



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    @rainbowturtles That's doubly awesome that you were able to notice a normal cycle! You've given me inspiration and motivation begin temping the next cycle if this one doesn't result in a BFP. I was going to start temping this cycle, but that never panned out lol. Now that I think about it, a good way to spend my upcoming TWW should be researching basal thermometers. :smile: 

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    @dubcompanion - hands down the one I hear the best reviews of is Mabis - I actually ordered one. It measures in Fahrenheit so I have to use an app to convert that to Celsius but that likely wouldn't be an issue for you. And at under $10 USD it is a good deal.

    https://www.amazon.com/MABIS-Digital-Thermometer-Temperature-Planning/dp/B000O6YCZY/ref=sr_1_2_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1464306299&sr=8-2&keywords=mabis
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    Me: 33 & DH: 33
    Married: 07/2006
    TTC: 10/2015
    BFP #1: 11/2015, MC 12/2015 (7 weeks)
    BFP #2: 06/2016, EDD 2/15/2017



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    @catiecatp Thanks for the recommendation! I'm reading up on it now, and it looks like The One - great price and great features (Fahrenheit def works for me)! Dang, that was fast. Now what am I going to do for the next 14 days??  ;)
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    @catiecatp I think I need a new thermometer...the one I got I don't know if it's the most accurate. It has a lot of favorite temps it seems, might be time for a switch!
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    I have another one that I've used for awhile - and it only goes to one decimal place (which is about .18F). The nerd in me temped for awhile with both but I made the switch this month. I think the Mabis records about .2C lower than the other one - but sometimes more and sometimes less. I like some features of the other one better - it beeps periodically while it is measuring and it is backlit when done. I think my old one was fine - but I'm wondering if I'll be able to ID a slow rise pattern better with the finer level of accuracy... I never did go the OPK route this month.

    Sorry for solving your research @dubcompanion - you could take up a hobby - I suggest knitting... I could point you in the direction of some good youtube videos or I could let you research them :) 
    ---TW BFP and MC mentioned - scroll down past the Lilo and Stitch gif to avoid ---




    Me: 33 & DH: 33
    Married: 07/2006
    TTC: 10/2015
    BFP #1: 11/2015, MC 12/2015 (7 weeks)
    BFP #2: 06/2016, EDD 2/15/2017



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    Barry is adorable!!! How old is he?

    i am also thankful for my fur baby. He's been so helpful when I am sad, lies next to me and tries to comfort me with his company. In silence. Consistent. I love him! This is Luke Skywalker 


    Married 06.21.14 / TTC since 11.15 /
    BFP 01.03.2016 / MMC 6w5d D&C 02.2016 // BFP 05.06.16 / natural MC 05.12.16
    Benched 06.2016-08.2016 / TTC again 09.2016! On a diet. Cranky.
    BFP 10.02.2016 / NT scan at 12w looked normal / Anatomy scan at 20w everything ok
    Team blue! / EDD June 11th 2017
    DAVID ROGER was born on May 23rd at 37 weeks.

    Architect, Peruvian living in Chile. I love art, opera and good chocolate.
    Started PhD studies in Architecture on 2017.
    Fur mom of a rescued miniature poodle called Luke Skywalker.


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    @nmd9168 Barry is adorable!!! Such a great puppy tax 
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    @SnobunnieMel Thank you! He such a sweetie!  @yolandamunozYour dog is adorable as well =)
    Me: 28 DH: 29
    Married: 4-25-2014
    TTC: March 2015
    BFP: 2-18-16
    Confirmed MMC: 3-31-16
    D&C: 4-2-16
    TTCAL: May 2016
    IUI: 5/13/17-Femara and Trigger, POAS 5/27/17 BFP 5/27/17



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    Ahhhhh, such adorable puppies everywhere. 
    Renee, 34 + Devon, 29 married 08/13 <3
    TTC  09/15
    *TW Loss mentioned*
    BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
    MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
    TTCAL 3/2016
    Acupuncture 11/16
    Dx December 2016: unexplained 
    January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
    BFP #2 01/30/17  Please be a sticky baby!
    EDD: 10/15/17  Measuring ahead! 10/12/17 
    Ambrose born on his due date!

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    @catiecatp Great idea! I've knitted scarves for myself but haven't done so in nearly 10 years. Feel free to share some Youtube vids; I could never make a slip knot and would have my mom do it. Since I no longer live at home, it's probably time for me to learn how. :smile: 

    @nmd9168 @yolandamunoz Thanks for brightening up the day with adorable puppies!


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    Eeeeee puppies!!!! I have three but just have to share this pic of my Penelope because I want her smile to brighten your day like it does mine and like your puppy pics did for me too :) 
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    Yay for puppy love !!!
    Married 06.21.14 / TTC since 11.15 /
    BFP 01.03.2016 / MMC 6w5d D&C 02.2016 // BFP 05.06.16 / natural MC 05.12.16
    Benched 06.2016-08.2016 / TTC again 09.2016! On a diet. Cranky.
    BFP 10.02.2016 / NT scan at 12w looked normal / Anatomy scan at 20w everything ok
    Team blue! / EDD June 11th 2017
    DAVID ROGER was born on May 23rd at 37 weeks.

    Architect, Peruvian living in Chile. I love art, opera and good chocolate.
    Started PhD studies in Architecture on 2017.
    Fur mom of a rescued miniature poodle called Luke Skywalker.


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    @dubcompanion - I've heard great things about the youtube channel very pink knits - and if you run across something you can't figure out I'm happy to scout for some good videos or help explain what is going on. If you want a rabbit hole of knitting fun I highly recommend the website Ravelry - it is like FB but for knitters - with all sorts of message boards and groups - and pattern searches and ... yeah I spend more time there than on most social media

    ---TW BFP and MC mentioned - scroll down past the Lilo and Stitch gif to avoid ---




    Me: 33 & DH: 33
    Married: 07/2006
    TTC: 10/2015
    BFP #1: 11/2015, MC 12/2015 (7 weeks)
    BFP #2: 06/2016, EDD 2/15/2017



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    @catiecatp Thanks for the info! Once I get my needles up and running, I'll be sure to venture down some rabbit holes. :smile: 
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    Happy Thursday everyone!

    Today I am thankful for:
    - Living near the ocean, getting to play on the beach last night before dinner was so refreshing and reminded me of being a kid again.

    - Perennials, watching plants I planted years ago come up and start blooming makes me so happy. I even have to drive by my old house a few times a week and I love seeing all of my hydrangeas and trees blooming and coming to life year after year.

    - Smart phones, my siblings both live far away and getting to be in touch so easily through the day by text, phone, photos etc. is awesome. Makes the world feel a little smaller that I can have my people "close by".

    - Nice people. My due date is next week and a friend/co-worker of my husband's got me a gift certificate to a local salon. I think I'll get my hair done or something that morning before work.

    - As per usual, all of you folks. I've now spent my whole "pregnancy" here and honestly, I'm not sure how I'd have made it without this community. Thanks!


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