@ShreyaR the op was not a newbie and ended up being quite rude. It is a wonder to me that you've been around since 2013 and aren't used to the general snark of the Bump. Even after all she's been through, it still exists here.
Yes @lilpoots, I have been around since 2013 when I started TTC for the first time, then I joined Feb 2014 but never have I been faced with such negativity, I know she ended up being rude and I am not siding with her or anyone but the first few ones replying to her were handling the thread well until gifs started appearing! And it kind of turned into bullying! My point is, if someone does not handle a situation well, why hound her? I have seen it happen many times! I am pretty sure we have managed to get rid of some of our ladies here! We can talk sensibly...like the way you or @cmar1006 are doing, if you manage to convince someone fine if not it's their loss, why be rude? If you go through that thread again, you can clearly see @Souptin's snarky gif, but why was I talked about here instead of her? I see it as a form of bullying really and it's sad because I come here for support and to give support because we are all blessed individuals, who come here to talk and share and not be a bunch of mean girls.
@wyomama0427, but sweetie is better than shit right? You caught the sarcasm in sweetie, strange you didn't see I was wronged when @Souptin posted the gif!
For fucks sake dude I just agreed to move on and you just gotta poke a stick at the badger. Call me a shit, at least you're not being fake and condescending like you are when you call me sweetie.
@wyomama0427, but sweetie is better than shit right? You caught the sarcasm in sweetie, strange you didn't see I was wronged when @Souptin posted the gif!
For fucks sake dude I just agreed to move on and you just gotta poke a stick at the badger. Call me a shit, at least you're not being fake and condescending like you are when you call me sweetie.
I am sorry I am not you! And stop swearing! I know when I am right and I know when I am wrong, and I am mature enough to apologise when I make a mistake! I think you should read my comment once again and tell if what @Souptin posted was rude or not, don't dodge the subject! I am a mother of a 3 year old and will not take bullying or any mean girl attitude! You started it so you better end it!
Okay for real @ShreyaR there was no need to respond on the weight gain thread. Mrs Tacos very nicely requested that we let that thread die, for good reason! Which is why I'm doing this here. Also, soup tin shared a gif expressing frustration about that thread being revived three days later. There were other responses before yours but you decided to take that personally. And the ending was pretty condescending. I'd take your own advice there.
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@wyomama0427, well, I am pretty sure the gif was directed at me! Actually 100% sure, I have as much right as anyone here to share my thoughts, I was not being rude, just replying to a very rude gif! I understand people can get offended with weight gain and I respect that but everyone has their own issues and opinions and is allowed to share it, if you don't like it ignore it, don't just post a rude gif! As per @mrstacos request, I haven't really disrespected that, I just replied to @Souptin! I couldn't just see that gif and ignore it, would you do that? I don't think so! I respect everyone here in this group and wish well for everyone, I expect the same! We are all pregnant women, I don't know why the bitterness?
I'm just gonna leave this here and ask you to think about what you said here and what your actions are saying.
Okay for real @ShreyaR there was no need to respond on the weight gain thread. Mrs Tacos very nicely requested that we let that thread die, for good reason! Which is why I'm doing this here. Also, soup tin shared a gif expressing frustration about that thread being revived three days later. There were other responses before yours but you decided to take that personally. And the ending was pretty condescending. I'd take your own advice there.
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@wyomama0427, well, I am pretty sure the gif was directed at me! Actually 100% sure, I have as much right as anyone here to share my thoughts, I was not being rude, just replying to a very rude gif! I understand people can get offended with weight gain and I respect that but everyone has their own issues and opinions and is allowed to share it, if you don't like it ignore it, don't just post a rude gif! As per @mrstacos request, I haven't really disrespected that, I just replied to @Souptin! I couldn't just see that gif and ignore it, would you do that? I don't think so! I respect everyone here in this group and wish well for everyone, I expect the same! We are all pregnant women, I don't know why the bitterness?
I'm just gonna leave this here and ask you to think about what you said here and what your actions are saying.
@Becky012016, thank you for pointing it out. Yes, best thing is to ignore what you don't like, instead of posting sth rude to aggravate the situation! That's what I meant. You don't expect me to ignore someone if they're rude to me, do you?
I am sorry to all the other ladies if i am annoying you lot by commenting again and again about the same matter, but if someone addresses something to me, I am obliged to reply. But I guess healthy/normal conversation as such, between @Becky012016 and myself should not really bother anyone. Please go on with your weekly randoms.
we can survive a political conversation in UO but god forbid someone posted a gif that was sarcastic?
