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Re: June/July IVF or FET

  • @sleepyrn and everyone who didn't get good news this week, I'm so sorry and you're all in my prayers :(

    @chicandbubbly, congratulations, I'm so happy for you!

    @20T, too funny you started the same day as I did. I have been having weird dreams but I started having them when I began taking herbs called "Comfort Shen", to help with sleep. I stopped that when I started Lupron but I'm still having crazy dreams so I guess the Lupron is having that effect on me as well? I have my first ultrasound on Friday, 6/24 and start my stims that day as well. I take my last BCP tonight and my dosage of Lupron goes from 10mL to 5 starting tomorrow. What part of the US do you live in?
    History:
    Married: 12/4/15
    Me: 43 DH:43
    Me: FSH levels all over the place, pre-menopausal
    Him: Low count & motility
    Meds start - Lupron until 6/23, Cetrotide started 6/24, Gonal-F starts 7/1
    First ultrasound 6/24 shows 8 follicles with some possibly hiding
    Egg Retrieval - Between 7/9-7/22
    IVF #1 canceled due to poor response - 7/12
    Figuring out next steps
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  • @blueeyedreamer sorry to hear you had a c\p time off is a good idea it gives you time to get rid of some stress.

    @msirni0 those are good numbers i wonder if they will give me that information when my retrevial is done and stuff i hope so. good luck with the transfer.

    @kirstencas how are you feeling how did the iui go

    @freudianmamma congrats on the numbers fxed they all fertilize for you

    @junebuggy2004 those are very good numbers good luck on mon

    @sleepyrn sorry that your beta was negative im praying next time works for you and that af starts quickly so you can get started.

    @PNW12RN i know buying tampons can be disheartening especially when you oooo so dont want to

    @engem819 sorry to hear about your negative beta you wil find out whats going on and next time will work for you

    @AugustAng they had me remove my polyps before i could start my cycle i had then removed in March and had to have two afs before i could get started i think you are lucky that you doctor is going to remove yours during your retreveial that way you wont have such a long wait cause i had to tak bcps the whole time and it killed me doing so

    @chicandbubbly congrats on you bfp im so happy for you hh9mons

    @kyrgyzshan omg i know exactly how you feel. when i was trying to get my med there was so many hurdles it was a pain in my a$$ especially when i was told if i didnt get the lupron on time i would have to wait another week so wasnt happy when i heard that.

    AFM my scan fri showed that my follies were at 11 and i had 3 on right and 1 on left and my uterus was looking good. so i have another scan mon and hopefully ill be triggering then and my ret will be wed instead of tue. i just want everything to be ok cause this is very stressful
    BabyFetus Ticker
  • @kyrgyzshan check your pharmacy website, there is usually an emergency number to call. 
  • @mrsmoten313 GL on Wed, you'll do great! 
    ASM - The IUI went well, she seemed happy with his numbers even though it was less than a million. I thought it was funny that dh was in the room with me, he looked uncomfortable! She said just do a hpt in 2 weeks, and she orders some progesterone suppositories to start tomorrow. Are they as super fun as all you ladies have described? I imagine its like sitting in a pie :) 

    My RE just showed me and dh how to do all the shots in her office, she's very hands on, that's why i like her.
    Me & DH - 41, DH has a cyst blocking his tubes, I'm just old.
    IVF #1 scheduled May 2016 - 375/525 follistim, 75 menopur - cancelled cycle Day 6
    IVF #2 scheduled July 2016 - new protocol, switcharoo...IUI June 2016 - BFN
    IVF#3 scheduled August 2016 - estrogen & testosterone primed for 3 wks - ganirelix 7 days leading up to stim - 500 follistim, 75 menopur, 150 clomid , no follicle growth on day 6, stopped injectibles. Scanned day 9 just to check, some growth, 3 days 200 mg clomid, day 12 more growth, 100 follistim, 75 menopur, start ganirelix on day 13, ER = 0 eggs, ovulated to soon ( :( )
    IVF#4 scheduled Sept 2016 - Microdose Flare protocol, cancelled stim day 6 converted to IUI (one dominant follicle)  :(  IUI cancelled ovulated too soon again. Taking a mental health break.
    IVF#5 December 2016 - New protocol, same results. My adventure is over.


