@mrspepper05 I have a friend, also a teacher, that is married and cannot have children. They have been trying for a while now to become adoptive parent. I feel for your friend, I can only imagine the pain my friend would feel if she were in the same position. Thoughts and prayers go out to her in her time of need.
Sitting here in bed winding it down and I swear I heard someone yell for help outside, I looked out the windows and didn't see anything .. Now I am all angsty that someone needs help and I heard it and I don't know how to help... I hope it was just the dog snoring but I am definitely not going to sleep tonight , damned guilt and anxiety...
September Siggy Challenge : Favorite Childhood Movies ( Sorry I have two)
My mom is flying in tomorrow and I'm so excited!!!!! She's helping me on the 12 hour road trip to Michigan with DD and fur baby. The trip can kiss my ass, but I'll be so glad to be back in my home state when it's over. Fall in Michigan rocks!
I expected horrible things from HDBD, but apparently I'm okay with it
because no one decided to be in their underwear and I didn't see any
naked bellies, I may participate once my rock hard uterus turns into a
bump. Also, I have a rock hard uterus ha ha
BFP 2/11/15 (EDD 10/13/15). MMC 3/30/15 D&C 4/3/15 "We will always love you"
DD1 - BFP 7/23/15 (EDD 3/31/16). "We believe in you rainbow" DOB 4/2/16
DD2 - BFP 2/9/18 (EDD 10/19/18). "Grow baby grow!" DOB 10/24/18
BFP 11/16/20 (EDD 7/31/21). "Round 3 FIGHT!"
Went to dinner with my mom last night and got a little upset. Her best friend has been trying (unsuccessfully) to get pregnant. A coworker just found out she's expecting and my moms friend is legitimately pissed at this woman. Won't even speak to her anymore. Coworkers feelings are now very hurt and she's feeling bad for even being pregnant. My mother informs me that her friend is now mad at me and makes a comment about how some women can't even have 1 and I'm over here on my 6th. When will I stop "baby hoarding". Now, I know she's just upset but no. I'm not okay with treating people badly because you're feeling some-type-of-way. Mind you, said friend of my mothers is also very regularly drinking and smoking and her husband is not fully on board with having a child. How hard can she really be trying? Ok, that's all. I'm just a little bothered by being that mad at people. Hurt I understand, mad and rude comments, no. Edited cause spelling can be hard lol
March '16 December Siggy Challenge - Favorite Christmas Movies/Quotes
We upgraded to a king with our tax refund AND I'M NEVER GOING BACK!! in fact, we have a spare full mattress that is getting put next to our king when this baby comes. DH and fur baby get the full. DD, myself and baby will share the king. DH is ridiculously hot at night and DD inherited that. Good times.
Just catching up on yesterday finally .... Can we trade bedrooms @blueeyedrose86?! Our queen bed, two night stands and dresser take up about 90% of our room! I'm jealous!
@kynbar5, it's hard to explain what happens when you get in that mode of seeing everyone around you pregnant and it just doesn't happen for you when that is all you want in the world. And the alcohol helps you cope with it. That anger and obsession can run your life. No it's not your fault that your mom's friend can't get pregnant. But that anger comes out in so many different forms. Sorry you're the target of it.
DS1 - 9/21/11
DS2 - 7/4/14
DS3 - 2/21/16 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Our family of 5 is complete!! Love our boys!
You know what amuses about the FB threads, almost ALL of the ppl who want to me "added" to a Fb group are names i've never seen on other threads before.
Side note: just had mcdonalds sausage egg biscuit and a Dr. pepper. Then i took a giant poop, apparently i needed some grease in my diet. McDonalds FTW!
Sadly this would suffice for 50% of the threads started here.. by random people.. who never come back (but some how report you for being mean and get you a warning)
A rugby playing scientist and educator who is looking to solve metabolic and age related diseases through research
@kynbar5, it's hard to explain what happens when you get in that mode of seeing everyone around you pregnant and it just doesn't happen for you when that is all you want in the world. And the alcohol helps you cope with it. That anger and obsession can run your life. No it's not your fault that your mom's friend can't get pregnant. But that anger comes out in so many different forms. Sorry you're the target of it.
I agree with this to a certain extent. I tried to keep my jealously under wraps and really only shared some nasty little comments (that I should absolutely not have been thinking but like @skruhmin said that shit effs with you) with my husband. Alcohol absolutely was like the "well I can't get knocked up, may as well enjoy drinking!" for me every.single.time. AF showed up or I had another loss.
