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*** August Two Week Wait ***

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Re: *** August Two Week Wait ***

  • @Taggarab I'm sorry, I have so been there with DH. Men really just don't get it. We are the ones who put in all the blood sweat and tears (literally) and they just go about their day like no biggie. DH is very understanding and patient with me but it's a very different experience for him. We have had that same fight and he thinks I need to 'just relax and stop stressing'. right, ok. 
    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
  • Thanks @ladipale and @AandDM2014 Normally I don't like to invalidate my feelings by saying "oh I'm just tired/hormonal/etc" but sometimes you just know it's those pesky hormones lol

    Major temp plummet today....so low that FF moved my coverline lol I prefer where it was before but oh well. Imagine I'm heading over to WTO as I had spotting last night.

    Good luck to everyone else!!!!
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  • Oh well. BFN again at 12DPO so I trust its for real now. Just waiting for AF to move back over to WTO. Thanks for the support this cycle!
    Me: 32 DH: 36
    Married 5/08
    BFP #1: 1/27/13 DS #1 born 10/16/13
    BFP #2: 1/20/16, ectopic discovered 1/23/16
    Surgery 1/23/16 to remove ruptured tube
    TTCAL 3/16
    BFP #3: 3/24/17 EDD 12/5/17
    DS #2 born 12/11/17



  • @Taggarab I'm sorry about BFN, hugs <3
    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
  • Sitting solidly at 7dpo and resisting every urge to pee on all the things!! Boobs sore but that's a normal post O symptom for me. 

    Also keep telling myself this is a "bonus" cycle BC we originally were going to wait until Sept to come off the bench. 
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • So sorry, @rainbowturtles and @taggarab. Hugs to you!
  • @ladipale tbh I guess mine are "bonus cycles" right now, too, since we also were supposed to wait til September. AF is still a bummer tho lol
  • @rainbowturtles - totally! every time I O'ed while on the bench I felt a little deflated
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • @Taggarab That sounds like my DH, too. I hate to paint all guys with the same brush strokes, but they just don't get it sometimes, even if they are wonderful and supportive.

    I've been taking a little break from here because the rest of my life has been very stressful lately- we might have to move apartments again and that is the last thing I want. I passed on going to grad school last year because I wanted to settle down and start a family, and I'm so bummed that neither of those things is happening this year. 

    I'm already 10 DPO, and I kind of don't feel like testing yet. I want to be pregnant, but it's kind of nice not knowing if I'm out yet this month. I want either a yes or no, not a 'maybe, check back in 2 days' limbo land. 
  • roper2617roper2617 member
    edited August 2016
    Hey ladies, sorry for being so absent lately! I have family visiting and I've been crazy busy this month. Can I request a chart stalk though? Remember how I thought this cycle was anovulatory....well this morning FF have me CHs. I'm confused because of how my temps have been all up and down and totally not looking like last months. Is it possible that I did  actually O later than usual (usually O at CD14/15), or do you think FF is perhaps wrong considering I have basically no temps for the first 2 weeks of my cycle. I'll attach what my last cycle (which was my first medicated) looked like for comparison, because it looks so different than this one. Apologies if they are huge, mobile bumping as per usual.

    Edit: clarifying 

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    Me: 26 DH: 28  
    TTC #1 since 06/2014
    BFP #1 09/23/15. MMC discovered 11/24/2015
    BFP #2 08/24/16 EDD 05/08/17


  • I would guess FF is going completely off of those positive OPKs. With such limited temps, I'm not sure FF has enough data to make a very good guess aside from that. Otherwise, if you had positive OPKs and other signs, maybe you did actually ovulate? Great news if so!
  • @BornReady even though the last positive opk was 2 days before they said I Od? I'm just confused because they gave me a dotted line at cd 16, then took it away when my temp dropped. Oh well, if I did O when they said I did at least I'm not completely out of the running. 
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    Me: 26 DH: 28  
    TTC #1 since 06/2014
    BFP #1 09/23/15. MMC discovered 11/24/2015
    BFP #2 08/24/16 EDD 05/08/17


