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FFFC 2.3.17

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Re: FFFC 2.3.17

  • antoto said:
    I am sure some of those women may have had jobs that were more demanding than some teaching positions are, but to completely disrespect an entire profession that is so important to our society - a profession that they relied on to get their far superior jobs - is just messed up.
    So much Bump love from a teacher <3
    (I will admit that I had dreams of being able to get pregnant over the summer so I wouldn't have to miss any of the school year, but then reality hammer helped me out on that one reeeeal fast.)
    Me: 35 DH: 28
    TTC since June 2016

    Azoospermia diagnosis (zero count) Dec 2016

    AZFc chromosome microdeletion discovery March 2017
    Unsuccessful TESE for DH in August 2017
    October 2017 IVF with donor sperm
    29R, 24M, 16F, 2d5, 4d6 (6 embryos total)
    Only 3 could have PGS. 2/3 normal. 5 embies frozen
    12/15/17 FET #1 (1 embryo)--CP
    2/7/17 FET #2 (2 embryos)--BFN
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    ERA Sept 2018--borderline receptive--12 more hours of progesterone
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    Our journey has come to an end.
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  • I always hear about the mass exodus and the ds, but what exactly happened? This is he first I've heard of the 24 hours of silence. And what was the timeline? And we used to have mods? 
    It's a very long story, one that will get deleted without cause if I go into it (surprise surprise) but yes, every forum would be moderated by an actual member mod. Some of them would mod a board for years and years. I forget how they were selected but they were often very revered by their peers.

    There was management change over at the XO group that owns the site and they basically wanted the culture of the board to change and be friendlier like baby center. So the mods got the shaft. They didn't go with a fight though.
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  • kmcc14 said:
    antoto said:
    lulu1180 said:
    @adirat @antoto Here is the thread.  I didn't read through the entire thing but did read most of it
    https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12537610/teachers-ttc

    ETA sorry couldn't resist the possibility of drama lol
    Interesting.  Some of the comments of people who were later banned have disappeared.  It's fun seeing @missteacherlady16 @brela11 and @PrimRoseMama commenting/lovetitting that thread <3

    That thread made me all nostalgic. Miss BlueWaffleSpeshul.
    Me too! I think she may be on FB..
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    Me: 28 | DH: 29
    DD: 10/17/13
    TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
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  • Second FFFC of the day: I have this morbid curiosity about family drama. I don't mean abusive situations or anything that severe. Just over-bearing parents, snippy siblings, ect. I don't wish these things on anyone but I'm drawn to these types of posts. I go looking for them even. A co-worker was telling another some family drama the other day that was just out of earshot and it was killing me not being able to hear. But I had a lot of work to do so I heard nothing. 

    I like me some good juicy gossip. I don't spread it but man do I love hearing it.

    I hope this doesn't make me a bad person :X
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    Married 9/27/2014
    TTC Since 1/1/2017
    BFP: 2/6/2017
    Due Date: 10/13/17
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  • feeislove said:
    Second FFFC of the day: I have this morbid curiosity about family drama. I don't mean abusive situations or anything that severe. Just over-bearing parents, snippy siblings, ect. I don't wish these things on anyone but I'm drawn to these types of posts. I go looking for them even. A co-worker was telling another some family drama the other day that was just out of earshot and it was killing me not being able to hear. But I had a lot of work to do so I heard nothing. 

    I like me some good juicy gossip. I don't spread it but man do I love hearing it.

    I hope this doesn't make me a bad person :X
    Oh man, family drama is the best. 
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    DD: 10/17/13
    TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
    Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)

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  • So after my long cycle and horrible cd1 I take a few days off and apparently it hit the fan around here. Dang this is what I get for not stalking.  Lady Voldermont is the best.  Also. I lurk too much I will try to be more active 
  • @feeislove you would love my family, then! Nothing happens in our family without a ridiculous amount of drama to go with it.
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    Married: 6/2016
    TTC #1: 12/2016
    Benched due to deployment- Off the bench 8/8/17!