I will say I would NEVER have been straight up mean or rude to people that I consider friends. Maybe a tad more distant, but to their faces or the faces of their friends (in this case your mom) I would never say something that I was certain would get back to them either.
I definitely understand the bitterness, but there is not a limited amount of happy in the world. Just because X and Y got good news does not mean that they are the reason I did not get good news. It takes a while to come to that conclusion when you are constantly NOT getting good news though so try (easier said than done I know) not to take it personally.
Do you ever just feel frozen at work like you just can't get into it? I have forms sitting in front of me that I need to fill out but I just can't make myself do them. Vacation in T-9 days - it can't come soon enough.
DS1 - 9/21/11
DS2 - 7/4/14
DS3 - 2/21/16 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Our family of 5 is complete!! Love our boys!
@kynbar5, it's hard to explain what happens when you get in that mode of seeing everyone around you pregnant and it just doesn't happen for you when that is all you want in the world. And the alcohol helps you cope with it. That anger and obsession can run your life. No it's not your fault that your mom's friend can't get pregnant. But that anger comes out in so many different forms. Sorry you're the target of it.
I agree with this to a certain extent. I tried to keep my jealously under wraps and really only shared some nasty little comments (that I should absolutely not have been thinking but like @skruhmin said that shit effs with you) with my husband. Alcohol absolutely was like the "well I can't get knocked up, may as well enjoy drinking!" for me every.single.time. AF showed up or I had another loss.
I will say I would NEVER have been straight up mean or rude to people that I consider friends. Maybe a tad more distant, but to their faces or the faces of their friends (in this case your mom) I would never say something that I was certain would get back to them either.
I definitely understand the bitterness, but there is not a limited amount of happy in the world. Just because X and Y got good news does not mean that they are the reason I did not get good news. It takes a while to come to that conclusion when you are constantly NOT getting good news though so try (easier said than done I know) not to take it personally.
What y'all said does help me understand it better so thank you. The thing with her drinking and smoking though isn't that she's using it as a coping, it's something that she has been doing forever and even though her dr (which is actually my dr too) has been trying to help her quit, she doesn't want to change her lifestyle at all. That's when I get confused on the whole mad thing. Even with all that said, y'all did help put it in perspective.
March '16 December Siggy Challenge - Favorite Christmas Movies/Quotes
Do you ever just feel frozen at work like you just can't get into it? I have forms sitting in front of me that I need to fill out but I just can't make myself do them. Vacation in T-9 days - it can't come soon enough.
Do you ever just feel frozen at work like you just can't get into it? I have forms sitting in front of me that I need to fill out but I just can't make myself do them. Vacation in T-9 days - it can't come soon enough.
So I have to AW just a little bit. We named our boys after some books in the Bible and they have theme verses. My son Joshua is after Joshua 1:9 and my son Jeremiah is after Jeremiah 29:11. When we move into our new house they'll be sharing a room and we're making it a superhero theme. I found this Superman Joshua 1:9 on Etsy and asked her to make one for Batman and Jeremiah 29:11. I LOVE them and I'm so excited to decorate their room.
So I have to AW just a little bit. We named our boys after some books in the Bible and they have theme verses. My son Joshua is after Joshua 1:9 and my son Jeremiah is after Jeremiah 29:11. When we move into our new house they'll be sharing a room and we're making it a superhero theme. I found this Superman Joshua 1:9 on Etsy and asked her to make one for Batman and Jeremiah 29:11. I LOVE them and I'm so excited to decorate their room.
Love those!
March '16 December Siggy Challenge - Favorite Christmas Movies/Quotes
@kynbar5, it's hard to explain what happens when you get in that mode of seeing everyone around you pregnant and it just doesn't happen for you when that is all you want in the world. And the alcohol helps you cope with it. That anger and obsession can run your life. No it's not your fault that your mom's friend can't get pregnant. But that anger comes out in so many different forms. Sorry you're the target of it.
I agree with this to a certain extent. I tried to keep my jealously under wraps and really only shared some nasty little comments (that I should absolutely not have been thinking but like @skruhmin said that shit effs with you) with my husband. Alcohol absolutely was like the "well I can't get knocked up, may as well enjoy drinking!" for me every.single.time. AF showed up or I had another loss.
I will say I would NEVER have been straight up mean or rude to people that I consider friends. Maybe a tad more distant, but to their faces or the faces of their friends (in this case your mom) I would never say something that I was certain would get back to them either.
