TTC After a Loss

*** August Two Week Wait ***

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Re: *** August Two Week Wait ***

  • @AliciaGoose hopefully the dr gets back to you today, waiting on test results is so frustrating! congrats on making it one week in the tww, it's truly a mind F.

    I'm right behind you at 4dpo and i think i've already started twitching. I had some frustration with FF and opk this month but FF finally realigned by O date to a date much better suited for getting ku so fx!
    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
    AliciaGoose
  • I am planning to take a test Sunday too! Good luck!
    AliciaGoose
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  • @mamashan12 some cycles (my last 3!) my breasts hurt from the day I ovulate till AF...super annoying :/
    mamashan12
  • @Amdogger82 and @rainbowturtles - thanks. It does make me feel better that I'm not the only one dealing with it! It really messes with your head.

    rainbowturtles
  • @mamashan12 last cycle I had all the symptoms! Sore breasts, fatigue and even nausea and as you can tell since I am in WTO was not KU. First time I ever got O symptoms too. TTCAL is a real b sometimes.
    Married: June 2011
    TTC #1: September 2015-January 2016
    BFP #1: 1/25/16 - MMC Diagnosed 3/22/16
    TTCAL: June 2016
    BFP #2: 8/26/16 - EDD 5/9/17
    Jackson born 5/6/17 at 8:36 PM - 9lbs 5oz & 21in
      Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    mamashan12
  • @NewMommyCoop congrats!!! i wrote a whole novel on your other thread before seeing this and now since you're ku i think you definitely should call your dr today and ask for a beta and then a follow up 2 days later and so on given your history and current pain. FX it's a perfectly healthy pregnancy!
    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
  • Amdogger82Amdogger82 member
    edited August 2016
    @NewMommyCoop Congrats!!!
    I had pain on my left side a lot with my BFP, and worried about the same thing, but it wasn't ectopic. I think it would be the corpus luteum (I don't really know much about this)? I think if you are concerned you should talk to your dr, if only for peace of mind.
    Congrats again! 

    ETA: I missed your siggy before, and just read your other post. I would reach out to your Dr. as well. Wishing you all the best!
  • @brooklyngirl18 and @Amdogger82 Thank you both for the information. I know I will have to leave this board now, but is there an appropriate place, if at all for me to update y'all?
    FX that we will all be on the birth month boards very soon.
    **TW - Loss & Child mentioned**
    Me: 40  DH: 47
    Married: 10/2015
    DSD: 17
    BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
    BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
    BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
    BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
    Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.

    rainbowturtles
  • lilylover27lilylover27 member
    edited August 2016
    @newmommycoop congrats on the BFP! Hoping for a healthy pregnancy for you! I agree with PP, I had some pain on the right side that was due to a corpus luteum cyst from ovulation, but I doesn't hurt just to call and have it check out anyway!

    Also, there is a TTCAL Grad thread on this board that you can post updates to! They made a separate thread in case some ladies did not want to read/in a bad place at that time.

    Edit: Wrong tense
    Married: June 2011
    TTC #1: September 2015-January 2016
    BFP #1: 1/25/16 - MMC Diagnosed 3/22/16
    TTCAL: June 2016
    BFP #2: 8/26/16 - EDD 5/9/17
    Jackson born 5/6/17 at 8:36 PM - 9lbs 5oz & 21in
      Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    brooklyngirl18rainbowturtles
  • Congrats @NewMommyCoop!!!
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

  • @NewMommyCoop Congrats!  H&H 9 months!

    Love GIF

    Me: 34    DH: 38

    MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
    Married: Nov. 7, 2015
    MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks) 
    MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
    RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
    MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
    Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
    Possibly giving up because I just can't even anymore...
    #BitterHagPartyOf1

    BFP 1/16/2019  
    HCG blood qualitative test - between 5 and 25... FML...

    fuck my life GIF

  • Thanks @lilylover27 The information helps. Thank you!
    **TW - Loss & Child mentioned**
    Me: 40  DH: 47
    Married: 10/2015
    DSD: 17
    BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
    BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
    BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
    BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
    Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.