  • @wifeinraleigh28 I completely understand. I have a friend who started trying after me and every time we got together I also dreaded her making the announcement. Even though I was expecting it, it hit me like a ton of bricks when she told me she was pregnant. She just gave birth a few days ago and while I am very happy for her, it also crushed me at the same time. This is such a difficult process to go through. Fingers crossed our time is soon!
  • @wifeinraleigh28 Oh, I am so sorry you are having a rough day.  I have had plenty of these days myself and they are the worst.  The sadness and hopelessness can be so encompassing.  Take care of yourself today and know that you are never alone in your feelings.  Tomorrow is a new day filled with hope for the future.  One day you're going to be a fabulous mom, even more so because of this process.  Hugs!!
    Me (36)  DH (39)
    3 early m/c before pursuing fertility treatments
    Diagnosis: Unexplained
    IUI #1: Jan 2015 (Follistim) *cancelled (over-stimulated)
    IUI #2: Mar 2016 (Follistim + Ganirelix + Ovidrel) *BFN
    IUI #3: Apr 2016 (Follistim + Ganirelix + Ovidrel)  *BFN
    IUI #4: May 2016(Follistim + Ganirelix + Ovidrel)  *BFN
    IVF #1: ER 6/30, 9 eggs retrieved, 7 mature, 6 fertilized w/ ICSI, 3 made to Day 6, 0 normal after PGS
    IVF #2: begin stims mid August
  • Thank you for your kind words @Stars2016, @annebenton22, and @AugustAng.  I know you ladies can all relate to how this feels.  I've been really isolating myself from my friends lately because I feel like I carry this weight of infertility around with me and it's hard to be around other people.  I feel like a bad friend these days.

    I ended up having a nice afternoon with DH and I do feel better now though.  But I find it hard to be really sad about all this stuff around him because I feel like whenever I get sad about it, he feels REALLY sad and guilty because of his MFI diagnosis.  So I try to suck it up so he doesn't feel that way!  I hate it when he feels bad and responsible for my sadness.

    @annebenton22 Congrats on your transfer!  What beautiful little embabies!  Wow, your beta is just 10 days after your transfer, how nice that you don't have to wait so long!!  FX for you!!
    ***BFP & Child Warning***

    Me: 34, DH: 38 ~ TTC since 2014
    IUI #1-3 (Nov 2015, Feb 2016, May 2016) = BFNs
    IVF ER (July 2016) = 7 PGS normal embryos
    FET #1 (Sept 2016) = BFP! DD born 5/30/17
    FET #2 (April 2019) = BFN
    FET #3 (July 2019) = BFP! DS born 3/27/20
  • @annebenton22 FX for a sticky (or two!)!!!

    AFM - First night with Lupron. What should I expect as the side effects?? What did ya'll experience? 
  •  @wifeinraleigh28 sending you hugs and support.  I have a friend who sends me darling pictures of her 4th kid.  She is adorable and sometimes I love to get them - but it hurts so bad those other times.  Sometimes on days when you don't think that will.  
    its crazy when it hits you at random times...i was getting a pedi yesterday and there was this girl around my age sooo cute with her belly there with her mother and the nail tech was talking to her b/c she was also pregnant and they were both 7 months along blah blah then she says something about how the last time she was in there was when she was visiting her mom last time...for their wedding in Sept.  I think this hit me soo hard b/c my wedding was Sept almost 2 years ago and we were trying from the second we got married so that should have been me.  my eyes filled up so quick took everything in me to suck them back down so i didn't cause a scene in the nail salon :(


    as far as med teachings go my nurse gave me a pamphlet and said use this website: villagepharmacy.com that was pretty much my teaching session...of course the researcher i am had already looked up any and all meds, youtube is a great place for meds too
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  • Have got purple patches on my thighs from injections- anyone else experiencing this? Mother in law already feels I should be buying oversize clothes, my mom called me to find out whether I'm feeling any physical changes. Heaven help us in dealing with over eager relatives! 

