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Anyone doing IVF in July/August?

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Re: Anyone doing IVF in July/August?

  • @Hopeful_mom. Maybe that cane out wrong! Lol I work 20 hours a week, so the way they schedule me could be 830-1230, 930-330, 11-430 etc. Etc. Etc.  So I never know from one week to the next what my schedule will be like.  830-430 is open to close, so if she could put me in a couple full days early in the week, then be off later on, that might help, but normally I'm spread out throughout the week so... lol we'll see!  So very sorry about the loss -iversary. (((Hugs)))  I have to believe that those who sew in tears will reap in joy. ❤

    @ReesaAnne16. I'm sure flying with meds happens a lot more than you might think - epipens, diabetics etc.  I would say just a little cold pack in a mini pouch, if it's supposed to be refrigerated, or else just in a little makeup pouch or something in your purse/carryon shoukd be fine. ;)  so exciting!!!

    @Magallyta. Welcome!  That's amazing they let you decide once you see how it went, instead of ahead of time!  This will be my first cycle too, so I don't have any experience, but I know ladies who have done fresh transfers with good results!

    <div class=" Spoiler">My bff did a fresh day 3 transfer of 2 and one stuck!  She's 13 weeks now... another bump friend I believe did a fresh transfer and is my with twins ATM.</div>My clinic only does frozen and makes you choose to test or not prior to cycling.  We are leaning towards not testing for various reasons, but to each their own.  We might still be doing it if it were covered!  Idk. Not knowing how old you are or any of the rest of your history, it's tough to say what might be best for you, as it's a very personal choice.  What way are you leaning?
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  • @Magallyta I did a fresh transfer on my first 2 cycles. TW * With my first one I had a Chemical pregnancy, second one didn't take* So they do work. I would be more afraid of a FET, I know freezing has evolved a lot, but it's still a chance it can damage the embryo, and especially if you have just a  few...

    Ladies, thanks so much for your support!!!!! I tested again today, still negative. I am almost sure it didn't take so I am kind of at peace with it. But I wouldn't mind a positive surprise :p
    DOR (FSH 13, AMH 0.48, AFC 6-9)
    IVF #1 -2016 March, antagonist, 5 eggs, 2 fertilized, 3DT - 8 cell and 6 cell no frag, chemical pregnancy
    IVF #2 - 2016 June, micro dose lupron, 3 eggs, 1 fertilized, 3DT 6 cell, BFN
    IVF #3 - 2016 November, estrogen priming + antagonist, 9 follicles, 3 eggs, none fertilized
    IVF #4 - 2017 March, testosterone priming + micro dose lupron, 2 eggs, none fertilized
    IVF #5 - 2017 May, A/ACP protocol, 4 follicles out of 7 seemed to get to required size, ovulated before retrieval, converted into IUI - BFN
    IVF #6 - 2017 July, A/ACP protocol, 3 follicles one stopped growing, LH rising, converted to IUI - BFN
    IVF #7 - 2017 September, antagonist, 5 follicles, 6 eggs,  3 immature, 3 injected, 1 fertilized, stopped growing day 3
  • @Hopeful_mom Ugh... due dates are hard... sending hugs :( Good news though about your estrogen and follies!!
    @BusinessWife Yay for DH getting ready! This time of waiting for AF is a little nerve wracking... i have created several calendars of possible stim schedules...lol it keeps me busy i guess! I have seen ppl on youtube show and talk about the PIO and it looks hardcore! Ive done the suppositories and they were not "fun" either (tmi: super leaky and gross feeling) but not painful like PIO looks to be :(:(
  • @hopefulmom - thank you for the welcome. I went to doc & he's recommending pgs testing & not do a fresh transfer. Right now I have 2 good embroyos to test waiting on the 3rd embroyo results. 

    @BusinessWife- lets my stats I am 38, I have a healthy 4yr old & 1 miscarriage last year. This am doc recommended to do pgs testing & not a fresh transfer. 
  • Hey Guys - some news from me. Looks like my fibroid removal won't be until at least NOVEMBER. Ugh. So awful. I could move it up faster, but it would be more expensive, and we are all OOP. :( 

    Anyway, feeling a little down about it today. 

