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***January TWW***

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    @TScalei hopefully DH is better soon!
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    Ty @Hopefulmommy1980 @mimoca @pumpkin0913 @rainafire77 @babypi @mack2342 @SP128 @reneeannemm - thank you - you guys are the best. I'm hoping you are all right and it is just a small bump in the road and I know it could have been a lot worse so I'm thankful for that. I know every year has its ups and downs but I'm seriously ready for some ups! Lol
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    @TScalei oh man, totally frustrating to feel like that's the start to 2017, but hoping for a speedy recovery for your DH and better things to come!!

    Me.30 DH.31 
    Est.8.2006
    BFP 8/28/15 mmc @ 11 weeks (d&c)
    BFP 9/28/16 mmc @ 8 weeks (d&c) - trisomy 5
    BFP 2/3/17...edd 10/13/17 <3

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    @TScalei Oh my!  I hope being at the hospital with DH wasn't too tough.  I can't imagine going back to the ER after my loss.  Send healing thoughts for you and DH.
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    RiverSong15RiverSong15 member
    edited January 2017
    @TScalei I'm so sorry to hear about your DH! All the good thoughts headed your way for a speedy recovery. And maybe you're just getting the bad stuff out of the way early for 2017.

    Thanks for the support yesterday everyone. 12DPO and BFN again this morning. I even had a dream last night that I got a BFP, and this morning my chart is looking triphasic. But no luck. AF should be here Tuesday. I know I'm not out yet, but it's getting less likely. My last two pregnancies I had my BFPs by now. GL to everyone else in the TWW.
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    @RiverSong15 sorry for the BFN  :/







    TW

    I have a 6 yr old. I didn't get a BFP until the day after missing AF-even with the early test! 

    I will be testing tomorrow. AF is due Wed  :|

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    @RiverSong15- thank you! I'm sorry for another BFN.
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    @RiverSong15  Sorry for the BFN : (  Not out til AF shows!  Sending positive thoughts your way.
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
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    Sorry about the BFN @RiverSong15 <3

    Hope DH is feeling better @TScalei!!
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

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    Sorry for the bfn @RiverSong15

    fx for testing tomorrow @sprkls8506

    Me.30 DH.31 
    Est.8.2006
    BFP 8/28/15 mmc @ 11 weeks (d&c)
    BFP 9/28/16 mmc @ 8 weeks (d&c) - trisomy 5
    BFP 2/3/17...edd 10/13/17 <3

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    I'm also still waiting for AF. I had another temp rise starting Thursday with darkening OPKs on the days leading up, so FF has moved my crosshairs to Thursday, which will now make me 3 dpo instead of 17. I think my body is struggling to ovulate in this first cycle. Hopefully this surge was effective and I actually ovulated. Either way I'm still hanging out in the TWW. FX to everyone who's getting ready to test soon!
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    @riversong15 sorry for the bfn. Good luck to all the ladies waiting to test and sorry for all the ladies waiting for af
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    Quick question ladies....it took 33 days after mc to get first AF...this is our first cycle trying at 28 day I took a test bfn...as of today still no AF and it is day 32...when do you think I should test again?
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    @nalex420.  My first cycle after MC was 35 days long.  I tested like crazy as cycle used to be 28 days.  Each cycle since has shortened by a day it seems.  I would probably test again in a few days.  
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    @TScalei wishing your husband a quick recovery!
    @RiverSong15 sorry about the bfn :(
    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
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    6 more days until testing...It's driving me crazy. Gah! 
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    well ladies I'm officially out.  good luck to all of you.
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    BFN for me this am. No signs of AF which I usually get before it's due. Who knows tho. 
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    Good luck to everyone still waiting to test  :)
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    I will probably test this weekend. I keep fluctuating between maybe I am and not this is not the month. I hate waiting. This month seems worse. 
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    @Hopefulmommy1980 Good luck if you decide to test. Waiting does suck!
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    @sprkls8506  BFNs blow.  