    Married for 4 years, TTC for 1.5 years
    Unexplained infertility

    History: 
    Hypothyroid, under control
    Low ovarian reserve
    2 IUIs
    IVF #1 no luck
    IVF #2 ongoing
  • @nuttymask that's super cute and sweet
    @kyrgyzshan I had no problems when I was on lupron, but I'm not sure if that's what gave me a migraine which resulted in vomiting after going off of it, since I had been on it for soooo long. Hope that wasn't it and you don't have any side effects.
    @freudianmamma those are great numbers, fx they keep growing. Do you know what your estrogen level was? Or how many follicles you had??
    AFM: I have had bw and us yesterday, today and tomorrow....they say I'm going faster then expected, not sure how I feel about that. I know the calendar is an estimate but I would have assumed I'd go longer (like my first IVF cycle) not shorter. Now I'm concerned the eggs didn't have time to grow properly and there are quite a few who don't gave time to catch up. Anyone else have their stim cycle cut shorter??
    Also, did majority of you return to work the day after ER? I cannot remember how it went for me, I can remember my two transfers but not ER.
    ********Pregnancy Mentioned*******

    Me 33 DH 33 Together since 2002 TTC since Oct 2010 RE March 2012 HSG left tube blocked with fluid July Lap done, removed left tube and right tube damaged Break until we can fund IVF Mock Transfer and Consent Signing appt 11/2 Started BC 12/11, Injection class 12/18 Lupron starts 12/27, Menopur,Lupron and GonalF start 1/9, Triggered 1/20, ER 1/22 11R, 3 made it to day 5, ET 1/27 of 2 blasts, I frozen 2/7 beta #1 380, 2/11 beta #2 ? DD born 10/18/2013 

    FET 9/2015-BFN no embryos left........trying on own until I discovered my only tube was blocked
    IVF#2- started stims 6/12 ER 6/22 16 ER 11 mature 8 fertilized ET 6/27 2 day 5 embryos AB and BB put in. 1 frozen BC. Beta #1-175 Beta #2- 422.  Beta #3- 1,024. US-7/29
  • Thanks @freudianmamma@Happydays13, and @annebenton22 for your kind words.  I'm meeting with my re tomorrow and dh and I came up with like 20 questions I plan to ask.  I know sometimes there aren't reasons why your body doesn't accept the embryo but I'd like to find out as much as I can. I hope all of you have a successful cycle this time around! @Happydays13 I'm hoping for cycle buddies in July if all goes as planned--that would be awesome!
    Married to DH since 8/15
    TTC since 5/15
    PCOS, 35+, diagnosed with pre-diabetes
    TI for 4 cycles: 1 round of femara; 2 rounds femara/ injectables: all ended in BFN. 
    3 IUI Cycles: letrozole/Follistim with HCG Trigger,all resulted in BFN.
    FET #1: Baseline appt 4/28/16, Gonal-F/Menopur stims, Centrotide 5/4/16, ER 5/11/16; 6/8/16 ET, BFN
    FET #2: Baseline appt 6/22/16, Estrace/PIO shots: 7/12/16 ET, 1st beta 7/21/16: 83 BFP, 2nd beta 7/23/16: 315. 1st U/S: 8/4/16 empty sac.  2nd U/S: 8/10/16 yolk sac appeared, everything stopped growing. Office D&C: 8/11/16, MC.
    FET #3: Baseline appt 12/28/16, Estrace/PIO shots: 1/17/17 ET, 1st beta 1/27/17: 146 BFP, 2nd beta 1/29/17: 336, 1st U/S: 2/16/17, 2 healthy twin babies measuring 7w0d.  EDD: 10/5/17
    Pregnancy Ticker
  • @rmarble23 oh my gosh what a tough thing to go through at the nail salon!  and that's supposed to be a sacred, relaxing space!  sorry that happened.  that would have made me cry too.  it should be you and some day it will be
    :smile:

    Mr&Mrs.D - Thank you!  DH and I are excited but nervous.  Our RE had said he was "tracking 6" (maybe for maturity?) so it is surprising that there were some more!  I had 18 follies in there by the end.  I am not sure what my estrogen level is.  Is that something I should be tracking?  
    Me (34) & DH (38)
    Married 2014; TTC since 4/2015
    Diagnosed with Stage 3 Endometriosis and possible ovulation dysfunction 
    1st TI (clomid/follistim/ovidrel/progesterone)- 3/19/16 - BFN
    2nd TI (clomid/follistim/ovidrel/progesterone)- 5/11/16 - BFN