    @marioana99 - I'm sorry. Still hoping you get a positive surprise too.

    @BusinessWife - excited for you to get started! Hoping this will all be over for you soon!

    @Hopeful_mom - I'm so sorry that this would be the due date. Ugh. 

    @ReesaAnne16 - I'm excited for your AF to arrive too!
  • @funkykey No! That sux!! No wonder you are feeling down! Hopefully the weeks will fly by!
  • @funkykey the same thing happened to me when I was starting ivf. The surgery was scheduled almost 2 months out. Sorry for the bad news. :( Frustrating. 
    TTC 4 years. 7 failed IUI's with either Clomid, Femara and/or Trigger Shots. Started IVF journey in February 2017. Polyps removed in May. 1st IVF Transfer September 26th. BFP. Expected due date 6/14/18. Baby boy born 5/25/18 at 6 lb 9 oz. My bundle of joy. 
  • @funkykey. Oh dear, wow. I am so sorry for the added delay. ❤

    @Magallyta Okay.  I'm sorry about your loss.  Do you happen to know your AFC or AMH?  I am inclined to think if the doctor is recommending PGS and FET, that's what I would do.  My clinic has better rates with FET, so I personally feel good about that regardless of testing.  Not sure if PGS is covered for you or not, but that also played into our decision to skip it, unfortunately. But with frozen they are able to let the body reset and be nice and ready for transfer vs. with fresh people say it's like the body has just been through so much from the reteieval.  But we were not given that option to choose fresh/frozen bc my clinic ONLY does FET.
  • allycheer00allycheer00 member
    edited August 2017

    @Hopeful_Mom I hope you did something special for yourself today! Hugs!

    @FunkyKey Darnit! Sorry that it's really dragging out for you.

    @Magallyta Welcome! I saw you over on the other board but you guys were way too far in for me to feel comfortable in joining. My best friend did a FET late 2015 with the only normal embryo she had. Her daughter is turning one next week so I feel pgs and FET are good options.

    Me:35 DH:37
    Married 09/2013

    *TW* TTC #2 since June 2016 *END TW*

    Endometriosis

    March 2017- IUI#1- Clomid - BFN
    April 2017 - IUI #2 - Clomid, Ovidrel - BFN
    May 2017 - IUI #3 - Clomid- cancelled cycle

    July 2017- IVF #1-Microdose Lupron protocol, Gonal-F, Menopur, HCG trigger- 12 mature eggs, 9 fertilized, 4 frozen- 2 PGS normal!!

    August 2017- FET #1

  • @funkykey No, r u kidding, ugh!!  That sux i'm sorry!  I guess your insurance gave you the news, thats so frustrating!  I hate that money plays a factor in so much of this, its such BS!!

    @Magallyta i'm sorry for your loss but glad to hear you have had success!!  I wonder why your RE recommends PGS.  Mine at 40 didn't until I had my losses.  Glad 2 have made it through, hoping that 3rd one pulls through and your normie is in there!

    @BusinessWife awwww i love that DH is all in, its so important to have, thats great! and ooooooooo 20 a week nice, got it ;)  It would be great if they could just give you 2 full days for the week and you can chillax the rest of the week!


    History of TTC in spoiler box
    TTC since 2014
    Unexplained Infertility - but I am 40...Low AMH .30
    7 - IUI (50mg-150mg Clomid) Feb - August 2016 all BFN 
    IVF#1 August 2016 (Antagonist protocol 4/5 eggs) Cancelled cycle :( RE thought I would get at least 10.
    IVF#2 Sept 2016 (microdose luporn pro - disappearing follies, ONLY ONE, convert to IUI) BFN
    IVF#3 November 2016 (4 ER, 3 F,  3DT)-BFP  with TWINS // MC both at almost 10wks  :'( 
    IVF#4 March 2017 //EPP  (10 ER (1 wonky so 9 ER) 7F, 3B (5AB, (2)5BB) PGS tested- ALL abnormal  :'( 
    IVF#5 April 2017 // EPP (7 ER, 7F yes! 6B) 2/5 day 4/6 day - 2 PGS normal! yes!! :)
    IVF#6 May 2017 // Antagonist didn't have time for Estrogen Priming...(4 ER, 3 F, 3B) (5AB, (2) 5BB) 2 PGS normal, yes!! :)
    IVF#7 June 2017 // EPP praying this is it and then on to an FET!

