@ACharnelle I'm excited about Sherlock too! It's airing at 1 am here. I will have to record it.
I just realized one of my sisters is not around when I land on the east coast. Which means I have to take two hours worth of NYC public transportation (with two transfers and about 20 minutes total of walking) to get to my other sister's place in Jersey. Is that unreasonably ambitious at 14 weeks or will I still be pretty mobile? I plan on traveling pretty light.
If you truly mean 14 weeks, I'm 14 weeks and no less mobile than before I was pregnant!
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Question for STM's. What are the requirements for getting discharged after birth for a hospital and/or a birthing center? I'm hoping to go to a birthing center, but I'm not sure yet. I got surgery once (minor) but all I had to do was go to the bathroom to leave AND THEY NEVER TOLD ME. I laid in bed for three hours having to pee before I finally begged a nurse to let me go to the bathroom, and she said, of course you can, and as long as you do you can leave! I don't want to go through that again.
Hubby and Me Friends since 2008 Started dating: July 1st, 2013 Engaged: July 1st, 2014 Married: July 1st, 2016 R born: July 8th, 2017 N born: June 30th, 2019 Baby #3 Due: July 7th, 2022 (maybe I only ovulate in October XD)
@kerils for my c-sections we had to stay a couple days but my sister in law only had to stay 24 hours after baby was born and I think that is the norm.
Married: 05/26/2012
DS Born Happy and Healthy via C-section: 10/04/2013
Natural M/C: 07/08/2014
DD Born Happy and Healthy via Emergency C-section: 06/30/2015
@kerils Im not sure on vaginal births but for c-sections you have to have a bowel movement before they discharge you. Also they dont like swelling in the legs paired with a fever. That kept me in the hospital for an extra day after BM with my 1st.
@ACharnelle...you can go to abc.com and get to it through the section for The Bachelor. You do games every week and then choose the final 4 and who gets the final rose!
So this past weekend I found baby bargains.com and their book. We Craigslisted and for like 200 I have a dutalier rocker for me, glider for baby, bouncer, high chair, pack and play, and play gym mat. It's kind of addicting... Anyone else with me? Oh and pregnancy brain, I threw dirty clothes in a toliet (empty and clean)....But oh goodness. The nausea stopped but when is this crazy brain umm normal?
Question for STM's. What are the requirements for getting discharged after birth for a hospital and/or a birthing center? I'm hoping to go to a birthing center, but I'm not sure yet. I got surgery once (minor) but all I had to do was go to the bathroom to leave AND THEY NEVER TOLD ME. I laid in bed for three hours having to pee before I finally begged a nurse to let me go to the bathroom, and she said, of course you can, and as long as you do you can leave! I don't want to go through that again.
DD was born on a Sunday morning and they sent me home Monday afternoon. I think most places keep you a standard 2 days but my hospital at the time was super crowded and they needed beds in mother baby unit.
I don't remember there being a certain number of pees for me that were required to be discharged but I know DD needed to show that she was eating every 2-3 hrs and wetting enough diapers before we could leave.
Honestly, I wish I had asked to stay until the following morning. That first night was a doozy and we started off exhausted.
This is Germany, so different situation maybe but just a comment on how you may feel after birth:
A good friend left the hospital after 6 hours because she wanted to be home.
I stayed three nights (LO arrived at 11 pm, so the first night technically didn't count), and felt that was the right length for me. Couldn't imagine leaving sooner than that.
So once again, I think this is all very individual.
That's all I've got...other than the fact that the apartment STILL smells like burning from when my husband tried to burn down the kitchen on NYD.
Married: 10/13/2013
TTC #1: Mirena removed 5/26/2015; DH - normal SA, me - diagnosed with PCOS 8/4/2016 - on Metformin; BFP - 10/29/2016!!!, EDD - 7/8/2017; DD born 6/29/2017
@kerils for my 1st CS I had to stay 3 nights 4 days, it was an emergency and I had to be able to get up an walk around and take a shower. My second they told me I had to have a BM and the minimum of a 3 night stay.