  • @mr&mrs.d i returned to work the next day, very sore and bloated but i was able to adjust my assignment for the day so i was sitting as my job involves alot of getting up and down and that would have been very painful.  It took me most of a week to return back to normal function but the first two days were probably the worst.  come to find out my RE said she had pushed me a little too close to OHSS that she would have liked.
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  • @rmarble23 yikes, I'm sorry to hear that. I'm trying to cut down on my time out of work, but since no one there knows what I'm doing, I'm wondering if two days off would be better then the heads turning if I'm in pain or uncomfortable....hmmm...decisions never end
    @freudianmamma I don't know if it should be tracked, I just read somewhere that the estrogen level might correlate with the number of mature eggs. I think it was like 200-400 per egg. I have no idea if this is correct, so I was wondering if it was the case for you. 
    ********Pregnancy Mentioned*******

    Me 33 DH 33 Together since 2002 TTC since Oct 2010 RE March 2012 HSG left tube blocked with fluid July Lap done, removed left tube and right tube damaged Break until we can fund IVF Mock Transfer and Consent Signing appt 11/2 Started BC 12/11, Injection class 12/18 Lupron starts 12/27, Menopur,Lupron and GonalF start 1/9, Triggered 1/20, ER 1/22 11R, 3 made it to day 5, ET 1/27 of 2 blasts, I frozen 2/7 beta #1 380, 2/11 beta #2 ? DD born 10/18/2013 

    FET 9/2015-BFN no embryos left........trying on own until I discovered my only tube was blocked
    IVF#2- started stims 6/12 ER 6/22 16 ER 11 mature 8 fertilized ET 6/27 2 day 5 embryos AB and BB put in. 1 frozen BC. Beta #1-175 Beta #2- 422.  Beta #3- 1,024. US-7/29
  • @BornReady That is a lovely quote. Quite appropriate for us infertiles!

    AFM - One of DH and I's friend had a baby two weeks ago, and they had asked for dinner deliveries on their baby registry. At the time I was newly pregnant and thought it was a great idea. Haha, then I had a miscarriage and babies kinda sucked for a while. Well today was my first day bringing said food to them, and I got the see their LO. I thought it was going to be very challenging, but it wasn't as bad as I thought. I didn't hold him (I didn't ask, and she didn't offer [she knows about our infertility, they also struggled a bit]), but maybe when I go back in a week and a half for my second food delivery I'll ask about it. Hopefully by then I'll have gotten started with a period (it'll be almost two weeks since my last provera) so I'll be feeling more hopeful/optimistic!

    Congrats to those who got positive betas over the last 2 days! Hopefully we see lots more on this thread!
    About us:
    Me - 28, Lean PCOS
    DH - 31
    Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014
    Blog: ourbinarystar.com

    FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!

  • @freudianmamma those are good numbers.
    @wifeinraleigh28 Its understanding how you feel I think any of us would Feel the same finding out or seeing someone else pregnant is heartbreaking.
    @mr&Mrs.d I would like to know what to expect too I'm hoping when I go in today they well let me trigger.
    Hey ladies I hope all is feeling well today. Will let you know how my appt goes today.
    BabyFetus Ticker
  • Happy happy transfer day @msirni0 and @junebuggy2004!!  Please update us to let us know how it goes!

    And happy beta day @Foxy8609!  I know you've already been getting positives at home so I'm very much looking forward to finding out your number!!  Woop woop!! :)
    ***BFP & Child Warning***

    Me: 34, DH: 38 ~ TTC since 2014
    IUI #1-3 (Nov 2015, Feb 2016, May 2016) = BFNs
    IVF ER (July 2016) = 7 PGS normal embryos
    FET #1 (Sept 2016) = BFP! DD born 5/30/17
    FET #2 (April 2019) = BFN
    FET #3 (July 2019) = BFP! DS born 3/27/20
  • @misirin0 gl with trans today and don't worry your other eggs will make it to freeze. Don't cry it only takes one and maybe this one being ready before all the rest is your one. Fxed for you.
    BabyFetus Ticker
  • Thanks @wifeinraleigh28 and @mrsmoten313! I should clarify, they were happy tears I almost cried because of how happy my nurse sounded about our little embaby. I am so excited and can't believe this day is finally here!
    Me: 29 DH: 28
    Together since 2008, married Sept 2013
    ttc #1 since July 2014
    DX: unexplained infertility
    Sept, Oct, Nov Clomid 50 mg: BFN
    Feb 2016 IUI w/ 50mg Clomid, Ovidrel, Prometrium: BFN
    March 2016 IUI w/ 50mg Clomid, Ovidrel, Prometrium: BFN
    June 2016 IVF: BFP 6/28!!! beta #1: 358, beta #2: 1428, beta #3: 3742