  • You ladies are a great support system & very supportive!!! Thank you. 

    @BusinessWife i am new to all the terms & getting educated on ivf. I don't know my actual #'s but doc did say my ovarian reserve was low. I had 4 follies, 5 eggs & 3 fertilized. My insurance covers ivf but not pgs which is why we questioned it. We decided after the docs adamant response to not do a fresh transfer to pay for pgs. 

    @hopefulmom- from the initial consultation he felt strongly towards pgs testing. I also did a very high dosage of meds for my shots. Mid way through my cycle he thought I might need to do a fresh transfer. He felt that I would not get enough follies. Now that I have 2 embs to test he backed up his initial stance. 

    @allycheer00- hi nice to meet you! Thank you I feel at peace with the decision we made. It was a very stressful am with calling the doc & nurses to ensure this way the right to do.  
  • @Magallyta - Hello! I really hope you hear some good news with your PGS.

    @Hopeful_mom - I know what you mean by EDDs... sigh. Hang in there!! You will have a great ER, I can just feel it.

    @funkykey - Ugh, the wait sucks. Really hopeful that the fibroid surgery will be all worth it in the end.

    @BusinessWife - My clinic also strongly favors FET versus fresh. I honestly don't mind because I wasn't in tip top physical shape day 3 after ER, and I probably could've swung a day 5 transfer but that is pushing it. I'm in awe of all the women who went back to shots and meds right after ER!
    My TTC journey:
    Me and DH: 30-35
    Unexplained infertility
    TTC #1 since 2015
    11/2015 - BFP!     12/2015 - MC  :'(
    IVF #1 July 2017 freeze all (20 eggs, 15 mature, 10 fert, 6 blasts, 4 PGS normal)
    FET #1 TBD  Surprise BFP 9/2017 while waiting for FET... hoping for the best!

    Pregnancy Ticker


  • Thanks guys... I'm still feeling a little bit sorry for myself. The doctors told me they'd decided to do the medical freeze all after the u/s right before my ER - which I know is standard, but I guess I thought it would be for something like OHSS, not for an issue on my uterus that I'd been told looked "very minor", and my RE had first noticed almost two months before - before I started stimming or anything.

    I wish I'd known more sooner, so I could have avoided getting my hopes up, and at least could have gotten in with the surgeon sooner. I know the doctors are human and make mistakes, but I'm frustrated. I keep thinking that I'm such an idiot, I can't believe I actually thought this might be over soon in early July. 

    Ugh. I keep trying to remember how I felt when we got the day 6 call about our blasts. Seems like a really long time ago.

    @megmac2010 - keeping FX for you, I'm sorry you didn't have any others to freeze. I would have been devastated too. This sucks so much.
  • Yeah and now they put me up to 40 hours!!! Yay??  But uhmmm... is that terrible that I am thinking of just calling in a sick day, morning of?  :/  I really don't like not being our own boss, when it gets right down to it 
  • @BusinessWifeI've totally called in sick for this stuff... i mean its kinda true!
  • @adirat  Thank you! It is a huge relief to hear this, honestly. I have my paper RX and was planning to bring it. I'm going to try not to stress about it anymore, and just enjoy the trip :)

    Me 34 DH 36 Married since July 2010 
    MFI (High DNA Fragmentation) & Mild endometriosis
    TTC #1 since June 2015 
    Aug 2016 - May 2017  6 IUI's with letrozole - BFN
    April 2017 - laparoscopy to remove mild endo
    June 2017 - Mini IVF letrozole 12.5mg, Gonal-F 75IU - Cancelled early ovulation, no eggs retrieved. 
    Aug/Sept 2017 - Mini IVF letrozole 12.5mg, Gonal-F 75IU, cetrotide - 13 eggs retrieved, 11 mature
    5 eggs ICSI'd 6 eggs frozen - 1 day 5 blast transfered, 2 expanded blast frozen - BFP!
    May 2018 - Baby girl born - Our Joy

    TTC #2 since July 2019
    July 2019 - FET - BFN
    Jan 2020 - FET - canceled due to family health issues
    Mar 2020 - FET - low beta - chemical pregnancy
    July 2020 - ICSI'd remaining 6 eggs - 3 fertilized - 2 survived to early blast stage, transfered both - Chemical Pregnancy


  • @Bababatty yay for a successful transfer! You're beta date will be here in no time, so enjoy being PUPO!