  • **lurking--miss you guys! Siggy warning**

    @NewMommyCoop Congrats! We have a TTCAL graduate private group, if you want to join. I found it a nice place to be before jumping into my BMB. Can @SnobunnieMel send an invite? @catiecatp is sojourning across 'Merica now and probably won't be able to send an invite anytime soon.  ;)
    rainbowturtlesAliciaGoose
  • @Wishilivedinflorida and @SnobunnieMel Thank you both.
    **TW - Loss & Child mentioned**
    Me: 40  DH: 47
    Married: 10/2015
    DSD: 17
    BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
    BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
    BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
    BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
    Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.

  • NewMommyCoopNewMommyCoop member
    edited August 2016
    @SoonToBeMommaHowe and @dpjennifer Thanks so much. FX for all of you!
    **TW - Loss & Child mentioned**
    Me: 40  DH: 47
    Married: 10/2015
    DSD: 17
    BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
    BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
    BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
    BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
    Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.

  • @NewMommyCoop congratulations girl and best wishes!!!
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • Yay @NewMommyCoop ! Congrats and hope you can see your doc soon :)
  • Thank you @amberruka and @RiverSong15 !
    **TW - Loss & Child mentioned**
    Me: 40  DH: 47
    Married: 10/2015
    DSD: 17
    BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
    BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
    BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
    BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
    Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.

  • Oh! And I got CHs this morning so I'm here now!! I'm kind of blown away that DH was actually in town at the exact right times so FX :) I'm also so stoked to see CHs after two wonky looking charts. I think the new thermometer is making all the difference:)
    chloe97AliciaGoose
  • Omg congrats @NewMommyCoop this is awesome! I am benched but always look here for good news. So exciting !!! 

    Best wishes for a healthy pregnancy!
    Married 06.21.14 / TTC since 11.15 /
    BFP 01.03.2016 / MMC 6w5d D&C 02.2016 // BFP 05.06.16 / natural MC 05.12.16
    Benched 06.2016-08.2016 / TTC again 09.2016! On a diet. Cranky.
    BFP 10.02.2016 / NT scan at 12w looked normal / Anatomy scan at 20w everything ok
    Team blue! / EDD June 11th 2017
    DAVID ROGER was born on May 23rd at 37 weeks.

    Architect, Peruvian living in Chile. I love art, opera and good chocolate.
    Started PhD studies in Architecture on 2017.
    Fur mom of a rescued miniature poodle called Luke Skywalker.


    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
    NewMommyCoop
  • @NewMommyCoop Oh my! Congratulations! I hope that you can get good beta numbers confirmed in the coming days and that you have a healthy, happy pregnancy! Sending lots of internet hugs!

    Me: 40, DH: 35 / Married: 2009; TTC #1: 2013

    2013 - 2015: 5 pregnancies —> 5 miscarriages

    TTCAL with RE (RPL specialist): February 2016

    2016: 3 medicated TI cycles —> 3 medicated IUI cycles: All BFN

    Donor Egg IVF Transfer: May 1, 2017

    May 11, 2017: BFP!! Beta #1: 449.1, Beta #2: 844, Beta #3: 1714

    EDD: 1/17/18, it's a GIRL!  <3 E. L. A. born 12/7/2017








    rainbowturtles
  • just stopping by to say congrats @NewMommyCoop ( also - I also had pains on one side during first 6-7 weeks and I was so worried I called the doctor. They said it's very common and is most likely the ovary giving out those pregnancy hormones until placenta is formed- but it never hurts to bug your doctor and get stuff checked out!)
     fx for the rest who are still in this month! Keep us posted on the progress ladies!