@kerils for our hospital it is a mandatory 48 hour stay with BM for CS and 24 hours with vaginal labor. Now you are free to leave ANYTIME you wish it will just be against "medical advice" which is fancy speak for if there is a complication afterwards the hospital is not liable. Nurses will not always tell you this, they will say you need to see your doctor and the pediatrician and get them to sign off for you to leave - but once again you can leave whenever - they will just make you sign a form saying it's against medical advice. We did this once when my son got his hand smashed in a window on a Sunday - we took him to the ER and after three hours (confirmation of no broken bones or issues) we were still sitting there because they need to get a doctor to agree to a follow-up, they wanted to send him to an orthopedic surgeon even though there was nothing wrong and because it was a Sunday his office was not getting back to them to confirm (not an appointment just that he WOULD see us). We left and they tried to make us feel like negligent parents - we saw his pediatrician the next day and she said everything was fine and no need to see any specialist...
@GlitterFish I used to do that awful kind of commute, but mine was about 2 hours (with minimal traffic) each way. No way would any woman do that at 36 weeks and up. Hey, as long as your boss doesn't mind, who cares what anyone else thinks? Random - I'm excited for Stranger Things season 2 to come out this summer. Perfect reason to binge watch (especially if it comes right around the time this peanut does)!
@kerils a lot will depend on your hospital and your delivery. Pretty standard is that baby needs to be taking good feeds but when it comes to you it will depend. I had a smooth complication free delivery and had to stay for 24 hours and have a BM. My SIL delivered at the same hospital and had to stay for 48 hours because she had a bad hemorrhage a few hours after delivery and had to do a few rounds of IV antibiotics. Also be careful about leaving AMA as many insurance companies won't cover you if you do.
That is a myth about insurance companies not covering you if you leave against medical advice. Insurance is required by law to cover any medically necessary procedures or care regardless of whether or not you leave AMA. I agree you should definitely check with your insurance provider beforehand and I am not advocating for it in the least but I do believe in in a patient knowing their rights and not being bullied because of their lack of knowledge. Below are some citations for further reference:
@GlitterFish If your boss is ok with it, I'd say that's all that matters! @cssme13 I'm glad I'm not alone on the camping! I'm already trying to figure out when we can sneak away for a weekend this summer before baby - I know my family will have a field day harassing me for that one!
I'm in denial about my thickening waistline. I wore multiple loose layers to work today - and I'm now sure that I looked like a hobo. Am normally buttoned up in a suit or blazer combo. How am I ever going to pull off hiding this pregnancy until February?
Every summer, all my siblings, along with our respective spouses and children, vacation together at a beach house, usually in July. My siblings are looking into beach houses now and are trying to book before everything is taken. They keep emailing me links to beach houses and expect me to be the one to do the booking since I've been the one who usually does it. Ugh. I haven't told anybody yet that I'm pregnant and due in July...and my family is not going to be excited for me about this baby (they think 2 kids is more than enough and 3 is irresponsible), so I'm stalling as long as possible before we tell, and also waiting till I'm in my second tri and get the NT results which won't happen till late January.
So now I'm trying to figure out how to keep stalling, or just book something and send DH with the kids without me since I'm going to be very close to my due date. I still want to kids to have that fun beach vacation with their cousins. I'm feeling annoyed at my siblings but then also feeling like I'm being rude and douchey. I don't know, my hormones are all over the place. I just don't know what to do, and want to cocoon myself in my house and avoid all people and demands.
@supermom83 - I am going through the same thing. Although my siblings and parents know I'm expecting in the middle of July. But my mom was annoyed when I mentioned mid-July wouldn't work for vacation for my family this year. Now they all expect me to find and book something either before or after the baby is here. And I'm not sure what to do either. Especially since things are booking up so quickly. I would stall if I were you. You should be able to enjoy the vacation too and hopefully when everyone finds out, they will be understanding. Any chance you can come up with a different reason to move the vacation to August or June?
@supermom83 I am in a wedding this summer and they keep wanting to plan stuff.....stuff I won't be able to attend. I just keep blaming not knowing my work travel schedule (I do travel a lot for work......so it's not a horrible excuse). That said, work wants to plan an event (for me to run) I won't be able to fly to (dr's order) and I don't have that excuse figured out.....outside of telling them in mid-January at 3.5 months.....or so I hope.
A couple moms said a car seat wasn't on their need list bc of where they live they never use it. I get that but how did you get baby home from the hospital?
