@labby18 I'm glad you get a day to rest, I've missed you around here!
Also, I have no idea exactly who @ShreyaR was talking to, but someone needs to put their unnecessary, ill-aimed snark away. And maybe work on her reading comprehension, because I don't think anyone said anything to or against her. It's a thread that could be triggering and hurtful to a lot of people, asking to let it die wasn't an extreme request, and nothing personal against anyone at all.
@HollyGolightly09 no no not satellite. internet. internet. and apparently AT&T's main box for like our block is in my yard...ugh yes it's in my yard and I'm so upset about it. and @mrs_tacos i miss youuu!
@HollyGolightly09 no no not satellite. internet. internet. and apparently AT&T's main box for like our block is in my yard...ugh yes it's in my yard and I'm so upset about it. and @mrs_tacos i miss youuu!
How in the world did I think that said satellite? That sucks, though...
@mrs_tacos she was talking to @souptin, even quoted her and called her sweetie. Which is funny cause I'm pretty sure if souptin was calling her out, she has the balls to tag her. From what I saw it was a general gif because nobody was letting that stupid thread die! And it needed to die. Lol. Which is why I brought it over here, no need to keep commenting on that one.
Pretty random here, but I think I may need to go up another bra size because my boobs were jumping around all day today when I walked. I felt like I needed to hold them down with my arms crossed when walking around people.
welp, filed a formal complaint against the service technician who dug up my yard. I walked across the street to ask about sod and he got nasty with me and that it isnt his or AT&T's problem and when I asked him his name so I could call AT&T about the issue he said i didnt need to know his name and he was the wrong person to mess with and to go ahead and call the cops...yeah not cool bro. He then followed me half way back to my house yelling at me. Then later when I went to look at the mess he made of my yard after putting just dirt back he came up to me and started yelling and getting nasty again. Yeah, I called and filed a formal complaint with the Office of the President and AT&T has a yard restoration department and they will come back and lay sod tomorrow. How hard would it be for the guy to tell me to just call and ask for that department? No, he took his bad day out on me to the point that I was a little scared.
@labby18 holy shit that's ridiculous! I'm glad you filed a complaint! I'm sure that's not the only one that's been filed on him with that kind of attitude. What a douche canoe. I had to read that to DH and even he can't believe that!!
@labby18 Whaaaat? I'd be tempted to turn him into the police for harassment, as well. Good grief.
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This freaking bird! It flew into my window. So I tried to be a decent human being and gently relocate the bird to a safe place where it wouldn't be bothered or killed. The dang thing attacked me! So I gave it water and I'm leaving it alone. I'm trying to be nice and help this bird. My dh just said to kill it. But it's moving fine and flew at me. So I told him not to kill it keep the animals away from it and let it get over the shock.
@kelseyrayay Birds are so weird. One just like that is hanging out at my parents' house, admiring itself in their car windows all day long. They both have huge trails of bird poop all down their cars right by the windows.
I couldn't believe it was going to attack me after I tried helping it! And I said oh you little shit when it attacked me. There goes my almost 2 year old little sit little sit. I never cuss and the one time I do he repeats it. He never repeats any other words.
@awildrose, @wyomama0427 and @HollyGolightly09 i was going to call the police but i decided against it, by the time they got out here he probably woulda been gone already, but i filed a formal complaint and I'm getting new grass. DH is probably calling back to get all the things free too because i forgot to ask for free stuff bc well i was kinda shaken up.
I don't know where to put this. But this FB status update has me all pissy. No need to compliment yourself and cover it up by telling parents they have a tough job. Just grrrr.
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@awildrose that status rubs me wrong too. Plus basically calling her friends child difficult because of a meltdown? I'd be a bit offended if this was my child she was talking about.
@awildrose You have to love people who equate baby sitting with knowing what it feels like to be a parent. I've worked with kids a lot: I've nannied, taught in both a daycare and an elementary school setting, was the assistant director of a church children's department, have sister-in-laws that I've known since they were 2 and 3 years old, etc. And in no way do I think I know what goes into day to day parenting yet. I might have a slightly better idea than some, but you just can't know until you've been there. Also, what's up with dissing the kid? That's not cool.
