TTC After a Loss

*** August Two Week Wait ***

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Re: *** August Two Week Wait ***

  • @brooklyngirl18 sorry about the BFN but it is still early! FX for later positive testing!
    Married: June 2011
    TTC #1: September 2015-January 2016
    BFP #1: 1/25/16 - MMC Diagnosed 3/22/16
    TTCAL: June 2016
    BFP #2: 8/26/16 - EDD 5/9/17
    Jackson born 5/6/17 at 8:36 PM - 9lbs 5oz & 21in
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  • Congrats @Amdogger82!
    Me: 31 DH: 32
    Married April 2014
    TTC since December 2015
    1st BFP: February 8, 2016; MMC at 7 weeks, 3 days; Discovered at 10 weeks; D&C March 25
    2nd BFP: June 20, 2016; CP June 22, 2016
    3rd BFP: August 13, 2016!!  Fingers crossed!!

  • Congrats @Amdogger82!! <3
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

  • Congrats @amdogger82!! I hope you check in on the grad thread to let us know how you're doing. Happy and healthy 9 months to you.
  • Congrats @amdogger82! and all the other BFPs. I must admit I never lurked in this thread while I was on the TTC bench.... but I'm entering my TWW now. Ugh. 
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • Anybody afraid to HIO/orgasm during TWW, specifically in the "implantation window"?? I know I'm probably being silly but I know when/if I get my BFP I'll be scared then, too, but didn't expect that fear to leak into my TWW. 


    How is everyone doing? Where are we all in the TWW? I'm at 8dpo and not feeling "pregnant" but trying to remain hopeful. May test on Friday morning.
  • @rainbowturtles I haven't worried about that in the TWW yet but I know I will once I get my BFP. I don't even know where i  am. Haha. I think I am 5 or 6 dpo. If I don't get pregnant this cycle I am definitely starting temping next month. I want to have a beer with dinner tonight (we are doing tacos with guacamole and i love corona) but am stressing myself out about it too much to enjoy it. Logic tells me one beer won't affect implantation, but what if? It's just hard...I'm preaching to the choir. I promised myself after my CP that I'm not going to test until after my period is late so I hope I can keep that up. How is everyone else doing?
    Me: 31 DH: 32
    Married April 2014
    TTC since December 2015
    1st BFP: February 8, 2016; MMC at 7 weeks, 3 days; Discovered at 10 weeks; D&C March 25
    2nd BFP: June 20, 2016; CP June 22, 2016
    3rd BFP: August 13, 2016!!  Fingers crossed!!

  • Oh great @rainbowturtles...one more thing for me to worry about now  :p

    I am 4 or 5 DPO right now. I missed a temp so it could be either. I'm having a fairly level headed TWW this cycle.
    Me: 32 DH: 36
    Married 5/08
    BFP #1: 1/27/13 DS #1 born 10/16/13
    BFP #2: 1/20/16, ectopic discovered 1/23/16
    Surgery 1/23/16 to remove ruptured tube
    TTCAL 3/16
    BFP #3: 3/24/17 EDD 12/5/17
    DS #2 born 12/11/17



  • lol @rainbowturtles! Don't give me more to worry about. I am 2-3 dpo. I feel our timing and frequency was very good, but trying so hard not to get my hopes up.
  • edited August 2016
    Haha sorry, ladies!!! From what I (obviously) googled, sex is fine and actually can be good and orgasm is inconclusive. I know I'm just being cuckoo lol I've been protecting my stomach from dog feet already...also silly and paranoid! But my boobs hurt, too, so the dogs are like "damn, girl! Where do I go?!" LoL



  • Good luck, @BornReady!! Wishing all of the good things for you today!

