Mothers-in-law! You can't live with them, and you can't live without them. Or maybe you can--at least when they're not exactly being considerate. Did YOUR mother-in-law say something or do something during your pregnancy or shortly afterward that upset you or left you wanting to erupt like a volcano? Share your story, and we may even post it in a forthcoming article. Thanks!
Re: what's the worst thing your MIL has done during your pregnancy?
BFP #2: 4.14.16 CP: 4.17.16
BFP #3: 6.10.2016 CP: 6.17.16
RE appt: 6.27.2016- saline sono all clear
Progenity: + carrier Tay-Sachs, Gaucher's, hemachromatosis. DH: carrier Alpha 1 anti-trypsin
PCOS, hypothyroid, MTHFR, hx of LEEP in 2006
Clomid + TI Cycle #1: 50mg Trigger 8.24.2016- BFN
Clomid 75mg + IUI#1 9.25.2016- BFP #4 10/6
Beta #1 15 Beta #2 38 Beta #3- 71 beta #4 171 Beta # 5- 21 Natural MC 10/21
HSG- clear
IVF Jan 2017
Egg Retrieval 1.22.17: 32 eggs retrieved,29 mature, 24 fertilized, 14 to blastocyst for biopsy
PGS results: 4 PGS normal 2 XX, 2 XY
FET: 3.13.2017 for 2 PGS embryos
Beta#1: 3.24.2017......... 78; Beta # 2 241; Beta #3 4198
Baby BOY due 11.29.2017
It just hurts knowing that we are not as appreciated as others.
like okay, parents loose sleep but it's not the worst thing.
I just hate how she talks down to him, he is pretty nieve to childbirth and newborns but he isn't totally clueless to children and is trying so don't make him feel worse about it.
Me - anovulatory, non-Insulin PCOS, DH - low end of "normal" sperm count
IUI#1 - 02/15 - Cancelled due to scrubbed sperm count <1MM
IVF#1 - 08/15 - 13x5-day blastocysts (ranging from AA-BB, most are 5 or 6), not PGS, on ice
FET#1 - 10/15 - 1 emb - BFP (DD 07/16) (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#2 - 07/17 - 1 emb - BFN (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#3 - 08/17 - 1 emb - BFN (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#4 - 10/17 - 2 emb - BFN (changed to estrace + prometrium because of allergic reaction to PIO sesame oil)
ERA Testing - 12/17 - window moved (-1 day)
FET#5 - 03/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
Karyotype Testing - 04/18 - Negative (we're ok)
FET#6 - 06/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
FET#7 - 10/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
FET#8 - 11/18 - 2 emb - BFP; looks like one baby is going to make it, DD is due 8/16 (though likely to be 8/9)
"Darn them! We have maids to clean for us! Don't you dare move a muscle! Who does she think she is???" - Grandma said (i grew up in her home)
lol
Me 32 H 31
Married 2013
childhood cancer survivor - Ovarian Failure
Donor Egg Recipient
DE IVF# 1 May 2017 BFN
DE IVF #2 June 2017 BFP Miscarriage @ 16 weeks Baby Boy Noah
When my mom got home, the first thing she said to my wife was "Why the house is so dirty?!"
We are planning to move out right now btw
When my sister-in-law (so she was her MIL, so it counts) was pregnant with her boy, my mother made passive aggressive comments the whole time about how 'a boy is fine, but she really wanted a girl grandchild' and kept buying girls clothing because 'she just hoped the doctors were wrong'.
If we ever get pregnant again after our recent mc we wont be able to share the sex with our family, because if its a girl, she will never leave us alone, and if it's a boy she will just act all disappointed.
it's really nice and meaningful.
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