@cmar1006 i dont know if you saw your messages, but is your family back home ok from that storm last week? I hope so! my family is ok, but the tornadoes that did crazy damage were right down the street from em. super crazy!
Ok let me break the ice, my weekly random is, I am waiting for an ultrasound to find out if my cervix is abnormally short as suspected by my OB/GYN or if it's a normal length! And I am hoping and praying it's a normal length or else I will have a whole lot of deadly complications to deal with! But my bet is on a normal length because I had no issues with my cervix when I was pregnant with my DS!
@ShreyaR actually you aren't obliged or obligated to respond. I held back from responding on your last bullshit comment that you posted the same time I posted the comment about moving on. You were extremely rude to me and guess what, I didn't respond. It's still taking everything I have not to respond to that whole mess. I'm sure you can do the same. When someone asks you to drop shit and move on... you should. You can't say "okay this ends here" and keep doing the same thing. Hello pot, meet kettle.
Off topic from the current discussion and I already posted this in the sex thread but I had my elective ultrasound today and it's a BOY!!! We are so excited!!!
Are you asking for a pity party to excuse your posts?..
We all want healthy pregnancies for each other, but post your concerns in a manner that would be well-received. Because I just want to roll my eyes instead of giving you support.
Me: 27 years old DH: 27 years old Type 1 Diabetes since 2001, MTHFR hetero A1298T Dogs: Raider 4 yrs, Dex 4 yrs
Married in July 2014
TTC #1 since late Feb 2016
BFP #1 3/29/16 MMC: 5/5/16 BFP #2 7/6/16 SCH, D&C 8/4/16 BFP #3 12/26/16 EDD: 9/6/17 My Chart / My Diabetes/Pregnancy Blog My Type 1/TTC/Pregnancy Podcast: Juicebox Podcast Episode 118 A1Cs: 1/12/16 6.7% 5/25/16 6.0% 11/2/16 6.1% 3/22/16 5.8% 4/27/17 5.4% 6/13/17 5.3% "Sugar Fancy Tutu"
Off topic from the current discussion and I already posted this in the sex thread but I had my elective ultrasound today and it's a BOY!!! We are so excited!!!
THAS WHAT I WAS GONNA GUESS! I was gonna comment on your cute IG photo (:
Off topic from the current discussion and I already posted this in the sex thread but I had my elective ultrasound today and it's a BOY!!! We are so excited!!!
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! Tell me about the elective ultrasound!
Me: 27 years old DH: 27 years old Type 1 Diabetes since 2001, MTHFR hetero A1298T Dogs: Raider 4 yrs, Dex 4 yrs
Married in July 2014
TTC #1 since late Feb 2016
BFP #1 3/29/16 MMC: 5/5/16 BFP #2 7/6/16 SCH, D&C 8/4/16 BFP #3 12/26/16 EDD: 9/6/17 My Chart / My Diabetes/Pregnancy Blog My Type 1/TTC/Pregnancy Podcast: Juicebox Podcast Episode 118 A1Cs: 1/12/16 6.7% 5/25/16 6.0% 11/2/16 6.1% 3/22/16 5.8% 4/27/17 5.4% 6/13/17 5.3% "Sugar Fancy Tutu"
Off topic from the current discussion and I already posted this in the sex thread but I had my elective ultrasound today and it's a BOY!!! We are so excited!!!
Are you asking for a pity party to excuse your posts?..
We all want healthy pregnancies for each other, but post your concerns in a manner that would be well-received. Because I just want to roll my eyes instead of giving you support.
Woah!!! Now that's a new low!!! Well done @Sugargirl1019, I wasn't asking for your support, I was trying to break the awkward ice and actually and genuinely move on! Pity party, My God!
Okay for real @ShreyaR there was no need to respond on the weight gain thread. Mrs Tacos very nicely requested that we let that thread die, for good reason! Which is why I'm doing this here. Also, soup tin shared a gif expressing frustration about that thread being revived three days later. There were other responses before yours but you decided to take that personally. And the ending was pretty condescending. I'd take your own advice there.
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@wyomama0427, well, I am pretty sure the gif was directed at me! Actually 100% sure, I have as much right as anyone here to share my thoughts, I was not being rude, just replying to a very rude gif! I understand people can get offended with weight gain and I respect that but everyone has their own issues and opinions and is allowed to share it, if you don't like it ignore it, don't just post a rude gif! As per @mrstacos request, I haven't really disrespected that, I just replied to @Souptin! I couldn't just see that gif and ignore it, would you do that? I don't think so! I respect everyone here in this group and wish well for everyone, I expect the same! We are all pregnant women, I don't know why the bitterness?
