Yay @reesaXden Congrats!! I'm so happy everything went well and everyone is healthy. Can't wait to see pictures!!
@marikkita12 Good luck!! I agree with pp who said maybe they'll want to wait for the right person. Fingers crossed that it goes well for you!
@marajay6 Yikes, I'm so glad he's ok!! Kids are so bendy and resiliant, I always admire how well they handle injuries!
@jhems776 YES I need a button!! "Yes I am pregnant. No you can not touch my belly. I feel fine, just a little slow. Yes it's ok if I'm carrying this bag/box/whatever."
@Sbrown721 The year DD was born 9/13 was a Friday the 13th. I had a huge aversion to her being born on either the 11th or 13th. I was due the 20th so I figured neither were very likely and then she ended up arriving on the 12th, haha! At the end of the day, it would have been fine if she had arrived on the 11th or 13th though they definitely weren't my top choices...not that I was given a choice...
I have a similar issue this time around. I'm due 9/1 and 8/25 is the date I would like to avoid for very, very personal reasons. Let's just say it's the anniversary of something that I'd do anything to avoid being shared with the birth (and birthdays) of my child. Again, not that I have any real choice over here. So I sit and hope for any day - any day but that day. Realistic or not, futile or not, I think it's natural to some extent.
@Sbrown721 my first daughter was due 9/6/13 and I had her on 9/9. It was a possibility for her to be born on 9/11 but it really didn't bother me. Yes 9/11 does mark a bad event in American history but there have been many, many good & bad things happen on that day throughout history all over the world. None of that matters though because whatever day your baby is born on that is going to be the only thing you really associate with that day and it will be good!
DS1 was due 9/17, so it was a possibility that I was hoping to avoid with him. Likewise, lots were hoping to avoid 4/20 (Hitler's bday) in my last BMB. While not ideal to have such a tragic connection, it's certainly not the end of the world.
I also don't think 9/11 would be my first choice in a birthday for my baby, but it would definitely bring so much joy and so many happy memories to that day instead of sorrow. I don't think it's a problem at all in the grand scheme of things.
I've also thought of the 9-11 birthdate. I really wish our country would have a national holiday in remembrance of this tragedy. Columbus raped and spread diseases to the natives, but he gets his own day (weekend), WTF?!
Baby is moving just enough so I don't call the doctor but not enough for me to not to be concerned.
Really upset with work right now. Just so many deadlines right after I go on maternity leave and I am just having a hard time trying to catch up. 13 work days left and counting!!!
Me: 32 DH: 31
TTC #2 since January 2018
Baby #1 DD Born 8/25/2016 BFP: 8/11/18 Due: 4/26/18
My husband keeps saying this baby will be coming on 9/11 but not because he's worried about it being a tragic day but bc it's the first Vikings game. He's an avid fan. I think that would be a tough birthday. It's a hard thing to mix a sad and happy day.
Married 6-1-13 Sebastian 3-11-14 Simon 5-2-15 Baby #3 Due 9-29-16
Another thing to think about with a 9/11 birthday... it's going to bother you more than your child. It'll be 15 years this year since it happened. It's far enough in the past that our kids won't get it the way we do. Do December moms worry about a 12/7 birth being the same day as Pearl Harbor? (At first I assume they don't, but now I'm genuinely curious if it gets the same consideration.)
Does anyone have any feelings toward possibly having a baby born on 9/11? I'm due 9/9 so it's definitely a possibility.
It has crossed my mind once or twice. I am not bothered by it much at all. My dad was born on the Pearl Harbor anniversary and that has never been a problem for him.
I left work this morning because I have a sore throat, mild fever and ear ache and fell asleep again until nearly 2 PM! I have laundry to put away, plants to water, dinner to plan, dishes in the sink but my body is telling me to stay in bed.
I feel guilty but don't want to move. At 35 weeks today, I feel like days like this will be few and far between soon. Housework be damned!
I'm about to go to Wegmans without a shopping list or a meal plan. And most importantly, alone! For those who know Wegmans, you understand my concern. For those who know what it's like to grocery shop with a small child, you understand my elation.
Another thing to think about with a 9/11 birthday... it's going to bother you more than your child. It'll be 15 years this year since it happened. It's far enough in the past that our kids won't get it the way we do. Do December moms worry about a 12/7 birth being the same day as Pearl Harbor? (At first I assume they don't, but now I'm genuinely curious if it gets the same consideration.)
