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***January TWW***

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    @heatherwilson321 FX positive thoughts
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    GL @heatherwilson321  Fxed for you : )
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
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    edited January 2017
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    The line looks lighter this morning if that's even possible from how faint the first test was. I wish it was Monday already so I could get blood work done. These lighter and lighter pregnancy tests are how my last miscarriage started.
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    @heatherwilson321 sorry ur going through the confusion good luck..
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    edited January 2017
    @heatherwilson321 sorry it is so confusing. 

    Dpo 9 trying not to symptom spot. Waiting to test. FF said I ovulated early so It will be a long wait to see if af  shows up. 

    Also have been super stressed this week major changes at work. Got offered a promotion at work for a position I was torn about taking. And they gave me a day to decided. So after a stressful night I decided to take it. So I feel excited and nervous. 

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    @Hopefulmommy1980 Congratulations on the promotion!
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    @heatherwilson321 sorry for the confusion :/ you said cycle day 23 (now 24 I guess) so about how many dpo?

    @Hopefulmommy1980 congrats on the promotion! Fx for you! It's hard not to symptom spot! 

    I'm 8dpo, and also system spotting haha. AF is not due for another week and I know I can't hold off but I dunno when I'll be testing. I've always gotten my bfps at 10dpo so...

    Me.30 DH.31 
    Est.8.2006
    BFP 8/28/15 mmc @ 11 weeks (d&c)
    BFP 9/28/16 mmc @ 8 weeks (d&c) - trisomy 5
    BFP 2/3/17...edd 10/13/17 <3

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    @Uhlease13 I'm either 11 or 9 DPO, I had some weird temps so I'm not entirely positive. 
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    @Uhlease13 I'm either 11 or 9 DPO, I had some weird temps so I'm not entirely positive. 
    Gotcha. Well I am crossing all my fingers and toes for you!

    Me.30 DH.31 
    Est.8.2006
    BFP 8/28/15 mmc @ 11 weeks (d&c)
    BFP 9/28/16 mmc @ 8 weeks (d&c) - trisomy 5
    BFP 2/3/17...edd 10/13/17 <3

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    RiverSong15RiverSong15 member
    edited January 2017
    @Hopefulmommy1980 and @Uhlease13 Symptom spotting is so hard to avoid in the TWW. Hopefully it means good things for both of you.

    AFM: 11 DPO and BFN on FRER this morning. I'm pretty bummed. I felt really optimistic this whole cycle. This means we'll probably move on to cycle 3 TTC after our second loss. I know this is totally within the normal range and still early, but the anxious part of my brain can't help but wonder why it happened so quickly the first two times but not now. I know it's stupid and irrational, especially when so many ladies on here are struggling with IF in addition to loss. Hopefully I don't upset anyone by this post. I'm just in a not good place this morning. 
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    @RiverSong15 I'm 14dpo. Until AF arrives, you're not out. Just remember that. ****Hugs****

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    @RiverSong15 hugs, ygpm

    @rainafire77 WOOHOO! best news :) stick baby stick!

    Me.30 DH.31 
    Est.8.2006
    BFP 8/28/15 mmc @ 11 weeks (d&c)
    BFP 9/28/16 mmc @ 8 weeks (d&c) - trisomy 5
    BFP 2/3/17...edd 10/13/17 <3

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    @RiverSong15 You are allowed every single one of your feelings. So many hugs, I hope your day gets better from here. <3

    @rainafire77 Congrats! All the best.
    Renee, 34 + Devon, 29 married 08/13 <3
    TTC  09/15
    *TW Loss mentioned*
    BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
    MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
    TTCAL 3/2016
    Acupuncture 11/16
    Dx December 2016: unexplained 
    January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
    BFP #2 01/30/17  Please be a sticky baby!
    EDD: 10/15/17  Measuring ahead! 10/12/17 
    Ambrose born on his due date!

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    Congrats @rainafire77. My fingers are crossed so hard that this is your sticky bean!!!

    Thanks so much @rainafire77, @Uhlease13, and @reneeannemm. You ladies are wonderful <3.
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    Congrats @rainafire77! Fx for good betas! 

    @RiverSong15. Sorry for the BFN. This whole process just sucks. 

    @heatherwilson321. Sorry for the confusion. Fx that everything turns out well! 
    Me: 35     DH: 37
    BFP: 1.6.16 | MC: 2.17.16
    BFP: 10.3.16 | CP: 10.11.16
    BFP: 12.14.16 | CP: 12.14.16
    BFP:  1.23.17 | EDD 10.6.17 -- DS born 10.7.17 <3
    BFP:  9.9.18 | EDD 5.23.19 -- DD born 5.24.19 <3
    BFP: 9.1.21 | MC 10.1.21
    BFP: 11.11.21 | EDD 7.24.22 

     

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    @riversong15 I am sorry hug. :( 

    Congrats at @rainafire77
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    @RiverSong15 I'm so sorry for the BFN.  This whole process just sucks!!!
    @heatherwilson321  Holy confusion.  Positive vibes your way

    @rainafire77  Big Congrats!!!!