I'm just gonna leave this here and ask you to think about what you said here and what your actions are saying.
@Becky012016, thank you for pointing it out. Yes, best thing is to ignore what you don't like, instead of posting sth rude to aggravate the situation! That's what I meant. You don't expect me to ignore someone if they're rude to me, do you?
I am sorry to all the other ladies if i am annoying you lot by commenting again and again about the same matter, but if someone addresses something to me, I am obliged to reply. But I guess healthy/normal conversation as such, between @Becky012016 and myself should not really bother anyone. Please go on with your weekly randoms.
Again, I ask you to reflect on how you're telling others to behave and how you're behaving yourself. We don't need a response; self talk and internal reflection will suffice.
@ShreyaR actually you aren't obliged or obligated to respond. I held back from responding on your last bullshit comment that you posted the same time I posted the comment about moving on. You were extremely rude to me and guess what, I didn't respond. It's still taking everything I have not to respond to that whole mess. I'm sure you can do the same. When someone asks you to drop shit and move on... you should. You can't say "okay this ends here" and keep doing the same thing. Hello pot, meet kettle.
I actually genuinely meant this ends here! That's why I even posted my situation to break the ice, just because I didn't say move on you took it the wrong way. And I only posted again because someone tagged me, don't you see that?
@cmar1006 i dont know if you saw your messages, but is your family back home ok from that storm last week? I hope so! my family is ok, but the tornadoes that did crazy damage were right down the street from em. super crazy!
I didn't see the message, but yes! Everyone is safe. It was a crazy storm and the church that got destroyed was one that quite a few friends attend. Fortunately they are all good though. Glad your family is safe too!
Are you asking for a pity party to excuse your posts?..
We all want healthy pregnancies for each other, but post your concerns in a manner that would be well-received. Because I just want to roll my eyes instead of giving you support.
when i read her post i was so confused on where it came from and why after all that i should care because i kinda don't want to be supportive...
@Sugargirl1019 It was amazing!!! It was me, SO, his mom and my daughter. We were in a huge comfy room with a big couch and they projected the ultrasound onto the wall! She switched back and forth between 2D and 3D. Baby boy was moving around and kicking up a storm. I cried and cried and cried. It was an amazing experience and I'm so happy we did it. Just hoping everything goes well with the anatomy scan tomorrow but we are hopeful because my quad screening came back good!
@Sugargirl1019 my doc told me to take regular zyrtec and try a nasal rinse to help relieve the pressure. my allergies have been crazy!! i hope you feel better. this was me last week before all the rain...
@Sugargirl1019 It was amazing!!! It was me, SO, his mom and my daughter. We were in a huge comfy room with a big couch and they projected the ultrasound onto the wall! She switched back and forth between 2D and 3D. Baby boy was moving around and kicking up a storm. I cried and cried and cried. It was an amazing experience and I'm so happy we did it. Just hoping everything goes well with the anatomy scan tomorrow but we are hopeful because my quad screening came back good!
And I'm sure THAT is the experience SO's mother was looking for. And now you can focus during the A/S without her being in your hair.
Turn on your national news channel of choice... we just launched 50+ missiles at a base in Syria..
Whaaaaat??!
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BBC just reported on that too. The chemical attack earlier this week was horrible.
The missiles were in response to Syrias use of chemical attacks.. yes?
I would imagine so... I just have an antenna... trying to find a reporting station...
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Re: Weekly Randoms 4/3
I am sorry to all the other ladies if i am annoying you lot by commenting again and again about the same matter, but if someone addresses something to me, I am obliged to reply. But I guess healthy/normal conversation as such, between @Becky012016 and myself should not really bother anyone. Please go on with your weekly randoms.
Type 1 Diabetes since 2001, MTHFR hetero A1298T
Dogs: Raider 4 yrs, Dex 4 yrs
BFP #2 7/6/16 SCH, D&C 8/4/16
BFP #3 12/26/16 EDD: 9/6/17
My Chart / My Diabetes/Pregnancy Blog
My Type 1/TTC/Pregnancy Podcast:
Juicebox Podcast Episode 118
A1Cs:
1/12/16 6.7%
5/25/16 6.0%
11/2/16 6.1%
3/22/16 5.8%
4/27/17 5.4%
6/13/17 5.3%
"Sugar Fancy Tutu"
@cmar1006 i dont know if you saw your messages, but is your family back home ok from that storm last week? I hope so! my family is ok, but the tornadoes that did crazy damage were right down the street from em. super crazy!
We all want healthy pregnancies for each other, but post your concerns in a manner that would be well-received. Because I just want to roll my eyes instead of giving you support.