I was going to point this out. My (much) older brother was born on 12/7 and the only ones who ever commented were grandparents and our parents. To those born after the generation that went through it we never really thought about it much.
On the flip side I had a friend whose bday is 9/11 (she was late teens at the time) and for several years felt like "really, that had to happen on my birthday?" Those first few years after 2001 were tough for her because the memory was so fresh for everyone.
No matter when baby comes that day will be a happy day. Besides, once they start doing family/friend parties the celebrating will mostly be done on the weekend before or after their actual birthday.
@fireflygirl12 I think Ruby Eloise! I like the syllable count better.
@PoodleDoodleOoo fight awkward with awkward is my new life motto.
I made PB rice krispie squares, and they are so.good.
@Sbrown721 my moms birthday is 9/11 and (although we're Canadian) it never seems to dampen the mood anymore. I feel like it did for a couple of years after, but not as much anymore.
Wife to A; Mama to C (2009), N (2011), H (2014) & baby F due 09/16/16
I keep saying I'd prefer not to have baby on 9/11, I don't think his generation will immediately think of the tragedy, but the phrase 9/11 when giving it to doctors, pharmacies, etc always brings me right back. I'm not overly concerned about it, but it would not be my first choice (if I had any say at all... which I know I dont!)
I am so way beyond behind on this thread, but i just have to pop in and congratulate @reesaXden on a beautiful baby girl!
I am a nervous wreck, guys. I can tell DD2 is still breech and if she doesn't turn by Thursday, then I have to make a final decision about having an ECV done on Friday, and if that doesn't work then I have to schedule a c/s at 39 weeks. I've heard the version is pretty painful and has a very slight risk of putting me in labor or baby in distress so I'm completely torn. Just really hoped that I wouldn't have to be faced with these decisions. Breech vaginal birth is not on the table. I am a mess of nerves and emotions. I know everything will be fine when I have her in my arms, but I'm just crushed that I may not have a vaginal birth like I had with DD1.
I'm watching a video of myself public speaking yesterday in an effort to get better at it...because I like torture? God, this is awful. I hate my voice. And the face part of my face.
@fireflygirl12 I like Elise or Emerson best, but I agree RubyQ is a seriously adorable nn.
@camichael84 I just made the exact same point to someone at my shower last week with the same example. I am not in any way trivializing the significance of the date, but I think it will be a lot less of an emotional punch to people born 15 years later. Also, the Hitler's bday point is well-taken, and suggests to me you could probably find distasteful things on any day.
For anyone who caught my earlier post about the beta blocker ( @VeraMali ) I talked to my OB and decided not to take it. I don't think my heart issues are actually causing me any real symptoms that this would be improving and I just don't think it's safe. I will wear a heart monitor forever if they really want me to, but I don't want to take anything that could put the baby at risk in any way.
@TheTamedShrew – I am so sorry you’re facing such a tough
decision! I wish I had more insight to share/help. Fingers crossed baby girl
flips on her own by Thursday!!
@TheTamedShrew I hope she flips on her own! In a positive anecdote, one of my friends went in the day before her CS because of breech, and he'd flipped on his own. So you have up until the last minute for her to rotate! Can you push back on the scheduling at 39 weeks to give her more time? I convinced my first practice doc to give me until past my due date. I was pretty upset about giving up a chance at a vaginal birth, too. Big hugs.
@reesaXden what a gorgeous little girl! I'm so happy for you, your DH and your little boy. Enjoy her and I hope everythingcontinues to go well. So many yummy baby cuddles to come!
@TheTamedShrew if I was in your shoes I would do the version.... but that's coming from not doing good any research on them since I haven't been in the situation. I have heard they can be painful but if provider thinks there's a chance it could work, I'd want to try it. No idea if you wanted random opinions but that's mine! Hahaha
@diagonalley thanks for sharing that, it gives me more hope. I am trying not to think about it since it's really nbd, it's just them reminding me to do my kick counts and to come in almost right away worried me a bit. I'm also hoping they don't rush into a c-section unless needed.
@jhems776 I feel the exact same way about the chit chat. It's like it's everywhere I go and always the same questions in the same order. When I went to the dentist, the receptionist, assistant, dentist, and hygienist all asked the same things in less than an hour.
