I just have to say you guys are the best and I really really appreciate you and what we have here in our community.
@sporty1216 I'm sending you a link to the oil in your PM- just wanted to make sure it didn't get lost in space, they really need a better notification system for PM on here!
Thanks! I am almost exclusively mobile, so I don't get notifications at all really! I'll go check my inbox now.
and, as always, I second how much I love this community. I especially love how supportive it is whether a poster is a regular or is just popping by for some advice in a moment of stress. Truly grateful.
Okay--one more. Anyone else dealing with sciatic nerve pain? I remember having it with my son, but not this early. Any tips or tricks for dealing with it? @createillumination or @lillebowski23 ? It hurts and makes it tough to walk sometimes. Or to turn over in bed if I happen to aggravate it. I also have a weird popping sensation in my lower back. Creeping me out.
Sadly were speaking the same language @sporty1216 my sciatica is terrible. I had it the last couple weeks with my son, but I'm 26 weeks and it started full force. I'm 'ok' in the am but can barely move as the day goes on. I bought the KT tape that sports players wear and it's helped a little, along with a heating pad. But now sleep is harder then it was. Last night I moved to the couch, turned on my side, backed my back up so it was right against the back of the couch, pillow between my legs. I'm going to see a chiropractor Thursday, I'll let you know how it goes. I'll take any tips from you smart ladies too! Say a prayer for my fetal echo tomorrow ladies, anxious tonight.
OMG @Sporty1216 I have so had sciatica the past couple of days. That is so strange we both have it! The chiropractor helped mine a lot and i have been experimenting with putting a little lift under the opposite hip while seated or laying down and that makes sitting better. I'm using a bigger pillow between my knees while I sleep.
We have a wooden rolling pin that i roll over my gluts and down the side of the leg which seamed to help. I'll go see my acupuncturist soon which i know will be good.
The thing that seemed to provide the best relief was I taught my DH how to fire cup me and I had him do it on my butt where I felt a concentration of pain. Fire cupping is so easy I'm sure you can learn how on youtube. It's a Chinese medicine thing an acupuncturist can do it for you too.
Ack sorry for those of us with the pains in the butt!
Just wanted to say how much I love this group as I don't feel completely alone, trying to figure out being pregnant at this juncture in my life... i didn't know there was something known as sciatica nerve pain, and if you girls hadn't pointed it out I wouldn't have an explanation of why my butt hurts right down to my heel...so thank you once again for being a supportive group of women and taking time out to read random posts by someone like me, a complete stranger from another country
@Sporty1216 sciatica can be caused by a number of things in the low back. I definitely recommend chiropractic treatment. Also, giving yourself adequate lumbar support is crucial. If you have a long commute like me, get something for your car to support your low back (a rolled towel or blanket will do!) I would also recommend some simple core exercises once your pain decreases. There are several you can do early on that will be okay for you and baby, duch as standing crunches or bird dog (Google these and "pregnancy, and you'll find a couple if good instructional videos) also if you get chiropractic, ask what exercises they recommend.
Also, it sounds like a lot of us are dealing with sciatica! It's not fun. But at least we're not alone. After a good night's sleep, mine feels better, but it's still achy. I'm going to try the lift idea today, @createillumination -- I have a bunch of skype interviews to do, so I'll be sitting more than usual. I'll have to look up the fire cupping too. It sounds daring!
I had a herniated disc in my back for 6 months and after endless hoop jumping for insurance, was able to get surgery a little over a year ago (just AFTER my wedding--argh). My sciatic pain was so bad I could only stand for about two minutes at a time and my foot was always going numb. Grocery shopping was awful -- I'd have to bend over or crouch every two minutes to control the pain. Definitely sleep on your side with your knees bent and a pillow between them. And an ice pack on your upper butt area helps. I used a bag of frozen edamame during that awful 6 months.