@Katie______ I'm in the same about. DH's cousin is getting married in May. I'm not sure I want to travel then (though it's on a neighbor island so it'd be a short flight). DH's uncle keeps asking us about our travel arrangements. Luckily, it's all through our MIL so she has the job of deflecting (and actually, she was bugging us about making a decision too until we finally told her about the pregnancy) However, I do feel bad that we keep dodging the question. Just a few more weeks to go, hopefully.
@caribbeanmama same here. I feel like my waist is thickening and I know it's not the baby I'm just expanding and bloating. My shoulders feel so broad, too. I'm not usually one to pay much attention to how my body looks (i do pay attn to how it feels) but I'm starting to have a hard time recognizing it.
@caribbeanmama, this is me completely. I was in full denial about my expanding belly and then had a bit of a meltdown about my lack of wardrobe options, since my household goods, including all my maternity clothes, have not arrived yet. So, I have basically been living in two pairs of leggings and baggy shirts. It's not a good look. My husband finally dragged me to Motherhood Maternity and forced me to pick out a couple pairs of jeans and basic Ts. I put them on yesterday, looked in the mirror, and was like, oh, hey, that's a baby bump. I'd forgotten how actual maternity shirts emphasize the actual look of "baby" and not "she must really like ice cream". Sigh. So, we are in full "bump is loud and proud" mode over here, whether I'm ready for it or not.
On a related note, I was informed by my doctor that I am supposed to be eating between 2400 and 2700 calories a day and that it is actually encouraged for me to gain weight on the upper end of the spectrum because babies of moms who gain more weight tend to be larger, and with twins, the larger the babies, the better, typically. Dear, sweet Jesus, I don't know how in God's name I am going to manage to eat that much! I'm seriously having nightmares about it - I'm lucky if I remember to eat lunch, let alone enough lunch to help meet that calorie requirement! And I am just NOT that hungry! And my husband is pushing me to eat, and I'm just like, all I want is bagels and cream cheese. I don't know how I'm going to make it the next 6 months with that expectation, especially since, with my son, I just got less hungry as my pregnancy progressed and my stomach squished (seriously, best part of having given birth was the ability to hold my bladder through the night again and the ability to finish my dinner again like a normal person). Halp!
Married 25 May, 2013 William Alexander born 18 September, 2015 Harper Grace born 9 June, 2017 Colton Miles born 9 June, 2017 Bowen James due 19 June, 2019
A couple moms said a car seat wasn't on their need list bc of where they live they never use it. I get that but how did you get baby home from the hospital?
We walked. Friends have borrowed a car seat for use in a taxi. If you don't have a friend to loan you one, I have found that local mom groups on Facebook are incredibly generous.
My job is 1.5 hrs (no traffic, almost all limited access highway, 15-20 miles between exits) from where I live. Last week my boss asked me if I had any idea when I would start maternity leave. I said these things are unpredictable, but I mostly intended to work from home starting after Memorial Day until I couldn't anymore, then start actual leave. He didn't seem to have a problem with this. My mom thinks I'm being ridiculous, and I'm likely to be late anyway. (Not that she would drive anywhere by herself for 1.5 hrs, much less 36+ weeks pregnant) What do you all think?
If I could work from home at any point at all, right now, not pregnant, pregnant, I would. Tell your mom to shut it.
****TW: Pregnancy, loss and children mentioned**** Me: 35 DH: 38 | Married: 6/2013 | Pregnancy #1, APurp born 10/2014
Pregnancy #2, BFP 6/4/2016, MMC at 9W, D&E: 7/21/16 | Pregnancy #3, BFP 11/22/16
My husband wants to plan a Yert trip (not even sure if I spelled that right!) for August 3. It's like camping in a teepee. I told him that he can go with our son but I would rather stay home since we would have a newborn. He started researching how they have cribs and we can take the baby. Umm...I'm sorry, but I'm not taking a 2-3 week old camping. And I can definitely say that would not be fun for me!
That sounds absolutely miserable. How could he think that would be enjoyable for anyone? Granted, I love the outdoors but am not a sleep outside type person so camping sans baby still sounds like hell to me. The only 'camping' I do is at a Waldorf Astoria.
I know everyone is different, and my experience is not really the best to base anything on, but I had a c section, severe depression, and couldn't imagine leaving the house or putting on pants for at least a month, if not 2 after my daughter was born. Camping? No.