@abberson, I'm going to try to push back as much as I can. DD1 took 36 hours to get here and was 5 days late, plus I live 5 min from the hospital. Obviously her safety is the most important thing, but I want her to come as close to 40 weeks as she can! You are the ONLY person I have found with a personal experience to share and I appreciate it so much. I have even reached out on FB trying to find anyone else who has been in this situation or had an ECV.
Re: August Randoms!!!
@marikkita12 Good luck!! I agree with pp who said maybe they'll want to wait for the right person. Fingers crossed that it goes well for you!
@marajay6 Yikes, I'm so glad he's ok!! Kids are so bendy and resiliant, I always admire how well they handle injuries!
@jhems776 YES I need a button!! "Yes I am pregnant. No you can not touch my belly. I feel fine, just a little slow. Yes it's ok if I'm carrying this bag/box/whatever."
BFP: 8/11/18 Due: 4/26/18
I have a similar issue this time around. I'm due 9/1 and 8/25 is the date I would like to avoid for very, very personal reasons. Let's just say it's the anniversary of something that I'd do anything to avoid being shared with the birth (and birthdays) of my child. Again, not that I have any real choice over here. So I sit and hope for any day - any day but that day. Realistic or not, futile or not, I think it's natural to some extent.
Feeling your pain. And Reese has been a giant pain to put to bed lately. Looking at 9/9:30 bedtimes the last few nights. Ugh.
Really upset with work right now. Just so many deadlines right after I go on maternity leave and I am just having a hard time trying to catch up. 13 work days left and counting!!!
BFP: 8/11/18 Due: 4/26/18
I think that would be a tough birthday. It's a hard thing to mix a sad and happy day.
Sebastian 3-11-14
Simon 5-2-15
Baby #3 Due 9-29-16
@reesaxden Congrats!!!! She's beautiful!
I feel guilty but don't want to move. At 35 weeks today, I feel like days like this will be few and far between soon. Housework be damned!
DD 10/4/02
DS due 9/28/16
@PoodleDoodleOoo fight awkward with awkward is my new life motto.
I made PB rice krispie squares, and they are so.good.
@Sbrown721 my moms birthday is 9/11 and (although we're Canadian) it never seems to dampen the mood anymore. I feel like it did for a couple of years after, but not as much anymore.
I am a nervous wreck, guys. I can tell DD2 is still breech and if she doesn't turn by Thursday, then I have to make a final decision about having an ECV done on Friday, and if that doesn't work then I have to schedule a c/s at 39 weeks. I've heard the version is pretty painful and has a very slight risk of putting me in labor or baby in distress so I'm completely torn. Just really hoped that I wouldn't have to be faced with these decisions. Breech vaginal birth is not on the table. I am a mess of nerves and emotions. I know everything will be fine when I have her in my arms, but I'm just crushed that I may not have a vaginal birth like I had with DD1.
@fireflygirl12 I like Elise or Emerson best, but I agree RubyQ is a seriously adorable nn.
@camichael84 I just made the exact same point to someone at my shower last week with the same example. I am not in any way trivializing the significance of the date, but I think it will be a lot less of an emotional punch to people born 15 years later. Also, the Hitler's bday point is well-taken, and suggests to me you could probably find distasteful things on any day.
For anyone who caught my earlier post about the beta blocker ( @VeraMali ) I talked to my OB and decided not to take it. I don't think my heart issues are actually causing me any real symptoms that this would be improving and I just don't think it's safe. I will wear a heart monitor forever if they really want me to, but I don't want to take anything that could put the baby at risk in any way.
@TheTamedShrew – I am so sorry you’re facing such a tough decision! I wish I had more insight to share/help. Fingers crossed baby girl flips on her own by Thursday!!
No idea if you wanted random opinions but that's mine! Hahaha
@jhems776 I feel the exact same way about the chit chat. It's like it's everywhere I go and always the same questions in the same order. When I went to the dentist, the receptionist, assistant, dentist, and hygienist all asked the same things in less than an hour.
DS1 -- 9/30/2016
@reesaXden congrats!! She is gorgeous!!
I have no randoms today. I'm tired and boring and should be cleaning but I'm sitting here bumping. Motivation, where are you?
This is what I've said each time people have asked me.
DS1 -- 9/30/2016