Has anyone started thinking about baby names yet? Share your ideas here!
*TW* TTC history
Me:32 DH:31
Married: 8/2015
TTC #1: 4/2017
Testing: HSG, U/S, BW, and DH's SA all normal
DX: Unexplained
8/2018: Clomid + TI = BFN
9/2018: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
11/2018: Clomid + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
12/2018: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone \\ Cancelled due to cyst
1/2019: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFP! \\ EDD Sept 30th, 2019
10/7/2019: Healthy baby boy!
TTC #2: 12/2020
2/2021: Letrozole + TI = BFN
3/2021: Letrozole + TI = BFN
4/2021: Surprise! Natural BFP! \\ EDD Jan 6th, 2022 \\ Chemical, betas not rising
8/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
9/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
10/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
11/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFP! \\ EDD July 29th, 2022
Re: Baby names!!!
We had such a hard time picking a name for our first! We tried out so many names, none of them felt right. I looked at so many lists and we even tried an app called Babyname (both you and your partner download it and swipe left or right on names. If you have any matching, then it would let you know. I loved this app but it didn’t work for us (I blame MH's subpar participation lol)). We didn’t finally settle on anything until the last month.
This baby is likely going to be the same. We have a girl name somewhat picked out, Isabell. But the chances of this baby being a girl is pretty slim (if you ask me lol). Boy names are soooo hard!
Married: 8/2015
TTC #1: 4/2017
Testing: HSG, U/S, BW, and DH's SA all normal
DX: Unexplained
8/2018: Clomid + TI = BFN
9/2018: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
11/2018: Clomid + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
12/2018: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone \\ Cancelled due to cyst
1/2019: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFP! \\ EDD Sept 30th, 2019
10/7/2019: Healthy baby boy!
TTC #2: 12/2020
2/2021: Letrozole + TI = BFN
3/2021: Letrozole + TI = BFN
4/2021: Surprise! Natural BFP! \\ EDD Jan 6th, 2022 \\ Chemical, betas not rising
8/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
9/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
10/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
11/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFP! \\ EDD July 29th, 2022
We tend to go for more traditional names. For a boy, we are thinking Jonathan (we might call him Jack for a nickname) Lee. My middle name is Leigh and it’s a nod to me. None of our kids names “go together”. We just picked them because we liked them. For inspiration, my first is Elizabeth Nicole (hubby’s name is Nick so, nod to him) and my second is Charlotte June.
Boy names though... While it's not bizarre in the sense that it is a word that exists and isn't difficult to pronounce, DH really wants to name a boy Timber. It works really well with our last name but I am 1 million % convinced our kid would be teased endlessly. And I do not like the name Tim so I wouldn't even be fine with it but call them by a nickname. Using it as a middle name isn't good enough for DH either 🤦♀️ help me lol
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC put on pause indefinitely
Friends since 2008
Started dating: July 1st, 2013
Engaged: July 1st, 2014
Married: July 1st, 2016
R born: July 8th, 2017
N born: June 30th, 2019
Baby #3 Due: July 7th, 2022
(maybe I only ovulate in October XD)
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC put on pause indefinitely
@sunshineandlemons I love the little nod to you and YH with the middle names. I kinda want to do something similar with our names. DS’s name starts with an L and so does mine. I would love to name this baby with the same first letter as MH’s name. Little nod to both of us without being too obvious. I love Elizabeth and Charlotte! DS has a Charlotte in his toddler class that he has somehow nicknamed Coco Butter lol. I will always think of that when I hear the name.
@inthewoods23 Love Willow! I also know a Willa if you’re looking for a variation. I like Timber in theory, but I would veto any name that I didn’t like the nickname for (and I also hate Tim). Because they will 100% be called by that nickname however much you try to avoid it lol.
@tuxielove93 Artorius is so unique. I like it! Love love love the nickname Ari too. But that’s probably because it reminds me of Aria from Pretty little liars lol.
Married: 8/2015
TTC #1: 4/2017
Testing: HSG, U/S, BW, and DH's SA all normal
DX: Unexplained
8/2018: Clomid + TI = BFN
9/2018: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
11/2018: Clomid + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
12/2018: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone \\ Cancelled due to cyst
1/2019: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFP! \\ EDD Sept 30th, 2019
10/7/2019: Healthy baby boy!
TTC #2: 12/2020
2/2021: Letrozole + TI = BFN
3/2021: Letrozole + TI = BFN
4/2021: Surprise! Natural BFP! \\ EDD Jan 6th, 2022 \\ Chemical, betas not rising
8/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
9/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
10/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
11/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFP! \\ EDD July 29th, 2022
Friends since 2008
Started dating: July 1st, 2013
Engaged: July 1st, 2014
Married: July 1st, 2016
R born: July 8th, 2017
N born: June 30th, 2019
Baby #3 Due: July 7th, 2022
(maybe I only ovulate in October XD)
@LJMoon6 I also wouldn't want to give them the nickname Tim as my cousin has a son named Timothy who they call Timmy and I don't want to deal with all sorts of confusion (assuming we get back to our more regular family get togethers when covid chills out!).