I would never camp, though, so there's that. I've never once peed outside.
****TW: Pregnancy, loss and children mentioned**** Me: 35 DH: 38 | Married: 6/2013 | Pregnancy #1, APurp born 10/2014
Pregnancy #2, BFP 6/4/2016, MMC at 9W, D&E: 7/21/16 | Pregnancy #3, BFP 11/22/16
I guess I'm the minority here, we love camping! We went when DD was only 2 weeks old and while I was still recovering from a c-section and it actually wasn't miserable at all.
Do you put milk in your unicorn coffee every morning to achieve super hero status, or does it just come naturally?
****TW: Pregnancy, loss and children mentioned**** Me: 35 DH: 38 | Married: 6/2013 | Pregnancy #1, APurp born 10/2014
Pregnancy #2, BFP 6/4/2016, MMC at 9W, D&E: 7/21/16 | Pregnancy #3, BFP 11/22/16
@ashaw512 something about my last cs was magical. As soon as I was out of recovery I had zero pain and wanted to walk the second my epidural wore off. I didn't even take my pain meds. I seriously had to keep reminding myself to take it easy because I felt totally fine, DH says the universe gave me a break because my labor was such hell.
Holy Hell, you ARE a fucking unicorn. I took every pill and THEN called in some more. And I'm no stranger to pain. I have a tattoo on the side of my head. I have multiple piercings, ran a marathon (and over 25 halfs (yes, the pural of half marathons is halfs, not halves), and have had surgery (eye and gallbladder) before.
I will say, though, I think the fear of the unknown was a LOT of it for me. I was depressed, and no one really told me what to expect. I'm so dumb--I seriously was not ready for that surgery to be worse than my others (which is SO DUMB!), and then when other things would happen, like not being able to feel when I had to pee for 4 weeks, and almost burst my bladder, I thought I was dying.
****TW: Pregnancy, loss and children mentioned**** Me: 35 DH: 38 | Married: 6/2013 | Pregnancy #1, APurp born 10/2014
Pregnancy #2, BFP 6/4/2016, MMC at 9W, D&E: 7/21/16 | Pregnancy #3, BFP 11/22/16
I'm sure I'll binge watch some episodes. I'm more a fan of Bachelor in Paradise because I like the train wreck that comes from drinking heavily and drama. I always end up looking up spoilers to the Bachelor and ruining it but I get bored.
I'm getting burned out on the Bachelor (I wish they weren't 2 hours long--that's a long time, dude), but I LOOOOVE Bachelor in Paradise so much.
I started watching that fake reality tv show...it's a show, but ABOUT a show like The Bachelor...I really like it. I can't think of what it's called now, so nevermind I'm just rambling.
****TW: Pregnancy, loss and children mentioned**** Me: 35 DH: 38 | Married: 6/2013 | Pregnancy #1, APurp born 10/2014
Pregnancy #2, BFP 6/4/2016, MMC at 9W, D&E: 7/21/16 | Pregnancy #3, BFP 11/22/16
I got called to be a long term sub for art. I don't have an artistic bone in my body. I'm really happy that I have a set job now (I was just subbing whenever schools called) which will help us pay off a lot of stuff and get a house quicker but parts of me wishes I could stay home and lay on the couch all day especially since this pregnancy has been kicking my butt. I'm already exhausted thinking about tomorrow.
edit to say that I have zero service at the school I'm teaching at and the bump is blocked on our computers so I probably won't get to bump as much during the day and that seriously makes me sad. Another reason why I should just stay home
This is my DREAM JOB! I'll do it.
****TW: Pregnancy, loss and children mentioned**** Me: 35 DH: 38 | Married: 6/2013 | Pregnancy #1, APurp born 10/2014
Pregnancy #2, BFP 6/4/2016, MMC at 9W, D&E: 7/21/16 | Pregnancy #3, BFP 11/22/16
@kerils Im not sure on vaginal births but for c-sections you have to have a bowel movement before they discharge you. Also they dont like swelling in the legs paired with a fever. That kept me in the hospital for an extra day after BM with my 1st.
This was not so for me. It was 3/4 days, and that was that.