    Pregnancy Ticker
  • Ok that's good to hear @msirni0 gl. 
    Afm I have to go back wed and will probably trigger then and ret Fri. Follies one at 17.9 another at 16. Then the rest were 12 to 14. Had five on each side. Can't say I wasn't disappointed hearing to keep taking meds but as long as I get preggo  it is worth it.
    BabyFetus Ticker
  • freudianmammafreudianmamma member
    edited June 2016
    Me (34) & DH (38)
    Married 2014; TTC since 4/2015
    Diagnosed with Stage 3 Endometriosis and possible ovulation dysfunction 
    1st TI (clomid/follistim/ovidrel/progesterone)- 3/19/16 - BFN
    2nd TI (clomid/follistim/ovidrel/progesterone)- 5/11/16 - BFN

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    @OCfortythree I'm in the south, what about you?
  • Hi there--I'm new around here, and @cmm012 very helpfully directed me to this conversation (thanks!)

    I'm most likely looking at a transfer Friday or Saturday--have been stimming since 6/13 with gonal-f and steadily increasing doses of menopur. Started the ganirelix yesterday morning, my biggest follicle today was 16.5, and they're hoping another day or two of meds will let a couple of smaller ones catch up. FX!

    Just wondering if anyone else is dealing with the nausea I've got going on. It just started today (thankfully), but I feel like I'm hungover--sick to my stomach, the spins every so often, headache, etc. I'm trying to pound water and eat small bites of noodles every couple hours, but I'm struggling. Friday/Saturday (please dear god, Friday) suddenly feels so far away. 

    GL to everyone else going thru a cycle this month! Internet hugs to all :)
    Me: 30, mild DOR
    Him: 31, totes fine.
    IUI #1: 5 follicles, cycle cancelled :-/
    IUI #2: 1 follicle, BFP, chemical
    IVF #1: 12 follicles, 9 eggs, 1 fresh 5dt and 4 on ice. BFP, beta #1: 326, beta #2: 841 

    Pregnancy Ticker
  • @UnicornsPlease welcome! @cmm012 is right - you'll find so many wonderful ladies here who offer great support and advice! Good luck with your final few days of stimming...hopefully the nausea will abate and you won't be too uncomfortable. and Good Luck on your ER on friday/saturday! :smiley:
  • Is anyone else taking Medrol? The nurse tells me it's a steroid that helps your body to not 'reject' the embryo by treating it as a foreign invader. But it tastes disgusting! I thought I ingested poison lol
  • Sooooo just it the call. Instead of wed my appt is now Thur. Very disappointing. But this better work.
    BabyFetus Ticker
  • Hi All!  Busy weekend! :)

    @emgem819 @sleepyrn So sorry to hear about the beta results. Big hugs to you both!

    @chicandbubbly Congrats!! So happy for you!  GL on your 2nd beta today!

    @FatPony Ugh that medrol is the worst!  The best way I found to take it was to put it towards the back of my tongue and then drink and swallow as quickly as possible before it has time to start dissolving.  But yeah, it's so gross! I dreaded that more than the injections sometimes!

    @msirni0 Congrats on a smooth transfer!  That embaby is gorgeous!

    @UnicornsPlease Welcome to the group!  Sorry you haven't been feeling well!  I didn't have too much nausea during my stims but I'm sure it's a pretty common side effect.  Maybe get some ginger chews? I know those can really help with tummy trouble.  Hope you feel better soon!


    Me: 36 DH: 36
    TTC since October 2014
    June 2015: large ovarian cyst removed
    Nov 2015: Dx w/ diminished ovarian reserve, extremely low AMH
    IVF #1: 04/2016 - 3 eggs retrieved, 2 mature & fertilized, 1 Day 6 blast frozen, PGS normal
    IVF #2: 07/2016 - 3 eggs retrieved, 2 mature & fertilized, none made it past day 3
    IVF #3: 09/2016 - 5 eggs retrieved, 3 mature & fertilized, 1 day 6 blast frozen, PGS normal
    FET #1: 12/2016 - 1 day 6 blast transferred - BFP!! EDD 9/7/2017

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