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC put on pause indefinitely
@inthewoods23 - could you find a middle name you liked and call him that?
I really liked Ovidia for a girl (it's a traditional family name on my side), but H vetoed it immediately.... then my sister mentioned that she'd probably get made fun of by mean kids calling her covid, so that was the final nail in the coffin.
We've got nothing on the boy front. I tend to prefer traditional but not super common names, so that's usually a tough bill to fit.
Boy name is Nolan
With a girl, though, there's none of the same immediate "that's it, that's the name" feeling we had with DS. I like the idea of using family names like we did with DS, but most of the female names in our families have either been used multiple times, or I'm just not a huge fan of them. The only real contenders at the moment are Marie or Evelyn (likely for a middle name as a cousin snagged this as a first name for his daughter years ago).
We have three names on a maybe list: Leighton, Madelyn, and Isla. I waited until DD was born to finally decide on a name, and I'll probably be as indecisive as last time. DD's name is Charlotte Elizabeth.
Friends since 2008
Started dating: July 1st, 2013
Engaged: July 1st, 2014
Married: July 1st, 2016
R born: July 8th, 2017
N born: June 30th, 2019
Baby #3 Due: July 7th, 2022
(maybe I only ovulate in October XD)
Girls name: Jaesa (middle name Elizabeth Mellanie or Elizabeth Marina)
Boys name idea: Henry (middle name Michael James), Theodore (middle name Jack Ryan), and my husband really liked Julian but I knew a guy named Julian and don't like it... Being a teacher and deciding names is hard
So far we've only talked about gender-neutral names (waiting on the NIPT results, eeeee!) and so far I like Wren, and Read. Read is a nod to both of our moms, combining some of the letters of their names.
I really like vintage sounding names (obviously.. as I chose Walter) but finding ones my husband and I both agree on is incredibly difficult!
@inthewoods23 I love, love, love Willow! It was actually high on our list last time I was pregnant, before we found out we were having a boy. However, my brother got a cat and named it Willow, so that has sort of like made me feel differently about it. Even though that's silly, it's just a cat, but it feels like the name belongs to her now. Maybe I will get over it, to match the W of my son. We'll see!
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC put on pause indefinitely
@courtneyqdk I love Walter! My friend named her son that. Old fashioned names are back in style! Maybe that means that my name (Margaret) will come back in fashion? Lol 😆
1st birth through years of trying and the wonder drug letrozole.
Second a great surprise.
That being said, we’ve been in love with the name Natalie Rose (my middle name, which is a nod to my grandma Rosemary) for a girl since we got married. I also like Amelia Jane Rose. I won’t be putting too much thought into names until we find out at the 20 week anatomy scan
Girl: Jaesa (middle name either Elizabeth Mellanie or Elizabeth Marina)
Boy: Théodore ( middle name Jack Ryan - after our son who passed)
After we have the babes, we need to do a Nick name thread because at least with my two kids, their nicknames aren’t exactly from their real names. My 5 year old we call squirmus (she was a squirmy wormy so we called her squirmus wormus so she would have a distinguished name). We also sometimes call her cheese because she used to say her name was Wizzie before she could say her L’s (like cheese whiz). My 2 yo we call “doodle” because my husband would call her Chuck (Charlotte is her name), my now 5yo changed that to Shuck and then it became “shuck a doodle doo” to just plain old “doodle”.
If this one is a boy, I'm thankful we argued it out early. We ended up choosing Théodore because you can shorten it in so many ways: TJ (for Théodore Jack), Teddy, Théo (pronounced Tio - the Th is soft so it sounds like a T with the accent), or Theo pronounced the English way.
@inthewoods23 I love Willow! I like the nature "theme" too.
@tsh2021 I also like kind of "opposite" gender traditional names - I liked Evan for a girl.
Our first is a boy and that was hard for MH and I. We worked for a placement center for at-risk teen boys and we didn't want a name that ANY of the kids had and that was difficult to find. We ended up using that tinder-like baby name app and the only one we agreed on was Wyatt. ( @stardustskies looks like you have a Wyatt too!) So that's what we went with. He has a family middle name which I do not like but I picked my battles.
I'm hoping for at least one girl this go around, ideally 2 haha! I'm caught somewhere between modern and classic - I really just don't want mu kids hating their names and having to always correct people. This is me - I hate my name so much and always have to correct people on what it is and how it is spelled.
Girls I am looking at: Maisie (Maisy), Mackenzie, Lydia, Sadie, or Libby.
Boys seem to come easier this time: Logan, Sawyer, Levi. I like Silas but it almost rhymes with our last name and would end up in a tongue twister.
Friends since 2008
Started dating: July 1st, 2013
Engaged: July 1st, 2014
Married: July 1st, 2016
R born: July 8th, 2017
N born: June 30th, 2019
Baby #3 Due: July 7th, 2022
(maybe I only ovulate in October XD)
@jellie603 and @tsh2021 - I also love opposite gender names. I always wanted something like Ashton or Jo for a girl
@jellie603 Lydia is such a pretty name- love it!
@jellie603 Lydia is on my short list of favorite girl’s names 💕