I definitely understand the bitterness, but there is not a limited amount of happy in the world. Just because X and Y got good news does not mean that they are the reason I did not get good news. It takes a while to come to that conclusion when you are constantly NOT getting good news though so try (easier said than done I know) not to take it personally.
If I can add... I have been in this position for the last 4 years. I was what we call a bitter infertile. I showed my happiness to whoever was pregnant then go home and cry in my husband's arms or a bottle of wine to make the jealousy and pain go away. It can be really hard to hold your tongue when a complete stranger behind you in line at the store can do nothing but bitch and complain to people she meets in the store about being 7 months pregnant and still throwing up and she can't wait to be done because this is her 5th kid and bf thinks she needs more and blah blah blah...when you would give ANYTHING to feel the morning sickness and be willing to gladly hug the toilet bowl every day. I even had a coworker come to me crying she couldn't figure out how to read OPK's or her HPT's and didn't understand the whole ttc. So I taught her, and after 3 months of trying, she was pregnant. Well at least I could help knock someone up- I had been at it for 2 years at that point and couldn't do it for myself... and secondary infertility is HELL. You don't understand why it came so easily the first time (I got pregnant on the pill) and now that I've been in a more stable situation I can't do it to save my life. There is SOO much that runs through the mind.
I did distance myself from my pregnant friends but I was never cold to them. I even did the "unfollow" on facebook because I couldn't take all the belly and baby photos.
I'm pretty sure mine was also exacerbated by the fact that NOTHING was going right for us at all. When DH proposed to me, I said yes- on a Friday, and he was Fired that following Monday. From there everything was downhill. The wedding was great, but then we couldn't get ahead financially to save our lives (I had just finished my 4 year degree), couldn't get pregnant, couldn't find a doctor to point us in the right direction, couldn't even find better jobs (I've been looking for 4 years until I landed this one, and the next day I found out I was pregnant). DH is still looking for a better job, but at least I now have one that benefits our family much better. 4 years is a long time to have so many struggles going on at once.
Its a tough situation to deal with. You should not be snubbed for being pregnant by any means. But it is a tough pill to swallow for sure.
February Siggy Challenge- Post pregnancy indulgences
@kynbar5, it's hard to explain what happens when you get in that mode of seeing everyone around you pregnant and it just doesn't happen for you when that is all you want in the world. And the alcohol helps you cope with it. That anger and obsession can run your life. No it's not your fault that your mom's friend can't get pregnant. But that anger comes out in so many different forms. Sorry you're the target of it.
I agree with this to a certain extent. I tried to keep my jealously under wraps and really only shared some nasty little comments (that I should absolutely not have been thinking but like @skruhmin said that shit effs with you) with my husband. Alcohol absolutely was like the "well I can't get knocked up, may as well enjoy drinking!" for me every.single.time. AF showed up or I had another loss.
I will say I would NEVER have been straight up mean or rude to people that I consider friends. Maybe a tad more distant, but to their faces or the faces of their friends (in this case your mom) I would never say something that I was certain would get back to them either.
I definitely understand the bitterness, but there is not a limited amount of happy in the world. Just because X and Y got good news does not mean that they are the reason I did not get good news. It takes a while to come to that conclusion when you are constantly NOT getting good news though so try (easier said than done I know) not to take it personally.
If I can add... I have been in this position for the last 4 years. I was what we call a bitter infertile. I showed my happiness to whoever was pregnant then go home and cry in my husband's arms or a bottle of wine to make the jealousy and pain go away. It can be really hard to hold your tongue when a complete stranger behind you in line at the store can do nothing but bitch and complain to people she meets in the store about being 7 months pregnant and still throwing up and she can't wait to be done because this is her 5th kid and bf thinks she needs more and blah blah blah...when you would give ANYTHING to feel the morning sickness and be willing to gladly hug the toilet bowl every day. I even had a coworker come to me crying she couldn't figure out how to read OPK's or her HPT's and didn't understand the whole ttc. So I taught her, and after 3 months of trying, she was pregnant. Well at least I could help knock someone up- I had been at it for 2 years at that point and couldn't do it for myself... and secondary infertility is HELL. You don't understand why it came so easily the first time (I got pregnant on the pill) and now that I've been in a more stable situation I can't do it to save my life. There is SOO much that runs through the mind.
I did distance myself from my pregnant friends but I was never cold to them. I even did the "unfollow" on facebook because I couldn't take all the belly and baby photos.