TTC#1 since Jan 2015 BFP 2/19/15 • MMC found at 9 wks • D&E at 11 wks (age 36) BFP 8/29/15 • CP (age 37)
BFP 11/18/15 • DD born at 41 weeks (age 37/38)
TTC#2 since May 2017 BFP 10/18/17 • MMC found at 8 wks • Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39) BFP 2/16/18 • CP (age 39) BFP 4/13/18 • CP (age 39) BFP 5/07/18 • MMC found at 10.5 wks • D&E at 11.5 wks • Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40) 9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied) RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy. BFP 9/24/18 • CP (age 40)
BFP 5/11/19 • Fraternal twins • MMC found at 10w5d (Baby A 6w, Baby B 10w) • Misoprostal at 11 weeks (age 41)
Sorry for all of you with sciatic pain! I feel very lucky that I've been free from aches and pains entirely, now 27 weeks. I do make a point to stay very active, and my weight gain has been on the low end (not that I really feel like I have any control over that), so I think these two things are helping.
ETA: I also have a great massage therapist! I've been getting prenatal massages every 4 weeks or so.
Good luck with the fetal echoes today, ladies! We have our level 2 ultrasound in a couple of hours and I'm a ball of nerves. No reason to think anything is wrong, but it's hard not to be nervous nonetheless.
Sciatica and and back pain in general is so tough - I've struggled with back and neck pain for years. Chiropractic care, ice, and lots of stretching help me. I know all three are harder once you're already in pain, but when you tackle these things between bouts, it seems to help prevent the worst attacks from coming. Good luck and feel better soon!
All went well with fetal echo, phew!! Such a relief, obviously things can come up with the heart after birth but all good now. Plus I got to see her cute face and she's almost 2lbs, eeek! Treating myself to Cheesecake Factory, even though I'm eating alone:) thanks for the good thoughts ladies!!
Woo hoo! Great fetal echo for me too! I can sleep a little better tonight. Totally treating myself to something tasty. Thank you for all the support you guys!
Here is my completely random post of the day - It has been storming here all day & it looks like it's not going to let up anytime soon. I have been craving broccoli cheese soup all day...and I just realized I have all the ingredients at home to make it so I don't even have to go to the store - yay! I can't wait until 5:00 gets here because my plans consist of 1). Immediately taking off my bra & pants when I walk in the door 2). Making said soup 3). Camping out on the couch to binge watch Orange is the New Black and 4). Possibly talking DH into a backrub. All of these things make me happy!
Soool glad the echoes went well! I also love the good food "reward" after. I'm only have a blood draw/counseling for the Harmony test today, but still plan to treat myself to Burgerville (local fast food place) on the way home. I've been thinking about it all day!
Thanks to all for the sciatica advice! I'm going to try your suggestions and hopefully find some relief!
I tried chiropractic a few months before getting pregnant. My first adjustment, I did fine. But when I went back for my second one, I got "fired" because I wouldn't let him do the twist-your-head to crack your back thing. Maybe I just need to find a different chiro. Or, @redheadbride15 , your prenatal massages sound pretty awesome. I may have to ask my OB and see if she can prescribe some massage therapy or something. Worth a shot, anyway!
@Sporty1216 I definitely recommend the massage! Some chiropractors can be great but I'll be honest and say that some scare me. I've heard a few bad stories. I like that a massage therapist works with you to find things that you find helpful and comfortable. It's definitely worth asking your OB if you can get a script or ask your insurance if they cover it. Mine doesn't, so I pay out of pocket. It's totally worth it though!
I went to a chiropractor briefly and she injured my rib pretty badly. As she was working on me, I told her it didn't feel right and she laughed and said, "Look at you trying to get away!"
I had a personal trainer at the time and wasn't able to do a lot of exercises for 3 months afterwards, due to my injured rib. I was pretty mad.