    Me 34 DH 36 Married since July 2010 
    MFI (High DNA Fragmentation) & Mild endometriosis
    TTC #1 since June 2015 
    Aug 2016 - May 2017  6 IUI's with letrozole - BFN
    April 2017 - laparoscopy to remove mild endo
    June 2017 - Mini IVF letrozole 12.5mg, Gonal-F 75IU - Cancelled early ovulation, no eggs retrieved. 
    Aug/Sept 2017 - Mini IVF letrozole 12.5mg, Gonal-F 75IU, cetrotide - 13 eggs retrieved, 11 mature
    5 eggs ICSI'd 6 eggs frozen - 1 day 5 blast transfered, 2 expanded blast frozen - BFP!
    May 2018 - Baby girl born - Our Joy

    TTC #2 since July 2019
    July 2019 - FET - BFN
    Jan 2020 - FET - canceled due to family health issues
    Mar 2020 - FET - low beta - chemical pregnancy
    July 2020 - ICSI'd remaining 6 eggs - 3 fertilized - 2 survived to early blast stage, transfered both - Chemical Pregnancy


  • @megmac2010 - Good luck during your TWW! How nerve wracking. I am hoping for good news.

    @funkykey - The emotional roller coaster of infertility and IVF is full of ups and downs. Waiting is hard, but you have 4 frozen! They are all ready for you and a huge part of the IVF process is done.

    @Bababatty - Good luck on the TWW! And hoping those embryos make it to freeze.

    @Hopeful_mom - FX for your follicles! It's always so stressful to monitor how stims are going. I'm neurotic and kept an Excel file which tracked measurements and blood results at every monitoring appointment.
    My TTC journey:
    Me and DH: 30-35
    Unexplained infertility
    TTC #1 since 2015
    11/2015 - BFP!     12/2015 - MC  :'(
    IVF #1 July 2017 freeze all (20 eggs, 15 mature, 10 fert, 6 blasts, 4 PGS normal)
    FET #1 TBD  Surprise BFP 9/2017 while waiting for FET... hoping for the best!

    Pregnancy Ticker


  • helloworld9 thanks for sharing, I'm so glad i'm not the only cray cray out there on tracking all of this!!  I can't help it.  Now I've added that to determining what side to inject my meds on.  Since the left is a tad behind I'm giving that side the love and the right gets the cetritide...we shall see if its making a difference tomorrow ;)
    History of TTC in spoiler box
    TTC since 2014
    Unexplained Infertility - but I am 40...Low AMH .30
    7 - IUI (50mg-150mg Clomid) Feb - August 2016 all BFN 
    IVF#1 August 2016 (Antagonist protocol 4/5 eggs) Cancelled cycle :( RE thought I would get at least 10.
    IVF#2 Sept 2016 (microdose luporn pro - disappearing follies, ONLY ONE, convert to IUI) BFN
    IVF#3 November 2016 (4 ER, 3 F,  3DT)-BFP  with TWINS // MC both at almost 10wks  :'( 
    IVF#4 March 2017 //EPP  (10 ER (1 wonky so 9 ER) 7F, 3B (5AB, (2)5BB) PGS tested- ALL abnormal  :'( 
    IVF#5 April 2017 // EPP (7 ER, 7F yes! 6B) 2/5 day 4/6 day - 2 PGS normal! yes!! :)
    IVF#6 May 2017 // Antagonist didn't have time for Estrogen Priming...(4 ER, 3 F, 3B) (5AB, (2) 5BB) 2 PGS normal, yes!! :)
    IVF#7 June 2017 // EPP praying this is it and then on to an FET!