****TW: Pregnancy, loss and children mentioned**** Me: 35 DH: 38 | Married: 6/2013 | Pregnancy #1, APurp born 10/2014
Pregnancy #2, BFP 6/4/2016, MMC at 9W, D&E: 7/21/16 | Pregnancy #3, BFP 11/22/16
@SPurp13@morgarita@GreenBean The first season of Unreal was my FAVORITE show on TV that year. It is amazing. I regret to tell you that the second season was so bad I stopped watching it. Totally ungrounded, sloppy storytelling.
TTC #1: 4/16 BFP #1: 5/16 MMC at 8 weeks: 6/16 BFP #2: 10/16 Sweet baby boy arrived 7/7/17!
@SPurp13 and @greenbean I love unreal!!! Are they making a second season?
Yes, that's what it's called! I don't know, I hope there's another season. I watched it on Hulu. I did a quick google search, and I don't THINK it was cancelled???...
****TW: Pregnancy, loss and children mentioned**** Me: 35 DH: 38 | Married: 6/2013 | Pregnancy #1, APurp born 10/2014
Pregnancy #2, BFP 6/4/2016, MMC at 9W, D&E: 7/21/16 | Pregnancy #3, BFP 11/22/16
My husband wants to plan a Yert trip (not even sure if I spelled that right!) for August 3. It's like camping in a teepee. I told him that he can go with our son but I would rather stay home since we would have a newborn. He started researching how they have cribs and we can take the baby. Umm...I'm sorry, but I'm not taking a 2-3 week old camping. And I can definitely say that would not be fun for me!
That sounds absolutely miserable. How could he think that would be enjoyable for anyone? Granted, I love the outdoors but am not a sleep outside type person so camping sans baby still sounds like hell to me. The only 'camping' I do is at a Waldorf Astoria.
I know everyone is different, and my experience is not really the best to base anything on, but I had a c section, severe depression, and couldn't imagine leaving the house or putting on pants for at least a month, if not 2 after my daughter was born. Camping? No.
I would never camp, though, so there's that. I've never once peed outside.
I have never been camping but have peed outside MANY TIMES?!?! Omg what does this make me?? LOL I'm questioning every life decision I have ever made! Ha
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Started dating: July 1st, 2013
Engaged: July 1st, 2014
Married: July 1st, 2016
R born: July 8th, 2017
N born: June 30th, 2019
Baby #3 Due: July 7th, 2022
(maybe I only ovulate in October XD)
Married: 05/26/2012
DS Born Happy and Healthy via C-section: 10/04/2013
Natural M/C: 07/08/2014
DD Born Happy and Healthy via Emergency C-section: 06/30/2015
BFP #4: 11/15/2016
EDD: 7/27/2017
I don't remember there being a certain number of pees for me that were required to be discharged but I know DD needed to show that she was eating every 2-3 hrs and wetting enough diapers before we could leave.
Honestly, I wish I had asked to stay until the following morning. That first night was a doozy and we started off exhausted.
A good friend left the hospital after 6 hours because she wanted to be home.
I stayed three nights (LO arrived at 11 pm, so the first night technically didn't count), and felt that was the right length for me. Couldn't imagine leaving sooner than that.
So once again, I think this is all very individual.
That's all I've got...other than the fact that the apartment STILL smells like burning from when my husband tried to burn down the kitchen on NYD.
Random - I'm excited for Stranger Things season 2 to come out this summer. Perfect reason to binge watch (especially if it comes right around the time this peanut does)!
https://www.uchospitals.edu/news/2012/20120203-billing.html
https://thehappyhospitalist.blogspot.com/2011/05/will-my-insurance-pay-if-i-leave.html?m=1
https://www.caring.com/questions/medicare-against-medical-advice
@cssme13 I'm glad I'm not alone on the camping! I'm already trying to figure out when we can sneak away for a weekend this summer before baby - I know my family will have a field day harassing me for that one!
Dating: 12/21/2001
Married: 09/08/2012
BFP: 11/16/2016 EDD: 07/27/2017
Baby Fish born: 08/01/2017
So now I'm trying to figure out how to keep stalling, or just book something and send DH with the kids without me since I'm going to be very close to my due date. I still want to kids to have that fun beach vacation with their cousins. I'm feeling annoyed at my siblings but then also feeling like I'm being rude and douchey. I don't know, my hormones are all over the place. I just don't know what to do, and want to cocoon myself in my house and avoid all people and demands.