TTC#1 since Jan 2015 BFP 2/19/15 • MMC found at 9 wks • D&E at 11 wks (age 36) BFP 8/29/15 • CP (age 37)
BFP 11/18/15 • DD born at 41 weeks (age 37/38)
TTC#2 since May 2017 BFP 10/18/17 • MMC found at 8 wks • Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39) BFP 2/16/18 • CP (age 39) BFP 4/13/18 • CP (age 39) BFP 5/07/18 • MMC found at 10.5 wks • D&E at 11.5 wks • Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40) 9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied) RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy. BFP 9/24/18 • CP (age 40)
BFP 5/11/19 • Fraternal twins • MMC found at 10w5d (Baby A 6w, Baby B 10w) • Misoprostal at 11 weeks (age 41)
Yikes, @CarrieandRoy ! My DH has gone to this chiro for a long time and loves him, but the fit was not there for me, for sure! His staff told me I didn't have to do anything I wasn't comfortable with and then the first time I say I'm not comfortable, he gets really mad and fires me! Yeah. Never setting foot in that particular office again.
@CarrieandRoy I have a few issues that I think would benefit from some quality chiropractic care, but stories like yours scare me! I am afraid of ending up worse off than before!
Re: chiropractors- I always like to tell people throw away the practitioner and not necessarily the medicine. This is so horrible to say but there are some people I went to acupuncture school with that I wouldn't let treat me if we were the last people on earth. So dramatic I know but that doesn't mean that there aren't some incredibly talented practitioners out there. I'm so sorry some of you have had some bad experiences that really sucks! Ask around for referrals and yelp reviews and word of mouth can really lead you to some talented people. You should never have to feel uncomfortable when being treated, and your practitioner should always always trust your word and never do anything that is against your wishes.
@emgee27 that made me chuckle. "I'm here to report my cankles." lol
TTC#1 since Jan 2015 BFP 2/19/15 • MMC found at 9 wks • D&E at 11 wks (age 36) BFP 8/29/15 • CP (age 37)
BFP 11/18/15 • DD born at 41 weeks (age 37/38)
TTC#2 since May 2017 BFP 10/18/17 • MMC found at 8 wks • Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39) BFP 2/16/18 • CP (age 39) BFP 4/13/18 • CP (age 39) BFP 5/07/18 • MMC found at 10.5 wks • D&E at 11.5 wks • Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40) 9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied) RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy. BFP 9/24/18 • CP (age 40)
BFP 5/11/19 • Fraternal twins • MMC found at 10w5d (Baby A 6w, Baby B 10w) • Misoprostal at 11 weeks (age 41)
@emgee27 that made me chuckle. "I'm here to report my cankles." lol
I'm definitely trying to deal with it with humor! For some reason I thought I'd escape the feet swelling since I had been doing so well, but it's been like this for the last 2 weeks off and on. Also, considering all the other body changes, I'm not sure why this one is the most shocking to me.
It's like I'm walking around on 2 loaves of sourdough.
First appt with an amazing chiropractor today, never been to one before and was very hesitant. Was referred to her by 2 close friends, one who is also pregnant. I already feel 50%better, definitely ask around!
So glad the fetal echoes went well! Our level 2 ultrasound was awesome! Coolest thing I've ever seen. If any of you get referred to have one, do it!! The science nerd in me was in complete heaven, and we got some cute pictures for the baby book as an added bonus.
@Infantino22 Your ultrasound picture is so cool! I've never had a higher level ultrasound, but I love to see other people's. You get a pretty good idea of what the baby is going to look like, I think.
Re: Random Thoughts Thread
@sporty1216 I'm sending you a link to the oil in your PM- just wanted to make sure it didn't get lost in space, they really need a better notification system for PM on here!
and, as always, I second how much I love this community. I especially love how supportive it is whether a poster is a regular or is just popping by for some advice in a moment of stress. Truly grateful.
will definitely pray for your fetal echo too. And that you can get some sleep tonight. Let us know how it goes!
We have a wooden rolling pin that i roll over my
gluts and down the side of the leg which seamed to help. I'll go see my acupuncturist soon which i know will be good.
The thing that seemed to provide the best relief was I taught my DH how to fire cup me and I had him do it on my butt where I felt a concentration of pain. Fire cupping is so easy I'm sure you can learn how on youtube. It's a Chinese medicine thing an acupuncturist can
do it for you too.
Ack sorry for those of us with the pains in the butt!