    Me: 40, DH: 35 / Married: 2009; TTC #1: 2013

    2013 - 2015: 5 pregnancies —> 5 miscarriages

    TTCAL with RE (RPL specialist): February 2016

    2016: 3 medicated TI cycles —> 3 medicated IUI cycles: All BFN

    Donor Egg IVF Transfer: May 1, 2017

    May 11, 2017: BFP!! Beta #1: 449.1, Beta #2: 844, Beta #3: 1714

    EDD: 1/17/18, it's a GIRL!  <3 E. L. A. born 12/7/2017








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    congratulations on the bfp! Fx for you ladies! 
    For those with bfn I'm sorry, don't give up yet though early testers! Hoping to move to tww soon! 
  • @BornReady good luck today!! Sending you positive vibes and wishing you the best. 
     ****TW: Pregnancy, loss and children mentioned****
    Me (39) DH (40) 
    From my first marriage DD: 03/04 CP:01/06 DS:12/06 
    DH- no kids
    ******************
    TTC: since 2/15, RE Consult 9/15
    IUI #1 10/15: Letrozole = BFN 
    IUI #2 11/15: Letrozole + trigger = BFN
    1/08/16: Surprise- BFP!!  2/16/16: MMC @10w 2days,  D&C: 2/17/16
    TTCAL: May 2016
    IUI #3 5/27/16: Letrozole+trigger=BFN
    IUI #4 06/24/16: 7.5mg Letrozole+trigger= BFN
    IUI#5 08/24/16 Menopur+trigger = BFN
    IUI #6 09/19/16 5 mg Letrozole +Menopur + Trigger= BFN
    **10/2016: No more medicated cycles, TTCAL on our own**
    12/03/16: BFP!! EDD: 08/12/17 It's a girl!! 
    Eleni was born on 8/14/17!!
  • Good luck today @BornReady!
    Me: 32 DH: 36
    Married 5/08
    BFP #1: 1/27/13 DS #1 born 10/16/13
    BFP #2: 1/20/16, ectopic discovered 1/23/16
    Surgery 1/23/16 to remove ruptured tube
    TTCAL 3/16
    BFP #3: 3/24/17 EDD 12/5/17
    DS #2 born 12/11/17



  • Congrats @Amdogger82!

    Best wishes @BornReady!!!!! Stick little embaby, stick!
  • Good luck, @BornReady!! 

    Thanks, ladies. I've kind of been staying in Bump limbo, as I'm pretty nervous, but I'm trying to keep positive!
  • @BornReady good luck!!! everything crossed for you.
    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
  • Good luck @BornReady !!
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • @Amdogger82 did you ever do betas or just tracking lines?
    Me: 30     DH: 31
    Married: 11.12.11
    TTC: Nov 2015
    BFP #1: 1.22.16                 MMC: 2.29.16 ( tetrasomy 11, partial deletion 1, XXX)
    D&C: 3.2.16
    BFP #2: 4.14.16                 CP: 4.17.16
    BFP #3: 6.10.2016             CP: 6.17.2016
    RE appt: 6.27.2016- saline sono all clear
    Chromosome karyotype- Normal both me and DH
    Progenity: + carrier Tay-Sachs, Gaucher's, hemachromatosis. DH: carrier Alpha 1 anti-trypsin
    Clomid + TI Cycle #1: pending  8.15.16
    Fur mom to 2 sled masters: an Alaskan malamute and a malamute wolf hybrid 
    half marathon running, surgery loving trauma hand and reconstructive plastic surgery PA-C
    PCOS, hypothyroid, MTHFR, hx of LEEP in 2006

  • @SnobunnieMel I opted for betas. My first draw was yesterday at 12 dpo and it was 34.9. The second draw is tomorrow but I won't know the results until Monday. The nurse on the phone thought the #s were low, based on my LMP of 7/3... I know I crazy long cycles and I know when I O'ed, so I'm not worried about being below their expectations. I just don't know if the #s are too low in general.

  • @Amdogger82 the first number really doesn't mean anything. As long as it doubles within 48 - 72 hours, you are fine. 
  • @Amdogger82 *lurking* popping out to say that my first beta with this pregnancy was 19 at 4 weeks post LMP (I knew I ovulated late but it made the nurse nervous to tell me) and I'm 17 weeks now. 
    TW: MMC
    BFP1 12/24/14 - EDD 09/07/15 (D/C 8w1d)
    BFP2 6/12/15 - EDD 2/22/16 (D/C 10w3d)
    ———
    Diagnoses and Treatments
    PCOS (myo-inositol, excercize)
    Indeterminant levels of APS IgM antibodies (baby aspirin)
    Sub-septate uterus (hysteroscopic septoplasty 12/18/15)
    ———
    BFP3 05/02/16 EDD 01/09/17 DS born 01/05/17
    BFP4 01/28/19 EDD 10/?/19 🤞🙏

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    @BornReady Good luck with you FET today. FX!
    **TW - Loss & Child mentioned**
    Me: 40  DH: 47
    Married: 10/2015
    DSD: 17
    BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
    BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
    BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
    BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
    Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.

