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  • Ken122014Ken122014 member
    How do I check private messages on the app?
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  • BostonBaby1BostonBaby1 member
    Karawe said:

    How do I check private messages on the app?

    You go back to the main page under community, and then it should list all of your board options. If you scroll further down there is a section that says inbox. You click on it and it should take you there hopefully :-) I will send you want to test.
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  • Ken122014Ken122014 member
    Thanks @BostonBaby1, my community page doesn't typically work right, so I guess that's why I can't get there! Lol. I will just start checking from safari :)
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  • BostonBaby1BostonBaby1 member
    Karawe said:

    Thanks @BostonBaby1, my community page doesn't typically work right, so I guess that's why I can't get there! Lol. I will just start checking from safari :)

    And yes, you are right. It was from the BBQ post leading to other things. Unfortunate, I know from experience that it's hard to be in this state right now.
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  • amw2133amw2133 member
    I'm sad I really liked SoCal. I also think that banning her over that thread is a bit ridiculous. :(Especially right now.
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  • Ken122014Ken122014 member
    reware said:

    For the many of us who've grown to 'know' SoCal's voice on this board from all the support she's been giving over the past many weeks, it was pretty clear that she wasn't herself in the comments on the BBQ thread.

    Equally, most of us knew something of the tragedy she is living through right now and have a huge amount of time and concern for her to stay a part of this community in whatever way she needed.

    I doubt that @gerblah and red herring had any idea of the context as I hope that they would've had the compassion and maturity to give her remarks a slide at the very least, like the rest of us, rather than repeatedly baiting her with pedantry and antagonism.

    In future, I just hope that bitchy/catty isn't the default way to respond - SoCal spent a huge amount of time giving love and support to a lot of people on here, and it's a real shame that we're unable to return the favour in her time of need.

    And for the record, she was right about that "whitt" of hers: she is funny as hell.
    Be well all.

    Very nicely stated. In a private group, it was basically stated that a group of ladies were going to gang up on her, which they did. Some of whom are also banned now. Although we joke about being the "mean girls," as been mentioned before, typically the girls on this thread are the ones giving support to the OP, which SoCal did on the BBQ post, originally. It seems to me that she was then attacked, and she unfortunately retaliated. Personally I think the wrong user was banned, but, as stated, actually trolling someone is apparently not as bad as stating you are going to troll someone.

    Care to continue our gif party now? ;)

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  • BostonBaby1BostonBaby1 member
    I'm still here ladies, just not feeling well today so I've been sleeping.

    Am I the only old lady on here that had to look up what trolling is? Seriously… The urban dictionary had so many different definitions. How can you force somebody to respond to you? I'm confused! Anyhow, I did learn that trolling has a name in Chinese and it is called bai mu which means the white eye. Is that like an evil eye? I think SoCalBeat is amazing and I know that more than one of us has responded to other people in a way that we probably wish we could've gone back and deleted. And even if we didn't, want to do that, there have definitely been disagreements that have been less than kind. I obviously don't know exactly what's going on. Perhaps I never well, and I'm not sure that it matters anyway right now.

    @CMDD I have no idea how I'm going to feel in a little bit... It very well may be too difficult for me to say on here. Plus, why would I? But I do have an answer as to why am still here right now. It's because everybody else that I know (in real life) is pissing me off! With a couple of amazing exceptions, including my BFF who is due in October. She is been amazing, but so many of my friends are pregnant and I just can't take all of the invasive questions that I'm being asked. So I'd rather hang around here and spend my time laughing at what you guys are writing! I need the humor, joy, and positivity that the board brings! Not to mention the snark;-)

    Also, definitely agree with @nik6499 ... I have a ridiculously high amount of typos in my posts. I'm just too lazy to go back and fix them. Plus, I used Siri to dictate my text because I'm lazy like that too! I guess I just don't care what people think about my IQ.

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    Anyhow… I agree with Kara

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  • Marchmellow2Marchmellow2 member
    A troll is someone who comes on a board they don't belong to and they're constantly badgering people. So if I were trolling someone, I would follow them around all their posts that they make and make nasty comments to them or just belittle their posts/comments.

    Also!! @BostonBaby1 I love you and I hope you stay around! If you don't I would understand that too. You're amazing and I'm glad you're here! Xoxoxoxo. Tell those nosy people that are messing with you IRL to GTFO and leave you alone!

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  • BlueWaffleSpeshulBlueWaffleSpeshul member
    Karawe said:

    reware said:

    For the many of us who've grown to 'know' SoCal's voice on this board from all the support she's been giving over the past many weeks, it was pretty clear that she wasn't herself in the comments on the BBQ thread.

    Equally, most of us knew something of the tragedy she is living through right now and have a huge amount of time and concern for her to stay a part of this community in whatever way she needed.

    I doubt that @gerblah and red herring had any idea of the context as I hope that they would've had the compassion and maturity to give her remarks a slide at the very least, like the rest of us, rather than repeatedly baiting her with pedantry and antagonism.

