13 or 14 dpo. I keep taking HPTs (Saturday, yesterday, and today) all BFNs. I am hoping that it is just still early, but my app says that I am due for AF on Sunday. I keep having weird symptoms: nausea, feeling hot/flushed, maybe sore breasts (I can't tell), emotional, headaches. I am beginning to think that they are just psychosomatic. There was some GI sickness going around work, so maybe I had/have that. I am going to try not to test again until Sunday if I still have no signs of AF.
No idea what's going on with my cycle. FF says I should've gotten AF last Friday I think FF is wrong and I should've gotten it like Monday or Tuesday. IF I got with a semi-standard on occasion cycle for myself of 35 days, then I should get it today. Of course, I've been benched and on vacay so my chart has about 10 temperatures in it, and half of those are open circles. My wanting to get off the bench brain says "Maybe you're KU! You should totally POAS" even though we only BD 4x and we used pull out method each time. My rational side says "You're probably just having another later cycle, or possibly an annovulatory cycle. Stop being a freak." Here's hoping that biotching about it will bring on AF! Cause I just wanna get this next cycle started, get my testing done, and start TTCAL the following cycle!
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks) MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks) MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP) RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017 MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP) RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017 MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023. Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing. Surgery for endometriosis January 2024 Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months.
FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)
Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.
Add me to the I don't know what my cycle is doing club. I'm 8dpo and I had a temp rise with solid cross hairs, and now it has dropped really low, almost to my coverline. Low temps for 3 days now. I don't normally see a temp drop till 12dpo. Not feeling very optimistic.
Ivy: July 2010 | Stella: Dec 2012 | BFP#3: MMC at 11Wk's, July 2017 | Wyatt: April 2019 | BFP#5: Twin Girls due Sept 2020
@robyn2201 I'm hoping your still in this month and the wonky temps don't mean anything. I've got my FX for you!
@dpjennifer I hope AF makes up her mind for you soon. Can I also be the crazy person with you who hopes that maybe the pull out method failed and your Knocked up?!
As for me- I can join you ladies here! I was going crazy waiting for my opk to turn- finally this morning I got my smiley face! It was two days late- but I'll take it. We had great timing with BD this month- basically ED for the last 8 days (minus one) and EOD before that- I'm exhausted!
jchpg and Mack2342 So... 2 votes for POAS tomorrow if no AF? LOL. Yinz aren't helping the BSC!!! lol.
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks) MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks) MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP) RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017 MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP) RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017 MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023. Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing. Surgery for endometriosis January 2024 Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months.
FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)
Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.
Mack2342 LOL. I'm just not optimistic. The only time we got PG without using preseed was the first time (and that took months and over a year of NTNP). I feel like AF is coming, just not sure why she hasn't started. And I'd be desperately afraid that without a progesterone test first, if I were PG, that I may lose this one too.
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks) MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks) MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP) RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017 MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP) RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017 MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023. Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing. Surgery for endometriosis January 2024 Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months.
FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)
Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.
@dpjennifer I feel you on the BSC. DH and I used the "pull out" method a couple of months ago while waiting to switch clinics and I still convinced myself that I could be pregnant (when all signs pointed to no) and peed on all the sticks.
Maybe you've mentioned and I've just missed it, but how did your additional testing go? Have your doctors come up with any reason(s) why the RPL may be happening? RPL has to be such a frustrating situation to be in.
Oct 16: Spontaneous BFP | m/c @ 9w1d (massive SCH) | D&C Apr 17: IUI #1 = BFN May 17: IUI #2 = BFN Jun 17: IUI #3 = Late BFP (18 DPO) | NMC 17Jul17 @ ~6w Aug 17: IUI #4 = Cancelled due to premature ovulation | TI = BFN Sep 17: IUI #5 = Cancelled due to overstimulation (10+ follies) Nov 17: IVF #1 = Cancelled due to non-IF related health issue | TI = BFN Dec 17: IVF #1 = Puregon 200, Menopur 75, Orgalutran, Suprefact trigger due to OHSS risk | 22R, 18M, 16F, 10B frozen Feb 18: FET #1 (medicated) = BFN Mar 18: FET #2 (natural cycle) = CP (beta 1: 54; beta 2: 0)
Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = cancelled due to missed ovulation
Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = BFP! Beta 1: 201 Beta 2: 585 Beta 3: 3254 Beta 4: 9715
U/S 19May - one bean measuring on track with a HB of 125! EDD: 07Jan2019 Team Green My Rainbow Baby Boy born 03Jan2019
tosh24 The only thing they've found so far is ureaplasma. (which DH and I took meds to make sure it was gone). Last test is the progesterone biopsy next cycle. So I'm super ready to get this show on the road and take the test so I can try again... and stupid AF is all distracted and MIA. Le Sigh. Definitely frustrating to have a ton of tests done and still no reason why this is happening.