    Just came back from a massage.  Ends up this lady does energy work.  I asked if she does fertility stuff.  Long story short, she said she does not think that there is anything wrong with my physically, just emotionally.  She said to let go of the stress of TTC.   She saw a blue bow.  She had some things dangle over parts of my body and said something about my water.  She said prob not pg this cycle.  

    I'm going to think positive and think that it has not implanted yet :smile:
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
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    @RiverSong15 sorry about the bfn. But don't count yourself out until AF arrives! Stay positive!
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    @rainafire77. Congrats!!   Great news

    @RiverSong15.  Sorry for BFN.  I had one yesterday but still trying not to count myself out.  However not super optimistic at this point.  
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    @heatherwilson321 sorry about the confusion. Sending positive vibes your way.

    @RiverSong15 hugs. I'm sorry for the bfn, but you're not out yet. FX for you!

    @rainafire77 yay!!!! So excited for you!

    @Hopefulmommy1980 and @Uhlease13 symptom spotting is the worst! No matter how much I tell myself I won't do it, I always do! FX it turns I to good news!
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    edited January 2017
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    Just came back from a massage.  Ends up this lady does energy work.  I asked if she does fertility stuff.  Long story short, she said she does not think that there is anything wrong with my physically, just emotionally.  She said to let go of the stress of TTC.   She saw a blue bow.  She had some things dangle over parts of my body and said something about my water.  She said prob not pg this cycle.  

    I'm going to think positive and think that it has not implanted yet :smile:


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    @SP128
    I've never even heard of energy work before, but it sounds interesting. And that blue bow sounds like a good sign :smile:   

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    I'm also counting myself out this cycle. I think some of my symptom spotting will inevitably be AF symptoms. Tested, of course bfn because it's so early, but I just have a feeling af will make her appearance sooner than expected/the spotting after sex and now the pre-af cramps today have me like :disappointed:

    Me.30 DH.31 
    Est.8.2006
    BFP 8/28/15 mmc @ 11 weeks (d&c)
    BFP 9/28/16 mmc @ 8 weeks (d&c) - trisomy 5
    BFP 2/3/17...edd 10/13/17 <3

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    Told SO this morning & while he's happy, he warned me not to get too excited until it's a for sure thing. He said he already knows that it's too late to not be excited but after one chemical and one MMC he's afraid another loss will be devastating for me.

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    @rainafire77 that I believe is the hardest part :confounded:

    Me.30 DH.31 
    Est.8.2006
    BFP 8/28/15 mmc @ 11 weeks (d&c)
    BFP 9/28/16 mmc @ 8 weeks (d&c) - trisomy 5
    BFP 2/3/17...edd 10/13/17 <3

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    I think I'm over here now. I'm not temping and my cycle has been off by a few days here and there, so I'm not positive on O date, but I think probably CD 15. I'm at CD 18 now, and plan on testing next Friday or Saturday. I wasnt really planning on TTC for the next few months, but it turns out that we didn't end up doing anything to prevent it, so we'll see. 
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    @rainafire77 congrats!!

    @Uhlease13 maybe you will be surprised this month  :)

    @SP128 sending positive thoughts ur way!

    @riversong83 sorry for the BFN. Ur not out yet tho! 
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    Congrats @rainafire77 !! That's awesome news! FX for a sticky bean!
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    Congrats @rainafire77

    Im sorry @riversong15 I'm still rooting for you this cycle but understand how you feel. Hugs and fx for you.

    AFM, only about 5 or 6 DPO but I have not been obsessing over it bec my DH was admitted to the hospital today with pancreatitis. I'm very thankful it is not more serious and that he will be fine. But I'm starting to feel less optimistic about 2017 when not even a week in we have an ER visit and hospital stay. It's hard to stay positive when shitty things keep happening. Sorry just had to vent here! 
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    @tscAlei I hope you dh recovers quickly. Maybe this is just a bump in the road and the rest of 2017 will be great
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    @TScalei i hope hes better soon. And as pp said, hopefully it's just a small bump in the road but tge rest of 2017 will be much better!
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    @TScalei oh no! I hope your H recovers soon. Maybe this is just some leftover 2016 bad luck and it will get better here on out! :wink:
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    @TScalei FX for your husband!

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    @TScalei I hope your DH gets better soon! 
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    @TScalei I hope DH recovers soon.  FX it's just a small bump in road and that this becomes your year
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    @TScalei so sorry to hear about dh. Hope he makes a speedy recovery.  

    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
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    @TScalei Oh my, I'm very sorry to hear that. DH had a bout with that before I knew him. Hopefully he's on the mend real soon. In the meantime, take care.
    Renee, 34 + Devon, 29 married 08/13 <3
    TTC  09/15
    *TW Loss mentioned*
    BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
    MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
    TTCAL 3/2016
    Acupuncture 11/16
    Dx December 2016: unexplained 
    January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
    BFP #2 01/30/17  Please be a sticky baby!
    EDD: 10/15/17  Measuring ahead! 10/12/17 
    Ambrose born on his due date!

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