  • @Magallyta welcome to this board, it's a great support!

    AFM, I was in CA (my home state, miss it so much!) the past week so am back. It was a great break before starting stims. Hopefully beach time refreshed my soul. I had my first blood draw and scan for round 3 yesterday and all is a go for starting stims Monday!

    @hopeful_mom interesting about determining what side to inject on. Ive always done my morning follistim and evening menopur both on one side the first day, then both on the other side the next day, back and forth. Not because anybody told me to, just more to give the injection sites time to be less sore before going near that area again. Who knows?
  • @ReesaAnne16 Enjoy your trip!
    @Hopeful_mom Cant wait to hear if today is trigger day!
    @Momifbysea OMG! Starting Monday! SO cool!!

    AFM: Just dealing with this estrogen priming... Im doing pills instead of patches and im definitely feeling more effects. SO tired and sleepy after taking them. Also nooooo libido. Poor DH! Im also feeling crampy... SO hoping AF doesnt come till at least tomorrow since i will be in NC for the weekend and if it starts today i basically have to cancel my trip :/:(
    anyway... just wanting naps over here! lol :)

  • @dragonette505 I'm curious about your estrogen priming, looks like this is pretty common? Ive never been prescribed it (yet).
  • @dragonette505 Wow, I'm amazed that you have both of these things! Can you kick her out of the Wellness room? Enjoy your "meditation" either way.
  • Bababatty said:
    @dragonette505 Wow, I'm amazed that you have both of these things! Can you kick her out of the Wellness room? Enjoy your "meditation" either way.
    Just as I was about to pout my way to the gym, she came out! So I'm currently reclining in the lounger!!! Lol
    now I don't have to pretend to meditate!
  • @megmac Congrats on your transfer! Will you be testing early? It is not irrational at all to be angry. We do so much work during this process and to get less than desirable results is very frustrating. Even if we should be grateful that we got what we got, it doesn't change the fact that this IVF numbers game is horrible. A girl on FB was saying yesterday that she had 61 eggs retrieved and only one was normal. I can't imagine.

    Me:35 DH:37
    Married 09/2013

    *TW* TTC #2 since June 2016 *END TW*

    Endometriosis

    March 2017- IUI#1- Clomid - BFN
    April 2017 - IUI #2 - Clomid, Ovidrel - BFN
    May 2017 - IUI #3 - Clomid- cancelled cycle

    July 2017- IVF #1-Microdose Lupron protocol, Gonal-F, Menopur, HCG trigger- 12 mature eggs, 9 fertilized, 4 frozen- 2 PGS normal!!

    August 2017- FET #1

  • @bababatty Fingers crossed those others pull through and congrats to you on your transfer.  I feel like we need a chart to keep up with everybodies embryos and transfers.

    Me:35 DH:37
    Married 09/2013

    *TW* TTC #2 since June 2016 *END TW*

    Endometriosis

    March 2017- IUI#1- Clomid - BFN
    April 2017 - IUI #2 - Clomid, Ovidrel - BFN
    May 2017 - IUI #3 - Clomid- cancelled cycle

    July 2017- IVF #1-Microdose Lupron protocol, Gonal-F, Menopur, HCG trigger- 12 mature eggs, 9 fertilized, 4 frozen- 2 PGS normal!!

    August 2017- FET #1

  • allycheer00allycheer00 member
    edited August 2017

    double post. oops

    Me:35 DH:37
    Married 09/2013

    *TW* TTC #2 since June 2016 *END TW*

    Endometriosis

    March 2017- IUI#1- Clomid - BFN
    April 2017 - IUI #2 - Clomid, Ovidrel - BFN
    May 2017 - IUI #3 - Clomid- cancelled cycle

    July 2017- IVF #1-Microdose Lupron protocol, Gonal-F, Menopur, HCG trigger- 12 mature eggs, 9 fertilized, 4 frozen- 2 PGS normal!!