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks) MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks) MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP) RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017 MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP) RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017 MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023. Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing. Surgery for endometriosis January 2024 Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months.
FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)
Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.
Temp went back up, so not out yet this month! I have been symptom spotting like crazy. I felt really tired yesterday and my nipples feel really tender. Testing tomorrow.
Ivy: July 2010 | Stella: Dec 2012 | BFP#3: MMC at 11Wk's, July 2017 | Wyatt: April 2019 | BFP#5: Twin Girls due Sept 2020
@dpjennifer I sympathize with all the testing but no explanation for RLP. So far all my tests are normal and while it's nice that there's nothing "wrong" with me, it's terrifying that I have no idea what's causing the losses.
So all, I decided to POAS this morning. Back story, I hate wasting things if I can avoid it. So anyway, I had this old PG test that said it expired in 2011. I've heard old ones may not be as reliable, but I'd just never really wanted to toss it, cause like... it can't really go bad, right? So I figured this situation was the perfect time to use it. Anyway, the control line itself was a squinter. So, apparently expiration dates on PG tests really do matter! But, I did go out and buy a new set of tests like an adult. Will use one of those tomorrow morning if AF doesn't show up by then.
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks) MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks) MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP) RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017 MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP) RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017 MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023. Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing. Surgery for endometriosis January 2024 Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months.
FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)
Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.
As for me- FF says I'm 3dpo- so I'm doing ok now. I O'ed late this month and had a few days of freak out wondering if it was going to be an anovulatory month. I'm just relived it's not now- one small celebration at a time.... I'm sure In a few days time my crazyness will settle in.
@Mack2342 woah, Friday is a long ways off! Strength.
As for me, took a real test this morning. BFN. Also took my temp for the first time in a few weeks and it's elevated. So best guess is I o'd later than usual. So... CD 39 and waiting for a temp drop I guess.
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks) MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks) MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP) RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017 MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP) RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017 MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023. Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing. Surgery for endometriosis January 2024 Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months.
FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)
Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.
Re: October TWW
Married: 8/10/13
BFP- 12/18/15, D&E- 4/8/16 @ 21w5d- confirmed Thanatophoric Dysplasia
BFP- 11/7/17, M/C- 11/18/17 @ 4w6d
BFP- 8/25/18 ~ EDD- 5/9/19 ~ DD born 5/2/20 *Lillian Hazel*
BFP- 10/9/20 ~ EDD- 6/21/21
Married: 8/10/13
BFP- 12/18/15, D&E- 4/8/16 @ 21w5d- confirmed Thanatophoric Dysplasia
BFP- 11/7/17, M/C- 11/18/17 @ 4w6d
BFP- 8/25/18 ~ EDD- 5/9/19 ~ DD born 5/2/20 *Lillian Hazel*
BFP- 10/9/20 ~ EDD- 6/21/21
No idea what's going on with my cycle. FF says I should've gotten AF last Friday I think FF is wrong and I should've gotten it like Monday or Tuesday. IF I got with a semi-standard on occasion cycle for myself of 35 days, then I should get it today. Of course, I've been benched and on vacay so my chart has about 10 temperatures in it, and half of those are open circles. My wanting to get off the bench brain says "Maybe you're KU! You should totally POAS" even though we only BD 4x and we used pull out method each time. My rational side says "You're probably just having another later cycle, or possibly an annovulatory cycle. Stop being a freak." Here's hoping that biotching about it will bring on AF! Cause I just wanna get this next cycle started, get my testing done, and start TTCAL the following cycle!