@wyattnash00 all the good luck tmrw! T&P and FX!
i didn't know there was something known as sciatica nerve pain, and if you girls hadn't pointed it out I wouldn't have an explanation of why my butt hurts right down to my heel...so thank you once again for being a supportive group of women and taking time out to read random posts by someone like me, a complete stranger from another country
Good luck!
Also, it sounds like a lot of us are dealing with sciatica! It's not fun. But at least we're not alone. After a good night's sleep, mine feels better, but it's still achy. I'm going to try the lift idea today, @createillumination -- I have a bunch of skype interviews to do, so I'll be sitting more than usual. I'll have to look up the fire cupping too. It sounds daring!
BFP 2/19/15 • MMC found at 9 wks • D&E at 11 wks (age 36)
BFP 8/29/15 • CP (age 37)
TTC#2 since May 2017
BFP 10/18/17 • MMC found at 8 wks • Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39)
BFP 2/16/18 • CP (age 39)
BFP 4/13/18 • CP (age 39)
BFP 5/07/18 • MMC found at 10.5 wks • D&E at 11.5 wks • Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40)
9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied)
RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy.
BFP 9/24/18 • CP (age 40)
ETA: I also have a great massage therapist! I've been getting prenatal massages every 4 weeks or so.
Good luck with the echo @Wyattnash00!
Married 5/30/15
TTC #1 June 2015
BFP #1 9/28/15, EDD 6/10/16. DS born 5/23/16!
TTC #2 May 2017
BFP #2 m/c 11/18/17 5w5d
BFP #3 12/17/17 EDD 8/25/18. It's a boy!
Sciatica and and back pain in general is so tough - I've struggled with back and neck pain for years. Chiropractic care, ice, and lots of stretching help me. I know all three are harder once you're already in pain, but when you tackle these things between bouts, it seems to help prevent the worst attacks from coming. Good luck and feel better soon!
I tried chiropractic a few months before getting pregnant. My first adjustment, I did fine. But when I went back for my second one, I got "fired" because I wouldn't let him do the twist-your-head to crack your back thing. Maybe I just need to find a different chiro. Or, @redheadbride15 , your prenatal massages sound pretty awesome. I may have to ask my OB and see if she can prescribe some massage therapy or something. Worth a shot, anyway!
@BernieRae Mmmmmm!!! Burgerville!!! I need to indulge in a Burgerville splurge before I give birth!
yay for great echoes @Wyattnash00 and @lillebowski23!
Married 5/30/15
TTC #1 June 2015
BFP #1 9/28/15, EDD 6/10/16. DS born 5/23/16!
TTC #2 May 2017
BFP #2 m/c 11/18/17 5w5d
BFP #3 12/17/17 EDD 8/25/18. It's a boy!
I had a personal trainer at the time and wasn't able to do a lot of exercises for 3 months afterwards, due to my injured rib. I was pretty mad.
BFP 2/19/15 • MMC found at 9 wks • D&E at 11 wks (age 36)
BFP 8/29/15 • CP (age 37)
TTC#2 since May 2017
BFP 10/18/17 • MMC found at 8 wks • Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39)
BFP 2/16/18 • CP (age 39)
BFP 4/13/18 • CP (age 39)
BFP 5/07/18 • MMC found at 10.5 wks • D&E at 11.5 wks • Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40)
9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied)
RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy.
BFP 9/24/18 • CP (age 40)
I'm here to report my cankles. They have arrived. My feet look so fat and weird. Sigh!
BFP 2/19/15 • MMC found at 9 wks • D&E at 11 wks (age 36)
BFP 8/29/15 • CP (age 37)
TTC#2 since May 2017
BFP 10/18/17 • MMC found at 8 wks • Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39)
BFP 2/16/18 • CP (age 39)
BFP 4/13/18 • CP (age 39)
BFP 5/07/18 • MMC found at 10.5 wks • D&E at 11.5 wks • Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40)
9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied)
RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy.
BFP 9/24/18 • CP (age 40)
It's like I'm walking around on 2 loaves of sourdough.
good words re: throwing away the practitioner and not the practice! I will try to keep an open mind, @createillumination