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  • Congrats on the boy @mthoomom!!!
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  • @mthoomom congratulations! Wishing you lots of support and sleep in the next few days-weeks. Can't wait to hear more and I'm glad you are both safe and sound!
  • What, what?! Congratulations, @mthoomom ! I'm so glad everything turned out so well! Enjoy those amazing newborn snuggles and that delicious newborn smell. :)
  • Wow! Congratulations @mthoomom !!!
    TTC#1 since Jan 2015
    BFP 2/19/15  •  MMC found at 9 wks  •  D&E at 11 wks (age 36)
    BFP 8/29/15
      •  CP (age 37)
    BFP 11/18/15  •  DD born at 41 weeks <3(age 37/38)

    TTC#2 since May 2017
    BFP 10/18/17  •  MMC found at 8 wks  •  Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39)

    BFP 2/16/18
      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 4/13/18
      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 5/07/18  •  MMC found at 10.5 wks  •  D&E at 11.5 wks 
    •  Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40)
    9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied)

    RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy.

    BFP 9/24/18  • 
    CP (age 40)
    BFP 5/11/19  •  Fraternal twins  •  MMC found at 10w5d (Baby A 6w, Baby B 10w)  •  Misoprostal at 11 weeks (age 41)













  • bgf1bgf1 member
    Congratulations @mthoomom, so happy for you!!!
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  • CONGRATULATIONS @mthoomom! :)  Enjoy this time - even though you're probably exhausted!  A version AND a 3 day induction?  YIKES!  You're SuperMom!
    *** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
    Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
    7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
    3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
    12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
    First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
    Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
  • In much less exciting news...I went to Jimmy John's to get dinner after a very depressing meeting with the tax lady. I ordered an Italian night club for DH and a veggie for me. I asked for extra avocado on mine because I'm all about the avocado these days. I got home, put them in the fridge and, and hour later, discovered that instead of EXTRA avocado, they put exactly NO avocado on my sandwich. You can all guess how extremely disappointed I was. I almost drove back, but the effort to get LO back in the car wasn't worth it. Boo. 
  • @Sporty1216 I HATE that sort of malarkey! There is nothing worse they coming to find out that the thing you wanted, paid for and drove home isn't right. My DH has had the take things back for me on occasion. Epic fail! don't they know not to mess with pregnant ladies!!!
  • Obsessed with avocado too @sporty1216! Always BYOA (bring my own avocado)....kidding but I always have a ton at home for such disasters:)
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  • @mthoomom, congratulations on your wonderful bundle of joy, wish you and your family the best for the weeks ahead
  • @Sporty1216 I love avocado too, so I feel your pain. Also, during the first trimester, I drove really far out of the way to get a roast beef sandwich because it was the ONLY thing that sounded good. When I got home, I looked in the bag and there was a turkey wrap. :s

    @infantino22 that doesn't surprise me. Pregnancy gave me an awful taste in my mouth all through the first trimester and it still comes back sometimes after I eat. (Especially something sweet.)  It's possible that the bad taste also came with a bad smell, but DH didn't mention it.
    TTC#1 since Jan 2015
    BFP 2/19/15  •  MMC found at 9 wks  •  D&E at 11 wks (age 36)
    BFP 8/29/15
      •  CP (age 37)
    BFP 11/18/15  •  DD born at 41 weeks <3(age 37/38)

    TTC#2 since May 2017
    BFP 10/18/17  •  MMC found at 8 wks  •  Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39)

    BFP 2/16/18
      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 4/13/18
      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 5/07/18  •  MMC found at 10.5 wks  •  D&E at 11.5 wks 
    •  Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40)
    9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied)

    RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy.

    BFP 9/24/18  • 
    CP (age 40)
    BFP 5/11/19  •  Fraternal twins  •  MMC found at 10w5d (Baby A 6w, Baby B 10w)  •  Misoprostal at 11 weeks (age 41)













  • @CarrieandRoy -- thanks for the heads up. Man, I miss those guys. I wish we could magically transport thistle and the others over here too....
  • I want to know about these homemade chicken nuggets, @BernieRae ! Do you mind sharing the recipe? That sounds like a great night. I loved that movie! I cried and cried and cried. 
  • @sporty1216, need to go find the bubble blower, just saw an automatic bubble blower at a play date this week, wish I thought of that million dollar idea, entertainment for days!
    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
  • @Sporty1216 The breading is made with cornflakes actually. It was the first recipe I found yesterday when I searched for one. I found it here:
     
    https://www.sixsistersstuff.com/2011/08/homemade-chicken-nuggets.html

    I loved the movie too. So brilliant. 

  • @mthoomom Congratulations!!!!

    @infantino22 yup, the bad breath is a thing and it's actually coming from your gut because of the relaxation of that top muscle of the esophagus. Listerine won't help but chewing gum might because of the saliva generating. The good thing is it goes away! Mine only stuck around for some of the 2nd tri.
  • lickasticklickastick member
    edited March 2016
    @CarrieandRoy that's awesome! I'm so glad your DH is getting the baby's bathroom done. I hope I'm as organized as you by 20-some weeks. Rock on mama!
  • Way to go, @CarrieandRoy ! You knocked out a ton of stuff! And exciting about the remodeled bathroom! Woot!
  • Wow @CarrieandRoy you rock! I'm quite a bit ahead of you and haven't done any of those things!

