@TattoosandLace I don't know really. We have the first ultrasound October 16. I guess they will tell me then if I do? They did listen to the heartbeat at 2 appointments so far though so I know there's someone in there! lol
@3plus1equals4, @psm2462, @jenniferjoy37, @kbrinks2 : Thanks for sharing! I knew I shouldn't be worried or anything but it helps knowing other experiences. My apps and emails started telling me I might start feeling it back at week 16, but FTMs might be later so now at 19 weeks I'm like hmmm...when though?
Me: 33 DH:30 DD: Aug '16 10/2017: Twins confirmed with TTTS at 22 weeks. 10/10/17 Twin B passed after in utero surgery 11/2/17 Twin A & B born 11/26/17: Twin A passed after 24 days fighting in the NICU Benched 6 months BFP: 6/28/18 MC:7/16/18 BO BFP: 10/2/18 EDD 6/15/18
@alice0218 I'm 20+3 and still haven't felt movement. Everything I feel I think is gas or muscle spasms. My anatomy scan is Thursday so I'm anxious to make sure he's still moving around! I'm still waiting to really "pop" too. The maternity stuff I bought (minus the jeans) doesn't fit yet, the waist doesn't get filled out.
And as an add-on to previous discussions about maternity jeans: I bought a pair of Mom & Co jeans from Zulily a while back and wore them this weekend, and by the second wearing they were falling down like crazy. I don't think a smaller size would work because they were already form-fitting on my butt/legs. But I've always had that issue with any jeans because I have narrow hips. They look good otherwise, though!
Me: late 30s | H: early 30s TTC #1 since April 2015 RE Dx: Fibroids, surgery Jan 2016 IUI #1 and #2, Nov/Dec 2016, BFN IVF March 2017: ER - 5R/3M/3F, 1 PGS normal Polyp removed May 2017 FET May 2017 - BFP! Baby boy born 2/2/18
@alice0218, with my first I was 18 weeks, I believe. I did not have an anterior placenta, but it took being at my a&s and seeing the baby move and feeling the sensations to put it all together. You may have an anterior placenta, or the scan on the 16th will help you know the feeling. I hope you feel it sooner though.
@alice0218 my a/s was my second sonogram, but I found out thru reading my patient portal anatomy scan results. You can definitely ask. I asked with DD2 because I hadn’t felt a ton of movement like I did with DD1
My dog ate my glasses and I don't have a back up pair. My prescription is apparently "expired" so I have to go to eye doctor before I can get another pair. I'm currently squinting as I type this.
My dog ate my glasses and I don't have a back up pair. My prescription is apparently "expired" so I have to go to eye doctor before I can get another pair. I'm currently squinting as I type this.
I didn't get any bingo squares though. I give it a 2/10 (two points for length and unnecessary level of detail in original post).
Me: late 30s | H: early 30s TTC #1 since April 2015 RE Dx: Fibroids, surgery Jan 2016 IUI #1 and #2, Nov/Dec 2016, BFN IVF March 2017: ER - 5R/3M/3F, 1 PGS normal Polyp removed May 2017 FET May 2017 - BFP! Baby boy born 2/2/18
I feel like dirty delete should be a square. I believe "." In the subject is one, but what about just changing the subject?? How will we ever get bingo this way?
My dog ate my glasses and I don't have a back up pair. My prescription is apparently "expired" so I have to go to eye doctor before I can get another pair. I'm currently squinting as I type this.
Work is miserable in this condition.
I would lose my shit if I had to try and work without my glasses. I'm sorry!
@TattoosandLace I'm in Vegas for the time being and safe. It's such a different feeling when it happens to your hometown. Thankfully everyone that I know who was at the concert is now home and safe as well.
@ash0625 I can't imagine having to squint the whole time I was working. If you can't get in right away can you possibly pick up a pair of reading glasses to help?
I had a meltdown at work. I work 50 hrs a week when only 45 is required for my salary. I do so many things to help everyone out and I found out today that the other manager threw an employee brunch and invited everyone except me.
I ugly cried. My feelings were just really hurt. DH is tired of how they treat me and just wants me to put my notice in. I'm pretty sure I'm putting in my notice on Saturday. I just talked to my boss about feeling excluding and being the odd one out and that the other managers don't work with me as a team and I end up having to do everything. The stress isn't worth it.
So while I was at the restaurant by myself not getting paid extra for bartending and managing, my co workers were enjoying themselves, including my boss. Am I being irrational? Or sensitive?
@SunflowerMama428 You are definitely not being irrational, that sucks. Being blatantly excluded on top of working crazy hard and being unappreciated makes for an awful work environment and I would have been hurt too! If you want to leave and can afford to, man I would! Especially if this is typical for your coworkers to do to you.
Married 6/1/13
BFP #1 7/2013 MMC 9/17/13
BFP #2 5/2014 MC 6/15/14
BFP #3 11/13/14 (Found in ER with ruptured cyst) Diagnosed MC 11/15/14
BFP #4 4/2015 MC 7/1/15
BFP #5 10/21/15 EDD 7/3/16 Praying for our rainbow!
@TattoosandLace I'm in Vegas for the time being and safe. It's such a different feeling when it happens to your hometown. Thankfully everyone that I know who was at the concert is now home and safe as well.
@ash0625 I can't imagine having to squint the whole time I was working. If you can't get in right away can you possibly pick up a pair of reading glasses to help?