@Ae_Lovely321 Yesss! I'd be pissed if it was my kid she was talking about.
@mrs_tacos I agree. There's so much I can sympathize with, but by golly, a glimpse don't not equal a full experience/understanding.
IMO, is she really wanted to encourage/high-five parents she would've said something more like, "Wow. I just got a glimpse into what some parents deal with. Y'all are the real heros. I'm sure you don't hear that enough."
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Okay for real @ShreyaR there was no need to respond on the weight gain thread. Mrs Tacos very nicely requested that we let that thread die, for good reason! Which is why I'm doing this here. Also, soup tin shared a gif expressing frustration about that thread being revived three days later. There were other responses before yours but you decided to take that personally. And the ending was pretty condescending. I'd take your own advice there.
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@wyomama0427, well, I am pretty sure the gif was directed at me! Actually 100% sure, I have as much right as anyone here to share my thoughts, I was not being rude, just replying to a very rude gif! I understand people can get offended with weight gain and I respect that but everyone has their own issues and opinions and is allowed to share it, if you don't like it ignore it, don't just post a rude gif! As per @mrstacos request, I haven't really disrespected that, I just replied to @Souptin! I couldn't just see that gif and ignore it, would you do that? I don't think so! I respect everyone here in this group and wish well for everyone, I expect the same! We are all pregnant women, I don't know why the bitterness?
I agree, I don't believe that gif was meant for you @ShreyaR , just general frustration that the thread had gotten revived. Several people expressed that the thread deeply hurt them and did not want the reminder popping up every day.
Well, I apologise to people who had to look at the thread again but I had no intention to do that, I just had to reply to the rude gif! If you know what I mean!
@labby18 I'm glad you get a day to rest, I've missed you around here!
Also, I have no idea exactly who @ShreyaR was talking to, but someone needs to put their unnecessary, ill-aimed snark away. And maybe work on her reading comprehension, because I don't think anyone said anything to or against her. It's a thread that could be triggering and hurtful to a lot of people, asking to let it die wasn't an extreme request, and nothing personal against anyone at all.
Hello there, I think you should work on your reading comprehension and for once get your eyes checked as well. So you are saying what @Souptin posted was not rude? And not directed to me? lol seriously! And as for the ill-aimed snark, hmmm I see that here more than I see in what I wrote to @Souptin Also, we are all pregnant women here, I don't know why instead of supporting each other and talking about the positives, we have to go through these dramas!!
@mrs_tacos she was talking to @souptin, even quoted her and called her sweetie. Which is funny cause I'm pretty sure if souptin was calling her out, she has the balls to tag her. From what I saw it was a general gif because nobody was letting that stupid thread die! And it needed to die. Lol. Which is why I brought it over here, no need to keep commenting on that one.
Lol lol lol oh was it a general gif? I don't think so, oh well! If it really was, my apologies to @Souptin but sweetie, I really think it was for me, but if you think it was a general gif then it must really be, of course we should never ever comment on such a sensitive issue, best to ignore it!
@ShreyaR I think the whole point is, if you had read the whole thread you would have realized that it was a sensitive subject and was just fine left where it was. It really didn't need anymore comments, although you did have every right to voice your opinion. Unfortunately, like I said, if you had read the entire thread I am sure you would have understood that any comment made would probably not be met with open arms. I'm sorry you feel personally attacked, but I am sure that's not what the intention was at all.
Hopefully you will realize that yes, we are all pregnant women and we are a very supportive group. You just happened to respond to something that was not a very supported subject in this group based on issues that some women may have with weight gain.
Can we just agree that this needs to die so we can all move along as a community of supportive women?
@ShreyaR I think the whole point is, if you had read the whole thread you would have realized that it was a sensitive subject and was just fine left where it was. It really didn't need anymore comments, although you did have every right to voice your opinion. Unfortunately, like I said, if you had read the entire thread I am sure you would have understood that any comment made would probably not be met with open arms. I'm sorry you feel personally attacked, but I am sure that's not what the intention was at all.
