I need for DH to get home with the pizza ASAP to cut me off from stalking this woman. She talks about what a great world it would be "if all girls were taught to love each other fiercely." Oh, like you loved on the ladies of TTGP?
@beanship That's the thing though, I doubt very much that she thinks she did anything wrong. She's one of those people that's too self absorbed to see life from anyone else's perspective.
Me: 35, Hubbie: 33 Married DH: 2013 DD: Dec 2015 BFP 8/14/17 --> Due 4/27/2018
I'm not going to social media stalk her- her post about how cross-fit (crossfit? CrOsSfIt?) helps her understand what our servicemen and women go through was enough for me.
She reminds me of a girl I went to high school with that I'm friends with on Facebook. Every post and picture this girl has is carefully curated and choreographed. There are tons of hashtags and quotes, everything is perfectly posed and filtered. Even better, any time someone else from our HS (me included) posts something related to our relationship, she has to one up it. My husband and I went to Paris- she booked a trip to Italy for her and her husband the same day. We posted the videos of my husband surprising me and our dog- she posted fifteen photos from her first date with her now husband. She even does it with her career- if I post a cute thing one of my students said (like, sidenote, when I put a 'Cinderella' audio book on the SmartBoard the other day and when the title page came up one of my kids clapped his hands and went "Oooo! California!"), she helped fifty clients resolve all of their issues and have breakthroughs that day. All I can think of how exhausting living like that must be.
I know I'm not perfect. The most thought I put into my Instagram shots is how to angle it so no one can see the dishes in my sink or laundry on my floor. Most of my pictures with my husband (even ones from our wedding) are of us making dopey faces or cracking up. And yeah, my life is frustrating- I wish I was KU, I wish my husband was home, I wish I didn't hate my boss. But it's real. I have nothing to hide and nothing to prove. This girl's life sounds sad and fake and she hides it behind inspirational quotes and a workout cult.
/rant. I'm still so angry about what happened, and that she got @LoveInDC banned and myself and others warned.
Me: 28 DH: 29 Married: 6/2016 TTC #1: 12/2016 Benched due to deployment- Off the bench 8/8/17!
I can't comment on all this info but i love you all for the synopsis of trolly mctrollerton's life. Ugh... anyone who poses that "picture perfect" of an image must be a miserable person. I embrace my faults at least they make me a somewhat interesting human being. I'd rather be openly f'd up than publicly a plastic robot and secretively a miserable twat waffle. Also I'm making today my beotch with some pineapple rum/orange juice cocktails. Happy fri-yay chickadees! Edited because rum makes my typing good
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I bow down to all of your awesome sleuthing skills and am trying to decide if I need to recheck my privacy settings on everything... This was a very entertaining read.
Hey guys? You KNOW I fucking love everyone here but we need to cool it on stalking this girl's IRL stuff. I get she was a dick here, but digging in people's personal lives is going a little too far. I get the urge. I tooooottally get it. No judgement from me. But I don't want this community to turn into a place where if you piss us off we will find your home address and email and know your mother's maiden name or something.
I would also caution against sharing her info even in PMs. TOU still applies to PMs and if the BGs read this thread you can get into trouble. Sorry to be a buzzkill. It's just that that stupid girl isn't worth any of us getting in trouble.
I think the fascination with homegirl (besides the fact that she got a TTGP grad banned for some very tame comments) is just that her social media was so public!! I still can't believe there are people out there who don't think stranger danger is real! Let this be a warning to us all double check the privacy settings on all our accounts.
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Me: 38 DH: 38 Married 6/11/16 TTC Since 6/2016 12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal 3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve 8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC 7/2018 Clomid+IUI 11/2018 Letrozole+TI 12/2018 Letrozole+IUI 2/2019 NTNP 5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
I hate to say it, but I think for some people it went a wee bit past fascination and traveled in to stranger-danger-stalker-town.
It's one thing to find out she has no privacy settings and shake your head and remind everyone why they need to be weary of stranger danger, and totally different to find every social media account, rip them apart, find out maiden names, get addresses, and... essentially stalk someone.
One is "okay", and the other makes people feel nervous.
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Married DH: 2013
DD: Dec 2015
BFP 8/14/17 --> Due 4/27/2018
She reminds me of a girl I went to high school with that I'm friends with on Facebook. Every post and picture this girl has is carefully curated and choreographed. There are tons of hashtags and quotes, everything is perfectly posed and filtered. Even better, any time someone else from our HS (me included) posts something related to our relationship, she has to one up it. My husband and I went to Paris- she booked a trip to Italy for her and her husband the same day. We posted the videos of my husband surprising me and our dog- she posted fifteen photos from her first date with her now husband. She even does it with her career- if I post a cute thing one of my students said (like, sidenote, when I put a 'Cinderella' audio book on the SmartBoard the other day and when the title page came up one of my kids clapped his hands and went "Oooo! California!"), she helped fifty clients resolve all of their issues and have breakthroughs that day. All I can think of how exhausting living like that must be.
I know I'm not perfect. The most thought I put into my Instagram shots is how to angle it so no one can see the dishes in my sink or laundry on my floor. Most of my pictures with my husband (even ones from our wedding) are of us making dopey faces or cracking up. And yeah, my life is frustrating- I wish I was KU, I wish my husband was home, I wish I didn't hate my boss. But it's real. I have nothing to hide and nothing to prove. This girl's life sounds sad and fake and she hides it behind inspirational quotes and a workout cult.
/rant. I'm still so angry about what happened, and that she got @LoveInDC banned and myself and others warned.
Married: 6/2016
TTC #1: 12/2016
Benched due to deployment- Off the bench 8/8/17!
Edited because rum makes my typing good
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LO arrived 11/9/2018! We have a baby!
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Me: 33 | DH: 41
Married: March 2016
TTC #1/IUD out January 2017
PCOS dx January 2018
Medicated cycle 2.5mg Letrozole CD3-7 February 2018
BFP 3/10/2018!
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DS: born oct 2012
TFAS: BFP #1 aug16. miscarriage sept16
BFP #2 nov16 MMC dec16. d&c jan17
BFP #3 sept17 EDD 5/31/18
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Married DH: 2013
DD: Dec 2015
BFP 8/14/17 --> Due 4/27/2018
TTC December 2016
BFP 2/28/17 // CP 3/1/17
MFI Diagnosis: Aug 2017
BFP 11/1/17 // DS born 6/18
TTC January 2019
BFP 3/21/19 // D&C (MMC) 5/8/19
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"It's time to try defying gravity."
Married 6/11/16
TTC Since 6/2016
12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
7/2018 Clomid+IUI
11/2018 Letrozole+TI
12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
2/2019 NTNP
5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
It's one thing to find out she has no privacy settings and shake your head and remind everyone why they need to be weary of stranger danger, and totally different to find every social media account, rip them apart, find out maiden names, get addresses, and... essentially stalk someone.
One is "okay", and the other makes people feel nervous.
Me: 30 | DH: 34 | DSS: 14 | DS: 4
PG #2, EDD 10/12/2023