    I'm pretty sure I'm out, setting the hopes high for next month with ivf!!
    Me:35, DH 37  ~ Married July 2014
    ttc July 2015 ~ bfp Nov 2015 (cp)
    bfp Dec 2015 ~ (tfmr 17wk, March 2016, genetic disease)
    ttcal May 2016
  • Waiting a week to take a pregnancy test - dreading another BFN. It's been 7 months since DNC (also had previous MMC) - baby would have been born in July so I've been pretty emotional lately. Started doing OPKs two months ago and think we timed everything right this month. Boob soreness is the same as last time and started having crazy dreams. Hoping that baby dust is in the air.
    AandDM2014
  • I just woke up to a temp drop and spotting. At 10dpo. I'm freaking out that I'm about to have a 9 day LP. Really hoping full on AF holds out for at least another day.

    Did anyone else notice a change in LP post miscarriage? Prior to my miscarriage I had an 11-12 day LP, and now it's looking like 9-10. I'm really hoping this is a temporary thing.

    It also doesn't help that I had 7dpo testing this month and still don't have the results back on my progesterone levels.
    **Formerly @aliciabhen**
    Me: 26 DH: 24
    Married: November 2015  <3
    TTC#1: January 2016
    BFP: 5/02/16 - MC: 5/27/16
    Computer Hope
  • chloe97chloe97 member
    edited August 2016
    @AliciaGoose I'm pretty sure my LP was 17 days post-MC after my normal 13 day LP. I know many people on this board and IRL who have had the exact same issue as you for a few cycles post-MC. All have gone on to get pregnant again (and stay pregnant). The body does weird things post-MC. I'm trying to remind myself of this constantly. Just when I think my body's normal again, it does something strange. 
    AliciaGooseAmdogger82rainbowturtles
  • @chloe97 Thank you for the reminder! I have the same issue - knowing that my body can and will do weird things post MC, but then freaking myself out when weird things actually happen!
    **Formerly @aliciabhen**
    Me: 26 DH: 24
    Married: November 2015  <3
    TTC#1: January 2016
    BFP: 5/02/16 - MC: 5/27/16
    Computer Hope
    rainbowturtles
  • I was thinking of you this morning @AandDM2014 and am so happy for your good news!!! I hope this is the one for you too! Congrats!!!


    AandDM2014
  • Aaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Omg I am so excited for you I literally started jumping up and down!!!!!!! This is so fantastic @AandDM2014 so many prayers this sticks for you!!! I never asked did you transfer 1 or 2? What was the beta? 

    AliciaGooseAandDM2014fivetimesnoluckdubcompanion
  • Amdogger82Amdogger82 member
    edited August 2016
    @AliciaGoose my LP was about 3 days shorter thank usual last cycle, which was my first one post mc. I'm hoping this one is going to be longer but had a little temp drop this am at 9 dpo. I started out this cycle super hopeful but am feeling less so everyday. 
    AliciaGoose
  • @Amdogger82 My last cycle (which was my first post mc) had a 2 day shorter than normal LP. I had some spotting at 9dpo this time, more this morning (10 DPO) and a temp drop. I am hoping tomorrow will actually be CD1 so I can at least have a 10 day LP!

    FX for both of us that we either are wrong and get BFPs or that our bodies actually finally get their sh*t together next cycle. I used to feel so much less stress in the TWW than WTO, but now with the weird things my body is doing that's starting to change.

    @AandDM2014 AHHHH! OMG. Congratulations. So many positive vibes for a sticky bean!!
    **Formerly @aliciabhen**
    Me: 26 DH: 24
    Married: November 2015  <3
    TTC#1: January 2016
    BFP: 5/02/16 - MC: 5/27/16
    Computer Hope
  • ***Lurking***

    Congrats @AandDM2014!! So happy for you :) 
  • Yay!!! So happy for you @AandDM2014
  • FX and congratulations @AandDM2014!!!!
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • Congratulations @AandDM2014!! Fx for a healthy happy 9 months! Also, FX for some more April babies from this crew!!
  • @AandDM2014 congrats!!! so happy for you. happy and healthy 9 months
    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
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