    August 2017- FET #1

  • Momifbysea woohoo!!  welcome to the stemming party...i'm wrapping it up and you can keep it going...i'm passing the baton ;)  As for the injections i used to do that too, i think the nurses even mentioned it.  However during acupuncture last cycle when i mentioned one side was a lil behind she mentioned that the gonal f is stronger and  should put it on that side.  Is she right?  Who knows.  But my left side was a lil smaller then the right so I put everything on the left and just did the cetritide on the right.  Maybe it worked as I didn't have a huge growth jump on the right so i will do the same tonight and see what happens...
    As for the priming a bunch of gals on the low amh board did the EPP and it seemed to help them.  For me the very first cycle i did the priming for it was like 2 weeks and even though I got double digits at ER i did not get an normies that cycle.  My 3 following cycles i only did priming for 3/5 days and got normies out of the group so hoping following suit will bring me the same.

    dragonette505 thats so interesting that you get to prime orally...the patches irritated my skin, was happy to just have to wear the one this cycle.  Sorry you're in pain but yay for AF - this means you get the show on the road right?  you're priming info is spot on you can teach  a class :)
    I love that you have a room to rest your eyes, i need to work there!

    Bababatty so excited for you!!!  are you doing anything extra?  pineapple core, brazillian nuts?  Everyone always hears something that can help! I think its a great idea to do it with Dh that will be a great send off for him!

    allycheer00 so funny you mention the chart i was thinking that the other day!  Everyones been doing pretty well without it, i'm impressed....and then i thought maybe i missed a post for it  :D  YAY that your DR take care of their patients.  My place has different offices too so they're not all even in the clinics at the same time so I get it.  I think its since i've gone through this so many times you like to be with an RE you like or know.  I think its tough enough that all the people that are in the room with you are different so its nice to know someone.  Lucky me at this point I always know someone in the room.  I think they might throw my baby shower at this point ;)  AND 61 eggs  :o thats something ugh i'm sure that didn't tickle!!

    AFM: We're still measuring 8 but i'm not sure all will make it to the party.  I've got my mama running the pack at 19, 17, (2) 18.5 (2) 15.5 a 13 and 11.  Praying I can at least get these 6 and hopefully the 13 can at least make it.  AND i have to pray none of them are empty...so many unknowns in this process  my E2 was 756 it should be higher today but the nurse forgot to tell me as it was hard to hear traveling on the train (talk about timing)...so i have to remember when i go in tomorrow to ask.  I'm close will probably trigger tomorrow or sunday....
    History of TTC in spoiler box
    TTC since 2014
    Unexplained Infertility - but I am 40...Low AMH .30
    7 - IUI (50mg-150mg Clomid) Feb - August 2016 all BFN 
    IVF#1 August 2016 (Antagonist protocol 4/5 eggs) Cancelled cycle :( RE thought I would get at least 10.
    IVF#2 Sept 2016 (microdose luporn pro - disappearing follies, ONLY ONE, convert to IUI) BFN
    IVF#3 November 2016 (4 ER, 3 F,  3DT)-BFP  with TWINS // MC both at almost 10wks  :'( 
    IVF#4 March 2017 //EPP  (10 ER (1 wonky so 9 ER) 7F, 3B (5AB, (2)5BB) PGS tested- ALL abnormal  :'( 
    IVF#5 April 2017 // EPP (7 ER, 7F yes! 6B) 2/5 day 4/6 day - 2 PGS normal! yes!! :)
    IVF#6 May 2017 // Antagonist didn't have time for Estrogen Priming...(4 ER, 3 F, 3B) (5AB, (2) 5BB) 2 PGS normal, yes!! :)
    IVF#7 June 2017 // EPP praying this is it and then on to an FET!

  • @Bababatty. Congrats!!!  Omg so excited for Wednesday aka POAS day!!!! :)
  • megmac2010megmac2010 member
    edited August 2017
    Thanks for the kind comments everyone. I feel like a huge a-hole for complaining about getting a blast to transfer when other people would gladly run over me with a car for the outcome. 

    I am a big believer in driving myself crazy, so yes, I'm going to pee on all the things. I like to test out my trigger, so I don't doubt any future positives (not that it's ever happened......).  I think I'll start peeing tomorrow (4dp5dt). 

    @dragonette505 I need to find out where you work so I can get a job at a place with a nap room. 
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