BFP #1: 5/16
MMC at 8 weeks: 6/16
BFP #2: 10/16
Sweet baby boy arrived 7/7/17!
I am in a wedding this summer and they keep wanting to plan stuff.....stuff I won't be able to attend. I just keep blaming not knowing my work travel schedule (I do travel a lot for work......so it's not a horrible excuse). That said, work wants to plan an event (for me to run) I won't be able to fly to (dr's order) and I don't have that excuse figured out.....outside of telling them in mid-January at 3.5 months.....or so I hope.
On a related note, I was informed by my doctor that I am supposed to be eating between 2400 and 2700 calories a day and that it is actually encouraged for me to gain weight on the upper end of the spectrum because babies of moms who gain more weight tend to be larger, and with twins, the larger the babies, the better, typically. Dear, sweet Jesus, I don't know how in God's name I am going to manage to eat that much! I'm seriously having nightmares about it - I'm lucky if I remember to eat lunch, let alone enough lunch to help meet that calorie requirement! And I am just NOT that hungry! And my husband is pushing me to eat, and I'm just like, all I want is bagels and cream cheese. I don't know how I'm going to make it the next 6 months with that expectation, especially since, with my son, I just got less hungry as my pregnancy progressed and my stomach squished (seriously, best part of having given birth was the ability to hold my bladder through the night again and the ability to finish my dinner again like a normal person). Halp!
William Alexander born 18 September, 2015
Harper Grace born 9 June, 2017
Colton Miles born 9 June, 2017
Bowen James due 19 June, 2019
Me: 35 DH: 38 | Married: 6/2013 | Pregnancy #1, APurp born 10/2014
Pregnancy #2, BFP 6/4/2016, MMC at 9W, D&E: 7/21/16 | Pregnancy #3, BFP 11/22/16
I would never camp, though, so there's that. I've never once peed outside.
Me: 35 DH: 38 | Married: 6/2013 | Pregnancy #1, APurp born 10/2014
Pregnancy #2, BFP 6/4/2016, MMC at 9W, D&E: 7/21/16 | Pregnancy #3, BFP 11/22/16
Me: 35 DH: 38 | Married: 6/2013 | Pregnancy #1, APurp born 10/2014
Pregnancy #2, BFP 6/4/2016, MMC at 9W, D&E: 7/21/16 | Pregnancy #3, BFP 11/22/16
I will say, though, I think the fear of the unknown was a LOT of it for me. I was depressed, and no one really told me what to expect. I'm so dumb--I seriously was not ready for that surgery to be worse than my others (which is SO DUMB!), and then when other things would happen, like not being able to feel when I had to pee for 4 weeks, and almost burst my bladder, I thought I was dying.
Me: 35 DH: 38 | Married: 6/2013 | Pregnancy #1, APurp born 10/2014
Pregnancy #2, BFP 6/4/2016, MMC at 9W, D&E: 7/21/16 | Pregnancy #3, BFP 11/22/16
I started watching that fake reality tv show...it's a show, but ABOUT a show like The Bachelor...I really like it. I can't think of what it's called now, so nevermind I'm just rambling.
Me: 35 DH: 38 | Married: 6/2013 | Pregnancy #1, APurp born 10/2014
Pregnancy #2, BFP 6/4/2016, MMC at 9W, D&E: 7/21/16 | Pregnancy #3, BFP 11/22/16
Me: 35 DH: 38 | Married: 6/2013 | Pregnancy #1, APurp born 10/2014
Pregnancy #2, BFP 6/4/2016, MMC at 9W, D&E: 7/21/16 | Pregnancy #3, BFP 11/22/16
Me: 35 DH: 38 | Married: 6/2013 | Pregnancy #1, APurp born 10/2014
Pregnancy #2, BFP 6/4/2016, MMC at 9W, D&E: 7/21/16 | Pregnancy #3, BFP 11/22/16
BFP #1: 5/16
MMC at 8 weeks: 6/16
BFP #2: 10/16
Sweet baby boy arrived 7/7/17!
Me: 35 DH: 38 | Married: 6/2013 | Pregnancy #1, APurp born 10/2014
Pregnancy #2, BFP 6/4/2016, MMC at 9W, D&E: 7/21/16 | Pregnancy #3, BFP 11/22/16