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023.
Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months.
FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)
Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.
FET #2: September 2024 (failed)
FET #3: December 2024 (failed)
#BitterHagPartyOf1
congrats! @40momma Pregnant until proven otherwise
CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
@dpjennifer I hope AF makes up her mind for you soon. Can I also be the crazy person with you who hopes that maybe the pull out method failed and your Knocked up?!
As for me- I can join you ladies here! I was going crazy waiting for my opk to turn- finally this morning I got my smiley face! It was two days late- but I'll take it. We had great timing with BD this month- basically ED for the last 8 days (minus one) and EOD before that- I'm exhausted!
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023.
Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months.
FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)
Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.
FET #2: September 2024 (failed)
FET #3: December 2024 (failed)
#BitterHagPartyOf1
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023.
Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months.
FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)
Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.
FET #2: September 2024 (failed)
FET #3: December 2024 (failed)
#BitterHagPartyOf1
Maybe you've mentioned and I've just missed it, but how did your additional testing go? Have your doctors come up with any reason(s) why the RPL may be happening? RPL has to be such a frustrating situation to be in.
*TW loss and children mentioned*
Apr 17: IUI #1 = BFN
May 17: IUI #2 = BFN
Jun 17: IUI #3 = Late BFP (18 DPO) | NMC 17Jul17 @ ~6w
Aug 17: IUI #4 = Cancelled due to premature ovulation | TI = BFN
Sep 17: IUI #5 = Cancelled due to overstimulation (10+ follies)
Nov 17: IVF #1 = Cancelled due to non-IF related health issue | TI = BFN
Dec 17: IVF #1 = Puregon 200, Menopur 75, Orgalutran, Suprefact trigger due to OHSS risk | 22R, 18M, 16F, 10B frozen
Feb 18: FET #1 (medicated) = BFN
Mar 18: FET #2 (natural cycle) = CP (beta 1: 54; beta 2: 0)
EDD: 07Jan2019 Team Green
My Rainbow Baby Boy born 03Jan2019
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023.
Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months.
FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)
Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.
FET #2: September 2024 (failed)
FET #3: December 2024 (failed)
#BitterHagPartyOf1
@40momma YAY! and Keeping everything crossed for you!
@jchpg OMG every day for 8 days sounds exhausting. I don't know how you or your vageen handle it!
FX for all you ladies still in it!
@robyn2201 oooo I'm excited for you to test tomorrow, fingers crossed for you!
Sorry @nessie1313 @cassafrass15
I’m jumping in here now at 1dpo. Let the BSC begin!
But, I did go out and buy a new set of tests like an adult. Will use one of those tomorrow morning if AF doesn't show up by then.
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023.
Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months.
FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)
Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.
FET #2: September 2024 (failed)
FET #3: December 2024 (failed)
#BitterHagPartyOf1
Married: 8/10/13
BFP- 12/18/15, D&E- 4/8/16 @ 21w5d- confirmed Thanatophoric Dysplasia
BFP- 11/7/17, M/C- 11/18/17 @ 4w6d
BFP- 8/25/18 ~ EDD- 5/9/19 ~ DD born 5/2/20 *Lillian Hazel*
BFP- 10/9/20 ~ EDD- 6/21/21
FX @dpjennifer
@MelissaMay82 so sorry. AF is a Bi*ch.
@dpjennifer I've got everything crossed for you!
As for me- FF says I'm 3dpo- so I'm doing ok now. I O'ed late this month and had a few days of freak out wondering if it was going to be an anovulatory month. I'm just relived it's not now- one small celebration at a time.... I'm sure In a few days time my crazyness will settle in.
As for me, took a real test this morning. BFN. Also took my temp for the first time in a few weeks and it's elevated. So best guess is I o'd later than usual. So... CD 39 and waiting for a temp drop I guess.
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023.
Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months.
FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)
Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.
FET #2: September 2024 (failed)
FET #3: December 2024 (failed)
#BitterHagPartyOf1
@Mack2342 Wait until Friday?! I can’t remember the last time I waited until the recommended time to start testing! Good luck!!!