  • You can technically O 12-48 hours after a positive, so I'm guessing they're factoring that in? 
  • Ohhhhhh right. Yeah that makes sense then. Thanks! 
    ------------------------------------------------------------
    Me: 26 DH: 28  
    TTC #1 since 06/2014
    BFP #1 09/23/15. MMC discovered 11/24/2015
    BFP #2 08/24/16 EDD 05/08/17


  • i agree with @BornReady you can O a day or after after a + opk so maybe that's what it's picking up. FX!!
    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
  • RiverSong15RiverSong15 member
    edited August 2016
    @roper2617 - I've had a cycle where I didn't get a temp rise until the 3rd day after a positive OPK. Depending on the timing of when you test the OPK and when you temp, it can look like 3 days have passed if you ovulate about 48 hours after the LH surge. It definitely had me confused and googling though. Good luck!
  • Why the hell did I think it was a good idea to pee on a stick at 8 dpo? Negative- duh. 
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • No kidding, right @ladipale? I'm testing next Friday too (even though this was a bonus cycle anyway). The urge is strong with this one! ;-)
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • @amberruka- bonus for me too. We were going to wait until Sept so I can get through school year before new baby. But my EDD is Sept 1 and it would be nice to be KU
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • @roper2617 hey I was wondering how this cycle went. I don't have any chart advice, I am starting next month if no bfp. Hope all is going well for you this cycle.

    So it seems that I am in my tww. Although I skipped clomid this cycle I went in on cd 22 for my progesterone draw and it was 12.3. The last unmediated cycle was 5 so it is higher, but kind of a downer in comparison to my 111.7 with clomid last cycle. It positive for ovulation, but seems kind of low. I am going to estimate that I am around 8-9 dpo going of cm and some odd cramping. did have a bit of cramping on cd 7 and wondered if I was ovulating then. Been tired and irritable, but that most likely related to the depression I have been having lately. Fx for all who are still in.

  • Well I am over here now and not quite happy about it. I had O on CD16 according to FF which makes timing crappy as I was having O CD13/14. DH was sick around then so no BD within 3 days of O, so guess I am just waiting here now till AF. Chart below in case anyone is interested.
    Married: June 2011
    TTC #1: September 2015-January 2016
    BFP #1: 1/25/16 - MMC Diagnosed 3/22/16
    TTCAL: June 2016
    BFP #2: 8/26/16 - EDD 5/9/17
    Jackson born 5/6/17 at 8:36 PM - 9lbs 5oz & 21in
      Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • *lurking from WTO*

    @lilylover27 -3 timing still definitely keeps you in the running! Don't give up hope yet! I know it's not the best timing but you still have a chance. FX!

    @crazypt2285 Congratulations!
    Me: 28 DH: 26
    Married: November 2015  3 
    TTC#1: January 2016
    BFP #1: 5/02/16 - MC: 5/27/16
    BFP #2: 10/06/16: 6 - EDD: 06/20/17
    DD Born 06/23/17 3
    TFAS: April 2018
    BFP #3: 03/21/18 - CP
    BFP #4: 04/23/18 - EDD 01/04/19


  • @lilylover27 I know I mentioned this in Waiting to O, but what happens if you take out that CD 12 high temp? CD 14 totally looks possible to me with a fall back rise pattern, which is why I think you have dotted cross hairs. 

    @crazypt2285 Congrats!
  • **lurking/siggy warning**

    Congrats @crazypt2285! So happy for you!
  • @crazypt2285 congratulations!!! Best wishes for a H and H 9 months!
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • Congrats @crazypt2285!
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

  • @crazypt2285 congrats!!!
    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
  • @crazypt2285 congratulations!!!!!!
  • *lurking*

    Congrats @crazypt2285!!
  • Yay @crazypt2285 that is awesome!!!!
    Married 06.21.14 / TTC since 11.15 /
    BFP 01.03.2016 / MMC 6w5d D&C 02.2016 // BFP 05.06.16 / natural MC 05.12.16
    Benched 06.2016-08.2016 / TTC again 09.2016! On a diet. Cranky.
    BFP 10.02.2016 / NT scan at 12w looked normal / Anatomy scan at 20w everything ok
    Team blue! / EDD June 11th 2017
    DAVID ROGER was born on May 23rd at 37 weeks.