    In future, I just hope that bitchy/catty isn't the default way to respond - SoCal spent a huge amount of time giving love and support to a lot of people on here, and it's a real shame that we're unable to return the favour in her time of need.

    And for the record, she was right about that "whitt" of hers: she is funny as hell.
    Be well all.

    Very nicely stated. In a private group, it was basically stated that a group of ladies were going to gang up on her, which they did. Some of whom are also banned now. Although we joke about being the "mean girls," as been mentioned before, typically the girls on this thread are the ones giving support to the OP, which SoCal did on the BBQ post, originally. It seems to me that she was then attacked, and she unfortunately retaliated. Personally I think the wrong user was banned, but, as stated, actually trolling someone is apparently not as bad as stating you are going to troll someone.

    Care to continue our gif party now? ;)

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  • BostonBaby1BostonBaby1 member
    You guys are too cute!
    @Marchmellow2 thank you! That makes more sense now.
    @CMDD I love me some Taylor Swift! I just feel bad for all of her exes ;-)
    @BlueWaffleSpeshul every time I see your handle it makes me think of a festival that we have coming up on my block. It's thrown by the French cultural Institute and they have the most amazing Belgian waffles! The divine smell wafts throughout the entire neighborhood! Talk about a craving ;-) Yummy!
    @Karawe sure thing sweetheart! Let's continue our gif party

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    BostonBaby1 said:


    @BlueWaffleSpeshul every time I see your handle it makes me think of a festival that we have coming up on my block. It's thrown by the French cultural Institute and they have the most amazing Belgian waffles! The divine smell wafts throughout the entire neighborhood! Talk about a craving
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    Do you know what a "blue waffle" is? If not, Google it.... at your own risk....
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  • CMDDCMDD member
    @cristinapage72 eh i don't know and now i'm too scared to google :P
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  • Marchmellow2Marchmellow2 member
    Omg noooooo!! My eyes!!!!

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  • Ken122014Ken122014 member
    Ha. I did not know what that was either. I'm glad I read it was fictitious before I saw the pics ;)
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  • Marchmellow2Marchmellow2 member
    It's fictitious? phew!

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    Karawe said:

    Ha. I did not know what that was either. I'm glad I read it was fictitious before I saw the pics ;)

    I didn't know that. Thank goodness!
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  • redfallonredfallon member
    Well I missed it. I didn't read the BBQ thread.

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    cristinapage72 said:

    BostonBaby1 said:


    @BlueWaffleSpeshul every time I see your handle it makes me think of a festival that we have coming up on my block. It's thrown by the French cultural Institute and they have the most amazing Belgian waffles! The divine smell wafts throughout the entire neighborhood! Talk about a craving
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    Do you know what a "blue waffle" is? If not, Google it.... at your own risk....
    WWWWHHHYYYYYYY????? All I was thinking of was the smell of Belgian waffles and now this! Is it really fake?

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  • Ken122014Ken122014 member
    Wikipedia said it was conjured as a scare tactic to scare women into not having sex. Or something like that
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  • CMDDCMDD member
    okay, what is it? someone tell me, don't make me google.
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  • Ken122014Ken122014 member
    An std that supposedly only affects women and makes your vagina like a purpley blue color. I didn't look much further than that ;)
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  • BostonBaby1BostonBaby1 member
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    CMDD said:

    okay, what is it? someone tell me, don't make me google.

    It isn't anything! It's an urban myth. And it's absolutely disgusting! The pictures that they show are of women's vaginas that look like they have some sort of severe case of genital warts or fungus or some sort of affliction that I know nothing of. All I know is that none of these sites are reputable health sites. Not The Mayo Clinic, not the CDC... nothing like that. I would highly recommend that you do NOT Google it! However, if DH wants to have a good laugh, you can ask him if it's real or not. LOL! I was scared out of my mind and I wish I never looked! Was so much happier believing that waffles were a tasty treat made from dough and sugar!

    Again, do not look!
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  • CMDDCMDD member
    Hahaha @bostonbaby1 totally going to tell dH to look it up ;)
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  • BostonBaby1BostonBaby1 member
    cristinapage72 said:

    I feel like the high schooler that just told her middle school sisters some dirty joke.... Lol

    Eta: I'm normally the naive one!

    Don't worry...

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  • 313Meg313Meg member

    Well on that note...image

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  • BlueWaffleSpeshulBlueWaffleSpeshul member
    It's fake. But fun to get people to google.
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  • 313Meg313Meg member
    It's only 10:30am this is how I feel.image
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    Reading these comments like...
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  • CMDDCMDD member
    It's just getting ridiculous at this point.
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  • nik6499nik6499 member
    I'm not even reading I check like 2 threads
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  • CMDDCMDD member
    i'm ready for @embuzz247 to come back
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    CMDD said:

    i'm ready for @embuzz247 to come back

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