    @Hopefulmommy1980  I may test either Friday or sometime this weekend as well.  GL.  How many DPO are you?
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
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    Ff said I ovulated on day 11. So I should be dpo 11 today. 
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    So decided to test this morning bfn. I should be dpo 12 cd 23. So unless I ovulated late I am out. 
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    @Hopefulmommy1980 sorry for the bfn :(

    I tested this morning at 11dpo and also bfn...now just WFAF in a couple days. Sigh. 

    Me.30 DH.31 
    Est.8.2006
    BFP 8/28/15 mmc @ 11 weeks (d&c)
    BFP 9/28/16 mmc @ 8 weeks (d&c) - trisomy 5
    BFP 2/3/17...edd 10/13/17 <3

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    @Hopefulmommy1980 & @Uhlease13. Fx it's too early!  Still in the game until af shows. 
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
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    @Hopefulmommy1980 I think you could have ovulated later. When is your usual day? 

    I'm on CD 21 now, but idk how many dpo. Had RLP this morning when I got up out of my chair at breakfast- which was the first symptom I had last time. (I get it ridiculously early!!) 
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    Ugh Im sorry @Uhlease13 and @hopefulmommy1980 - BFNs just suck.
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    So sorry for the BFNs @hopefulmommy1980 and @Uhlease13 :(
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    edited January 2017
    @thefox&amp;thesparrow it is possible I might have ovulated later. This is my first month temping. 

    And thanks everyone for for the support. 
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    Well I'm officially out AF arrived this am as I was POAS. What a waste of good money! 
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    I'm sorry @mack2342 - that happened to me last cycle and it stings even more.
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    @TScalei yes it does.  Like a double slap in the face.  Sorry that happened to you.  Hopefully we will get our rainbow baby soon! 
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    I will tell you guys if you're getting BFNs on Wondfos at 10/11/12 dpo: get a FRER, Clearblue or EPT as a second opinion. In the PGAL thread on my birth month board, everyone is complaining that their pink handled Wondfos are not getting dark. I got a squinter at 14dpo with FMU but later that day got an instantaneous solid line with diluted afternoon on a FRER. This is leading me to believe that if I had tested earlier with FRER I would have gotten my BFP sooner. Also, Wondfos have slowly been getting darker for us but the expensive tests are getting darker quickly with the same samples. Just wanted to put this out there because I know a number of us use Wondfos because they're cheaper but it seems like they're not as sensitive as they used to be.

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    @Hopefulmommy1980 I also think you may have ovulated a little later than FF is guessing. 
    Renee, 34 + Devon, 29 married 08/13 <3
    TTC  09/15
    *TW Loss mentioned*
    BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
    MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
    TTCAL 3/2016
    Acupuncture 11/16
    Dx December 2016: unexplained 
    January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
    BFP #2 01/30/17  Please be a sticky baby!
    EDD: 10/15/17  Measuring ahead! 10/12/17 
    Ambrose born on his due date!

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    Sorry for the bfn/stupid AF @Mack2342
    :(

    @rainafire77 thanks for the info! I usually have the wondfos so this caught my attention since I got a bfn at 11dpo yesterday, but then I realized I bought this brand called clinical guard hpt strips because it popped up on my Amazon and one click boom, I bought em haha. I don't even know how sensitive they are, I should research what I actually bought!! 

    Me.30 DH.31 
    Est.8.2006
    BFP 8/28/15 mmc @ 11 weeks (d&c)
    BFP 9/28/16 mmc @ 8 weeks (d&c) - trisomy 5
    BFP 2/3/17...edd 10/13/17 <3

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    I'm also out. AF arrived this morning. What a crazy cycle! Hopefully next month goes better. 
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    @babypi. Sorry for AF. 
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    @babypi and @Mack2342  stinks all around. **hugs**
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
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    Sorry for all the BFNs. Still BFN for me as well! No signs of AF tho. Ugh!!!

    Even better news. I have to get a mammogram next week if I don't have a positive test by Monday! Ugh!! My mom is going through breast cancer right now and I'm 35. So yay. 
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