January TWW

rainafire77 · January 2017

@Taggarab That's hard. My fiance was so ready for us TTC right after we were cleared to "resume relations" and I wasn't. Now that I am, he's lukewarm about it because, while he wants us to try, he doesn't want me to go back to that severe depressed place again. I'm 39 and he's 41. If after 6 months nothing I'm going to want to go in for testing and I don't know what he'll say about that.

I'm 11dpo today & still BFN. But I'm not cramping like I usually do at this part of my cycle so maybe it's still just too early for Wondfo? Our timing was perfect this month. We'll see. I'm surprisingly calm about it honestly.

heatherlynn321 · January 2017

I think I'm out. : /
My BBT has dropped 2 days in a row now. Hopefully the progesterone that they want me to start taking will help next month.

nalex420 · January 2017

Reading all of your stories is making me anxious...I'm testing tomorrow morning and I am going symptom spotting crazy....trying to stay calm...the next 22 hours better hurry up

Taggarab · January 2017

@rainafire77 Sorry you are dealing with some uncertainty too. I'm sure it's a different type of hard for our guys to watch us go through this. I just wish Hs solution wasn't for us to just stop trying and him get snipped.

babypi · January 2017

I think I'm out too, looks like I'm just waiting for AF. Tested today at 14 dpo, still no sign of AF, but definite BFN. I usually have a 13-14 day LP, but I know the first cycle after MC is unpredictable, so who knows when it'll show.

Uhlease13 · January 2017

Has anybody read the blog post women are like spaghetti and men are like waffles? It's been shared in my other group with regard to IF but I don't have the link at the moment. about how usually our partners process this a whole lot different than we do. It's a good read. I'll have to come back and post the link when I can.

Sorry for the bfn @babypi

the temp drop is disheartening @heatherwilson321

fx @nalex420! The SS is real!

sprkls8506 · January 2017

@heatherwilson321

@nalex420 waiting is so hard! Hopefully it flies by for you!

@babypi sorry for the BFN : /

sprkls8506 · January 2017

I am throwing myself into vday while I wait to test. I love decorating. Hate taking down the Xmas stuff and having nothing festive up.

RiverSong15 · January 2017

Sorry for the BFN @babypi and the temp drop @heatherwilson321.

@nalex420 Yes, symptom spotting is so easy and waiting is so hard! GL tomorrow.

@Taggarab I'm so sorry you're on a different page than you H. That sucks. Hugs.

Uhlease13 · January 2017

https://www.google.com/amp/s/waitingforbabybird.com/2016/02/24/men-are-like-waffles/amp/?client=safari

splashmountain · January 2017

@Uhlease13 thank you for sharing that article! I enjoyed it

Mack2342 · January 2017

@Uhlease13 me too. I got a little chuckle as I recognized myself and DH in it

Taggarab · January 2017

Started spotting last night so headed back to WTO. I really hope to see some BFP news from you ladies soon!

Mack2342 · January 2017

@Taggarab. Well that sucks....I think I will be headed that way soon. I'm either 10 or 11DPO and a BFN this morning. Feeling cramps and have been breaking out like crazy so I'm pretty sure AF will be arriving soon

dpjennifer · January 2017

@Uhlease13 Thanks for the article share!

nalex420 · January 2017

Bfn this morning...kinda disappointed....will test again soon if AF does not show up...fx for the rest of you ladies

migdala · January 2017

12DPO and BFN. I can feel AF about to start. I went in for my ultrasound and the tech told me everything looked normal, but I haven't gotten a call from the reviewing doctor yet. I guess all there is to do now is wait for our RE appointment on the 17th. I can't believe we struck out again this month... I never thought this would happen to us, which is just so naive.

SP128 · January 2017

I'm ready for some cheer for this new year. Sorry for the bfn. Hoping it's just too early

got cross hairs this morning. 3dpo over here. Timing was not bad. -5, -3, -1, o and 1. Always feel guilty when there are holes in bd days. Let's the swimmers build up again Is how I make myself feel better.

RiverSong15 · January 2017

Sorry for CD1 @Taggarab. Sorry for the BFNs @Mack2342, @migdala, and @nalex420. I'm right there with you. 10DPO and BFN this morning. We had such great timing and I was so optimistic this cycle. Hope sucks.

@SP128 GL this TWW. For what it's worth, I got pregnant the first two times on -1 and -3. ED timing isn't a requirement. So don't feel guilty!