There's not a bitchfest thread, so I'm bitching here for a minute... So pissed off tonight. I drove 3 hours for my grad class only to find that it was apparently canceled without an explicit email indicating so. So I got to spend another 3 hours driving home after that. Here's to 6 wasted hours in the car. End rant. ETA: I can't spell
Uh oh. Did you get a special messsage too? I've got one strike. Sigh.
*TW* Spoiler
Me: 33 DH:30 DD: Aug '16 10/2017: Twins confirmed with TTTS at 22 weeks. 10/10/17 Twin B passed after in utero surgery 11/2/17 Twin A & B born 11/26/17: Twin A passed after 24 days fighting in the NICU Benched 6 months BFP: 6/28/18 MC:7/16/18 BO BFP: 10/2/18 EDD 6/15/18
Uh oh. Did you get a special messsage too? I've got one strike. Sigh.
I didn’t get one this go around. But I already have one from that annoying chick that went to the March board back in July with her puppies and rainbows crap.
@ash0625 that sucks so much. I lost my glasses a while ago and couldn't get into the eye dr for like 3 days for new ones. Horrible!! Lmao it's so bad having to drive with out them.
@gingermama26 sounds brutal. I probably would of gone into melt down mode, 3 hours is not an easy drive! I'm so sorry your time was wasted. I am so bitter for you!
So guys i want to know the same of the baby SO badly. We didn't find out with DS and decided not to find out with this baby either....but I must know!! Ahhhh! I think about it everyday. I'm going to the a/s alone cos there just isn't a time out schedules mesh while the us places are open, so I'm super tempted just to find out! LMAO, but Hubby would kill me if I let it slip
Feeding a toddler is hard. Tonight, my toddler wouldn’t eat his veggies (figured, but tried anyway), his meat, or his sweet potatoes. I even told him his sweet potatoes were candy—he took a bite and side-eyed me and said, “no it not candy”. I put cinnamon on them...but dinner was a no go.
Also—how were warnings given out for that thread. We are so super tame?
Re: Weekly Randoms 10.1
@3plus1equals4, @psm2462, @jenniferjoy37, @kbrinks2 : Thanks for sharing! I knew I shouldn't be worried or anything but it helps knowing other experiences. My apps and emails started telling me I might start feeling it back at week 16, but FTMs might be later so now at 19 weeks I'm like hmmm...when though?
DD: Aug '16
10/2017: Twins confirmed with TTTS at 22 weeks.
10/10/17 Twin B passed after in utero surgery
11/2/17 Twin A & B born
11/26/17: Twin A passed after 24 days fighting in the NICU
Benched 6 months
BFP: 6/28/18 MC:7/16/18 BO
BFP: 10/2/18 EDD 6/15/18
Omg I love
And as an add-on to previous discussions about maternity jeans: I bought a pair of Mom & Co jeans from Zulily a while back and wore them this weekend, and by the second wearing they were falling down like crazy. I don't think a smaller size would work because they were already form-fitting on my butt/legs. But I've always had that issue with any jeans because I have narrow hips. They look good otherwise, though!
TTC #1 since April 2015
RE Dx: Fibroids, surgery Jan 2016
IUI #1 and #2, Nov/Dec 2016, BFN
IVF March 2017: ER - 5R/3M/3F, 1 PGS normal
Polyp removed May 2017
FET May 2017 - BFP!
Baby boy born 2/2/18
Work is miserable in this condition.
TTC #1 since April 2015
RE Dx: Fibroids, surgery Jan 2016
IUI #1 and #2, Nov/Dec 2016, BFN
IVF March 2017: ER - 5R/3M/3F, 1 PGS normal
Polyp removed May 2017
FET May 2017 - BFP!
Baby boy born 2/2/18
DD born 04/28/2002
Married DH 03/25/2017
1st MMC 08/13/2016 2nd MMC 02/14/2017
BFP 06/16/17 Rainbow DS Born 02/05/2018
I would lose my shit if I had to try and work without my glasses. I'm sorry!
Eta: Prematurely sent
@ash0625 I can't imagine having to squint the whole time I was working. If you can't get in right away can you possibly pick up a pair of reading glasses to help?
I ugly cried. My feelings were just really hurt. DH is tired of how they treat me and just wants me to put my notice in. I'm pretty sure I'm putting in my notice on Saturday. I just talked to my boss about feeling excluding and being the odd one out and that the other managers don't work with me as a team and I end up having to do everything. The stress isn't worth it.
So while I was at the restaurant by myself not getting paid extra for bartending and managing, my co workers were enjoying themselves, including my boss. Am I being irrational? Or sensitive?
ETA: I can't spell
DD: Aug '16
10/2017: Twins confirmed with TTTS at 22 weeks.
10/10/17 Twin B passed after in utero surgery
11/2/17 Twin A & B born
11/26/17: Twin A passed after 24 days fighting in the NICU
Benched 6 months
BFP: 6/28/18 MC:7/16/18 BO
BFP: 10/2/18 EDD 6/15/18
@gingermama26 sounds brutal. I probably would of gone into melt down mode, 3 hours is not an easy drive! I'm so sorry your time was wasted. I am so bitter for you!
So guys i want to know the same of the baby SO badly. We didn't find out with DS and decided not to find out with this baby either....but I must know!! Ahhhh! I think about it everyday. I'm going to the a/s alone cos there just isn't a time out schedules mesh while the us places are open, so I'm super tempted just to find out! LMAO, but Hubby would kill me if I let it slip
@madie008 I'm no help to you bc we found out ASAP.
Also—how were warnings given out for that thread. We are so super tame?