  • @jsnakehole I'm sorry there's drama in your family. BUT if you EVER need to vent I'm all ears
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  • feeislove said:
    @jsnakehole I'm sorry there's drama in your family. BUT if you EVER need to vent I'm all ears
    It's okay, it's just a byproduct of having a large, opinionated, loud Jewish family. It's more entertaining (in a 'Real Housewives'/table-flipping kind of way) than anything.
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  • @eggplantface If he's your older brother, why is he the baby???
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  • feeislove said:
    @eggplantface If he's your older brother, why is he the baby???
    I'm guessing because he was first born? He's definitely her favorite. 
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  • dragonfly87-2dragonfly87-2 member
    edited February 2017
    Dang, I really need to stalk more of the non-WTO and TWW threads.

    FFFC: I am still confused...who is Lady Voldermot? I must have missed a thread or post. Or can someone link the thread that caused this all?
  • @dragonfly87 It's my fault - In my FFFC I referenced the person who sullied the first grad thread that was created for the week of 1/30.  :#
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    Married: October 2009
    TTC#1: August 2016
    BFP: 3/1/17  EDD: 11/9/17
    DD Born 10/20/17


  • @JulesDP: So is Lady Voldermort the poster who had been trying for 2 months and just joined a few weeks ago? Then never apologized for her rude responses on this board?
  • @JulesDP: So is Lady Voldermort the poster who had been trying for 2 months and just joined a few weeks ago? Then never apologized for her rude responses on this board?
    Yep
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  • heatherdubrow and JulesDP Ahhhh....got it. Thanks for the clarification. I was a little slow there for a moment. The comment about a phd earlier in the thread threw me off. 
  • dragonfly87-2dragonfly87-2 member
    edited February 2017
    I will try to type this nicely and I wish a H&H 9 months...but is anyone side eyeing the recent TTGP post from a newbie who started posting on this board on January 25?!?!?

    ETA: But, also feel free to flame for this post.


  • @dragonfly87 that was my rant in WTO...
  • @heatherdubrow: Dang it, I missed it. Now I have to go back to WTO. I am really slow today....
  • @heatherdubrow  @dragonfly87. Meh, doesn't bother me.  She was nice enough, I recognize her that she must have been an active-enough poster, cos I know I can be pretty sporadic w ttgp myself these days.  It might have been her first cycle on the board, but she wasn't a 1/1 or 2/2 either, so imho it's nbd.  We just don't know her that well cos how well can you get to know someone in 1 cycle?

    Totes not her fault all our super-fertile pixie-dust rubbed off on her immediately!!! ;)  but she's definitely not a driveby (or an a-hole! Lol) so I personally think it's acceptable.  But just one bumpie's opinion. :)
  • @BusinessWife I agree, which is why I was aware it was my own issue not hers. She was super sweet and supportive while she was here, it just stung me a little bit because of the day I was having. 
    I wouldn't have called her out or anything, just had a hard time with it.
  • I must have missed where someone called her an a-hole
  • @BusinessWife that's fair I didn't see her much since she was in TWW while I was in WTO. I am not mad at her by any means, just tough some days with the TTGP thread. 
  • @heatherdubrow I don't think @BusinessWife was saying that anyone called her an a-hole just comparing her to people in the past that have posted there that were a-holes


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  • <blockquote class="Quote">
    <div class="QuoteAuthor"><a href="/profile/lulu1180">lulu1180</a> said:</div>
    <div class="QuoteText">@heatherdubrow I don't think @BusinessWife was saying that anyone called her an a-hole just comparing her to people in the past that have posted there that were a-holes</div>
    </blockquote>
    ^^^This.  Not naming names, obv. ;)
  • lulu1180 said:
    @heatherdubrow I don't think @BusinessWife was saying that anyone called her an a-hole just comparing her to people in the past that have posted there that were a-holes
    Ah, ok. I thought I really missed something!
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