Had my first ultrasound yesterday. Measuring a week behind at 7w6d and no heartbeat. With a CRL of 15mm, there should be a heartbeat. No bleeding or cramping yet, but just waiting for it. After 3 years of trying, I'm devastated. I'm just going to leave this group for my own mental health.
Hi Ladies, I've been reading a lot of these posts about bleeding/spotting and they have really helped my anxiety with my own bleeding/spotting. I've been sporadically bleeding and/or spotting with cramping since week 7 and am now 12 weeks 4 days. Everything else says it's a healthy pregnancy with a small subchorionic hematoma that's been there since week 9. I've been on pelvic rest for the last month (no exercise or sex) and that has seemed to help as I would get crampy/spotting after running. But this last week I had a lot more bleeding right after my 12 week ultrasound. I went again and baby boy was doing fine. The doc essentially said that having a baby can be a bloody business and there are a lot of blood vessels and while it's scary she does see this a good amount. Nonetheless, I really wish I could relax and be more excited but bleeding is really dampening it. Wanted to share as the others who shared really helped my anxiety while waiting for an update from my OB.
also, i have Covid this week and bleeding started so might have something to do with coughing/nose blowing? sigh... wish it was more clear!
(P.S.) changed my user name to MelissaEll but waiting for it to take affect.
@jenkm1110 I’m so sorry for the loss of your babies, sending you virtual hugs.
@hola_knotties I’m so sorry to hear this news, how devastating 😢 Be gentle with yourself in the coming days and weeks.
Me: 35 H: 35 Married: 4/5/13 "You know that place between sleep and awake, that place where you can still remember dreaming? That's where I will always love you. That's where I'll be waiting." ~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #1: 11/12/12 EDD 7/25/13 Baby boy: 7/27/13 BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18 BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18 RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28 BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19 Rainbow baby girl born 7/23/19 BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022
@melissaell thanks for sharing! I have been bleeding throughout as well and it has been pretty scary. I am 11 weeks now and like you things seem healthy. I have also found it helpful reading other people's experiences, it's reassuring to know you are not alone. I hope things do calm down for you.
I just woke up to bright red bleeding. I haven’t had any so far in this pregnancy. Waiting for the on call OBGYN to call me back. Hoping this isn’t the end. Trying not to get too upset and cry bc I don’t want to scare my daughter.
I have to sit and wait it out. She said it could be a SCH or it could be signs of a MC. since it’s the weekend and my bleeding seems “controlled” to wait it out. She told me not to go to the ED unless it gets worse and she will get me in this week for an earlier appointment to see what’s going on. This is the 7th circle of hell. I will probably pull back on participating until I know what’s going on. Thank you for your continued support and thoughts.
@wigglyicecream I’m so sorry. That’s a terrible thing to wake up to. Hopefully it’s just random event and you can get in to see OB tomorrow. Thinking of you. We’re here. 💜
@wigglyicecream sending all kinds of positive vibes your way! I'm so sorry it's going to take some time to get seen and get answers! Hoping they can squeeze you in sooner rather than later. 💜
Oh no @wigglyicecream I’m sorry you’re dealing with this, I’m hoping so hard that the bleeding stops for you and baby is just fine in there. I know how scary this is, sending you big hugs.
Me: 35 H: 35 Married: 4/5/13 "You know that place between sleep and awake, that place where you can still remember dreaming? That's where I will always love you. That's where I'll be waiting." ~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #1: 11/12/12 EDD 7/25/13 Baby boy: 7/27/13 BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18 BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18 RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28 BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19 Rainbow baby girl born 7/23/19 BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022
@wigglyicecream I’m so sorry. Holding on to all the hope for you, and also hoping you can be seen as soon as possible tomorrow. It seems so cruel to have to wait right now. Keeping you in my thoughts.
Oh @wigglyicecream noo! I am holding on to all hope for you! I hope the bleeding stops and they can get you in ASAP and reassure you that everything is ok!! I am praying hard for you and sending every kind of positive vibe and the biggest, creepiest, internet hugs possible! ❤️
Re: ***TW*** Spotting/Bleeding/Threatened Loss Support Thread
also, i have Covid this week and bleeding started so might have something to do with coughing/nose blowing? sigh... wish it was more clear!
(P.S.) changed my user name to MelissaEll but waiting for it to take affect.
Married: 4/5/13
"You know that place between sleep and awake,
that place where you can still remember dreaming?
That's where I will always love you.
That's where I'll be waiting."
~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks
BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18
RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl
Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19
BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022
@hola_knotties I'm so sorry you're going through this. Do what you need to do. Sending virtual hugs.
@jenkm1110 oh my, that's devastating. I'm so sorry. Sending you lots of love.
Take care of yourselves, ladies. Thinking of both of you.
5.5.16 | 8.14.17 | 1.30.19
Married: 4/5/13
"You know that place between sleep and awake,
that place where you can still remember dreaming?
That's where I will always love you.
That's where I'll be waiting."
~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks
BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18
RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl
Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19
BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022