SP128 · January 2017

@Uhlease13 good article. Thanks for sharing

rainafire77 · January 2017

Well I'm holding off testing more until Sunday which is predicting CD1. Plus I have to get up at 530 AM and even doing something as simple as doing a HPT without first having my coffee is next to impossible at that hour! Lol I'm not cramping or breaking out like crazy which I usually do at this point in my cycle so I'm not giving up hope until AF arrives.

RiverSong15 · January 2017

GL @rainafire77. I hope the lack of symptoms turns into a BFP!

SP128 · January 2017

@rainafire77 Fx it's a positive sign.

Mack2342 · January 2017

@rainafire77. I hope it's a good sign.

babypi · January 2017

So I'm hanging out at 15 dpo still waiting for AF. Have any of you experienced an extra long LP after MC? Or has anyone ovulated twice in the first cycle? I've started to get darkening lines on OPKs again. I wouldn't be surprised if I'm gearing up to ovulate again (or for the first time if the LH surge didn't actually release an egg).

laeberge3 · January 2017

@babypi Were you tracking O by temping or just CM/OPKs? It's possible you didn't O the last time and had a false surge and are gearing up again.

Sorry for the all the BFNs, ladies.

babypi · January 2017

@laeberge3 I was tracking temps, CM, and OPKs. If it matters I had some light spotting for two days after O. I'm wondering if my body tried to O but it didn't quite work so soon after MC.

RiverSong15 · January 2017

@babypi Can you upload a picture of your chart? I'd be happy to take a look at it.

babypi · January 2017

RiverSong15 · January 2017

@babypi Hmm.... As it is, I agree with FF. How long are your LPs normally? They can vary by a day either direction. So, if your LP is usually 14 days, a 15 day LO occasionally can happens

Other than that, your post O temps seem lowish. Are your LP temps usually below 98? If you take out the low temp on CD18 (since it's an open circle, it's less reliable), does FF move your cross hairs?

babypi · January 2017

@RiverSong15 My LP is usually 13-14 days. This is my first month temping so I'm not sure what my normal LP temps are, but I know that I've always been in the 97.6 range when I temp during the day for other things. I'm usually only over 98 when I have a fever.

If I take out the low day FF moves my O day from cd18 to cd22. My only concern with that is that OPKs showed a positive on the morning of cd 18, and it was lighter the next day so I stopped OPKs for a while. I was trying to be sneaky at my in-laws

SP128 · January 2017

@RiverSong15 even though I got crosshairs this morning my temp is still below 98. Never considered the amount or rise. For now I'll just cross my fingers and try not to obsess

RiverSong15 · January 2017

@SP128 Everybody is different, but TCOYF says that gnerally, pre-O temps are below 97.5 and post-O are above 97.5, reaching 98-ish. FF's stats of user data found that the average post-O temp is around 98 to 98.1. Some people just run colder or hotter than that though, and while it can vary, your post-O temps are usually consistent-ish. For example, I start out with 2-4 temps barely above cover line, and then get up to 98 to 98.2 in the LP generally. Not always, but usually. 97.6 would be low for me post-O. But if @babypi runs colder, it could be completely normal for her. Especially right after a MC, anything goes, unfortunately. Some condition, like hypothyroidism and hyperthyroidism can affect temps, but it's not diagnostic.

ETA: it's the rise that matters more than absolute temps. You want the third temp to reach at least three tenths above CL before being sure of O, which babypi's first chart does. That agrees with CM and OPK, so for now, I'm inclined to think she'll either get AF or a BFP in the next day or two.

babypi · January 2017

Thanks for the insight @RiverSong15. It's helpful to have a second opinion.

SP128 · January 2017

@RiverSong15 thanks. Very informative !! This is my second cycle after mc so who the f knows if I run hot/cold. I'm 4 tenths above coverline on 3 dpo.

heatherlynn321 · January 2017

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I just took a first response test and got a VERY faint second line. It's day 23 of my cycle. I'm really nervous, I want to let myself get excited, but after the 2 miscarriages, I'm just so worried already. I'm going to take another test in the morning, I'm hoping the line gets a little darker. That was a big thing with my second miscarriage is that the line never got darker. My temps haven't looked great this time, and that makes me really nervous too.

Hopefulmommy1980 · January 2017

@heatherwilson321 fingers crossed

splashmountain · January 2017

@heatherwilson321 yay! Sending good vibes your way!!

babypi · January 2017

FX for darkening lines @heatherwilson321!

MimoCa · January 2017

@heatherwilson321 FX for darkening lines! I'm rooting for you hard!

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