    actually, I do have a registry. I have no idea if anyone's going to buy something off it though because no one has asked if I have one.
    Me: 40  DH: 43
    Married 5/30/15
    TTC #1 June 2015
    BFP #1 9/28/15, EDD 6/10/16. DS born 5/23/16!
    TTC #2 May 2017
    BFP #2 m/c 11/18/17 5w5d
    BFP #3 12/17/17 EDD 8/25/18. It's a boy!
  • @redheadbride15 are you going to have a baby shower? That's where you would get most stuff. And whoever sends the invites is supposed to include registry info.
    TTC#1 since Jan 2015
    BFP 2/19/15  •  MMC found at 9 wks  •  D&E at 11 wks (age 36)
    BFP 8/29/15
      •  CP (age 37)
    BFP 11/18/15  •  DD born at 41 weeks <3(age 37/38)

    TTC#2 since May 2017
    BFP 10/18/17  •  MMC found at 8 wks  •  Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39)

    BFP 2/16/18
      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 4/13/18
      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 5/07/18  •  MMC found at 10.5 wks  •  D&E at 11.5 wks 
    •  Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40)
    9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied)

    RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy.

    BFP 9/24/18  • 
    CP (age 40)
    BFP 5/11/19  •  Fraternal twins  •  MMC found at 10w5d (Baby A 6w, Baby B 10w)  •  Misoprostal at 11 weeks (age 41)













  • I don't know about the shower. My cousin said she'd throw one but so far it hasn't materialized. There has been a bunch of stuff going on in my family recently that is complicating things. My pregnancy isn't really high on people's priority lists right now, which is a bit sad, but understandable.
    Me: 40  DH: 43
    Married 5/30/15
    TTC #1 June 2015
    BFP #1 9/28/15, EDD 6/10/16. DS born 5/23/16!
    TTC #2 May 2017
    BFP #2 m/c 11/18/17 5w5d
    BFP #3 12/17/17 EDD 8/25/18. It's a boy!
  • I didn't end up having my shower until I was 36 weeks! It was later than i would have preferred, but it's hard to be pushy about something like that when someone else is doing it for you... I hope yours materializes, @redheadbride15 , but even if it doesn't, you can buy stuff off your registry and still get a completion discount and other incentives... Still, I hope your cousin or someone else comes through!
  • My kiddo got some duplos for an early birthday present and he has been playing with them non-stop and mostly independently. I would like to marry the Lego company right now. Mama needed *something* this kiddo would do that didn't involve running. Aaaah. 
  • How old is ur son @sporty1216?? We were just at target and I said to the hubs 'I can't wait till wyatt is Lego age so he'll sit still for longer than 1 munute'!
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  • Sporty1216Sporty1216 member
    edited March 2016
    @wyattnash00--he turns 2 on Saturday.  These Duplos are seriously like little plastic miracles.  I have NEVER EVER in my life (or in his life) seen him sit still this long since he became mobile (unless he is watching a show on my cell phone).  I mean, really. Go get you some! It's worth a shot, for sure.
  • I'm so picking some up this week @sporty1216!! He's only 21 months but what the hell, worth a shot!
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  • Absolutely! I think my kiddo would have liked them even sooner. I just never thought of it! He is obsessed with plugging things in and such, so I should have figured he would like fitting duplos together! Let me know how your kiddo likes them!
  • Just looked online, overwhelmed;) which one did you buy?!
    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
  • My MIL did the picking--she got him two that are themed around Jake and the Neverland pirates. ;) My kiddo mostly just likes stacking them together though. I think if I was doing the choosing, I would just do a tub of the basic ones. But if he has a character or something he likes, go for that!
  • So, I've been thinking that I have round ligament pain from my rapidly expanding uterus.  In fact, I went to my OB today with my diagnosis already determined (in MY head).  Then she poked my pubic bone and I almost hit the ceiling.  Turns out I have separation of my pubic bone... already.  I teared up and pretty sure my voice was whiny as I said "but I have 20 weeks left."  She recommended either PT or a chiropractor, so I'll be hitting the chiropractor as soon as I find one versed in pregnancy.  UGH!  No wonder it hurts so darn bad when I stand up....
    *** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
    Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
    7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
    3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
    12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
    First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
    Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
  • Ugh I'm sorry @emsmama15. I just went to my 4th chiropractor appt, I'd say im 90% better, so there is hope!
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  • Oh @emsmama15 I'm so sorry that's rough, it's a tough one to have so early  :'( from what I know just make sure when you get out of the car, bed ect you bring the knees together then stand up. So not a leg at a time like we normally get out of the car. There are hip support braces you might find that can help or you can be play with supports that lift the belly off the pelvis. And try not to spread your legs under any circumstance- ironic isn't it? Oh man I hope it stays as easy as possible for as long as possible. 
  • That does sound tough, @emsmama15 ! But good for you for listening to your body and getting an appointment! I hope the chiro can help... 
  • I just want to express my frustration with maternity pants. I have been wearing demi panel ones from Gap and have been really happy with them, but in the past week my growing belly has been causing the demi panel to curl over and cut into me when I sit down, which is uncomfortable and makes baby mad. So, today I switched to a pair of full panel pants, and while they're much more comfortable they keep falling down! I'm so tired of yanking them up. There's no winning here. Maybe I'll just wear dresses for the rest of my pregnancy.
    Me: 40  DH: 43
    Married 5/30/15
    TTC #1 June 2015
    BFP #1 9/28/15, EDD 6/10/16. DS born 5/23/16!
    TTC #2 May 2017
    BFP #2 m/c 11/18/17 5w5d
    BFP #3 12/17/17 EDD 8/25/18. It's a boy!
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