  • @Amdogger82 - Agree that as long as it doubles you are good. And waiting for 2nd test and results is hardest so I'm wishing you patience and distraction next few days...
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • Good luck @BornReady!
    Me: 31 DH: 32
    Married April 2014
    TTC since December 2015
    1st BFP: February 8, 2016; MMC at 7 weeks, 3 days; Discovered at 10 weeks; D&C March 25
    2nd BFP: June 20, 2016; CP June 22, 2016
    3rd BFP: August 13, 2016!!  Fingers crossed!!

  • TaggarabTaggarab member
    edited August 2016
    7 DPO here. Fly on by the next few days so I can get my test on  :D

    ETA: I had a temp drop this morning...is this too late for implantation dip? I'm obviously clueless.
    Me: 32 DH: 36
    Married 5/08
    BFP #1: 1/27/13 DS #1 born 10/16/13
    BFP #2: 1/20/16, ectopic discovered 1/23/16
    Surgery 1/23/16 to remove ruptured tube
    TTCAL 3/16
    BFP #3: 3/24/17 EDD 12/5/17
    DS #2 born 12/11/17



  • @Taggarab not feed the crazy but most implantation is around 7/8 DPO. Fx for you 
    Me: 30     DH: 31
    Married: 11.12.11
    TTC: Nov 2015
    BFP #1: 1.22.16                 MMC: 2.29.16 ( tetrasomy 11, partial deletion 1, XXX)
    D&C: 3.2.16
    BFP #2: 4.14.16                 CP: 4.17.16
    BFP #3: 6.10.2016             CP: 6.17.2016
    RE appt: 6.27.2016- saline sono all clear
    Chromosome karyotype- Normal both me and DH
    Progenity: + carrier Tay-Sachs, Gaucher's, hemachromatosis. DH: carrier Alpha 1 anti-trypsin
    Clomid + TI Cycle #1: pending  8.15.16
    Fur mom to 2 sled masters: an Alaskan malamute and a malamute wolf hybrid 
    half marathon running, surgery loving trauma hand and reconstructive plastic surgery PA-C
    PCOS, hypothyroid, MTHFR, hx of LEEP in 2006

  • BFN this morning at 10dpo. I know it's "technically" early but still feeling bummed :/
  • sorry to hear about the bfn, but it's still so early. So hard to simultaneously feel such a mixture of hope and despair... fx for you!

    If any of you two week wait ladies are looking for a distraction from ttc and like to cook, I would be happy to share one of my free blue apron trials to. I have three free boxes to give away ( I don't work for them, not promoting, just love cooking!) If you message me your name and email I can send you one. DH and I love to cook the recipes together. :) A nice weeknight distraction!
    Me:35, DH 37  ~ Married July 2014
    ttc July 2015 ~ bfp Nov 2015 (cp)
    bfp Dec 2015 ~ (tfmr 17wk, March 2016, genetic disease)
    ttcal May 2016
  • Thank you @KarenBeth714 <3
    And I'm never one to turn down food lmao Blue Apron sounds really cool!!! But I live in Canada and have celiac disease so I'm guessing it's probably not for me but hope some ladies take you up on it!!! How nice of you!
  • @rainbowturtles try not to be bummed yet! It's still early. Hoping the best!
    Me: 31 DH: 32
    Married April 2014
    TTC since December 2015
    1st BFP: February 8, 2016; MMC at 7 weeks, 3 days; Discovered at 10 weeks; D&C March 25
    2nd BFP: June 20, 2016; CP June 22, 2016
    3rd BFP: August 13, 2016!!  Fingers crossed!!

  • Congrats @natsfans2442! No experience with light HPTs, but a positive is a positive. Good luck with those betas.
  • Congratulations @natsfan2442!!! A line is a line so it sounds like you did ovulate early! 

    Waiting for betas is tough, but just try to keep yourself distracted and it will be Monday in no time! 
  • jade24422jade24422 member
    edited August 2016
    Thank you!  I'm going to call first thing Monday morning, and hope that tomorrow is a little darker! And get not to go crazy in the process!
    Me: 31 DH: 32
    Married April 2014
    TTC since December 2015
    1st BFP: February 8, 2016; MMC at 7 weeks, 3 days; Discovered at 10 weeks; D&C March 25
    2nd BFP: June 20, 2016; CP June 22, 2016
    3rd BFP: August 13, 2016!!  Fingers crossed!!

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