I'm pretty sure mine was also exacerbated by the fact that NOTHING was going right for us at all. When DH proposed to me, I said yes- on a Friday, and he was Fired that following Monday. From there everything was downhill. The wedding was great, but then we couldn't get ahead financially to save our lives (I had just finished my 4 year degree), couldn't get pregnant, couldn't find a doctor to point us in the right direction, couldn't even find better jobs (I've been looking for 4 years until I landed this one, and the next day I found out I was pregnant). DH is still looking for a better job, but at least I now have one that benefits our family much better. 4 years is a long time to have so many struggles going on at once.
Its a tough situation to deal with. You should not be snubbed for being pregnant by any means. But it is a tough pill to swallow for sure.
Wow. I'm sorry you went through that but I do thank you guys for sharing with me so I can at least try to understand it Also, I'm very happy that things are starting to work out for you and that you're finally getting a baby!
March '16 December Siggy Challenge - Favorite Christmas Movies/Quotes
I had the 12 week NT scan and testing yesterday. Everything looked good. Baby was moving around like crazy! It was pretty neat. The poor ultrasound tech must have been somewhat annoyed with me as DH kept cracking jokes and making me laugh.....
@kynbar5, it's hard to explain what happens when you get in that mode of seeing everyone around you pregnant and it just doesn't happen for you when that is all you want in the world. And the alcohol helps you cope with it. That anger and obsession can run your life. No it's not your fault that your mom's friend can't get pregnant. But that anger comes out in so many different forms. Sorry you're the target of it.
I agree with this to a certain extent. I tried to keep my jealously under wraps and really only shared some nasty little comments (that I should absolutely not have been thinking but like @skruhmin said that shit effs with you) with my husband. Alcohol absolutely was like the "well I can't get knocked up, may as well enjoy drinking!" for me every.single.time. AF showed up or I had another loss.
I will say I would NEVER have been straight up mean or rude to people that I consider friends. Maybe a tad more distant, but to their faces or the faces of their friends (in this case your mom) I would never say something that I was certain would get back to them either.
I definitely understand the bitterness, but there is not a limited amount of happy in the world. Just because X and Y got good news does not mean that they are the reason I did not get good news. It takes a while to come to that conclusion when you are constantly NOT getting good news though so try (easier said than done I know) not to take it personally.
If I can add... I have been in this position for the last 4 years. I was what we call a bitter infertile. I showed my happiness to whoever was pregnant then go home and cry in my husband's arms or a bottle of wine to make the jealousy and pain go away. It can be really hard to hold your tongue when a complete stranger behind you in line at the store can do nothing but bitch and complain to people she meets in the store about being 7 months pregnant and still throwing up and she can't wait to be done because this is her 5th kid and bf thinks she needs more and blah blah blah...when you would give ANYTHING to feel the morning sickness and be willing to gladly hug the toilet bowl every day. I even had a coworker come to me crying she couldn't figure out how to read OPK's or her HPT's and didn't understand the whole ttc. So I taught her, and after 3 months of trying, she was pregnant. Well at least I could help knock someone up- I had been at it for 2 years at that point and couldn't do it for myself... and secondary infertility is HELL. You don't understand why it came so easily the first time (I got pregnant on the pill) and now that I've been in a more stable situation I can't do it to save my life. There is SOO much that runs through the mind.
I did distance myself from my pregnant friends but I was never cold to them. I even did the "unfollow" on facebook because I couldn't take all the belly and baby photos.
I'm pretty sure mine was also exacerbated by the fact that NOTHING was going right for us at all. When DH proposed to me, I said yes- on a Friday, and he was Fired that following Monday. From there everything was downhill. The wedding was great, but then we couldn't get ahead financially to save our lives (I had just finished my 4 year degree), couldn't get pregnant, couldn't find a doctor to point us in the right direction, couldn't even find better jobs (I've been looking for 4 years until I landed this one, and the next day I found out I was pregnant). DH is still looking for a better job, but at least I now have one that benefits our family much better. 4 years is a long time to have so many struggles going on at once.
Its a tough situation to deal with. You should not be snubbed for being pregnant by any means. But it is a tough pill to swallow for sure.
Word on the secondary infertility. You're as fertile as they come and no matter how hard you try it just doesn't happen.
DS1 - 9/21/11
DS2 - 7/4/14
DS3 - 2/21/16 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Our family of 5 is complete!! Love our boys!