Hopefully you will realize that yes, we are all pregnant women and we are a very supportive group. You just happened to respond to something that was not a very supported subject in this group based on issues that some women may have with weight gain.
Can we just agree that this needs to die so we can all move along as a community of supportive women?
I read the entire thread, I did, but I don't see the need to post random silly gifs to a fellow pregnant woman, weight issues are very sensitive, I know that but I wish people would behave in a mature way, if you want the thread to die down why not in a good way? I respect your kind of approach! Proper explanation, no need to aggravate the situation by being mean! We are not bunch of mean girls. The person who posted was a new bumpie and probably had no idea that the weight gain issue was a sensitive one, heck I didn't know it was such a sensitive issue, from where I come, UK, we talk about it, and we even say pregnancy is one time where you gain weight guilt-free! Of course it should be in a healthy way!! I know it might sound silly but I was worrying because I lost so much weight during the first trimester and was super worried, so weight gain issues can go both ways, either you are worried because you gain too much or you are worried because you lose too much! So I just put my input in and if people wanted the thread to die down, should have just ignored me! But of course, it's in human nature to react so right after my comment @Souptin and @mrstacos reacted too, I don't see anyone blaming them! I am willing to back down if they do as well! And again, apologies to everyone else who isn't involved in this small matter! And @cmar1006, thank you for talking sensibly. We need more people like you in our group!
@cmar1006 out of respect for your request, I won't respond to the crap going on, and agree to move on. But just because I enjoy and respect you very much. (Edited for clarity)
But @ShreyaR I do request that you kindly knock off the sarcastic sweetie shit.
@ShreyaR the op was not a newbie and ended up being quite rude. It is a wonder to me that you've been around since 2013 and aren't used to the general snark of the Bump. Even after all she's been through, it still exists here.
@wyomama0427, but sweetie is better than shit right? You caught the sarcasm in sweetie, strange you didn't see I was wronged when @Souptin posted the gif!
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Also, I have no idea exactly who @ShreyaR was talking to, but someone needs to put their unnecessary, ill-aimed snark away. And maybe work on her reading comprehension, because I don't think anyone said anything to or against her. It's a thread that could be triggering and hurtful to a lot of people, asking to let it die wasn't an extreme request, and nothing personal against anyone at all.
no no not satellite. internet. internet. and apparently AT&T's main box for like our block is in my yard...ugh yes it's in my yard and I'm so upset about it. and @mrs_tacos i miss youuu!
thank ya! and yes, i am fuming about it. ps check yo messages.
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i was going to call the police but i decided against it, by the time they got out here he probably woulda been gone already, but i filed a formal complaint and I'm getting new grass. DH is probably calling back to get all the things free too because i forgot to ask for free stuff bc well i was kinda shaken up.
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@mrs_tacos I agree. There's so much I can sympathize with, but by golly, a glimpse don't not equal a full experience/understanding.
IMO, is she really wanted to encourage/high-five parents she would've said something more like, "Wow. I just got a glimpse into what some parents deal with. Y'all are the real heros. I'm sure you don't hear that enough."
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As per @mrstacos request, I haven't really disrespected that, I just replied to @Souptin! I couldn't just see that gif and ignore it, would you do that? I don't think so!
I respect everyone here in this group and wish well for everyone, I expect the same! We are all pregnant women, I don't know why the bitterness?
Also, we are all pregnant women here, I don't know why instead of supporting each other and talking about the positives, we have to go through these dramas!!
Lol lol lol oh was it a general gif? I don't think so, oh well! If it really was, my apologies to @Souptin but sweetie, I really think it was for me, but if you think it was a general gif then it must really be, of course we should never ever comment on such a sensitive issue, best to ignore it!
Hopefully you will realize that yes, we are all pregnant women and we are a very supportive group. You just happened to respond to something that was not a very supported subject in this group based on issues that some women may have with weight gain.
Can we just agree that this needs to die so we can all move along as a community of supportive women?
And again, apologies to everyone else who isn't involved in this small matter!
And @cmar1006, thank you for talking sensibly. We need more people like you in our group!
But @ShreyaR I do request that you kindly knock off the sarcastic sweetie shit.