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  • @bornready it still keeps the O date at CD16 just drops my cover line temp.

    @BitterBetty12 really I though anything after 2 was usually no good.
    Married: June 2011
    TTC #1: September 2015-January 2016
    BFP #1: 1/25/16 - MMC Diagnosed 3/22/16
    TTCAL: June 2016
    BFP #2: 8/26/16 - EDD 5/9/17
    Jackson born 5/6/17 at 8:36 PM - 9lbs 5oz & 21in
      Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • @lilylover27 I mean -1 and -2 are definitely preferred, but -3 still absolutely means it's possible. I'm keeping my Fx for you!
    Me: 28 DH: 26
    Married: November 2015  3 
    TTC#1: January 2016
    BFP #1: 5/02/16 - MC: 5/27/16
    BFP #2: 10/06/16: 6 - EDD: 06/20/17
    DD Born 06/23/17 3
    TFAS: April 2018
    BFP #3: 03/21/18 - CP
    BFP #4: 04/23/18 - EDD 01/04/19


  • @BitterBetty12 I guess it is. I honestly thought O was on cd14 which would make timing way more better because of the initial temp dip and increase of CM so I guess we will see.
    Married: June 2011
    TTC #1: September 2015-January 2016
    BFP #1: 1/25/16 - MMC Diagnosed 3/22/16
    TTCAL: June 2016
    BFP #2: 8/26/16 - EDD 5/9/17
    Jackson born 5/6/17 at 8:36 PM - 9lbs 5oz & 21in
      Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • Good luck today @BornReady!
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

  • @BornReady thinking of you today! FX!!!!
    Married: June 2011
    TTC #1: September 2015-January 2016
    BFP #1: 1/25/16 - MMC Diagnosed 3/22/16
    TTCAL: June 2016
    BFP #2: 8/26/16 - EDD 5/9/17
    Jackson born 5/6/17 at 8:36 PM - 9lbs 5oz & 21in
      Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • @bitterbetty12 I also just realized who you were by finally reading the grad check in thread! Ha welcome! ;)
    Married: June 2011
    TTC #1: September 2015-January 2016
    BFP #1: 1/25/16 - MMC Diagnosed 3/22/16
    TTCAL: June 2016
    BFP #2: 8/26/16 - EDD 5/9/17
    Jackson born 5/6/17 at 8:36 PM - 9lbs 5oz & 21in
      Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • thanks @lilylover27 for making me go back and look. I knew I was missing something, derp! I skimmed over the weekend but didn't get a chance to pay attention and now it makes much more sense.

    oh heyyyy @bitterbetty12, glad to see you here.
    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
  • @bornready we are all anxiously awaiting your results. Fx for you 
    Me: 30     DH: 31
    Married: 11.12.11
    TTC: Nov 2015
    BFP #1: 1.22.16                 MMC: 2.29.16 ( tetrasomy 11, partial deletion 1, XXX)
    D&C: 3.2.16
    BFP #2: 4.14.16                 CP: 4.17.16
    BFP #3: 6.10.2016             CP: 6.17.2016
    RE appt: 6.27.2016- saline sono all clear
    Chromosome karyotype- Normal both me and DH
    Progenity: + carrier Tay-Sachs, Gaucher's, hemachromatosis. DH: carrier Alpha 1 anti-trypsin
    Clomid + TI Cycle #1: pending  8.15.16
    Fur mom to 2 sled masters: an Alaskan malamute and a malamute wolf hybrid 
    half marathon running, surgery loving trauma hand and reconstructive plastic surgery PA-C
    PCOS, hypothyroid, MTHFR, hx of LEEP in 2006

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