Infertility sucks, yo. We tried for 2.5 years, practically the whole time we were stationed in Italy. Meanwhile, everyone is like, "don't drink the water here or you'll end up pregnant. " So many women got pregnant there who didn't even want kids. My friend got pregnant twice there, both times on birth control. She didn't want kids because she wanted to dedicate her life to rehabilitating abused dogs. Two of my sisters got pregnant while I was there. It was ridiculous. I was definitely bitter about it, but tried to put on a happy face for the people I cared about.
Re: *** The Official Random Thread of All Random Threads for March 2016 ***
:x My pup is passed out, chased too many squirrels today!
*BFP #1- 11/12/12, m/c 11/16/12 @ 6 weeks
*BFP #2- 1/23/13 EDD 10/4/13
*Emma Rose: 10/8/13
*BFP #3- EDD 03/9/16
March '16 December Siggy Challenge- Favorite Christmas Movie/Quote
*BFP #1- 11/12/12, m/c 11/16/12 @ 6 weeks
*BFP #2- 1/23/13 EDD 10/4/13
*Emma Rose: 10/8/13
*BFP #3- EDD 03/9/16
March '16 December Siggy Challenge- Favorite Christmas Movie/Quote
DD1 - BFP 7/23/15 (EDD 3/31/16). "We believe in you rainbow" DOB 4/2/16
DD2 - BFP 2/9/18 (EDD 10/19/18). "Grow baby grow!" DOB 10/24/18
BFP 11/16/20 (EDD 7/31/21). "Round 3 FIGHT!"
Edited cause spelling can be hard lol
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Our family of 5 is complete!! Love our boys!
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Our family of 5 is complete!! Love our boys!
I agree with this to a certain extent. I tried to keep my jealously under wraps and really only shared some nasty little comments (that I should absolutely not have been thinking but like @skruhmin said that shit effs with you) with my husband. Alcohol absolutely was like the "well I can't get knocked up, may as well enjoy drinking!" for me every.single.time. AF showed up or I had another loss.
I will say I would NEVER have been straight up mean or rude to people that I consider friends. Maybe a tad more distant, but to their faces or the faces of their friends (in this case your mom) I would never say something that I was certain would get back to them either.
I definitely understand the bitterness, but there is not a limited amount of happy in the world. Just because X and Y got good news does not mean that they are the reason I did not get good news. It takes a while to come to that conclusion when you are constantly NOT getting good news though so try (easier said than done I know) not to take it personally.
Me: 29 DH: 31
Married 10/13/12
TTC Since 8/2016
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Our family of 5 is complete!! Love our boys!
I agree with this to a certain extent. I tried to keep my jealously under wraps and really only shared some nasty little comments (that I should absolutely not have been thinking but like @skruhmin said that shit effs with you) with my husband. Alcohol absolutely was like the "well I can't get knocked up, may as well enjoy drinking!" for me every.single.time. AF showed up or I had another loss.
I will say I would NEVER have been straight up mean or rude to people that I consider friends. Maybe a tad more distant, but to their faces or the faces of their friends (in this case your mom) I would never say something that I was certain would get back to them either.
I definitely understand the bitterness, but there is not a limited amount of happy in the world. Just because X and Y got good news does not mean that they are the reason I did not get good news. It takes a while to come to that conclusion when you are constantly NOT getting good news though so try (easier said than done I know) not to take it personally.
What y'all said does help me understand it better so thank you. The thing with her drinking and smoking though isn't that she's using it as a coping, it's something that she has been doing forever and even though her dr (which is actually my dr too) has been trying to help her quit, she doesn't want to change her lifestyle at all. That's when I get confused on the whole mad thing. Even with all that said, y'all did help put it in perspective.DD1 - BFP 7/23/15 (EDD 3/31/16). "We believe in you rainbow" DOB 4/2/16
DD2 - BFP 2/9/18 (EDD 10/19/18). "Grow baby grow!" DOB 10/24/18
BFP 11/16/20 (EDD 7/31/21). "Round 3 FIGHT!"
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Our family of 5 is complete!! Love our boys!
DD1 - BFP 7/23/15 (EDD 3/31/16). "We believe in you rainbow" DOB 4/2/16
DD2 - BFP 2/9/18 (EDD 10/19/18). "Grow baby grow!" DOB 10/24/18
BFP 11/16/20 (EDD 7/31/21). "Round 3 FIGHT!"
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Our family of 5 is complete!! Love our boys!
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Our family of 5 is complete!! Love our boys!
