October 2017 Moms

FFFC (4/14)

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Re: FFFC (4/14)

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  • yasandsonyasandson member
    edited April 2017
    Fffc : for the past week everytime H has been working id cross the street to the grocery store buy Mrs Vickies kettle chips (they were 2 for 6.50 this week lol). Id make sure they were eaten completely, and that the bags were hidden at the bottom of our trash can so he cant find out, before he comes back from work. 

    Edited cause english grammar
  • yasandsonyasandson member
    edited April 2017
    Fffc2 : i forgot to tell H to take out the trash. And i cant stand the view of 3 huge black bags on our balcony when we re sitting in the living room. So, i know we re not supposed to lift heavy stuff, but i just took em downstairs myself (3stories). I am definitely hidding that from him 2. (my version of that story is they miraculously disappeared if he asks....pretty sure he wont even notice lol). 
  • @migdala I get feeling disrespected- I felt that way a lot, too. Once, I was feeling disrespected by a BFs insta preferences. We were both trying to get back into shape but I felt he was following quite a few more fit women's accounts than was necessary. When I told him about it, he instead started keeping things from me in attempts to spare my feelings and he wouldn't browse instagram in front of me. This led to a bigger fight. 

    With DH I've tried to be open about my insecurities and let him know how his actions make me feel, but he's also never given me any reason not to feel loved and wanted. We tend to "check out" other people together in jest, but I think he knows where to draw the line. 

    I think its wonderful that you and your DH know what works for y'all and that he respects your feelings in a way that you need. I wouldn't feel embarrassed for feeling disrespected, or embarrassed for feeling comfortable with it!
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  • LOLL @carries2018 i do it, like i normally would (im 5'10 and 84 kgs im pretty sure i wont break in half lolll) and i pisses me off that H thinks im all of a sudden handicapped. I mean... Im the arms around here (i do it all since he works so much)... Why u trynna steal my spot H? :p
  • Sorry @carries2018. Lol 185 pounds 
  • @carries2018 I see myself not being able to take out the trash later in my pregnancy. My driveway is really steep and I'm afraid to walk down it when I'm too far along lest I lose my balance
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  • @carries2018   I completely agree with you.  I got put on bedrest for a week or so and am not allowed to do stuff like that and I'm going CRAZY over here.  I can't imagine people voluntarily putting those restrictions on themselves...
  • FFFC I have mixed feelings about my sister, who has suffered several losses, throwing a baby shower for me. We are not very close and I know it has been difficult for her so far with me, but she insisted she would throw it for me. I think she feels obligated because she took it so hard when I told her privately - she committed to it the day after I told her. 

    Im conflicted because I want her to feel included but I don't want her to be in an uncomfortable situation, either. I don't think very many people know about her TTC journey in our family and none of my friends do so I worry about some of the comments she might receive. 
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  • @carries2018 My MIL had two C-sections but is obsessed with vaginal birth and it's SO uncomfortable.  When we were at their place last weekend she cornered me to tell me that I should get perineum massages before the birth so I don't need an episiotomy.  She even demonstrated on the counter how the massages would be done, using her thumbs.  So bizarre and uncalled for.
  • @PizzaMonster3 are u close enough to have that chat with her. Like be honest about your mixed feelings and encourage her to be honest about the reasons she wants to throw it for you? 
  • yasandsonyasandson member
    edited April 2017
    Maybe @bluejeanbabi05 s right. I wouldnt want her to think that your questioning her ability to make decisions. Forget about my previous comment. 
    Edited spelling( i feel i have to add this at the end of every post lol) 
  • @pizzamonster3 I wouldn't say anything to her, I would trust that she knows best for herself. She will tell you if she can't handle it. Otherwise, it's like you're questioning her motives and her ability to make decisions, you know? 

    Eta: and maybe this is her way of trying to build a closer relationship with you :) I threw a friend's baby shower when I was deep in my IF struggles and I enjoyed it. I would have been upset if she had insinuated I couldn't handle it.
    this is the approach i took with my sister, by the point of my shower her adoption went through so she had that. but i know it was hard for her still bc she didnt have a shower (her choice, she didnt want to jinx anything) and i know it was hard on her. but i think a bigger part of her wanted to be involved. and planning it made her feel a little like it was her own.
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  • i think i want to go by kgs instead of lbs. i sound so much smaller! it appears the rest of the world is onto something.
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    Hahahahahahaha i just died. Why do u think i converted my height so that ud understand it but left out the weight part (although i know what the equation to convert is). I have no shame. :p
  • hold the phone. you tell people your height in cms!? that is ridiculous. i am like 547cm tall or something.
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  • yasandsonyasandson member
    edited April 2017
    I actualy say it in meters. Im 1.78m
     Edited cause 78 not 73
  • Thanks lol i tend to write in french words that sound the same in english. In french its metre. Yes in english ur right, meter. My bad :) 
  • Haha @yasandon I actually typed that before I even saw your answer. I wasn't sure how Canadians spell it.



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