Type 1 Diabetes since 2001, MTHFR hetero A1298T
Dogs: Raider 4 yrs, Dex 4 yrs
BFP #2 7/6/16 SCH, D&C 8/4/16
BFP #3 12/26/16 EDD: 9/6/17
My Chart / My Diabetes/Pregnancy Blog
My Type 1/TTC/Pregnancy Podcast:
Juicebox Podcast Episode 118
A1Cs:
1/12/16 6.7%
5/25/16 6.0%
11/2/16 6.1%
3/22/16 5.8%
4/27/17 5.4%
6/13/17 5.3%
"Sugar Fancy Tutu"
Type 1 Diabetes since 2001, MTHFR hetero A1298T
Dogs: Raider 4 yrs, Dex 4 yrs
BFP #2 7/6/16 SCH, D&C 8/4/16
BFP #3 12/26/16 EDD: 9/6/17
My Chart / My Diabetes/Pregnancy Blog
My Type 1/TTC/Pregnancy Podcast:
Juicebox Podcast Episode 118
A1Cs:
1/12/16 6.7%
5/25/16 6.0%
11/2/16 6.1%
3/22/16 5.8%
4/27/17 5.4%
6/13/17 5.3%
"Sugar Fancy Tutu"
I have the worst sinus headache today! Boo allergies.. it's really making my day a struggle.
Type 1 Diabetes since 2001, MTHFR hetero A1298T
Dogs: Raider 4 yrs, Dex 4 yrs
BFP #2 7/6/16 SCH, D&C 8/4/16
BFP #3 12/26/16 EDD: 9/6/17
My Chart / My Diabetes/Pregnancy Blog
My Type 1/TTC/Pregnancy Podcast:
Juicebox Podcast Episode 118
A1Cs:
1/12/16 6.7%
5/25/16 6.0%
11/2/16 6.1%
3/22/16 5.8%
4/27/17 5.4%
6/13/17 5.3%
"Sugar Fancy Tutu"
my doc told me to take regular zyrtec and try a nasal rinse to help relieve the pressure. my allergies have been crazy!! i hope you feel better. this was me last week before all the rain...
@labby18 Thanks! I took a hot shower and even gave in to some Tylenol/phenylephrine because my head is just throbbing! No help though
Type 1 Diabetes since 2001, MTHFR hetero A1298T
Dogs: Raider 4 yrs, Dex 4 yrs
BFP #2 7/6/16 SCH, D&C 8/4/16
BFP #3 12/26/16 EDD: 9/6/17
My Chart / My Diabetes/Pregnancy Blog
My Type 1/TTC/Pregnancy Podcast:
Juicebox Podcast Episode 118
A1Cs:
1/12/16 6.7%
5/25/16 6.0%
11/2/16 6.1%
3/22/16 5.8%
4/27/17 5.4%
6/13/17 5.3%
"Sugar Fancy Tutu"
And I'm sure THAT is the experience SO's mother was looking for. And now you can focus during the A/S without her being in your hair.
Type 1 Diabetes since 2001, MTHFR hetero A1298T
Dogs: Raider 4 yrs, Dex 4 yrs
BFP #2 7/6/16 SCH, D&C 8/4/16
BFP #3 12/26/16 EDD: 9/6/17
My Chart / My Diabetes/Pregnancy Blog
My Type 1/TTC/Pregnancy Podcast:
Juicebox Podcast Episode 118
A1Cs:
1/12/16 6.7%
5/25/16 6.0%
11/2/16 6.1%
3/22/16 5.8%
4/27/17 5.4%
6/13/17 5.3%
"Sugar Fancy Tutu"
<><><><><>Angel Baby- June 2012<><><><><>
<><><><><>DD2- March 2013<><><><><>
<><><><><>DS1- ETA September 2017<><><><><>
Type 1 Diabetes since 2001, MTHFR hetero A1298T
Dogs: Raider 4 yrs, Dex 4 yrs
BFP #2 7/6/16 SCH, D&C 8/4/16
BFP #3 12/26/16 EDD: 9/6/17
My Chart / My Diabetes/Pregnancy Blog
My Type 1/TTC/Pregnancy Podcast:
Juicebox Podcast Episode 118
A1Cs:
1/12/16 6.7%
5/25/16 6.0%
11/2/16 6.1%
3/22/16 5.8%
4/27/17 5.4%
6/13/17 5.3%
"Sugar Fancy Tutu"
<><><><><>Angel Baby- June 2012<><><><><>
<><><><><>DD2- March 2013<><><><><>
<><><><><>DS1- ETA September 2017<><><><><>