If I can add... I have been in this position for the last 4 years. I was what we call a bitter infertile. I showed my happiness to whoever was pregnant then go home and cry in my husband's arms or a bottle of wine to make the jealousy and pain go away. It can be really hard to hold your tongue when a complete stranger behind you in line at the store can do nothing but bitch and complain to people she meets in the store about being 7 months pregnant and still throwing up and she can't wait to be done because this is her 5th kid and bf thinks she needs more and blah blah blah...when you would give ANYTHING to feel the morning sickness and be willing to gladly hug the toilet bowl every day. I even had a coworker come to me crying she couldn't figure out how to read OPK's or her HPT's and didn't understand the whole ttc. So I taught her, and after 3 months of trying, she was pregnant. Well at least I could help knock someone up- I had been at it for 2 years at that point and couldn't do it for myself... and secondary infertility is HELL. You don't understand why it came so easily the first time (I got pregnant on the pill) and now that I've been in a more stable situation I can't do it to save my life. There is SOO much that runs through the mind.
I did distance myself from my pregnant friends but I was never cold to them. I even did the "unfollow" on facebook because I couldn't take all the belly and baby photos.
I'm pretty sure mine was also exacerbated by the fact that NOTHING was going right for us at all. When DH proposed to me, I said yes- on a Friday, and he was Fired that following Monday. From there everything was downhill. The wedding was great, but then we couldn't get ahead financially to save our lives (I had just finished my 4 year degree), couldn't get pregnant, couldn't find a doctor to point us in the right direction, couldn't even find better jobs (I've been looking for 4 years until I landed this one, and the next day I found out I was pregnant). DH is still looking for a better job, but at least I now have one that benefits our family much better. 4 years is a long time to have so many struggles going on at once.
Its a tough situation to deal with. You should not be snubbed for being pregnant by any means. But it is a tough pill to swallow for sure.
If I can add... I have been in this position for the last 4 years. I was what we call a bitter infertile. I showed my happiness to whoever was pregnant then go home and cry in my husband's arms or a bottle of wine to make the jealousy and pain go away. It can be really hard to hold your tongue when a complete stranger behind you in line at the store can do nothing but bitch and complain to people she meets in the store about being 7 months pregnant and still throwing up and she can't wait to be done because this is her 5th kid and bf thinks she needs more and blah blah blah...when you would give ANYTHING to feel the morning sickness and be willing to gladly hug the toilet bowl every day. I even had a coworker come to me crying she couldn't figure out how to read OPK's or her HPT's and didn't understand the whole ttc. So I taught her, and after 3 months of trying, she was pregnant. Well at least I could help knock someone up- I had been at it for 2 years at that point and couldn't do it for myself... and secondary infertility is HELL. You don't understand why it came so easily the first time (I got pregnant on the pill) and now that I've been in a more stable situation I can't do it to save my life. There is SOO much that runs through the mind.
I did distance myself from my pregnant friends but I was never cold to them. I even did the "unfollow" on facebook because I couldn't take all the belly and baby photos.
I'm pretty sure mine was also exacerbated by the fact that NOTHING was going right for us at all. When DH proposed to me, I said yes- on a Friday, and he was Fired that following Monday. From there everything was downhill. The wedding was great, but then we couldn't get ahead financially to save our lives (I had just finished my 4 year degree), couldn't get pregnant, couldn't find a doctor to point us in the right direction, couldn't even find better jobs (I've been looking for 4 years until I landed this one, and the next day I found out I was pregnant). DH is still looking for a better job, but at least I now have one that benefits our family much better. 4 years is a long time to have so many struggles going on at once.
Its a tough situation to deal with. You should not be snubbed for being pregnant by any means. But it is a tough pill to swallow for sure.
Wow. I'm sorry you went through that but I do thank you guys for sharing with me so I can at least try to understand itI had the 12 week NT scan and testing yesterday. Everything looked good. Baby was moving around like crazy! It was pretty neat. The poor ultrasound tech must have been somewhat annoyed with me as DH kept cracking jokes and making me laugh.....
January siggy challenge - Pregnant lady problems
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Our family of 5 is complete!! Love our boys!
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Our family of 5 is complete!! Love our boys!
*BFP #1- 11/12/12, m/c 11/16/12 @ 6 weeks
*BFP #2- 1/23/13 EDD 10/4/13
*Emma Rose: 10/8/13
*BFP #3- EDD 03/9/16
March '16 December Siggy Challenge- Favorite Christmas Movie/Quote
I'm thinking about starting a gif party in all of the facebook threads. I wonder how this would go over.
Sincerely,
Over the Facebook group threads
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Our family of 5 is complete!! Love our boys!
Lol I try to stay on my own BMB. some of those other boards scare me...
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